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Why Do I Keep Seeing Him In My Dreams? by Elistho(m): 10:02am On Jul 14, 2023
Straight to the point, last year during the ASUU strike, I decided to learn tailoring. I'm a fast learner so I told myself if I can, I will be an apprentice for just six months, regardless of how good my boss is to me, I'll leave and establish myself.

The relationship between my boss and I was just what it was, no extreme closeness. Irrespective, he was Knowledgeable, we would discuss religion, lifestyle, politics, share little food, etc.

I was just 5 months in the apprenticeship when the strike was called off and I left for school to continue studies, gladly. Because I was tired of learning already, I can say I grasp fast, I currently sew now.

Hitherto, I came back home for holidays, been around for a while. Even though my boss shop is nearby, I don't go there to say "Hi", if I see him on the road, I immediately try dodging him, don't know if it's obvious to him.

Not like I'm proud to go to his shop or greet him when I see him. I'm just the mind your business type and i don't know how to start a convo with him as we're different personalities, so I prefer dodging him on the streets which is always a success.

The bone of contention is, I keep seeing him in my dream world. It's always one pattern of dream, me going to his shop to look for him, he's not always around. Never have I meet him around in the dream scenario, I always meet his wife or aide, I would ask where he is. Sometimes, he would come while I'm going, or sometimes I go to and fro fruitlessly.

I'm beginning to think it's a bad omen on his side, maybe through the dreams, I'm being told he's not fine.. or, what could that mean? Why do I keep going to his shop in my dreams when in reality, I will not near there.

Pragmatically, I think business isn't moving fine with him, he's looking bad than before. Or, does it mean spirit of backwardness in my sewing, I rarely have deals, but it's justifiable because I don't know much people.

I just want to sew to survive, not like I ever dream of being a tailor, I'm a law student so I'm not bothered. Why do I keep going to his shop in my dreams?

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Re: Why Do I Keep Seeing Him In My Dreams? by Wodu89: 10:06am On Jul 14, 2023
It's just find memories.
Re: Why Do I Keep Seeing Him In My Dreams? by Beremx(f): 10:34am On Jul 14, 2023
Why dodging your boss to avoid greeting him? Maybe that's why you keep seeing him in your dreams. It's not that he was a bad person to you during your apprenticeship.
Or are you in love with your boss or you're destined to be a fashion designer? 🤔🤔🤔
Re: Why Do I Keep Seeing Him In My Dreams? by Stevenbright(m): 12:17pm On Jul 14, 2023
Have you paid him his complete agreement money? Go pay it!

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Re: Why Do I Keep Seeing Him In My Dreams? by Lama70(m): 1:01pm On Jul 14, 2023
Stevenbright:
Have you paid him his complete agreement money? Go pay it!

My thoughts exactly.

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Re: Why Do I Keep Seeing Him In My Dreams? by timisquare82(m): 1:32pm On Jul 14, 2023
It simply means you will benefit from him someday or vise versa.
Re: Why Do I Keep Seeing Him In My Dreams? by Depriest2020: 1:36pm On Jul 14, 2023
You have bright star ⭐✨ which he has taking spiritualy to run his business, you may doubt it but the earlier you seek solution to it the better. Any day you're free from him, you will see yourself fight him in the dream or you will carry things that belongs to you in his shop and walk away with anger and never to return.

NB: no need confronting him phisical, it's a spiritual thing.
Re: Why Do I Keep Seeing Him In My Dreams? by Elistho(m): 1:41pm On Jul 14, 2023
Beremx:
Why dodging your boss to avoid greeting him? Maybe that's why you keep seeing him in your dreams. It's not that he was a bad person to you during your apprenticeship.
Or are you in love with your boss or you're destined to be a fashion designer? 🤔🤔🤔

Lol. I mentioned I've no interest in fashion designing. I'm male, he's male. What does it mean? grin
Re: Why Do I Keep Seeing Him In My Dreams? by Wodu89: 2:45pm On Jul 14, 2023
Depriest2020:
You have bright star ⭐✨ which he has taking spiritualy to run his business, you may doubt it but the earlier you seek solution to it the better. Any day you're free from him, you will see yourself fight him in the dream or you will carry things that belongs to you in his shop and walk away with anger and never to return.

NB: no need confronting him phisical, it's a spiritual thing.


And you think it's fine to accuse people in such ways. Smh. May God forgive you
Re: Why Do I Keep Seeing Him In My Dreams? by mariahAngel(f): 2:56pm On Jul 14, 2023
You have unfinished business with your boss and your training, that's why.
Try to finish what you started (even if you don't want to), so that the pattern does not continue in your life.
It's bad not to finish a good thing you started.

