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The Six Basic Guidelines For Women To Get Married In This Economy by Dimaya: 2:34pm On Jul 23, 2023 |
This post is in response to yesterday's frontpage article about things they will not tell you about marriage. see here: https://www.nairaland.com/7773611/things-not-tell-marriage The author practically scared the men and didn't offer any solutions for those women yet to get married, so here are a few things to consider particularly if you're in one of those long-running relationships where one person is having fun, and the other person isn't. More often than not, women tend to be the ones who want a relationship to become a family with children, yet are afraid that any talk of marriage will push the man they're dating, away. So what do you if you're in this situation: According to this video: How to ask the marriage question without threatening him , there are six basic guidelines for women to get married 1. Insist on it. If you want to discuss marriage, you’re going to have to bring the subject up, because many men never will. The economy is bad enough to scare men away. If you keep quiet, he'll be fine with your silence 2. If you find yourself in a dead-end relationship, move on. When a man says he isn’t ready, it usually doesn’t mean he will never marry. Often, it’s because they don’t have enough money. So you need to factor in the the financial readiness of the man you're with particularly with the current high cost of living. If he's unemployed or even worse, If he's still in school , he will not consider marriage until he has been working and living independently for several years. 3. Love yourself first. Avoid eternal bachelors i.e. men who string along women but will never commit. To filter them out, insist that he commit after six months. Then stick to it, no matter what excuses he gives. 1 Like |
Re: The Six Basic Guidelines For Women To Get Married In This Economy by Dimaya: 2:35pm On Jul 23, 2023 |
4. Commit yourself to the idea of getting married If you reach age 30 and want to get married, you have to make finding a husband a primary goal. Again, finances have made it harder for most young men to consider marriage. And once all your female friends start getting married, they are less likely to have an active social life with you. Don’t be the last person to withdraw money from the ATM. It may NOT dispense o. 5. Keep in shape, watch your weight, and take care of your appearance Men are attracted by the physical, but marry character. Dressing appropriately sends the message, “I am wife material.” In other words, don’t dress like a runs/hookup girl. Men see a sexy outfit as an invitation to have sex particularly since many girls are into hookup business nowadays. 6. Time is running out—use time wisely in your search for the marrying man Women who make an effort to seek out the company of single men are more likely to marry i.e. you date more frequently even it’s Mr. Wrong, participate in masculine activities, make lifestyle sacrifices (i.e. changing jobs or moving) to meet eligible men, develop an active social life and go out on Friday and Saturday, when other single people go out. Hope this helps https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=N5A3ReRdJzI |
Re: The Six Basic Guidelines For Women To Get Married In This Economy by Zigzagman: 2:36pm On Jul 23, 2023 |
good one |
Re: The Six Basic Guidelines For Women To Get Married In This Economy by Creamcrest(m): 2:43pm On Jul 23, 2023 |
You must be a buffalo. So you are giving ladies expo on how to marry in this shege promax season? 1 Like |
Re: The Six Basic Guidelines For Women To Get Married In This Economy by Dimaya: 2:48pm On Jul 23, 2023 |
Creamcrest:i'm an equal opportunity employer |
Re: The Six Basic Guidelines For Women To Get Married In This Economy by ideamonster: 3:00pm On Jul 23, 2023 |
ok |
Re: The Six Basic Guidelines For Women To Get Married In This Economy by Dimaya: 8:11pm On Jul 23, 2023 |
There has always been hard times. |
Re: The Six Basic Guidelines For Women To Get Married In This Economy by Tayorshd87: 10:34pm On Jul 23, 2023 |
