TheDarkGamer:
On the topic of masturbation, think about things psychologically. Porn and masturbation affects your dopamine and reward system in your brain.

Not only is it an addiction for a lot of men on the planet, but you are being rewarded (orgasm) for not achieving the goal your brain thinks it has (actual sex). It also affects the way you think about the opposite sex and you would probably view see them purely as sexual commodities.

Also, question why men feel how they feel before and after masturbation. What is the scientific importance of post nut clarity?

This is a topic that can be expanded on.

Men, understand that when you watch porn you are watching a man fvcking a woman you would like to fvck. You are basically cuckolding yourself. You are training your brain to getting off to seeing another man getting pleasure from a woman you are attracted to.

luminouz:

Boss...I don try avoid all this masturbation brouhaha but I have to tell you this.

I'm one of those men who have NEVER masturbated in their lives. It doesn't matter whether girls no dey my side or I have no relationship, I personally find it irritating to beat my own meat. Even if I no get pussy again for the rest of my life, I still won't do it. I understand the need to release stress but you need to control that urge. It's the inability to channel the sexual energy properly that causes either simping or masturbation.

Now, when you combine an alpha frame with a mentality like mine, pussy will always come, whether you like it or not. And when pussy is scarce, you maintain frame and do other things.

My one cent

I admire that you never masturbated. I am fighting against the urge constantly. The longest I went was 170 days, 5 months and a half.

luminouz:

Boss...I don try avoid all this masturbation brouhaha but I have to tell you this.

I'm one of those men who have NEVER masturbated in their lives. It doesn't matter whether girls no dey my side or I have no relationship, I personally find it irritating to beat my own meat. Even if I no get pussy again for the rest of my life, I still won't do it. I understand the need to release stress but you need to control that urge. It's the inability to channel the sexual energy properly that causes either simping or masturbation.

Now, when you combine an alpha frame with a mentality like mine, pussy will always come, whether you like it or not. And when pussy is scarce, you maintain frame and do other things.

My one cent

you dont have enough sex drive,libido or whatever they call it. how i wish i can transfer some to you so that i will live freely without having to feel the urges everyday anytime

Alexgeneration:
While you're swallowing the redpill, I would advise every man here to get their money up.

Get a skill that will give you the opportunity not to be sacked by anyone. GO LEARN TRADING.

I can help a few people who are willing to make good money before Christmas but they must take only the trade I call out.

I am willing but how do I even start? I don't know jack about online trading

heartofcity12:
Never feel pressured to impress hos.. They’ll be the first to laugh and mock you when things go south..

Amazing message, thank you. I am implementing this in my life everyday.

heartofcity12:
Rich simps tho.. big cash out to her.

Many of these celebrities are witches... yes, actual real witches who use magic and suchlike. I wouldn't be surprised if he's under a spell or something. They also cast spells in their concert, their music videos and so on.

kachiz:


Well, well

He no get sense.

Or it was all fake from the beginning.

Haydens:
IF you keep simping, remember that one day, you'll kiss your bride in the front of her 27 exes, 10 besties who have fvcked and dumped her, her favorite one-night stand guy and her 5 sugar daddies which she introduced as her uncles.

They'll eat your food recklessly like they did to your Wife.

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Datedoboy:
I had to take time to think deeply on this and i came to this conclusion

Ladies that say the following
1. I can't date a poor man
2. I can't marry a man who can't cater for my needs
3. I can't date a broke guy
4. Who love help?

You see ladies that makes these statements i have studied them for a while and i discovered that over 90 percent of them are not virgins.

A virgin girl won't make these statements cos she will be thinking about love but once a girl has been ran through and dumped by her first lover, she doesn't feel love anymore. She starts saying who love help e.t.c

To her, it's now about money. Just like sluts that stand on the highway, it's men that have money that she hunts showing him what i call balloon love. Love that looks big on d outside but is filled with air.

The only difference is that, why hoes stand on d highways, these ones don't stand. They sit in churches, schools and offices looking for a money man.

This is the danger of marrying an experienced woman. She doesn't love you for who you are. It's about what you have.

And the sad part is that if what you have is gone, she leaves or quietly sleeps with other of her customers under your roof.

In summary, a man cannot get true love from a non virgin woman. The best gift a woman can give you us not her money but her purity but these women that says the 4 things listed above, don't have it.

