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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Nobody: 2:27pm On Jul 12, 2023 |
luminouz:Please can you add me to the WhatsApp group 1 Like |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Nobody: 3:27pm On Jul 12, 2023 |
Again, the above troll is iyaebe. All of you Ignore. 11 Likes |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by luminouz(m): 6:34pm On Jul 12, 2023 |
Rayban25:My bad.... I will ignore it henceforth!!! 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Nobody: 7:38pm On Jul 12, 2023 |
Saintinoo: I lived with a female narcissists for a very long time, so I know how to detect them, handle them and leave them 3 Likes |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by luminouz(m): 7:43pm On Jul 12, 2023 |
Saintinoo: Tell us your story, that's how others will learn 2 Likes |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by gamaliel9: 8:37pm On Jul 12, 2023 |
IconicR: Let me welcome you in Nicky Santoro s voice[ Joe Pesci] in the film CASINO You are welcome, you motherfucker low life piece of shit... ![]() ![]() ![]() I have re watched the film so many times 5 Likes |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Saintinoo(m): 9:00pm On Jul 12, 2023 |
luminouz: have been hearing of the narcissism, and even through I believe we all have one traits of narcissism or the other, but I experienced this with my now ex girlfriend. All this while I was trying to protect and love her even after seeing so many signs of narcissism but, the more I try, the more I make her believe that I am the problem. Here are most things she does that made me believe she has a covert NPD. 1. Love bombs me today, and give me hell the next day. 2. She never apologizes, she will ghost me until I apologize for complaining about her wrong doing. 3. She gives silent treatment immediately after an argument until I apologize. 4. She gets angry so easily, she can yell at or shame me when angry and when I react, silent treatment follows. 5. When I caught her lie, even the slightest lie, she gets angry and start ghosting me till I apologizes (sort of manipulation). These and many more I experienced from dating a female narcissist, just don't get into any relationship with them else they will destroy you, no matter how strong of a man you are. She actually left when she saw that I was too sturborn for her manipulations and won't adhere to her demands, need I say that I still tried to get her back, that is how female narcissists destroys not just their man but even female friends they manage to have. 18 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by SOZINN: 8:57am On Jul 13, 2023 |
@Miracood2. Although it's a little difficult for me to understand what you want from this girl, it appears that you are at the top of your game here. Not everyone will agree, but that's okay. Sometimes it's more interesting to simply play their game than to give up, though you'll need to be careful if you choose the former in order to avoid being played. Personally, I used to be that guy who would only accept a yes response, which led to me ignoring a lot of the girls I met. Then I realized two things: first, "let's be friends" and "let's be friends first" are not the same sentence; and second, being friends with someone does not automatically preclude being involved sexually or romantically with another person (at least if you approach it from a moral perspective). If she says let's be friends first, I'm fine with that but I'll be pursuing other girls while we are friends and I won't even try to hide it from her. I'll explain, quoting her, that we are still just friends if she tries to start a fight. You need to be aware that some women might like you but choose to wait before getting involved to avoid coming across as cheap. You should give those women some time, but don't let them become your sole focus. You will also benefit from that side when they are finished and ready, just watch your resources while you're at it. The point here is to follow "friendship" accordingly. However, if she insists she only wants to be friends and there isn't even a hint of attraction on her part, you must carefully weigh the advantages of being friends with her before you take the next step. I'm still friends with some girls who want to be friends first, I don't really think it's that deep. The issue arises when she starts acting foolishly after she explicitly requested friendship. In that case, I will remind her of our agreement. You should also keep in mind that if a girl notices that you've shown interest in another girl or that you seem to be slipping away, she may regret her choice and speed up the process. The game has several layers that I don't want to get into right now. It's fine if some guys don't want to play; sometimes all I want to do is have fun. 16 Likes |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by zubizareta(m): 10:49am On Jul 13, 2023 |
dhiqson: Zero 8 zer0 3 eight 1 eight 2 five 4 two 1 Like |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Tonnyray: 11:37am On Jul 13, 2023 |
Tonnyray:Tony speaks 8 Likes
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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Nobody: 2:08pm On Jul 13, 2023 |
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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Nobody: 2:13pm On Jul 13, 2023 |
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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Firstorderwizard(m): 4:09pm On Jul 13, 2023 |
