She should make good friends with her dildø.

It's as simple as that.

shielaAhmed:
You can spend half the time used in writing this epistle in booking a flight back to MMIA












Nonsense 😠

Mama dey vex

CodeTemplar:
she has.

she really came back here?

Loneliness pushed you to sleep with a married man..do these people think they are writing article for 7 year old kids....

You say u are not friendly, u only smile and u wonder why guys are not staying. I am not friendly is not something u should be proud of, especially when u are looking for a partner....guys abroad no get time for nonsense.

Black women are not wanted by any race except black men .....talk about bottom of the food chain

Galaxyss:
Come back make another person go. You have to choose between loneliness and sapaness, you aim to travel was for better opportunity.

See the way you dey reason, bro sometimes everything is not money, when you eventually get the money,you'll want something else.

In naija it's because you don't have the basic things you need and the money you need that's why you don't care about what she's complaining of,by the time you have them, your wants and needs will shift.

The social aspect of staying or living abroad is not as easy as people back home think especially if you're living alone. I was the only black man in a church I attended while in the US.

Urheadmaster:
The same situation over here in Germany very hard to find a friend and worst of it all, they don't speak English which makes it harder

When you are in Rome you do as Romans do.

Join community service groups for public libraries, museums etc.
Integrate or rot into loneliness. Otherwise return to build your own country.

Rahkman:
Black women are not wanted by any race except black men .....talk about bottom of the food chain

Sadly they still tell average blavk guys, you are not my type....person wey no be anybody type dey brag about having a type

It's better for we guys we tend to associate more anywhere if I ever had the chance to go to u.k i must become a roadman..wagwan blud..lol..i'd make alot of white friend we will party till mama call. Back to our Nigeria doctor she's too proud she has ego .. instead of her to go and mk friends she says loneliness wants to kill her. ..if you smile at ur follow black girl and dey smile back
Go and do the talking ...stop waiting for dem to mk d first move.. bitch ass doctoh..

I have never experienced any of these, maybe co's i was born and bred in London E17.


Op, go to pubs, nighclubs, attend colleagues birthday paties, try wetherspoon pubs, yes it can be lonely in the UK sometimes for people who came to live here. Even the people who were born here experience so much loneliness that is why most drink alchohol daily or smokes something. Some work allday and night just to overcome loneliness, some have kids so as to overcome loneliness, Op if you want to have kids to overcome loneliness i will be happy to hook up with you. I am not looking for relationship but i am desparate to have a chilld or children.. i have met many nigerians doctors, psysiotherapists and nurses here in England they appear to be lonely too, even when i invite them to the pub for drinks they don't turn up., one IGBO man a doctor from Enugu i met in Tescos i gave him my number but everytime i call him he is talking about cooking soup or making garri or working i even wanted to introduce him to one of my white woman colleague from work but he couldn't even be bothered to turn up, he keep saying that he will bring his former girlfriend from nigeria, even his former nigerian girlfriend seems to have moved on, i was like guy women plenty here in our island here, why would you wanna bring a girlfriend from Enugu? He is always on watsaap with his Enugu friends, i said to him mate! Forget dem people and start blending in with people over here, start making new friends even in his work, start forking your doctor friends. Problem also is, he doesn't drink alcohol, more than half of Brits goes to the PUB, Pubs are part of British culture.



He didn't even understand the terms of his 2 years work visa, when he told me he might move to london, his visa is tied to his NHS work on our island he cannot just leave, he even said he might move to America from here, i was like yea! Right! How are you gonna do that with your 2 years UK work visa tied to your NHS job? He complains that the hospital where he works are making him work too hard it feels like slavery. I said to him, well... that is what your visa says, "work visa" so work!!

He tells me he went to church to look for other nigerians, (me i am not religious, i don't believe in God) i even organised white girls for him but he is afraid to fork them saying it is a sin . eventually i deleted his number.


One other nigerian woman i know was so lonely one day i visited her in her room, without notice she just took her cloths off and said Kings would you like to fork me? i was like come on! She has already told her landlord and flat mates that i am her cousin, i cannot fork her now.

There are so many women or men to choose from over here, if you want to be noticed you must put yourself out and be ready for lots of relationships disappointments. No body dey look anybody face, people will not come in your room or house to make friends with you, you have to invite them to come and be ready to be invited too, smile, don't carry your problems on ya head and minds always white people have their own problem which are even more than yours

Don't look forward to christmas day co's christmas day is spent indoors in freezing cold winter with families eating, drinking and watching TV shops are not open, no transportation, everything is shut on christmas day.

Op, i mean it, you and I can hook up and make babies even though i have few children already. Just email me, Good luck.

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l feel for u dear, ur experience almost make me cry.....but i don't live in the uk, i would have love to be ur friend .....

Samantha124:
If you get into a relationship with her without understanding how demanding her job is, you'd probably end up being the lonely one...

Because that hospital can just call her in the middle of the night while you're on top of her and ask her to quickly come to the hospital...