How long did you sign up for?
Try to finish and collect your certificate.
Re: Why Do I Keep Seeing Him In My Dreams? by Elistho(m): 3:29pm On Jul 14, 2023
The
mariahAngel:
You have unfinished business with your boss and your training, that's why.
Try to finish what you started (even if you don't want to), so that the pattern does not continue in your life.
It's bad not to finish a good thing you started.

How long did you sign up for?
Try to finish and collect your certificate.

I can really say the purported "life pattern" is superstition. We did no paper agreement, I wanted, he kept post poning the paperwork. Finally, school came, I left for school.
I don't have time to become an apprentice again and I'm not even planning on.
Re: Why Do I Keep Seeing Him In My Dreams? by mariahAngel(f): 3:39pm On Jul 14, 2023
Elistho:
The

I can really say the purported "life pattern" is superstition.
We did no paper agreement, I wanted, he kept post poning the paperwork. Finally, school came, I left for school.
I don't have time to become an apprentice again and I'm not even planning on.

Since there was no paperwork, then it means nothing.
Why then are you worried about the reoccurring dreams?
Re: Why Do I Keep Seeing Him In My Dreams? by Depriest2020: 5:13pm On Jul 14, 2023
Wodu89:



And you think it's fine to accuse people in such ways. Smh. May God forgive you
You won't understand.
Re: Why Do I Keep Seeing Him In My Dreams? by Mantul: 5:18pm On Jul 14, 2023
Pray and ask the revealer of secrets to reveal the meaning to you or visit a true prophetic church
Re: Why Do I Keep Seeing Him In My Dreams? by frozen70(f): 7:50pm On Jul 15, 2023
Elistho:
Straight to the point, last year during the ASUU strike, I decided to learn tailoring. I'm a fast learner so I told myself if I can, I will be an apprentice for just six months, regardless of how good my boss is to me, I'll leave and establish myself.

The relationship between my boss and I was just what it was, no extreme closeness. Irrespective, he was Knowledgeable, we would discuss religion, lifestyle, politics, share little food, etc.

I was just 5 months in the apprenticeship when the strike was called off and I left for school to continue studies, gladly. Because I was tired of learning already, I can say I grasp fast, I currently sew now.

Hitherto, I came back home for holidays, been around for a while. Even though my boss shop is nearby, I don't go there to say "Hi", if I see him on the road, I immediately try dodging him, don't know if it's obvious to him.

Not like I'm proud to go to his shop or greet him when I see him. I'm just the mind your business type and i don't know how to start a convo with him as we're different personalities, so I prefer dodging him on the streets which is always a success.

The bone of contention is, I keep seeing him in my dream world. It's always one pattern of dream, me going to his shop to look for him, he's not always around. Never have I meet him around in the dream scenario, I always meet his wife or aide, I would ask where he is. Sometimes, he would come while I'm going, or sometimes I go to and fro fruitlessly.

I'm beginning to think it's a bad omen on his side, maybe through the dreams, I'm being told he's not fine.. or, what could that mean? Why do I keep going to his shop in my dreams when in reality, I will not near there.

Pragmatically, I think business isn't moving fine with him, he's looking bad than before. Or, does it mean spirit of backwardness in my sewing, I rarely have deals, but it's justifiable because I don't know much people.

I just want to sew to survive, not like I ever dream of being a tailor, I'm a law student so I'm not bothered. Why do I keep going to his shop in my dreams?

Was there any form of freedom from him where your boss prays for you before leaving to celebrate your freedom

He must have seen you or caught you on several occasions that you think you were smart enough to dodge him and he knows all you are doing

I. Think you need to visit him and greet him then over time, you will find out if he is having any hidden or unknown issues with you
Re: Why Do I Keep Seeing Him In My Dreams? by ChybuzzDD(m): 2:48am On Jul 16, 2023
Depriest2020:

You won't understand.

What have you achieved so far in life with your understanding??

Stop creating enmity amongst people with your false dream interpretations.

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Re: Why Do I Keep Seeing Him In My Dreams? by Houseontherock1: 7:29am On Jul 16, 2023
Did your boss 'bless' you officially before you started sowing for money?
Did you pay what he requested for or did you just leave after ASUU called off, with his balance?
Going back and forth without meeting him in the dream may be him angry at you for cheating him if you are owing him...all in all, I think you should meet him one on one and ensure you part amicably this time undecided

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