labake1:
Keep men promiscuous nature aside, it's not easy to be a man. A man that doesn't work won't eat, a woman might decided to be a full house wife but a man can't try it, wetin your wife and children go eat if you stay at home?
The hustling spirit dey man blood since birth.

If you are not there yet, keep trying and don't give up. As a woman, try and get a life too. If men and women bring something to the table, the house won't collapse.
Ire o

You started your post very badly. What is men's promiscuous nature.
Let's take your situation as an example on an average.
The men in your age group and level and you, WHO HAS THE HIGHEST BODYCOUNT on an average?
Don't be a hypocrite. GOD HATE HYPOCRITES.

olaniyilukman:
Bro, we shared similar story, I only for a year and after that God open the door of success for me, I am living good now and I am helping people in the little way I can....

yes it’s good to help ppl but be careful.

UyaiIncomparabl:


LOL.

Well, you may be right. Life may be easier because women are just naturally favored especially by men especially if you come fine.

Like this evening now, I don chop free shawarma and king size burger with ogbonge milkshake from anonymous man wey offer to pay. Izz sweet to be a fine girl sha.

Hahahahahaha

highchief1:
yes it’s good to help ppl but be careful.

Thanks for advice bro!!!

ConquerorK:


Omit the promiscuity, it's not just a man thing so don't make it look like one. Women control the access to sex and that's a fact yet the average woman jump from dick to dick more than the average man. Men have to prove value before ladies will open legs, it's why most men of value don't give a Bleep about the so called love of a woman when they become sort after, they know what it takes to get where they are and will not settle for one person or someone who has opened her legs multiple times. So stop making it a man thing cos when you women were in control, y'all never learn restraint or give a Bleep Abt a struggling man.

Women control access to sex and birth
Men control access to relationship and resources

💯%

olaniyilukman:
Thanks for advice bro!!!

yea arrange yourself well well.Remrmber 19 good plus 1 bad equals 20 bad.

zezebabs:
Everything you say is true, I man should be smart and wise
Any serious mistake could be costly for a man

Nothing but the truth

Peejayz:
if you are from a rich background, don't you think someone did the struggle for you ??

Is like you no dey understand!
At some some point in Human history, someone has to did the struggle for the next generation and forth generations to survive or pick it up.
This doesn't implies that all men must struggle to gain something and believe that women shouldn't struggle
What kind of fvcked up mentality is that?
If you as a man is struggling, you should be struggling for your future generations to live a struggle free life just how our forefathers did for us

Entanglement:
Is like you no dey understand!
At some some point in Human history, someone has to did the struggle for the next generation and forth generations to survive or pick it up.
This doesn't implies that all men must struggle to gain something and believe that women shouldn't struggle
What kind of fvcked up mentality is that?
If you as a man is struggling, you should be struggling for your future generations to live a struggle free life just how our forefathers did for us

if your forefathers have done the struggle for you, then the post is not for your kind .... Simple

TheMaterialist:
Any man that desires an easier life would do well to let go of his ego.


Ego is the main cause of suffering.

This is deep!

Life is hard ..No food for lazy man dey said!

Peejayz:
if your forefathers have done the struggle for you, then the post is not for your kind .... Simple

ok
Let me allow the poor to breathe! I won't suffocate you

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blazepascal:


Stop comparing yourself to the ladies.

We don't have the same privileges. They have all the chances to live and experience a better life.

They might never go hungry. They might drive the latest version of car, they might live in the best apartment in the city, use the latest technology, fly first class.

But you as a man will have to suffer to become someone or experience these things. Working should be your moto.

Suffer today so you can have a better life tomorrow, don't compare yourself with your sisters, don't hate the females in your city for living a life more than you.

We are different, a man must suffer to become someone of importance. That's why you must understand what is taking your time and little money and cut off with them.

You identify your wastrel in your life. In this journey of life, a man's worst enemy is idle time.

Let this message scare you, wake up and stop comparing yourself with the females. A broke man is nothing even to his family. A broke girls is something to her family members.

Don't be delusional, we are different and our chances are not the same to smile or be respected. A broke guy is not respected, he has no value to his community, they laugh at you when you walk by, the beautiful ladies call you loser. Get up.

Get up! Be scared of your future.



#BLAZE

To some extent I think you're bias in your statement. I think you should advice ur precious women to stop displaying their gold-digging attitude and look for a way to add value to their lives.


Every gender needs personal development so they can be of use to themselves, their family and society at large. so stop talking about the men only.

Uchesis:

the same way those who are not married are having the sex. Or you think its only married couples that have the right to have sex?
Incase you don't know, men marry because they want to have legitimate children, not because of sex. Besides, marriage doesn't guarantee you constant sex anytime you want, because some women's libido reduces as they give birth to more children. Ask yourself why do some men cheat? Reason: lack of regular sex from their wives

how do you deal with pressure to marry and gossip from neighbors?

UyaiIncomparabl:


LOL.

Well, you may be right. Life may be easier because women are just naturally favored especially by men especially if you come fine.

