Timitoyo:



Pls , let's air our view without name calling or condemning the view of the other person. I come in peace ✌️

Thanks so much for these lines.

jenifer007:


Honestly speaking you must be a very heartless person in real life.Why will you encourage a young man that's AS to go ahead with a partner that's also AS.Yes love is beautiful but that doesn't mean one should be stupid to fall into a life of regret

Even the bible made it clear that there's a way that seems right in the sight of man but the end is destruction.

And yes the other lady is right by saying separation is the only solution.

And it was unnecessary of you to attack her cos she asked a question about the egg removal procedure.

Whether you like or not children are part of the ingridents of marriage especially in Africa

If procreation wasn't necessary, God wouldn't have said we should be fruitful and multiply and fill the earth.

Marriage is first of all for companionship before children. In Africa u used as example don't they have men who abandon their families/kids to go live with strange women because they realized they were never in love with their kids mothers in the first place? Are children alone enough to make a man marry a woman he doesnt love? Why would a man abandon someone he loves for issues that hav medical n financial solution? You can as well say a man who realized his fiancee has blocked tubes or other fertility challenges before marriage should as well abandon her because of money he's going to spend on medical treatment because he himself doesn't hav any fertility issue. That is, why would a fertile man be bothered about marrying an infertile wife when there are lots of fertile women out there? Thats the mindset you guys have, forgeting a word called love truly exists. In all of this, I gave advise on different ways to still have their own kids, ivf with donor, natural with amniocentesis and ivf with PGD, not that the couple will remain childless. At least i proferred solution rather than walking away to marry someone he doesnt love yet you called me heartless . Odiegwu! Read all you have written again and tell me who is heartless between the two of us. Love conquers all my Sister except the man doesn't love her enough. I will not waste my energy to insult you and others calling me heartless but always pray in life that you or your kids, siblings etc don't find your/themselves in same situation where people are advised to run away from problems with ready made solutions. The Fiancee did not create hersef to have AS, reason God thru science has given Drs more than enough wisdom to handle all these problems yet Africans and their way of thinking . I rest my case sha, all man with his own. Try and check meaning of words like "heartless" before using it next time.

Blendy77:



Marriage is first for companionship before children. In African u used as example don't they have men who abandon their families to go live with strange women because they realized they were never in love with their partners in the first place? Why would a man abandon someone he loves for issues that hav medical solution? You can as well say a man who realized his fiancee had blocked tubes or other fertility challenges before marriage should as well abandon her because of money he's going to spend on medical treatment because he doesn't hav any issue. That is why would a fertile man be bothered with marrying an infertile wife when there are lots of fertile women out there. Thats the mindset forgeting a word call love truly exist. Read all you hav written again and tell me who is heartless between the two of us. Love conquers all my Sister except the man doesn't love her enough. I will not waste my energy to insult you and others calling me heartless but always pray in life you or your kids, siblings etc don't find your/themselves in same situation. The Fiancee did not create hersef to hav SS, God has given Drs more than enough wisdom to handle all these problems yet Africans and their way of thinking .

Yes love exist but love most times is not enough to breed a lasting and healthy relationship..

Because we have science doesn't mean the young man should spend his life fortune and if he doesn't have the fortune, should he go and steal just because he seeks for a solution to prevent him from having SS kids when he can actually save himself the stress by walking away.

And you shall know the truth and the truth will set you free..No be me talk am na the word of God talk am

jenifer007:


Yes love exist but love most times is not enough to breed a lasting and healthy relationship..

Because we have science doesn't mean the young man should spend his life fortune and if he doesn't have the fortune, should he go and steal just because he seeks for a solution to prevent him from having SS kids when he can actually save himself the stress by walking away.

And you shall know the truth and the truth will set you free..No be me talk am na the word of God talk am

well I'm addicted to following this page not because we are planning to undergo a circle but just to gain knowledge and identify with the group members. I think it will make alot of sense wen we learn to respect each others opinion. no matter how it may look or sound. Personally what blendy77 suggested made alot of sense but is left for the man to decide....

Lordsinger:
When a man knows, He knows...
I was certain she was the one.

I appreciate ur input, but the 3-10m for pgd is much for an only son seeking alot of kids to fill up voids.

I guess I'll have to take the heartbreak and pain now, Hopefully it goes away someday.

Boluwatife...

