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Re: Is It Ethical To Spy If You Think Your Spouse Is Cheating? by Fiscus105(m): 2:01pm On Jul 06, 2023
DeLaRue:


grin

So, people should just quietly accept infidelity in order to buy peace.

What kind of peace.



Before social media, no infidelity I guess!

Meanwhile, is infidelity only for married woman?

Can u swear if ur wife/girlfriend knows passwords of ur social media accounts?


U sounds to be moral, when u have opened thread about quickie and one night stand before.

The quickie u asked man and woman about, is it for ur spouse? Can we call it fidelity?

If ur girlfriend/wife spying, u won't u see ur immorality that u nicknamed spontaneous sex?

Anyway it's a free world, u re free to spy who ever u want.

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Re: Is It Ethical To Spy If You Think Your Spouse Is Cheating? by Sleekfingers: 2:07pm On Jul 06, 2023
redprofile:
I’m not sure ethics has anything to do with whether or not you should spy on a cheating spouse. If your spouse is cheating, it’s my opinion that a person has to do what needs to be done to protect themselves. As long as your motives are not to get revenge on a cheating spouse or to use the information you find to cause problems for the other man/other woman, I see nothing unethical about spying.
Things to Consider Before Spying:

There are things you should take into consideration before you begin your quest to find out if your spouse is cheating. First, are you ready for the conflict that will occur when your spouse finds out you have been spying on him/her? You should expect your spouse to be upset, to accuse you of not trusting them and to deny their own actions in favor of trying to make you feel guilty for spying.

Secondly, certain forms of “spying” are illegal. There are state and federal laws that regulate the use of surveillance equipment, recording devices and Internet software. You should become familiar with your state’s laws before you go full steam ahead with any sort of covert spying behavior.


Reasons Why You Should Spy:

There are 4 important reasons you should find out if your spouse is cheating:
To protect yourself emotionally. Worry over that nagging feeling in the pit of your stomach can be emotionally draining. Find out for sure what is going on will enable you to stop worrying and start coping.

To protect your health. If your spouse is cheating there is a danger of sexually transmitted diseases. If your spouse is having an affair and not using protection, they are putting your health at risk. Protecting your health is ultimately your responsibility and the main reason you should try and discover the truth.

To protect yourself legally. If the infidelity means the end of your marriage some state divorce laws still allow it to be used as grounds for divorce. Even in states with no-fault divorce laws a judge can and may take into consideration the conduct of your spouse when determining spousal support.

To protect your self-esteem. Infidelity in a marriage can cause a person to doubt their worth, doubt their attractiveness and question whether or not they themselves are responsible for the infidelity. It is imperative that you stand up for yourself if you feel your spouse is cheating. The best way to do that is gather information and confront them about their unacceptable behavior.


Why would I spy? Something wey simple Magun ( thunderbolt) can do in 7 days or instantly
Re: Is It Ethical To Spy If You Think Your Spouse Is Cheating? by mrblessed(m): 2:16pm On Jul 06, 2023
Super-duper ethical if necessary
Re: Is It Ethical To Spy If You Think Your Spouse Is Cheating? by EnterpriseMan(m): 2:17pm On Jul 06, 2023
Always trust your gut feeling. If you have a nagging feeling you just can't get rid off that something is going on with your spouse, then yea do whatever you must but don't get caught spying..

But this is a 2008 post, How did the fighting couple resolve their issues.

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Re: Is It Ethical To Spy If You Think Your Spouse Is Cheating? by OgbeniOptional(m): 2:18pm On Jul 06, 2023
Shebbs:


You’re A Confused Man, What Did I Just Read? My God! You Won’t Get Mad If You Saw A Man On Top Of Your Wife? “A Woman Can Cheat/Wander So Far It’s Not Affecting The Home,” Are You Really Okay? God! This Man Is Finished!


