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The Men Who Got Away by ideamonster: 7:04pm On Jul 22, 2023 |
About 5 years ago when Hilda, a gorgeous, 23 year old polytechnic student decided to break up with her boyfriend chuks, she did so because "he was too jealous of the attention I am receiving from male classmates". What no one told her, was that chuks would soon be the guy she would benchmark and compare every other boyfriend that came after against. Over a three month period, Hilda's mom begged her to make the relationship work. Her mom couldn't seem to understand the reasons why Hilda wanted to end things with Chuks. After all, he was Igbo, a successful merchant, a devout catholic and a family-oriented man. He came from a responsible family, exceptionally generous and had a good head on his shoulders. Her mom didn't realise that Hilda felt Chuks was too safe. He was too serious, careful about the world and wanted to know everything she was up to. And Hilda wanted to be free. She broke things off and smiled gleefully as he shed tears, begging her to give their relationship one more chance. Heartbroken, Chuks would go on a year later to marry a young lady that his family arranged from their hometown. Every week after their break up, Hilda would get invited on dates by random men she bumped into on the streets of Lagos and during the course of events that she catered. Her week was the same: Monday through Friday, instagram, facebook and whatsapp would fill with invitations to go out on a date. Friday evening from 4pm till Sunday Nights, it was one outing after another hosting suitors, visiting them in their homes, attending a night party/event or just enjoying a light bottle of wine together in a cozy hotel room. At the year's end, she'd had over 50 dates. Four years, 200 dates later, not one guy spoke of marriage. They all enjoyed her company but stopped replying her messages once she hinted at a wedding. One of her dates had even[i] proposed to pay her[/i] to be a surrogate-mother/ pregnancy carrier for his babies. No engagement ring. In the fifth year, she reached out to Chuks to apologize for the break up. Then this happened. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Dz8ZVqReCJ0 https://www.nairaland.com/7773201/these-leftover-women-now-regret 1 Like |
Re: The Men Who Got Away by Dimaya: 7:05pm On Jul 22, 2023 |
Re: The Men Who Got Away by Kobojunkie: 7:29pm On Jul 22, 2023 |
ideamonster:This na seriously useless story una dey spread. The person wey write this seriously needs to get his head checked. 5 Likes |
Re: The Men Who Got Away by ideamonster: 7:47pm On Jul 22, 2023 |
what's useless about it? |
Re: The Men Who Got Away by Kobojunkie: 7:51pm On Jul 22, 2023 |
ideamonster:Think about it yourself naw! Come on! She abandoned chuks because she felt chuks was too controlling then and then 5 years later, she decided that maybe she should maybe manage chuks or hope that Chuks has changed for the better during that period. Did she commit any sin? Why does anyone need to care about this? 2 Likes |
Re: The Men Who Got Away by Dimaya: 10:51am On Jul 23, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: chuks got married a year after she broke things off. And here she is now bragging that she's far better than his wife https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Z2hppHc_wFU i first watched the short clip when it hit nairaland front page about two months ago. Then i went to find the full video. 1 Like |
Re: The Men Who Got Away by Kobojunkie: 11:44am On Jul 23, 2023 |
Dimaya:So what? Una too care about some of the lame-est of issues. 2 Likes |
Re: The Men Who Got Away by Saintmary(f): 4:13pm On Jul 23, 2023 |
If for any reason you, as a woman, ever find yourself wishing for your ex back, it means you have not done any work on yourself. You are in a rut. You are betraying yourself. This is why: Something must have pushed you away from that guy, an intuition that something is wrong somewhere, even if you can't see it clearly. Now, turning around to eat your words makes you a double minded person that can't be trusted to keep to your words no matter how painful the journey becomes. If you can't trust yourself, no one should trust you. This is the closure you need: your ex found a woman who can tolerate whatever it is you can't tolerate, let go. Face front, be a better person, make better money, and see how exes will become like poop in your eyes. Bye. P. S. If you're a male and you feel triggered by this post, don't quote me, just go and drink your beer jejely. 7 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: The Men Who Got Away by Biglittlelois(f): 4:27pm On Jul 23, 2023 |
Saintmary: This I endorse 💯 2 Likes |
Re: The Men Who Got Away by Dimaya: 8:19pm On Jul 23, 2023 |
Saintmary: Great submission |
Re: The Men Who Got Away by Saintmary(f): 8:22pm On Jul 23, 2023 |
Biglittlelois: |
Re: The Men Who Got Away by ideamonster: 4:03pm On Jul 24, 2023 |
Saintmary: why do women always feel they can do better? |
Re: The Men Who Got Away by Saintmary(f): 5:51pm On Jul 24, 2023 |
2 Likes |
Re: The Men Who Got Away by Dimaya: 7:23pm On Jul 24, 2023 |
Saintmary: this one wey dem serve you hot breakfast for dinner |
Re: The Men Who Got Away by Proserpina: 7:46pm On Jul 24, 2023 |
3 Likes |
Re: The Men Who Got Away by Dimaya: 8:46pm On Jul 24, 2023 |
Proserpina: Read the post and watch the video |
Re: The Men Who Got Away by Proserpina: 8:47pm On Jul 24, 2023 |
Re: The Men Who Got Away by Dimaya: 8:54pm On Jul 24, 2023 |
Proserpina: |
Re: The Men Who Got Away by Dimaya: 8:56pm On Jul 24, 2023 |
@prosperina, I was the one who copied the video from another thread and posted it here. Dimaya: |
Re: The Men Who Got Away by Dimaya: 8:58pm On Jul 24, 2023 |
Proserpina: It's a long running story that was posted here about 2 months ago. Ideamonster lifted my post from romance and placed it here. |
Re: The Men Who Got Away by Saintmary(f): 11:41pm On Jul 24, 2023 |
Dimaya: You want to put your finger in my throat, but I won't address you, my major focus is on my intended audience: women |
Re: The Men Who Got Away by ideamonster: 3:16pm On Jul 26, 2023 |
Saintmary: |
Re: The Men Who Got Away by Zigzagman: 12:56pm On Jul 29, 2023 |
Dimaya: So what's the gist of the story |
Re: The Men Who Got Away by ideamonster: 7:21pm On Jul 29, 2023 |
Zigzagman: make hay while the sun shines. Opportunities of a lifetime have to be used within the lifetime of the opportunity. thats the gist of the story 1 Like |
Re: The Men Who Got Away by Zigzagman: 2:55pm On Aug 09, 2023 |
still on this story |
Re: The Men Who Got Away by ideamonster: 12:27pm On Aug 24, 2023 |
Zigzagman: where are you bro? |
Re: The Men Who Got Away by ideamonster: 4:13pm On Aug 27, 2023 |
Saintmary: hmmn |
Re: The Men Who Got Away by Dimaya: 6:07pm On Oct 04, 2023 |
Zigzagman: been a while bro |
Re: The Men Who Got Away by Dimaya: 4:35pm On Nov 06, 2023 |
Always |
Re: The Men Who Got Away by TheDarkporeShow: 4:46pm On Dec 30, 2023 |
ideamonster: this happens when people don't properly assess what they need to start a family: Tell yourself the truth about women's expectations because most marriages end up cause the man does not understand the expectations of the woman he has married. |
Re: The Men Who Got Away by Magnoliaa(f): 5:32pm On Dec 30, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: A very useless one. 🤣🤣 2 Likes |
Re: The Men Who Got Away by Magnoliaa(f): 5:34pm On Dec 30, 2023 |
ideamonster: Because there are better, good men? Abi are you all the same? 3 Likes |
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