Sablexxxtoons:
Lol she's just exploring her taste for BBC's .. every teen has such exploring..

But she should learn to do so with her own data.. and teach her about safe sex before it becomes unwanted pregnant

questioner:
I also had periods in my early 20s when I was sort of addicted to porn for a couple of years. And it sort of left on its own when I started dating and having sex

Also in my case and in many cases, watching porn wasn't associated with promiscuity. Infact, I wasn't freaked about it during the period I consider my wayward phase. I have many friends too who were quite reserved who told me they battled porn while younger.

These are the reasons why I sort of didn't want to address her.

Just that I am a guy and the reality might be different for girls

questioner:
■ The day I was to leave I told my mum that I observed the drain came from my niece and blocked her from the router.
She called my niece and questioned her but she denied knowing anything about it, I spared her blushes by saying sometimes apps have background processes that consume data without the owner knowing.
Ever since, I have been wondering if I handled the situation properly.
I didn't confront her about it cos I was concerned about the embarrassment she will feel for a male family to find out about her secret.
She might even assume I have told my mum or my elder bro (her dad), which might weigh her down emotionally.
Also, I am concerned if this is a sign of promiscuity, she will be 17 next month And aside the fact that she's quite tall, she might as well pass for a 14 year old. She's barely endowed for her age- bottomline, not the kind of girl, you will associate with waywardness.

My question is
1. Would it have been better if I had confronted her
2. Is this a possible sign of promiscuity ? - if so, I will suggest mum sends her back to her Dad cos I am not sure at her advanced age
she should be dealing with issues like this, to avoid stories that touch later on

illicit:
What you should be worried about is if she is downloading or uploading on the site

mariahAngel:
Are you waiting till she gets pregnant?
That "embarrassment" might be what would save her from ruining her future.

You found out for a reason, so do something about it.
If not, you might regret not doing so on time.

Samantha124:
Leave her alone, she's just a curious teenager... I was once like her during that age...

obinna58:

Typical fish brain gender

Op embarrassing her wouldn’t solve any problem, it’ll make it worse
Disconnecting her is enough already, let her use her money to explore her curiosity

She doesn’t need any advice rather enlightenment and I’m sure she gathered enough in school to know what protection means, just let her be, in time she’ll adjust

Samantha124:
Leave her alone, she's just a curious teenager... I was once like her during that age...

Hmmmmm......
Always fantasing and getting yo pants wet.......

mariahAngel:


You are so foolish for typing this foolish comment.
If there's anything less than a fish brain, it's what you have.
Foolish boy!

What stops you from giving your own opinion, however foolish it may be?
Must you quote someone with your nonsense?

If she ends up getting pregnant, fools like you will shame her for sure.

What a nonentity!

obinna58:

Samantha you!! Why!!! O God why!!! Whyyyyyy!!!!

What section were you checking out
You like them big
I’m sure you know it’s only poor 2inches simp you can get with your feminist ideology

Wawelexy:
Allow your poor niece breef.... If you stop her from watching it, then she will get in the real act... Nothing can make her stop it now, if you block her from the router, she would purchase data with her money, if you expose her and start monitoring her, she will wait till midnight when everyone is asleep, or better still go into the bathroom to do her thing...

Since you have blocked her from the router, don't kill her self esteem by letting her know you are aware of her secret, allow her use her data, Xvideo and XNXX will reset her brain when she keeps using her food/transport money for subscription every two days.. when the time comes, she will forget about it...

One thing I discovered about porn addiction is joblessness, boredom and being alone, once you get yourself busy, it stops or drastically reduces.

90% of people viewing this thread have once been addicted, or still addicted to porn. Infact this thread will trigger some people to watch it tonight .. like the false prophet use to say; This I have seen

Kobojunkie:
○ Block access to inappropriate content on the network using your router. There is no sensible reason why you or your mom should be paying for her to visit porn sites. She can go make her own money to do that with her life.

In addition, ensure everyone is aware that there network use is tracked down to ID used to access a site, the number or minutes spent on what page/site etc., so she is alert to the fact that whatever unacceptable activities she engages in online can be reporter back to her parents if need arises.

○ Your mom has already spoken to her about it so no need for you to say much except encourage her to use her mind wisely. She can chose to be promiscuous without porn. That you can't do much about. Sending her back to her Dad because of that will just be your family abandoning her for no real reason.

Samantha124:
Leave her alone, she's just a curious teenager... I was once like her during that age...

questioner:
■ If it is a guy, I wouldn't bother much cos I know too well that lots of young boys go thru this phase but even though I know it exists
■ but this is the first time I am seeing a girl in this situation - if it portends the beginning of trouble, I will just advice that she should be returned to stay with her dad

questioner:
■ Thanks for your take. My mum doesn't know she views or is addicted to porn, I just told her the huge consumption is from her phone.
■ Also the network tracker is on my system and I have left the place now, so the network is no longer being monitored. Just that her phone is blocked

questioner:



Did you get to a point where it could be considered an addiction? like that's the first thing you reach for when you are alone ?
Because that's what we are dealing with in this case.

richeeyo:
Abeg leave the girl alone