No I won't, so far it doesn't affect my home and I won't. You just add yourself to people who think i'm mad. I won't just kill myself before death. What do you think would happen If an average man catch another man on top of his woman? Kill the man is what I can think of, then go to jail? U are saving yourself a lot of troubles when u expect nothing

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Re: Is It Ethical To Spy If You Think Your Spouse Is Cheating? by Shebbs: 2:51pm On Jul 06, 2023
OgbeniOptional:



No I won't, so far it doesn't affect my home and I won't. You just add yourself to people who think i'm mad. I won't just kill myself before death. What do you think would happen If an average man catch another man on top of his woman? Kill the man is what I can think of, then go to jail? U are saving yourself a lot of troubles when u expect nothing

Oga If You Found Out Your Wife Is Cheating On You Please Walk Away From That Marriage For The Sake Of Your Mental Health. Marriage Is Not A Do Or Die Affair.

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Re: Is It Ethical To Spy If You Think Your Spouse Is Cheating? by omooba74(m): 3:00pm On Jul 06, 2023
You are wicked o. grin grin grin...Bible says; thou shall not kill but come to think of it,is Magun still exists?
Sleekfingers:






Why would I spy? Something wey simple Magun ( thunderbolt) can do in 7 days or instantly
Re: Is It Ethical To Spy If You Think Your Spouse Is Cheating? by Sleekfingers: 3:21pm On Jul 06, 2023
omooba74:
You are wicked o. grin grin grin...Bible says; thou shall not kill but come to think of it,is Magun still exists?



Magun still exist. Somewhere in Gbogan in Osun around 2009, when I visited the state for Osun festival. A young man died of Magun kiko

There are various types
1. Magun olomi ( the victim will just be drinking water, till death)
2. Magun kiko ( crow like Cock till death)
3. Magun Gbokiti ( the victim will somersault 7 times, and die. This is the most common one.
4. Magun Lepo ( the man's penis won't come out from the woman's vagina
5. Magun Mafo Ono ( do not cross E.g roads, gutter etc
6. Magun Ma da omi koja ( don't cross water)
7. Magun elere ( victim will start running, if he didn't get the antidote on time, he will run till death)
8 Magun Ge Oko ( penis cutter, the mans penis will cut in the woman's vagina , this type of magun is rarely used
9. Magun Oni iko ( the victim will cough till death)

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Re: Is It Ethical To Spy If You Think Your Spouse Is Cheating? by Cantonese: 3:34pm On Jul 06, 2023
Sleekfingers:




Magun still exist. Somewhere in Gbogan in Osun around 2009, when I visited the state for Osun festival. A young man died of Magun kiko

There are various types
1. Magun olomi ( the victim will just be drinking water, till death)
2. Magun kiko ( crow like Cock till death)
3. Magun Gbokiti ( the victim will somersault 7 times, and die. This is the most common one.
4. Magun Lepo ( the man's penis won't come out from the woman's vagina
5. Magun Mafo Ono ( do not cross E.g roads, gutter etc
6. Magun Ma da omi koja ( don't cross water)
7. Magun elere ( victim will start running, if he didn't get the antidote on time, he will run till death)
8 Magun Ge Oko ( penis cutter, the mans penis will cut in the woman's vagina , this type of magun is rarely used
9. Magun Oni iko ( the victim will cough till death)


You must be a native doctor.
Or from a family of native doctors.
Or simply you have either practiced with magun or you intend to practice with magun.
Which one you dey inside?

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Re: Is It Ethical To Spy If You Think Your Spouse Is Cheating? by Adewale1603(m): 3:57pm On Jul 06, 2023
Sleekfingers:




Magun still exist. Somewhere in Gbogan in Osun around 2009, when I visited the state for Osun festival. A young man died of Magun kiko