I wish you all the very best my brother

To be honest,I love my hubby but I know the pressure this has put on me,IVF is emotional, since 2 days now I no come online,I no fit do anything,why? I went to hospital for daily injection,nurse inject me wrongly,I screamed within few minutes my stomach has swollen badly, doctor admit me for hospital,I just came home this evening, yesterday when I saw my husband,I won't lie,I didn't feel love infact I almost felt hatred,I have been praying to God to help me calm my mind,so no I wont advice anyone to put themselves in stressful and painful situation,avoid wahala before it jam you,the money for the procedure is not an issue for us by God grace,yet I still have challenge,so don't white wash it to make it look so easy and fun,love is not the only thing that makes marriage successful.
This is the same baby that my friend had 3 within 2 years naturally,I just pray to God to make everything successful for me because I know how I feel,I see baby things,fine clothes and shoes I want buy but no baby

What happens when you eventually marry the love of your life and you can't afford money needed for selection? Resentment and hatred then set in but at the end of the day, it is left to people in such situation.

Hi everyone, pls I just got my hormonal profile result and I have a high prolactin level. The test was carried out on Day 21 which did not really sit well with me because I was told the best time to do a prolactin test should be before ovulation.
Pls experts in the house, will the cycle day I ran the test really affect the outcome? I want to know before I start taking the bromocriptin I was prescribed.

Thanks

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Good morning my people. Please who knows cheap government hospitals that perform IVF and their cost. This information will be well appreciated. Thank you

Someday I will return to share my story but in all this thread was of great help to me. I learnt a lot. Thumbs up to mummies that are pregnant, tested positive and soon to test positive.

Sending hugs to everyone. giving up is the enemy. We shall reap the fruit of our labour


PCOS ,RHESUS NEGATIVE AND INCOMPETENT CERVIX all in one person. We give God all the glory.

3 IUI...2 IVF N 3 MISCARRIAGES AT SECOND TRIMESTER. What can I say but praise God.... 2 surrogate trials but we bless God..

It's just to encourage someone. Keep trying until you hold your bundles of joy

Good afternoon
Pls is it advisable to take supplements for a long time? have been using vitamin E, Mom to Be, and egg booster since last yr dec to get myself prepared for the cycle. Pls house I need an answer

Good evening everyone. Please who has used IUI to achieve pregnancy here. what's the success rate like . No money for IVF now. Hubbys SFA is 95 million count, total motility is 45% and normal morphology is 25%. I had hyper prolactin which is nomalized now. Please is it wise to attempt IUI. I'm 31

mbok:
Good evening everyone. Please who has used IUI to achieve pregnancy here. what's the success rate like . No money for IVF now. Hubbys SFA is 95 million count, total motility is 45% and normal morphology is 25%. I had hyper prolactin which is nomalized now. Please is it wise to attempt IUI. I'm 31

You can actually try what we call local IUI - DIY IUI using clomid or letrozole. Ensure u don't have fibroid or cysts before trying this out. IUI Doctors do in hospital and the one u do yoursef there's really no much difference except cost savings. First of all ensure your tubes are open, hsg can confirm that. On day 2-6 try any of the ovulation induction drugs I mentioned, day 10 do a scan to check egg size, day 12 do same likewise day 14, once ur egg reaches 20-22mm take hcg trig.ger and fire on. To increase ur chances u can add progesterone like duphas.ton from day of trigger then add prayer to seal up the deal while u continue to fire till like day 18 to be on d safe side then test from day 24-28. Many of my peeps tried this n got results. If u don't get result, allow ur body rest like 2 months before trying again as the recipe can still work up to 2 months without any aid. All the best.

This issue is getting me bothered. Its been 5years after marriage no single miscarriage not to talk of pregnancy. Often times friends snide and make jest of me but truth is the problem doesn't come from me. Wife did hsg and result was bilateral tubal occlusion meaning both fallopian tubes blocked. I have been praying, fasting and become a shame that its getting to me. Friends are saying I should look outside and I know what could result. Is there anyone with blocked fallopian tubes solved naturally? I don't have money for ivf and patience is running out

Greetings all expectant mothers, may God grant all our prayers to hold babies this year

I sincerely need advice

My wife hasn't seen her menses for some months now, the gyno placed her on metformin. She actually was diagnosed of pcos with very low progesterone level

Now the challenge is, BMI is 23, blood sugar is 78. And the sugar level keeps going down. The doctor advised her to take carbohydrates before the metformin. I thought metformin was for reducing sugar level? How come she is being advised to take food with sugar again? The drug is also making her weak

My question is, should she continue taking this metformin?
Should she induce the period while she continues taking drugs that will help her boost the progesterone level?

Please someone should help me

M

scally11:
This issue is getting me bothered. Its been 5years after marriage no single miscarriage not to talk of pregnancy. Often times friends snide and make jest of me but truth is the problem doesn't come from me. Wife did hsg and result was bilateral tubal occlusion meaning both fallopian tubes blocked. I have been praying, fasting and become a shame that its getting to me. Friends are saying I should look outside and I know what could result. Is there anyone with blocked fallopian tubes solved naturally? I don't have money for ivf and patience is running out

wouldn't you like surrogacy? If yes, sallygal17 can help you ensure everything is signed.

bimkas:
Good afternoon
Pls is it advisable to take supplements for a long time? have been using vitamin E, Mom to Be, and egg booster since last yr dec to get myself prepared for the cycle. Pls house I need an answer

Have you visited the hospital?