Brother's, don't ever loose guide despite any circumstances. Learn from the little mistake I just made I have this side chick girl that have been working hard for my attention for over one year now. I didn't want to upgrade her cos of my main babe. At a time, I started having feelings for her ![]() My main girl did something, normally I would have over looked it like before but I stuck to it and broke up with her immediately so I can upgrade the ekuke. My mistake though. Immediately I brought the side chick closer and for the first time went against my red pill principle and confessed my love for her and decided to simp for her so she can enjoy the attention she has been labouring for boom! drama started. As I'm talking to you now, she's yet to reply the last message I sent to her since yesterday even though she's been coming online. ![]() 13 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by luminouz(m): 6:01pm On Jul 13, 2023 |
Saintinoo:Nice one. I'm glad you shared your story. I have encountered women like you said and once I saw they were like that, I ghosted them and NEVER looked back!! 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by luminouz(m): 6:12pm On Jul 13, 2023 |
Firstorderwizard:Love is a man's kryptonite. It makes the heart of a man weak. You need your heart strong, so your head can maintain balance and clarity at all times. -Luminouz2023. N.B: This is a simple matter. Control your heart and starve her of attention too. That you even check her last seen or whatever dafuq they call it showed you are not busy enough with your own life and you are letting your heart simp. Get ya head outta ya ass and get pilled!!! 12 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Karlifate: 7:48pm On Jul 13, 2023 |
Firstorderwizard: It's still amendable if you didn't double/triple text her. It's hard, but ignore her & go about your usual business. Within 5-7 days of no contact (this depends on your detachment ability), you'll see more interesting people than her. You're seeing her as special cos you placed her on pedestal that she ain't even worth in the first place. Treat her like a celebrity, she'll treat you like a 22 Likes |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Nobody: 7:57pm On Jul 13, 2023 |
gamaliel9:Is this the type of people you have on this thread? Smh 2 Likes |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by qbqetell: 10:59pm On Jul 13, 2023 |
Pukkalolo: There are certain posts that should be pinned to the top of this thread. This is one of them. There are some people on here with the pickup artist mindset trying to disguise as RedPill. RedPill isn't PUA. Let me repeat that, RedPill isn't PUA. They are not even similiar. Like I once said, for those of you learning, one the abilities you would find most helpful while consuming this thread is the ability to filter true contents from wannabes. 14 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by qbqetell: 11:05pm On Jul 13, 2023 |
qbqetell: It's good to share. We encourage it. But if you're going to come here trying to prove know-it-all, then you had better know it all. Even though we are trying to help other men navigating the inter-sexual dynamic, let's not sell PUA as RedPill. Paul Elam addresses this exact same kind of issue here: PUA - Thy Frame is Lame: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Xoj2SoDXrLA&pp=ygUbcGF1bCBlbGFtIHRoeSBmcmFtZSBpcyBsYW1l 3 Likes |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by odenkirk: 11:23pm On Jul 13, 2023 |
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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by kelvinatkins(m): 3:26am On Jul 14, 2023 |
Karlifate: Good day, could you please help me with the link to his telegram channel? 1 Like |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Karlifate: 3:45am On Jul 14, 2023 |
kelvinatkins: Use the search bar 1 Like
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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by CaveAdullam: 8:34am On Jul 14, 2023 |
Authority: Be wise. 4 Likes
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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Pukkalolo: 8:40am On Jul 14, 2023 |
Miracood2: Years ago, I saw a thread on Reddit. It was kinda like this thread we are currently on. But this time, it was a female thread. Some 'woke' women among them were teaching the other women 'how to master men, get men to commit, and everything thing related to winning a man's heart and getting him to chase.' I was captivated by the thread, not necessarily because they were dropping any dope dating wisdom. It was simply because I was surprised to see that women also actually care about trying to master men and win a man's heart. That was really fascinating to me because I used to think men are the only ones so concerned about mastering the opposite sex. I was shocked to see that women are also damn concerned about getting good with men. That was my first dating 'awareness' ...then everything else I later learned about women grew from that awareness. Normally, guys will Google "how to get a girlfriend" or "how to know if she likes me" or how to make her chase me," and so on... But my style of research changed immediately. I started googling things like, how to get a boyfriend," or "how to know if he really likes me" or how to make him chase me," and so on. Why? Because... There's a proverb that says, "If you want easily conquer your enemy, you need first find out the kind of advice they are getting on how to conquer you." I was curious to see the kind of dating advise women are getting on how to handle men. This might sounds paradoxical and counterintuitive: this way, I got better ideas on what actually drive women and how women think. I came gradually to realize that women actually want to please men, impress men and win men heart... But most men don't realize this. No wonder the vast majority of advice for men out there is centered on how to impress women: "how to make her laugh," or "how to please her on the