Take it easy bro, I was once in your situation, I waited for thirteen good years due to similar tube blockage, my wife became tired and threatening to leave the marriage but as a man, I keep encouraging her and looking for solutions till God answered our prayers, now I have 2 beautiful girls, 10 and 8 years old which I am ok with now.. just seek the right medical attention, but truly I used local herbs prepared in pot that my wife was drinking back then.. be encouraged you will be blessed.

Pojomojo:
From DM

There is medical solution to blocked tubes na... Hydrotubation is what it is called. Go to a good hospital with gynae services...or if the money dey just do ivf

ChybuzzDD:


There's no herbal medicine that will open a fallopian tube already closed by fibrosis.

You guys should stop hoodwinking desperate and unsuspecting Nigerian women.

Do you know what fibrosis is??

Say what you know. I said what I know and I'm very sure of it. I do not sell herbal products or advertise anything but I'm very sure what I'm saying, that's the reason I will not collect anything from him if truly it is a fallopian blockage. If you have anybody with fallopian blockage you can try it, I will use my own money for the herbs, and after 3week or 1month, the person should go and do the test inshaAllah

This has to be the most useless comment I've read this year

izonborn098:
One of the reasons i get only single moms.
Allow her to get pregnant or carry ur child before marriage, imagine u just feed her for 5 good years without any gain.
I don't have time to waste my cash on any useless woman in the name of wedding.

Please can you join Streams of Joy Abuja for a renewed hope

overdrive:


Are you for real?

Yes, inshaAllah. There are herbs for it. I did not sell herbs products or advertise any but out of 10 people who have it, I'm very sure 8 to 9 people will be ok after the test

Please can you join Streams of Joy Abuja for a renewed hope

Olarewaju89:


You self no get work. You de monitor person moniker up and down.

Mind you, I have sent you message on whatsapp. Pls reply ASAP

Una don play reach WhatsApp. Next the play go enter hotel room

izonborn098:
One of the reasons i get only single moms.
Allow her to get pregnant or carry ur child before marriage, imagine u just feed her for 5 good years without any gain.
I don't have time to waste my cash on any useless woman in the name of wedding.

Child bearing though important is just ONE of the joys of marriage. Be guided.

CJStarz:
Even for Jupiter,wahala dey....no oxygen dia,so how u go take survive 🤣🤣

Chai

Baronthecelebri:
Men are stupid,any woman that is above 24, Bleep her first,let her take in and give birth first,then wait till ten years before you marry her.

Nawaooo

yankison:


Pls is there any cure or solution for drunkiness , like it happens whenever there is a plan to do something good and the money came through , before you know the person will just start drinking to stupor till the fund finish and eyes would clear , but now the plan can't be executed again coz he don use money drink finish .this has been happening for a long time and the person is not just moving forward like normal . please any where solution is we will go there .
Thanks

Are you a Muslim? To know what I will recommend for you

izonborn098:
One of the reasons i get only single moms.
Allow her to get pregnant or carry ur child before marriage, imagine u just feed her for 5 good years without any gain.
I don't have time to waste my cash on any useless woman in the name of wedding.

You sound so callous and unloving.

You will understand it better by and by.....
Hope it won't be too late. A lot of men have serious regrets from such faulty foundations in old age.

you got married to ashawo.. she has done too much abortion before getting married to you

MansoryMX:
Before I drop my advice, just so you know she is cheating on you because she knows she can’t get pregnant and is enjoying her life sleeping around.

Leave her. That’s my advice to you.

Wow! See conclusion as if she's known to you. This is so unfair. Remember you have sisters, cousins etc.
God is on the throne sha.

I pray u don't regret later, their is nothing ur gender will tell me concerning life, so keep it to urself.
I no too like reply quotes

delpee:


You sound so callous and unloving.

You will understand it better by and by.....
Hope it won't be too late. A lot of men have serious regrets from such faulty foundations in old age.

My wife similar problem.
Reach on aokewumi@gmail.com to tell you action l took.
I will respond to your mail

kelvindj98:
She is probably barren

Maybe womb used by Yahoo bois. That is if she lived a sexually reckless life while she was single. But if not I pray God answers her prayers. If you see the kind of reckless lifestyle these girls lives these days ehnn. I only pity the simp that will end up with a cum depository.

UyaiIncomparabl:
OP, 5 years and you're running out of patience.

Women should learn to be ruthless and selfish when it comes to taking several decisions like this one. Many men in this dispensation wouldn't take half of what you accept from them. If this man was the problem, the woman would have hung in there, stayed patient, prayed, and done whatever society expects of a good wife. Should we turn this table and demand the same measure from men, they will leave you in a heartbeat unapologetically.

Lest I digress, there are several invasive and alternative methods your wife's predicament can be treated which can make her tubes open. Leave IVF. Consider alternative and herbal methods as well.