I have two clinics to choose, yes have visited

Pojomojo:
Have you visited the hospital?

scally11:
This issue is getting me bothered. Its been 5years after marriage no single miscarriage not to talk of pregnancy. Often times friends snide and make jest of me but truth is the problem doesn't come from me. Wife did hsg and result was bilateral tubal occlusion meaning both fallopian tubes blocked. I have been praying, fasting and become a shame that its getting to me. Friends are saying I should look outside and I know what could result. Is there anyone with blocked fallopian tubes solved naturally? I don't have money for ivf and patience is running out

try and see a doctor,I know someone with blocked tubes who with surgery the tubes were opened

Ifecotech22:
Greetings all expectant mothers, may God grant all our prayers to hold babies this year

I sincerely need advice

My wife hasn't seen her menses for some months now, the gyno placed her on metformin. She actually was diagnosed of pcos with very low progesterone level

Now the challenge is, BMI is 23, blood sugar is 78. And the sugar level keeps going down. The doctor advised her to take carbohydrates before the metformin. I thought metformin was for reducing sugar level? How come she is being advised to take food with sugar again? The drug is also making her weak

My question is, should she continue taking this metformin?
Should she induce the period while she continues taking drugs that will help her boost the progesterone level?

Please someone should help me


M

tell the doctors your concern
Metformin in this case is not given to lower the sugar but to help with the pcos,I took it for a while,and she can just consume more carbs to booast her sugar level,get a good gynecologist to work with her

Pojomojo:
wouldn't you like surrogacy? If yes, sallygal17 can help you ensure everything is signed.

he said he doesn't have money for ivf,so how is recommending surrogacy going to help

Elohorp:
tell the doctors your concern
Metformin in this case is not given to lower the sugar but to help with the pcos,I took it for a while,and she can just consume more carbs to booast her sugar level,get a good gynecologist to work with her

Thank you
Just looking for second opinion to what the doctor advised

crownandhoney:


I got up almost immediately to go to my waiting room, waited a bit and used the toilet and later laid back, I am 13weeks. Just keep resting and enjoying the two weeks wait.

Dear which hospital do you use

scally11:
This issue is getting me bothered. Its been 5years after marriage no single miscarriage not to talk of pregnancy. Often times friends snide and make jest of me but truth is the problem doesn't come from me. Wife did hsg and result was bilateral tubal occlusion meaning both fallopian tubes blocked. I have been praying, fasting and become a shame that its getting to me. Friends are saying I should look outside and I know what could result. Is there anyone with blocked fallopian tubes solved naturally? I don't have money for ivf and patience is running out

I don't have personal experience but I've read several stories of people who used serrapeptase with castor oil massage to open up not too severe tubal blockages. You may want to google it and see what to make of it.

I also suggest you share this at the TTC thread. You may get answers there. Someone there once shared on overcoming tubal blockage but I can't remember the details anymore.


I'll advice you stay away from people putting you under pressure or giving you wrong counsel, if possible. At times like this, you need your peace of mind and emotional stability to be able to think clearly and take decisions. Besides if anything goes wrong in your life because of the counsels/ pressures from these people, you bear the consequences alone. They'll just be watching you. I'm speaking from almost ten years of TTC experience.


May you find speedy solutions. It is well.

Ifecotech22:

Thank you
Just looking for second opinion to what the doctor advised

You could also seek second opinion from a different doctor if possible sir. Preferably, an experienced one.

Blendy77:


You can actually try what we call local IUI - DIY IUI using clomid or letrozole. result, allow ur body rest like 2 months before trying again as the recipe can still work up to 2 months without any aid. All the best.

Wow. This is awesome, but can one get the hcg trigger without prescription?

Thanks

Is it possible for the number of follicles to increase few days before retrieval?
Has anyone experienced increase in number of eggs just 3 to 4 days before egg retrieval??

It is good to see this group still thriving.

TTC is depressing but we will triumph by God’s special grace, amen.

.

Uririandme:



Wow. This is awesome, but can one get the hcg trigger without prescription?

Thanks

Yes walk into any big pharmacy that sells fertility drugs. Alpha is ur easiest plug if u reside in lag. Worst case get any Dr or nurse to prescribe for u but not too sure its a biggie. We got several results from this protocol last yr and last two yrs in my foundation. Not sure anyone had issues wt getting d trigger nationwide.

Mamaejima4:


Dear which hospital do you use

Fertigold. Lagos Nigeria.