bed" or "how to make her think about you" or "how to make her give you sex", or "how to make her attracted to you" or worse, "how to add sexual innuendo and humor in your chat so she will not find you boring," and so on... The fundamental problem with all the above advise is that it's all still centered on (or related to)'pleasing and impressing women.' But at the core, women don't want that. Women don't want you to be trying to impress them or please them. Women don't want you to be trying to get them. Most men don't truly understand that. This is why many men still failed with women despite everything they've learnt about women. Despite the fact that they've read all the redpill books... Despite the fact that they know all the alpha male rules and bad boy techniques....Despite all these, there's something still lacking in their game with women; there's still a MISSING PIECE. There's still a problem. The problem is that you are still indirectly or covertly trying to impress the woman. You think you've learned some alpha or 'dominant' move, but you are still trying to pass her shit test and impress her. That's the problem. Women are suppose to be the ones trying to please you, impress you or give you the pussy. But, the challenge was, "how do I trigger women emotions and make them eager to want to please me, impress me and naturally want to give me the pussy and go into a relationship with me?" I knew I won't find this answer anywhere online or offline because most advice out there are indirectly and covertly focused trying to impress women. So I had to depend on my own personal experience. I started noticing that there are women that seem attracted to me or somehow liked me, but for some unknown reasons, these women still refuse to give me sex or date me. This got me confused. I began wondering, "what am I doing wrong?". "What is the missing piece?" That was how I accidentally discovered the concept I call "sexual comfortableness." Here's the big idea I accidentally learnt about sexual comfortability. I realized that when a woman is attracted to you or somewhat interested in you, then that means she's impress with you. But her being impressed with you isn't enough. She won't give you the pussy just because she impressed with you. She would only give you the pussy if she's sure that YOU are also genuinely impressed with her. Note the key word: genuinely. This quickly still relate to the fact that women actually want to please men, impress men and win their heart... She has to be the one trying to please you, but you have to inspire her to do so. Buiding sexual comfortableness with a woman is about making her feel excited, 'shameless' and safe about the idea of pleasing you, impressing and giving you the pussy. Since then, my understanding about women changed. Instead of trying to get pussy or try to persuade women to go into a relationship with me...I just focused on building sexual comfortableness. That was when my game with women skyrocketed. The pussy naturally started coming my way. You've already made one deadly mistake from the beginning. Here's is the mistake: You are trying to persuade her to go into a relationship with you. Look, women know that men are the true gate keepers of commitment(relationship). As a man, your commitment is your POWER. And women want to please a man, impress him and earn his commitment. But when you are eager to go into a relationship with her, you are giving her no opportunity to impress you and earn your commitment. As a result, she'll think you are cheap, weak and have no value and self-respect. So she becomes bored with you because you're no longer a challenge to her. See, brother. Sadly, I view Marriage or relationship like a Cage. If a woman wants me in that cage, then she better impress me and make it seem enjoyable to me. To be honest, most women I dated had to persuade me into the idea of going into a serious relationship with them. The relationship was mostly their idea, not mine. I was the prize, or better say, I was the catch. And even when I was in a relationship with them, I was like an egg: very fragile. Meaning, if she doesn't pamper me or treat me carefully, I'm ready to 'break' out of the relationship immedately. A woman gets zero fulfilment from catching a man that wants to be in a cage. Great fulfillment and satisfaction comes from catching the man that can immedately run out of the relationship if she doesn't impress him enough or work hard to keep his commitment. And that's is how it's suppose to be because you own the power of commitment(relationship). The woman should be the one trying to please you and win your commitment. If you are not a wealthy man or a rich celebrities, most women won't be inspire to try to please you or impress you... UNLESS you create 'sexual comfortableness' in her. Now, you are thinking, "Since trying to go into a relationship with her is a wrong move, then I guess the right move is to just concentrate on getting the sex first...right?" No, bro. Again that's another wrong move. Here's why... Women are the gate keepers of sex. What does that mean? This means that, it's the woman that "decides" if you'll get the pussy or not. Since the woman have to be the one to "agree to" or "decide" if it's time to give you the pussy, then that means you don't really have any power in the interaction. The only way to get the power is to be attention focused and sexually detached. One key thing I learnt from women's dating advice is that, women are advised to always leverage the power of their most valuable asset (pussy) to control men and get them to do what they want. A woman’s power comes from how she controls access to her pussy. That means, the very thing that makes her powerful and in control is the fact you are trying to have access to her pussy. Remember, women