Saintinoo:


Haha, seems you were also almost destroyed by her, I can say I was destroyed because she made me always go back to beg her after feeding me with silent treatment.

Beb will wrong me, when I get upset, she will give silent treatment until I apologize. To me I have found a wife, was busy planning marriage, I made her my priority, everything was about her needs, career and family.

goldust777:
A female covert narcissist the most dangerous category of narcissist is the worst person a man can date worst marry and have kids with,they will pretend to be some else they are not for years only to remove this fake pretensive mask suddenly especially in marriage and your left with a pure demonic evil woman,If you're the church going type you will think she was possessed by a demon and wasting your time taking her to pastors for deliverance.what you don't understand is she is actually the demon in human form ready to destroy your life totally and make your life hell on earth before you think of visiting as a sinner if you're married to a female covert narcissist please run for your life don't stay in it for the kids.if you're alive and not destroyed in a marriage to a female covert narcissist you can stay alive for your kids.Abeg run o

goldust777:
A female covert narcissist the most dangerous category of narcissist is the worst person a man can date worse marry and have kids with,they will pretend to be someone else they are not for years only to remove this fake pretensive mask suddenly especially in marriage and your left with a pure demonic evil woman,If you're the church going type you will think she was possessed by a demon and wasting your time taking her to pastors for deliverance.what you don't understand is she is actually the demon in human form ready to destroy your life totally and make your life hell on earth before you think of visiting as a sinner if you're married to a female covert narcissist please run for your life don't stay in it for the kids.if you're alive and not destroyed in a marriage to a female covert narcissist you can stay alive for your kids.Abeg run o

18wheeler:
She may be narcissistic okay, but the main problem here is you. You are Simp

Saintinoo:


You are right, it is a both gender something.

In my case, she waits for me to complain about things she does, then when next we have an argument she accuses me of being that thing, e.g, she have an uncontrollable anger, when I complain about her anger issue, next time she accuse me of having an uncontrollable anger.

She does not really appreciate things I do for her, she has this materialistic mentality but disguise as someone who is not.

Like I mentioned up there, she yell at me when she is angry.

She insults and shame me when we have an argument.

When she is angry, if I am dying, she derives joy from it, she totally lack empathy when she is angry.

She loves being in control and always gets threatened when I mentioned mention being a man.

I don't wish my worst enemy such woman.

BobbieZion:
They are usually very cute and charming.
Now that covers the underlying narcissistic tendencies,so at first you won't see it coming.

They love bomb you and create a false perfect world for you, but anytime you want to talk about any thing serious they snub you.
They are the greatest at entitlement,they want you to become their parent.
They are never available emotionally and they lack empathy.
They are great liars and have countless sex partners, so they are great cheats.

They make you run mad and after some time you will start losing your sanity.
Their victims are mostly kind hearted and caring people.
They are very intelligent and they create scenarios in their head, which makes them great at acting and directing.

May God bless you.

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Stiv19cuff:
Crazy kind of people, stay far away from them...mine then thought the world revovled around her, you will always be the one to say sorry...thier wahala too much abeg, the bible even said it is better for you as a man to live in the corner of your roof than to share a house with a quarrelsome wife. Peace of mind is everything..thank God, God blessed me with a perfect Woman now

helinues:
The problem nowadays is people don't start with friendship anymore, they just jumped into relationship.

If you have gone through the friendship process, you would have seen such traits before considering going into a relationship with such person. Friendship is the process of getting to know more about each other's, likes and dislikes, do's and dont's..

Most people don't have love map.

Anny69:

Saintinoo:
This is not a female bashing thread, just to share my experience with some kind of human.

I have been hearing of the narcissism, and even through I believe we all have one traits of narcissism or the other, but I experienced this with my now ex girlfriend. All this while I was trying to protect and love her even after seeing so many signs of narcissism but, the more I try, the more I make her believe that I am the problem. Here are most things she does that made me believe she has a covert NPD.