As a couple who wants children, I would always advise not to leave caution to the wind after a year of trying for a baby. Problems are better solved from the infantile stage.

If you are reading this thread yourself and the thread originally belongs to you and not some ploy to garner comments from Rubyjade and friends, I'll implore you to follow @fertilitywarrior_withadesewa on Instagram. Send her a message and perhaps, if you like, you can book a session with her. I can assure you with my full chest that you'll carry your baby in your arms soon.

With the advent of natural herbs, alternative medicines and roots, and technology, infertility is a past worry. Don't despair. You'll have your child soon. My thoughts are with your wife. I can't imagine the pressure and worries she must be passing through.

Cheers.

She will definitely hang there when she isn't the one providing... Had it being she was feeding a full-grown man who can't perform, then she would know what the diff is... Someone's son will spend his life savings on a fellow man for 5yrs... Just eating and shitting... And you want him to hang on... What's the diff btw just throwing the money into the waste bin... Nothing... After all both don't produce anything... If that guy know what's good better look for a productive woman and move... Before pity will kill u... Don't worry, your friends kids and younger ones kids will soon start calling u brother, your eye go soon clear...

Pojomojo:
From DM

Find a way to pierce outside and make some kids bro.

Pojomojo:
From DM

Get another wife. No natural solutions for blocked fallopian tube

Fertilization is not possible without any treatment if a woman has blocked fallopian tubes. However, if only one tube is blocked then there is a possibility for pregnancy to occur. As long as one tube is functioning and regular menstruation occurs, there is a chance of pregnancy to happen.

izonborn098:
One of the reasons i get only single moms.
Allow her to get pregnant or carry ur child before marriage, imagine u just feed her for 5 good years without any gain.
I don't have time to waste my cash on any useless woman in the name of wedding.

stop this thrash talk. Some men are also impotent please

UyaiIncomparabl:


Only you get more than 5 monikers for this forum. And the funniest thing is that, you'll start a thread with one. Quote yourself with another. Make a lone comment with one. Attack yourself with one. And like all your posts with another.

You are so consistent with this. How you dey take do am?

Nah jobless dey cause am.

Savedday2:
The bottom line is all 9ja girls are ashawo both the ones forming GF or church girl. They are all the same.

The fact that you have never caught your babe doing ashawo, doesn't mean she is not an ashawo

Why would you generalise All Nigerian girls. There are many responsibilities and faithful girls.

With your mindset, you will never meet nor marry a good and responsible girl.

Na Ashawo you will marry. Hope you know that both your mum and sisters are also Nigerian girls.

Just dey play

Pojomojo:
From DM

Oh yes!!! Several procedures can be done. They can do adhesiolysis with fluid injection under pressure. They can do keyhole surgery to open the tubes. We tell women to wait for marriage, dem no go hear. Now they will be crying for their past misdeeds.

Let your wife try YONI, you will praise God

sh knows what sh did..u are just a mumu following her around for solution sh knows many years ago is impossible....


its ur time sh is wasting...ladies are so very heartless and wint think twice to dump u nd move on if ur the problem... continue dey do love...

again u went and married an aged lady

izonborn098:
One of the reasons i get only single moms.
Allow her to get pregnant or carry ur child before marriage, imagine u just feed her for 5 good years without any gain.
I don't have time to waste my cash on any useless woman in the name of wedding.

Inna liLlaahi wainna ilayhi rojii'uun.

Indirectly, you are abusing both the couple, who is the useless woman here? It is obvious you do not have understanding of this life, whose fault is it? And I must tell you, any a child born out of wedlock is illegitimate, he or she is a bastard. And this is reason why there are social deviance everywhere, because most of you are illegitimate children

If Mr OP is feeling like this...I can only imagine how your wife is feeling...(you should be supporting each other..but here you are looking for advice from nairaland..it is well with you.
May God Answer your prayers...

I just imagine how Sarah the wife of Abraham felt..

God is faithful...you should trust him..

delpee:


Wow! See conclusion as if she's known to you. This is so unfair. Remember you have sisters, cousins etc.
God is on the throne sha.

I am talking from what I have witnessed. A family member of mine. His was even 16yrs of marriage no child only to find out she dey give different men back to back dey come since inside the marriage.

Teetee777:
The fallopian blockage is very easy to treat with herbal remedies. I can help you prepare one without collecting kobo from you but you must pay my money back for the herbs preparation when you go for the test and they confirm for you that you are free from fallopian blockage.
100% tested inshaAllah

I sent you an email, please respond. I have someone who is in need of the herb

Allmiron:
...even if na 2hours pregnancy, na for your own good cos not every man get time like this op. No be say make your belle big like balloon, it's better to safe than sorry.

Lolzzz
I'm breaking up soon

Make him just dey play