They say women love conditionally but i say No, in most cases, it's non virgins that do so. Virgins love unconditionally.[sub][/sub]

What an insight! I made the same observation. These same girls talking about material things were not saying that when they were 17 year old virgins. In most cases, they can't receive and appreciate a man's love anymore. Only money do it for them. And since they make the majority of society, it gives the impression that money is the key to women while, in reality, masculinity and authenticity is the key.

chenny360:
That's it... have money or nothing for you..
That's if you want to impress whores ..

Yes. If you want to impress women who have already given their all to other men and didn't heal from it.

heartofcity12:
..

My mother taught me this. Once a woman has done that, she can't stop. My pathetic self was actually debating her on this. How stupid I was.

heartofcity12:
#trp

This guy is a pournstar and a homosexual. That is very far from masculine.

Karlifate:
There are only 3 things that will universally win you Status in any group:

••• Power 💪

••• Wealth 💰

••• Good Looks 😎

If you wield Power, and have immense Wealth, and you are Good Looking, that will win you Status in literally 100% of groups on the planet. 💯


Your level of Power, determines the level of your Influence.

No, money is not power. That's an evil message.

DieRich5:

None of these guys is successful.

Smartb0y:
For all "those" repentant hoes.

It's you against your biology.
If you couldn't hold yourself back before damaging your body,why would you think you can hold yourself back after damaging your body.

Stop deceiving yourselves.

You cannot be saved.

My mother said the same.

https://www.nairaland.com/6048178/reality-every-guy-need-know/1991#122459495

Pornography and masturbation are very bad habits, they are delusional, they do not reflect reality, women don't have sexual urges like men, women don't typically furck like pornstars, women need security, women weaponize your lust, women are very manipulative and would make sure that sex with you cost you a lot, you fantasize, you lust, you better slap yourself back to reality, you can never in your lifetime get that harem, sex is hard, getting pussy is extremely difficult, better go hustle and better your life, women respect power not lust and the reality of majority of men is that they will be losers all their lives and will never get power.

I agreed with you up to the part where you said 'pvssy' is difficult, which isn't. After going 5 months and a half on monk mode, I realized that pvssy is not hard, guys are just fake.

heartofcity12:
I’m glad men are speaking up these days. You can’t even sign in on SM anymore without seeing unclad women everywhere.. 🤦

That man is bitter. I hope he eventually heals. This is what the redpill does to many men.

heartofcity12:
Someone he should have just hit and run or he’s probably just taking her for a ride.. 🤷🏼

Women love boys because they want control.

qbqetell:
Purple pilled men and SIMPs would make you believe redpill is impractical.
They would make you believe it doesn't align with reality.
It is all a lie.
They are scared little men.
They are unable to muster up the courage to exit the matrix, into reality.
They dig into the ground to find all sorts of lies and excuses.
Do not be fooled.
The redpill is a very bitter drug to take, but it is the most healthy.
Take your pill now and live the rest of your life in good mental and psychological health

The redpill is a scam and a fantasy.

luminouz:
I have a confession.


Yesterday would have been my first day or time of sleeping with a married woman, if not for the redpill.

So here we go:

I saw her and she looked darn good. We exchanged numbers and talked a bit. She kept talking of her husband and I asked her what dafuq do you want from me if you have that. She said the marriage is one of convenience and not love. I asked her, why not divorce?

She said it wasn't the right time. Ok. Fast forward to yesterday, she was in my area and asked to come over. I agreed and when she entered, she looked real good. Tall, with big ass and all that. She has smoked weed and I could smell it on her breath. We gisted and she kept staring at me, biting her lips. Strangely, my diick woke up and started doing pushups in my boxers. She drew close and hugged me and for a moment, just a moment, a brief flash of her mouth sucking my dick went through my mind and I knew I had to retake control. I drew back and asked her why she was with me. She said she liked my looks and my accent. She said her husband irritated her and she doesn't love him. He needed help and she married him out of pity (for insurance or some shiit). She married him in February and made love with him last two weeks ago.

In my mind, I was like... Thank God for redpill. Any simp.would have 'pitied' her damsel in distress BS story and fuqed her and become entangled in her entanglement. Not me though, not this nigga. I just drew away and told her I had an appointment soon(I was scheduled to go out with my homie, who coincidentally called at that point too) and we would talk or gist later.

She took it in her stride and hugged me before she left. Later that night, she sent me a message that she didn't even wear panties and she was so sure I would fuq her. That I didn't and showed some restraint was fuqin sexy and now, she would do all she can to win me. I sent a smiley. I'm not fuqin with a married woman but she could be useful in other ways.