1. Love bombs me today, and give me hell the next day.
2. She never apologizes, she will ghost me until I apologize for complaining about her wrong doing.
3. She gives silent treatment immediately after an argument until I apologize.
4. She gets angry so easily, she can yell at or shame me when angry and when I react, silent treatment follows.
5. When I caught her lie, even the slightest lie, she gets angry and start ghosting me till I apologizes (sort of manipulation).

These and many more I experienced from dating a female narcissist, female narcissists do not know ALFA male, just don't get into any relationship with them else they will destroy you, no matter how strong of a man you are.

She actually left when she saw that I was too sturborn for her manipulations and won't adhere to her demands, need I say that I still tried to get her back, that is how female narcissists destroys not just their man but even female friends they manage to have.

Guys ever been in a relationship with this type of woman, share you experience.

Saintinoo:


Do you know the worst of it all? I kept on going back to her after vowing that I am done. Because of the love bomb she used on me.

SWaccomodator:


Go get a life first before blabbing what does not exist on a faceless forum

Rexie96:


Fool.. wat do u know lol, a chicken like you would have been dead if u dated dat woman ome month

helinues:


Friendship is the process of getting to know more about each other's, likes and dislikes, do's and dont's..

Rexie96:
My woman is.. thatz why i steadily give her infevtion and treat myself right away...

She is sometimes a devil in human form.. put me through hell on earth , almost losing my sanity, lost business oppurtunities and many more.. best purnshment is watvhing her battle infections..

Igboid:


You sound like a Narcissist male.
I bet you are.

Saintinoo:


You didn't date a narcissist, you probably date one of these Nigeria girls, date a covert narc and see the story.

Cloudflare:


I can bet my balls you can't hangout with the narcissist girls have dealt with before let alone dating or knacking them.

Oga the greatest weapon a man has over a woman is ATTENTION. same way the greatest weapon a woman has over a man is SEX.

only real men understands this. It's like you don't know a woman's life revolves around ATTENTION. dude women can't do without attention, real men understands this and play the game very well. Narcissist girls loves attention like mad, this is exactly why even when they're at fault, they would want to shift the blame on you so you can Apologize (your apology will boast their ego and pride). A sane man won't apologize! In fact he'll ghost her like she doesn't exist. Dude we have played this game years ago, Na fact I dey tell you. Dem no born any girl well to do narcissistic for where you dey. They can only do that to weak Simp and gentle guys who think with their emotions. No be for where I dey

megabank:


This is narcissistic.

Xenry:
Can't be me. When I notice the slightest red flag, I'm out. That's probably why I'm still single.

Cloudflare:


It takes a narcissist to know one. Of course when SIMPs sees my write up above they're shocked because that isn't their way of life. You wan dey behave nice and gentlemen attitude for Nigeria girls? Dey play

thinkmoney:

You show too many signs of weakness man. I have dated more than 100ladies (I am not proud of it), and never as any one show those kind of things to me to such degree.
Women with whatever mental situation still sizes up people

thinkmoney:

You have weaknesses. She sensed it and used it against u

pansophist:
Narcs are like thieves, their operations are in the dark. They target the inexperienced and believe in their own exceptionalism on manipulation until they jam a narc slayer like me that will deal with them wotowoto.

I can be a friend with a narc forever, just to learn more from them, and counter their every move. I don't mind taking a few blows, but it's a small price to pay, to know their operations well.

I haven't dated a narc before I am too smart for them. I already know them from afar, and will never personalize those devilish creatures. And I don't care if they are black goats, in a dark alley, I can sniff them or feel their heartbeat. Pretense doesn't help them.

All this know-how comes with intense knowledge of human nature, a hardcore personal development journey, and not infusing my bias in a situation base on my feelings.

If your actions proves to me that you have narc tendencies, I will believe you. Your words are meaningless, I always look at your actions.

NArcs arer loosers. You don't have to chase them off. Befriend them and learn more from their operations.

Saintinoo:


What do you think it mean when they say a narcissist destroys you? These people are demonic, going back to them is a mental charm they use on you. Just don't pray to experience a covert narcissist bro, If I tell you everything, you will see that I tried.