actually want to impress men and win their heart... Being eager to have access to her pussy, is a big sign that you are already impressed with her. But she feels that you are NOT genuinely impressed with her because she has not done anything to impress you yet. The one thing that makes a man sexually appealing is the fact that he's hard to please. Not impossible to please, but hard to please. Meaning, she has to work harder to impress him and win his full attention (validation). So when you're eager to have access to her pussy or eager to go into relationship with her, you become easy to please in her eyes. She feels she already has you wrapped around her finger...so she becomes bored with you. This is why I encourage sexual detachment and not being pussy focused. If you don't give a shit about her pussy, then she automatically feels powerless around you. She starts questioning her value as a woman. This is a challenge to her ego. The harder a woman work to please you and impress you, the more fulfilled and happy she is. And she associate that satisfaction and fulfillment to you, and as a result she'll want to be around you to get that dopamine hit (fulfillment). The purpose of the man is to go out there, conquer the world and create as much value... While the purpose of a woman is the please the man, add unlimited value to him and give him total satisfaction. Women are suppose to be ones asking "how do I make him laugh?" or "how do I please him on the bed?" or "how do I get him to fall in love with me" Or , "how do I add humor in my chat so he won't think I'm boring," and so on... The Woman feel more purposeful and fulfilled when she's trying to please the man, and not the other way round. Miracood2, there's a high chance this lady already wants to please you and impress you but you are not giving her the chance to do so. With this girl, the idea isn't to persuade her to go into a relationship with you; the idea isn't to try to get the pussy... The idea is to make her feel 'shameless', excited and safe about the idea of pleasing you, impressing and giving you the pussy. This is what I called building sexual comfortableness. Yes, you are making efforts to get her but, again that’s where you got it wrong. You are concentrated on trying to get the her instead of "allowing" her try to get you. The attractive woman doesn't value "male effort" because it is too available. Every man is already trying to please her, impress her and trying to get with her. But when she encounters a man who can make feel excited, shameless and safe about the idea pleasing him and impressing him and going sexual with him... it's as if she has encounter a pure gold. She will cherish it. If you want to learn how to build sexual comfortableness with women, click below and purchase a copy of my book... The ball is in your court. I just hope you got some wisdom on this post. Stay blessed. 27 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by chikasnight: 9:20am On Jul 14, 2023 |
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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by benzics(m): 9:44am On Jul 14, 2023 |
Who else is following the Adam22 story trending on Twitter? Man, some men are really finished! Below is a video of his wife getting plowed, and apparently he recorded the video himself ![]() https://twitter.com/narconudity/status/1679737847501160448?s=46&t=PJgYb_poQz0Vb6USPvIUgg 2 Likes
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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Firstorderwizard(m): 1:45pm On Jul 14, 2023 |
Like seriously, I intentionally simped for her just to make her feel good but it backfired. It's very risky for a man to loose guide when dealing with the opposite gender. You have more to lose. ![]() luminouz: 2 Likes |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by MJBOLT: 4:41pm On Jul 14, 2023 |
this shit is getting too much now Accuse a man falsely,ruin his life,go scott free,repeat 11 Likes
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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Martinez39s(m): 4:52pm On Jul 14, 2023 |
MJBOLT:Too bad. He didn't even say a word to journalists after the verdict. 2 Likes |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Martinez39s(m): 5:01pm On Jul 14, 2023 |
@MJBOLT Take a look at this. This guy was part of the people dragging Benjamin Mendy and saying that he is guilty. Now, what is the essence of his sympathy? He even made a post saying that he has now retraced his steps and he shouldn't have been quick to judge. He later deleted his post. While I commend him for admitting he wad wrong, it must be noted that the naivety of believing unsubstantiated rape allegations, even from multiple women, is a really dangerous thing. Many men have suffered irreparable damages and incurred irrecoverable losses. Some have even ended their lives. I just came here to share this news, but you beat me to it. Looks like I still have a lot have a lot of catching up to do when I fully resume this thread later on. 16 Likes 4 Shares
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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by MJBOLT: 5:29pm On Jul 14, 2023 |
The whole thing is painful and shameful at the same time,3 years of his life and career gone. Martinez39s: 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Agbaje1246: 8:20pm On Jul 14, 2023 |
I have been accused of rape before,what saved me was that my mother threatened to take us to a village traditionalist before the idiot of a lady confessed that I was playing too hard to get with all her numerous greenlights . She nearly ruined my life cuz she couldn't handle rejection.. Thank God I had a wise mother 23 Likes 1 Share |
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