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Re: Why Did You Finally Decide Character Over Beauty When Picking Your Wife by Olat4421: 9:15pm On Jul 19, 2023 |
Henry22:u are right sha mi sef Dey wonder y all dis girl wey Dey do asoebi nd bride friend Dey fine pass wife 2 Likes |
Re: Why Did You Finally Decide Character Over Beauty When Picking Your Wife by Gagare1(m): 9:20pm On Jul 19, 2023 |
Monman56: Easy as ABC. It was love at first sight for me; I just knew that she is the one. But as a principled man who doesn't double date, I did not even say a word to her until after I walked out of a toxic relationship, and made sure I had enough time to think through (an confirm that I wasn't infatuating). So when I finally opened up to her, it was a straight green light. As soon as parents got involved, then other suitors were told to clear (both our families are strict). She beats my ex on all positive sides. 1 Like |
Re: Why Did You Finally Decide Character Over Beauty When Picking Your Wife by Olat4421: 9:21pm On Jul 19, 2023 |
casualobserver:perfect example mark Zuckerberg nd jef bezoz wife mi wey no get money sef get taste woman taste pass dem |
Re: Why Did You Finally Decide Character Over Beauty When Picking Your Wife by MrSmithy: 9:31pm On Jul 19, 2023 |
Bro!Money can transition every ugly man both woman into being beautiful...just settle with someone with the best character ever and invest money in her then you will understand better that money can change alot of situation. |
Re: Why Did You Finally Decide Character Over Beauty When Picking Your Wife by Moniya4Real(m): 9:48pm On Jul 19, 2023 |
Re: Why Did You Finally Decide Character Over Beauty When Picking Your Wife by MyAmericandream(f): 9:54pm On Jul 19, 2023 |
Re: Why Did You Finally Decide Character Over Beauty When Picking Your Wife by Barnext(m): 9:59pm On Jul 19, 2023 |
Peace of mind.. |
Re: Why Did You Finally Decide Character Over Beauty When Picking Your Wife by Dreadlock69(m): 10:02pm On Jul 19, 2023 |
Characte first . But you as a woman why you go ugly? No offense. My pApa no marry ugly woman . My mama tooo fine with better character . I no fit marry ugly person if you like get character like nelson mandela , nah a disgrace to my mama abeg make unah free me. BeAuty with good character yes Average with good character yes Black or white with good character yes Ugly with good character capital letter no abeg jare 1 Like |
Re: Why Did You Finally Decide Character Over Beauty When Picking Your Wife by Daxray07(m): 10:26pm On Jul 19, 2023 |
I personally don't think anybody is born ugly, most times na hardship dey squeeze people face. Some women that you think are beautiful by our societal standard is due to HIGH maintenance and packaging, bone all those things u dey see online. All those girls with heavy makeup, BBL, puffy lips, skin like milk, Huge mammary glands and fine hair na money and packaging if Dem remove all the artificial things finish for night u go run. If a woman has a presentable physical feature and good character then she can be wifed 100% but hope una no dey confuse ugliness with deformity oh? For the sake of our children. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Did You Finally Decide Character Over Beauty When Picking Your Wife by Moniya4Real(m): 10:30pm On Jul 19, 2023 |
Sense- absolutely, Virginity- I am a sexualy active guy who believes in Loyalty cos I am always loyal to any lady I am with. MyAmericandream: |
Re: Why Did You Finally Decide Character Over Beauty When Picking Your Wife by AfonjaPriest: 10:45pm On Jul 19, 2023 |
Beauty is vain, character is the way. If the dame will bring you pain and shame, refrain or you'll go down with blame. |
Re: Why Did You Finally Decide Character Over Beauty When Picking Your Wife by WantsandMore: 11:01pm On Jul 19, 2023 |
Character is ingrained in DNA. Character is what people do when no one is looking...you need someone with the right ability to approach complexities with Tact and wisdom. These attributes must be common between both gender for a relationship to be stable. |
Re: Why Did You Finally Decide Character Over Beauty When Picking Your Wife by purples25(f): 12:31am On Jul 20, 2023 |
Most men care about beauty, very few care about character, even though character is important. The truth is most men just don't care for character! |
Re: Why Did You Finally Decide Character Over Beauty When Picking Your Wife by Bukola94(m): 6:36am On Jul 20, 2023 |
Jewessgratitud3:u see that fine girl most men are chasing ,they only want to mess with them, fine girls self knows this. U see that your colleague I won't call him simp, that is choice. I bang beautiful ladies, maybe that's what your friend called banks girls or ogbanje girls,fair ladies right? I go bang mummy water if that is what your friends called ogbanje, in fact their vagina got ororo as in oil. That's what Davido have been doing lately, fxcking those ogbanje baby mamas and impreganating them. Beauty is in the eyes, so I choose character, intelligent and home maker extra ( my own type of beauty is brown skin ladies, shining bright like diamond). Please anyone that have pictures that fit my description. Thanks 1 Like |
Re: Why Did You Finally Decide Character Over Beauty When Picking Your Wife by Rechargeam247(f): 7:16am On Jul 20, 2023 |
Lekan239:What a generation, smh. So when the character wife finds out and she leaves, you marry the beautiful side chick, smh. |