Like this evening now, I don chop free shawarma and king size burger with ogbonge milkshake from anonymous man wey offer to pay. Izz sweet to be a fine girl sha.

and you couldn't tell him to help his fellow man. you are a heartless godforsaken gal. And Its not like you will allow him have his way when he comes for sex. Fine gal my ass. You go soon expire

Bluffly:

It is you that will suffer. There is difference between working and suffering. Eating from your sweat is not suffering. It is stupid men that make some women appear to have a life line and you appear to be one of them. Everyone must work to make a life. Let us stop breeding women with sence of entitlement.
God never created women to live off men. Men were only put in charge of affairs. Everyone must work to earn a living

GOD bless you million times. You will not lack

Whether you agree with the poster or not, one thing you must know is that only you control the tempo, extent, scope, intensity and flavour of the challenges you will suffer in life.

Most men suffer because they refuse to understand how the world works, and do everything possible to reduce their suffering thereof.

Any relationship or friendship that stresses your life cut it off.

Reduce your desire for material stuff, so you don't waste hours every day to make money and impress folks who don't care and see you as a candidate to beg from. And if you refuse to give, you just created lowkey frienemies.

Exercise often, eat healthily, and prioritize your health. It is the only true wealth that you have.

Just as you are fighting to go higher, also fight to drop anything that is dragging you backward. It could be addictions such as drinking, smoking, gambling, womanizing, anger, etc.

Also strengthen your sophistication such as avoiding pornography, having a purpose, not being a people pleaser, having depth in character, not being easily defeated via manipulations, etc.

Your haters want you weak. They will detest any kind of resistance from you because they want you easily penetrable. They will hate your boundaries, and hope to control how you think and see the world, so they can manipulate you for their selfish aims.

A strong character, sense of self, and trusting your own understanding of the world will render them useless. You can only be defeated by the world if you do not strengthen yourself.

If you noticed, much of what I wrote centers around the fact that your destiny is in your hands. Take full control of your life and sovereignty, and even if life can be difficult, it doesn't have to be miserable.

God that decided to create you as a man no know Wetin him dey do abi.....abeg lot of motivational nonsense this days.

Keep praying nd working in this life, one day na one day you too go shine....you didn't create yourself anyways.

If God almighty can provide for birds in the air how much more you that's made in his image & likeness.

We move jare

Bro please extend your act of benevolence to me things have been hard for me since i lost my job

mperornero:

Some men will forget you too bro... I've done that and been there. It's hard to see good people with pure intentions these days. I've tried to help someone and he ended up calling me a ritualist.
Called me stingy and all sorts of names. Well it won't stop me from helping others sha, but you have to understand that you can't help everyone.
And sometimes helping some people will bring enemies and hate.

bisqit:
and you couldn't tell him to help his fellow man. you are a heartless godforsaken gal. And Its not like you will allow him have his way when he comes for sex. Fine gal my ass. You go soon expire

Lol. So, any man who does something noble for a woman not to talk of something as small as buying shawarma must have sex with her, as what exactly?

You are dense, I swear.

olaniyilukman:
God bless you buddy, the OP got it all wrong from the beginning to the end, suffering is not gender things, it is a societal problem, I have seen so many girls that are suffering and they all depends on men, men these days are like mini God to them, they worship and adore them...

this is what op was saying na. Read over is write-up again

UyaiIncomparabl:


Lol. So, any man who does something noble not to talk of something as small as buying shawarma must have sex with me, as what exactly?

You are dense, I swear.

you that is smart, can you buy shawarma for me? I will send you my details. Show me what you are capable of

bisqit:
you that is smart, can you buy shawarma for me? I will send you my details. Show me what you are capable of

Lol. I can. But, you clearly don't need it. You're obviously trying to test me and I don't fall for such gimmicks.

bisqit:
how do you deal with pressure to marry and gossip from neighbors?

Simple. I make myself scarce. Go out, go to work etc. Even when i'm home i have things to keep my mind busy

UyaiIncomparabl:


Lol. I can. But, you clearly don't need it. You're obviously trying to test me and I don't fall for such gimmicks.

your shakara too much. Drop sth for boys. Do you know if I will be otedola tomorrow

Uchesis:

Simple. I make myself scarce. Go out, go to work etc. Even when i'm home i have things to keep my mind busy

do you attend weddings

bisqit:
your shakara too much. Drop sth for boys. Do you know if I will be otedola tomorrow

Who cares?

It's not like when you become the Otedola, you'll remember me. 🌚

bisqit:
GOD bless you million times. You will not lack

Amen in Jesus Christs name

UyaiIncomparabl:


Who cares?

It's not like when you become the Otedola, you'll remember me. 🌚

I never forget my helpers. Ask my exes

[color=#770077[/color]]maybe education and job opportunities should only be given to men hence,since they will be the one shouldering responsibilities in the family and socity

Asour:



When people say Nigerians lack integrity.

They don't mean all. They mean most.
It's implicit!

People who ALWAYS see ALL or NOTHING categories in statements when it wasn't categorically stated lack nuance.

You're wrong bro. "Message to men" simply means as long as you're a man you're included.
Simple