Omoawoke:
Loneliness will kill all Nigerian girls in Canada , Uk and US

Insha allah

I remember when I first got to UK, no Nigerian girl looked at my face because I was a student. They didn’t give a shittt about me. The female friends I had weren’t Nigerians, not a single one. They were chasing guys already settled and those ones using them to play wayo

I moved to the US and same thing happened, when I finally finished school and became settled, they came like flies everywhere.

Girls should learn one thing, that single guy that you see still trying to get life settled, working hard to make progress will eventually become successful.
The guys in their 40s that you are clinging to went through same phase. Unfortunately many of them aren’t available anymore. They have been taken.
If you want to make it work, find a responsible guy that truly care about you and work together with him to make progress. Work together as a family, not every time you will meet ready made products

True bro.Hustle with him and grow with him when he makes it, he will always place u above every other girl that comes his way cox he knows that what u have 4 him is true love.

D

IbrahimSkiba:
Duh...


You can't always have what you want..

The rolling stones.

The average Nigerian babes abroad with good job feels like a queen or a goddess. Does not give good or upcoming men a chance. The well to do guys know they are in demand and will keep using and dumping them. Later they will be crying

I don't understand the kind of loneliness the op is talking about. If she's an introvert, I don't think she will be complaining.
Unless she mean loneliness of not getting lubrication and from her write up about meeting men to get engaged with,she's definitely looking for some lubrications.

blazepascal:
It's better for we guys we tend to associate more anywhere if I ever had the chance to go to u.k i must become a roadman..wagwan blud..lol..i'd make alot of white friend we will party till mama call. Back to our Nigeria doctor she's too proud she has ego .. instead of her to go and mk friends she says loneliness wants to kill her. ..if you smile at ur follow black girl and dey smile back
Go and do the talking ...stop waiting for dem to mk d first move.. bitch ass doctoh..

You defo would make a wholy pa frends tired! wif this yo funny waa go wan? and party atitude fam!

Please it's too long someone should help me summarize

Das hat mich auch überrascht

GeneralDae:

Aber warum schreibst du so über Deutschland?

Urheadmaster:
The same situation over here in Germany very hard to find a friend and worst of it all, they don't speak English which makes it harder

Hi bro, how can I reach you please, I'm looking to relocating to Germany

She has waited for 4 year for someone to shot a shot on her, and she is yet to shot her own shot. She should keep waiting..

ednut1:
The average Nigerian babes abroad with good job feels like a queen or a goddess. Does not give good or upcoming men a chance. The well to do guys know they are in demand and will keep using and dumping them. Later they will be crying

What does this mean? I don't understand

I feel for u really. Your story is really touching. You can drop ur contact, let's be friends

Omoawoke:
Loneliness will kill all Nigerian girls in Canada , Uk and US

Insha allah

I remember when I first got to UK, no Nigerian girl looked at my face because I was a student. They didn’t give a shittt about me. The female friends I had weren’t Nigerians, not a single one. They were chasing guys already settled and those ones using them to play wayo

I moved to the US and same thing happened, when I finally finished school and became settled, they came like flies everywhere.

Girls should learn one thing, that single guy that you see still trying to get life settled, working hard to make progress will eventually become successful.
The guys in their 40s that you are clinging to went through same phase. Unfortunately many of them aren’t available anymore. They have been taken.
If you want to make it work, find a responsible guy that truly care about you and work together with him to make progress. Work together as a family, not every time you will meet ready made products

They will not listen allow them to learn the hard way

Maria96:
Continued

GIVE YOUR LIFE TO CHRIST AND LONSLINESS WILL END AUTOMATICALLY.

NO TRUE CHILD OF GOD IS LONELY.

If your not careful in uk depression will tear you apart

Adranidoo:
As Women keep progressing career wise the number of men to consider marry decreases.

U can hire me as a male escort sha, a day = £50

Even with all the money in this world lonliness no be any body mate o

So women should not progress career wise? Are female doctors not getting married in Nigeria? Or you think Nigerian men abroad don't face loneliness as well? Or maybe the non career driven girls abroad are less lonely? What exactly does this have to do with her job? You think the loneliness is just about the absence of a boyfriend? Dude, the western culture makes immigrants lonely regardless of thier careers and gender, and there are many reasons for that.

You guys don't ever miss an opportunity to be sexist even in this century. If women don't do "important jobs" or pursue thier dream career, you say they're useless and that they don't bring anything to the table. When they go out there to hustle or pursue thier dreams, you'd still call it feminism and claim they're not marriable. Nawa

Laughable... just 2 days abroad I don dey smatch knack pretty white ladies up and down... I'm even tired of making friends because anywhere I go I make my presence know

You are the problem bring urself down and looking for ppl in ur class u might find someone that will appreciate u from outside ur class

HacheNoire:
UK is better. Canada is worse. That country should be renamed “Boring”

You will run into depression without knowing you are depressed.

Dont u guys go out ni... parks cinemas mall and all... ...