Re: Why Did You Finally Decide Character Over Beauty When Picking Your Wife by vickydevoka(m): 7:50am On Jul 20, 2023 |
IconicR:If you stay in diaspora, you don’t have a choice of choosing attitude over beauty .Most girls way niggers go marry bring de wowor, no be say dem no like beauty, nobody woman way go chase am comot for house. Beauty most times is synonymous to bad character. Not all though. God knows how to balance everything in life |
Re: Why Did You Finally Decide Character Over Beauty When Picking Your Wife by Nobody: 8:07am On Jul 20, 2023 |
vickydevoka:😂 Bad Character is an individual thing and not attached to beauty, we have worwor(as you call it) that bad character wise 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Why Did You Finally Decide Character Over Beauty When Picking Your Wife by vickydevoka(m): 8:12am On Jul 20, 2023 |
IconicR:Exactly. I used to think like you, until I carried out a social experiment. Y most beautiful lady end up as baby mama, y are de mostly divorcees. |
Re: Why Did You Finally Decide Character Over Beauty When Picking Your Wife by vickydevoka(m): 8:13am On Jul 20, 2023 |
IconicR:Exactly. I used to think like you, until I carried out a social experiment. Y most beautiful lady end up as baby mama, y are de mostly divorcees. We are talking about statistics here. Same with rich man being loyal in Nigeria. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Why Did You Finally Decide Character Over Beauty When Picking Your Wife by vickydevoka(m): 8:15am On Jul 20, 2023 |
IconicR:Exactly. I used to think like you, until I carried out a social experiment. Y most beautiful lady end up as baby mama, y are de mostly divorcees. We are talking about statistics here. Same with rich man being loyal in Nigeria. The more complet she looks , de more she's gonna give u wahala. Try friend fat girl come give me feed back. Only short girl I de fear. Bcus them go manipulate u ontop love. Them sabi hustle die, dem no de ever leave husband House. 😂 |
Re: Why Did You Finally Decide Character Over Beauty When Picking Your Wife by Nobody: 8:17am On Jul 20, 2023 |
vickydevoka:lol snap out of this mentality so you won't miss out on a beautiful good woman |
Re: Why Did You Finally Decide Character Over Beauty When Picking Your Wife by olempe(m): 8:19am On Jul 20, 2023 |
Coreect! pansophist: |
Re: Why Did You Finally Decide Character Over Beauty When Picking Your Wife by Slurity(m): 8:31am On Jul 20, 2023 |
Monman56:There is a level you will get to in life that you will start to value peace of mind over physical look, that is when you actually become a man that pay attention not to the present alone but future. The sad part of this gist iis that many men never get to this maturity age till they die not only when they want to marry. |
Re: Why Did You Finally Decide Character Over Beauty When Picking Your Wife by TheGift: 9:03am On Jul 20, 2023 |
Monman56: I never had specifications for my Wife, all I wanted was "my Wife" the Woman that gets me and wants me. I never picked my Wife, God picked Her for me, even at a time when I was not looking. Maybe that is why I never had to choose between character and beauty, I got both. |
Re: Why Did You Finally Decide Character Over Beauty When Picking Your Wife by blueAgent(m): 9:30am On Jul 20, 2023 |
Moniya4Real: I totally i agree. 1 Like |
Re: Why Did You Finally Decide Character Over Beauty When Picking Your Wife by blueAgent(m): 9:31am On Jul 20, 2023 |
sparko1: 🤣🤣 |
Re: Why Did You Finally Decide Character Over Beauty When Picking Your Wife by Lekan239(m): 9:47am On Jul 20, 2023 |
Rechargeam247:beautiful without character are not meant fir marriage just side chick. Let those who have ears hear. U can hardly see a beautiful woman that has good character. Maybe 0.5 percent. Because a beautiful girl will attract more man and a girl that men are attractive too would be a manipulator |
Re: Why Did You Finally Decide Character Over Beauty When Picking Your Wife by Franky9584(m): 10:28am On Jul 20, 2023 |
Cos character surpasses beauty (beuaty can fade but character hardly fades)....beauty is external while character is internal... |
Re: Why Did You Finally Decide Character Over Beauty When Picking Your Wife by iammolise(m): 10:44am On Jul 20, 2023 |
Monman56:U get Sense, oil dey ur head brother 🤝 |
Re: Why Did You Finally Decide Character Over Beauty When Picking Your Wife by iammolise(m): 10:47am On Jul 20, 2023 |
fineboynl:hmm... U have wisdom brother ✍️ |
Re: Why Did You Finally Decide Character Over Beauty When Picking Your Wife by iammolise(m): 10:55am On Jul 20, 2023 |
pansophist:Wisdom!!! You are gifted sir ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ |
Re: Why Did You Finally Decide Character Over Beauty When Picking Your Wife by iammolise(m): 11:25am On Jul 20, 2023 |
Fortune118005:very well said brother 🤝 Exactly how I see it, I believe beauty is inborn and summounts the physical attributes of anyone. As a man is beautiful for being a loving and caring man to his spouse despite the responsibilities he shoulders and turbulence in his daily life, so is a woman beautiful when she's caregiving, loving, submissive and respectful even at times when her man isn't as loving as she expected. Like someone said above "We manage people" and I think this is the answer that crowns it all. Love Love Love... e go tire u. |
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