There are various types
1. Magun olomi ( the victim will just be drinking water, till death)
2. Magun kiko ( crow like Cock till death)
3. Magun Gbokiti ( the victim will somersault 7 times, and die. This is the most common one.
4. Magun Lepo ( the man's penis won't come out from the woman's vagina
5. Magun Mafo Ono ( do not cross E.g roads, gutter etc
6. Magun Ma da omi koja ( don't cross water)
7. Magun elere ( victim will start running, if he didn't get the antidote on time, he will run till death)
8 Magun Ge Oko ( penis cutter, the mans penis will cut in the woman's vagina , this type of magun is rarely used
9. Magun Oni iko ( the victim will cough till death)

big big lies. Magun lepo is called Penis captivus, it's a scientifical term where the penis is unable to be withdrawn from the vagina. It can occur naturally. There is nothing like magun. Stop being backwards.
Re: Is It Ethical To Spy If You Think Your Spouse Is Cheating? by dreu2fine(m): 4:13pm On Jul 06, 2023
redprofile:
I’m not sure ethics has anything to do with whether or not you should spy on a cheating spouse. If your spouse is cheating, it’s my opinion that a person has to do what needs to be done to protect themselves. As long as your motives are not to get revenge on a cheating spouse or to use the information you find to cause problems for the other man/other woman, I see nothing unethical about spying.
Things to Consider Before Spying:

There are things you should take into consideration before you begin your quest to find out if your spouse is cheating. First, are you ready for the conflict that will occur when your spouse finds out you have been spying on him/her? You should expect your spouse to be upset, to accuse you of not trusting them and to deny their own actions in favor of trying to make you feel guilty for spying.

Secondly, certain forms of “spying” are illegal. There are state and federal laws that regulate the use of surveillance equipment, recording devices and Internet software. You should become familiar with your state’s laws before you go full steam ahead with any sort of covert spying behavior.


Reasons Why You Should Spy:

There are 4 important reasons you should find out if your spouse is cheating:
To protect yourself emotionally. Worry over that nagging feeling in the pit of your stomach can be emotionally draining. Find out for sure what is going on will enable you to stop worrying and start coping.

To protect your health. If your spouse is cheating there is a danger of sexually transmitted diseases. If your spouse is having an affair and not using protection, they are putting your health at risk. Protecting your health is ultimately your responsibility and the main reason you should try and discover the truth.

To protect yourself legally. If the infidelity means the end of your marriage some state divorce laws still allow it to be used as grounds for divorce. Even in states with no-fault divorce laws a judge can and may take into consideration the conduct of your spouse when determining spousal support.

To protect your self-esteem. Infidelity in a marriage can cause a person to doubt their worth, doubt their attractiveness and question whether or not they themselves are responsible for the infidelity. It is imperative that you stand up for yourself if you feel your spouse is cheating. The best way to do that is gather information and confront them about their unacceptable behavior.
For married people ok
But singles dating I DNT thinks so becaus u never marry her so both of you are single

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Re: Is It Ethical To Spy If You Think Your Spouse Is Cheating? by Sleekfingers: 4:31pm On Jul 06, 2023
Adewale1603:
big big lies. Magun lepo is called Penis captivus, it's a scientifical term where the penis is unable to be withdrawn from the vagina. It can occur naturally. There is nothing like magun. Stop being backwards.


Yes, the bolded happen natural sometimes.

Also those Baba alawo have juju called Magun lepo.

Look at this one swimming in ignorance. You said, there is nothing like Magun.

What's backwardness in juju? You for kuku say there is no juju. Make dem come test am for your body. Yeye..

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Re: Is It Ethical To Spy If You Think Your Spouse Is Cheating? by Sleekfingers: 4:35pm On Jul 06, 2023
Cantonese:


You must be a native doctor.
Or from a family of native doctors.
Or simply you have either practiced with magun or you intend to practice with magun.
Which one you dey inside?


Ifa devotee
Esu devotee
Olokun devotee

Are you happy now?
Re: Is It Ethical To Spy If You Think Your Spouse Is Cheating? by Revelation4(m): 5:32pm On Jul 06, 2023
Forget about him/her. It is not the stress
Re: Is It Ethical To Spy If You Think Your Spouse Is Cheating? by Cantonese: 6:48pm On Jul 06, 2023
Sleekfingers:



Ifa devotee
Esu devotee
Olokun devotee

Are you happy now?