Incredible |
Re: The Six Basic Guidelines For Women To Get Married In This Economy by Dimaya: 10:40am On Jul 24, 2023 |
Still waiting for Kobojunkie's approval on this one 😅 |
Re: The Six Basic Guidelines For Women To Get Married In This Economy by Dimaya: 3:30pm On Jul 24, 2023 |
Tayorshd87: What do you disagree with? |
Re: The Six Basic Guidelines For Women To Get Married In This Economy by ideamonster: 4:33pm On Jul 24, 2023 |
Creamcrest: no mind the idiot |
Re: The Six Basic Guidelines For Women To Get Married In This Economy by Dimaya: 8:52pm On Jul 24, 2023 |
ideamonster: |
Re: The Six Basic Guidelines For Women To Get Married In This Economy by Tayorshd87: 10:31pm On Jul 24, 2023 |
Dimaya:What works for me A may not work for Mr B . Meaning it doesn't apply to all human rather only to some |
Re: The Six Basic Guidelines For Women To Get Married In This Economy by ideamonster: 1:44pm On Jul 25, 2023 |
Tayorshd87: there's nothing that works for everybody 1 Like |
Re: The Six Basic Guidelines For Women To Get Married In This Economy by ImaIma1(f): 6:14pm On Jul 25, 2023 |
Just live your life and be busy with things that matter while developing yourself. The right person will find you. 5 Likes |
Re: The Six Basic Guidelines For Women To Get Married In This Economy by Dimaya: 1:07am On Jul 26, 2023 |
ideamonster: That's true |
Re: The Six Basic Guidelines For Women To Get Married In This Economy by ideamonster: 1:39pm On Jul 26, 2023 |
ImaIma1: Amen ! |
Re: The Six Basic Guidelines For Women To Get Married In This Economy by Dimaya: 5:00pm On Jul 26, 2023 |
ideamonster: Na so the thing dey pepper you 😂 |
Re: The Six Basic Guidelines For Women To Get Married In This Economy by GboyegaD(m): 5:06pm On Jul 26, 2023 |
The only advice I will give to anyone will be to be themselves at all times irrespective of who is watching. |
Re: The Six Basic Guidelines For Women To Get Married In This Economy by Dimaya: 5:35pm On Jul 26, 2023 |
GboyegaD: Even if the person has a terrible Character? |
Re: The Six Basic Guidelines For Women To Get Married In This Economy by GboyegaD(m): 6:35pm On Jul 26, 2023 |
Dimaya: Everyone knows what a good or bad character is therefore, what that means is that each should work on been the best version of him/herself. |
Re: The Six Basic Guidelines For Women To Get Married In This Economy by Proserpina: 12:14am On Jul 27, 2023 |
Re: The Six Basic Guidelines For Women To Get Married In This Economy by Dimaya: 11:22am On Jul 27, 2023 |
ImaIma1: |
Re: The Six Basic Guidelines For Women To Get Married In This Economy by Dimaya: 8:43pm On Jul 27, 2023 |
ImaIma1: that's actually terrible advice. The only person who will find you will be PHCN bill collector |
Re: The Six Basic Guidelines For Women To Get Married In This Economy by ImaIma1(f): 5:51pm On Jul 28, 2023 |
Dimaya: PHCN bill find you at your office, at the cinema or wherever you are enjoying yourself. You assume living your life means staying indoors. |
Re: The Six Basic Guidelines For Women To Get Married In This Economy by ImaIma1(f): 6:01pm On Jul 28, 2023 |
Proserpina: I am good. Thanks. Just been busy; taking my own advice. |
Re: The Six Basic Guidelines For Women To Get Married In This Economy by Dimaya: 6:44pm On Jul 28, 2023 |
ImaIma1: Now this is hilarious 😂 |
Re: The Six Basic Guidelines For Women To Get Married In This Economy by ideamonster: 10:52am On Jul 29, 2023 |
don't get married in this economy |
Re: The Six Basic Guidelines For Women To Get Married In This Economy by ideamonster: 1:02pm On Jul 29, 2023 |
things will get better but don't bring another persons daughter into your suffering. e get why |
Re: The Six Basic Guidelines For Women To Get Married In This Economy by ideamonster: 5:43pm On Aug 04, 2023 |
interesting thoughts |
Re: The Six Basic Guidelines For Women To Get Married In This Economy by ideamonster: 12:36pm On Aug 24, 2023 |
nobody knows |
Re: The Six Basic Guidelines For Women To Get Married In This Economy by Dimaya: 5:42pm On Jan 05 |
ideamonster: is this dude still alive? |
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