Ahhhhh.
You get horn for head? Na those people dey carry horn for head and small tail for yansh.
Re: Is It Ethical To Spy If You Think Your Spouse Is Cheating? by isabi2lof: 7:18pm On Jul 06, 2023
Everybody cheats that's on period, you guys like over stressing a particular topic , as if that will stop some zombies from cheating on their spouses.

Everyday they complain about no money , this and that but hotels are always filled up with people with either of their side hens or side goats.
Re: Is It Ethical To Spy If You Think Your Spouse Is Cheating? by Johans2023: 7:24pm On Jul 06, 2023
ifyalways:
There is nothing legal or ethical about Spying jare.
Its a pity people claim to be married but YET can't trust their partners without some level of insecurity and "spying" cheesy springing up here and there.what happened to communication lines? lost or non- existing If there is fear in marriage,either from one party or both parties,all they need do is talk.Tell s/he your fears,watch his/her body language,watch his reaction,listen to what s/he has to say,open up your heart in a calm enviroment and think through your suspicion and ur partners defence line,look inwards and study your partner well.Before long you'd be faced with the hard truth which are:
You are simply paranoid/have your own insecurities.
Your partner is actually cheating.

I would rather talk about my fears than letting my fears torment me. cool
the moment I read your message I know that it is written by a woman.
Re: Is It Ethical To Spy If You Think Your Spouse Is Cheating? by Simpubozz(m): 7:42pm On Jul 06, 2023
Wether u are curios or u really suspected something is goin on with with your spouse, Well, the two major areas u may wanna checks are WhatsApp and fb messenger. if you are both using android, try to connect to the other phone’s hotspot. There’s an app u can use to exploit one or two. Dm I can teach u 🥵
Re: Is It Ethical To Spy If You Think Your Spouse Is Cheating? by tsmith(f): 9:00pm On Jul 06, 2023
ifyalways:
There is nothing legal or ethical about Spying jare.
Its a pity people claim to be married but YET can't trust their partners without some level of insecurity and "spying" cheesy springing up here and there.what happened to communication lines? lost or non- existing If there is fear in marriage,either from one party or both parties,all they need do is talk.Tell s/he your fears,watch his/her body language,watch his reaction,listen to what s/he has to say,open up your heart in a calm enviroment and think through your suspicion and ur partners defence line,look inwards and study your partner well.Before long you'd be faced with the hard truth which are:
You are simply paranoid/have your own insecurities.
Your partner is actually cheating.

I would rather talk about my fears than letting my fears torment me. cool

Easy to talk, but some partners would deny everything except faced with core evidence hence the need to spy to gather this…
Re: Is It Ethical To Spy If You Think Your Spouse Is Cheating? by Germi9: 11:22am On Jul 07, 2023
I did it and it worked
Re: Is It Ethical To Spy If You Think Your Spouse Is Cheating? by omooba74(m): 7:55pm On Jul 08, 2023
Wow...three Gbosas for you,you even know all the types.....
Sleekfingers:




Magun still exist. Somewhere in Gbogan in Osun around 2009, when I visited the state for Osun festival. A young man died of Magun kiko

There are various types
1. Magun olomi ( the victim will just be drinking water, till death)
2. Magun kiko ( crow like Cock till death)
3. Magun Gbokiti ( the victim will somersault 7 times, and die. This is the most common one.
4. Magun Lepo ( the man's penis won't come out from the woman's vagina
5. Magun Mafo Ono ( do not cross E.g roads, gutter etc
6. Magun Ma da omi koja ( don't cross water)
7. Magun elere ( victim will start running, if he didn't get the antidote on time, he will run till death)
8 Magun Ge Oko ( penis cutter, the mans penis will cut in the woman's vagina , this type of magun is rarely used
9. Magun Oni iko ( the victim will cough till death)

Re: Is It Ethical To Spy If You Think Your Spouse Is Cheating? by toygod2: 5:49pm On Oct 21, 2023
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