N.B: For all the single and married men out there, vet your woman biko..e get why. This one puts her ring on all SM platforms. She wore it to my house sef. I would have fuqed her with it, if I wanted to. Yet her darling husband has gone out of state on a trip to hustle for his 'loving family' while his loving wife was frizzing around me hoping to taste my black diick.

You can't love women if you truly know them like I do. Just look at them as adult children and you will be fine.

Women are absolutely not like children. They lack one thing that is fundamental to childhood: innocence.

Kipaji:



What an insight! I made the same observation. These same girls talking about material things were not saying that when they were 17 year old virgins. In most cases, they can't receive and appreciate a man's love anymore. Only money do it for them. And since they make the majority of society, it gives the impression that money is the key to women while, in reality, masculinity and authenticity is the key.

Brother, nothing is key to women! They cheats when it suits them, leave when it suits them and stay only if it still suits them. There's no formula that works 100% of the time to keep women or men in relationships.

Try see women as an employee, they pretend to love the job and are very punctual because it's an integral part of their life and without it, sustainability is zero. Try giving them a more lucrative job[in the case of women/men in relationship; a better alternative], and most will leave.

Have it at the back of your mind that your woman is with you because she weighed her options, and according to her, you were the best amongst her options.

We can only hope they don't bring home bastar.ds for us to raise as ours, is the best a man can hope for during this our social media era.

Carcholce:


I am surprised you say you are a medical student but you are saying this. There’s difference between sperm and semen.

Are you a medical student? Lol. Dey play.
I'm a writer as well, and I know the art of communicating to my audience. When I choose to use the word ( "sperm" ) to mean Spermatozoa + whatever fluids accompany them, I do it for a reason, which is for EVERYONE to be able to picture where I'm driving to. Check my shîtposts on Nairaland, and you'll realize I use broken English a lot + layman terms when commenting, and e get why.

The average man thinks he's seeing his sperms whenever he ejaculates. If he ejaculates 3 times a day, he'll see the "sperms" all three times a day. And that thing never dries up. Three times the next day, and he still sees the "sperm".

I deliberately used "Sperm", and I will continue to use "sperm" instead of Semen. Lol. Dey play.

I was thaught Embryology (including Spermatogenesis) and Reproductive Systems by highly respected Doctors in the country, and that was tae tae in my 200L, Mr Lecturer. Lol. Do you think you can do a better job than my Lecturers? Dey play

Carcholce:

The only solution to the OP you quoted is to learn the act of having sex without ejaculation.

...and NO. Don't you realize that I'm trying to liberate OP from being a slave to SEX?

I suggested that he gets a girlfriend and makeout regularly WITHOUT FÙCKING (and I was very specific on that). Why? Because the urge to fûck is stronger than the urge to cuddle and shït. Scientifically proven.

After mastering the art of cuddling girls and kissing and shït without actually fûcking them, your brain rewires itself to see girls in a different light (a milder light) which will be a solution to over liking sex. You become in control of girls and their sex appeal. I don't expect you to totally understand this sha.

So no, sex without ejaculation is NOT A SOLUTION AT ALL. IT WILL IN FACT EXACERBATE THE PROBLEM. LOL

P.S
Good luck telling an Olosho "I no cum". This is my proverb to help you understand why I'm teaching OP with the personal procedure I suggested.

PureFace1:
Nairaland don't have enough information for Redpill.


Visit www.sosuave.com Forum and www.forums.red for more articles on Redpills and they are both international forums. They cover all aspects of relationships with women

forums.red is a club for bitter men.

logicalhumour:

Are you a medical student? Lol. Do you think you can do a better job than my Lecturers ? Dey play

Give me your lecturers number, I will educate him on inner engineering. He will be humbled and call you to tell you how sorry he is to have miseducate you.

KennethIbe59:
Kings in the house, if I may ask. What are the benefits of Semen Retention.

I just did 170 days--5 months and a half--of semen retention. I would be more than happy to give you a thorough answer. I will save your question and answer it later.

Afrobasic:

So many women preying on men's bitterness, low self-esteem, and gullibility in "redpill" online spaces. These women couldn't give two sh.ts about men. And I suspect some of these accounts are managed by men posing as women.

Karlifate:
Be kind, not foolish.

This tweeter is too deep into the matrix. I hope he eventually heals and gets out. There is nothing wrong with being a nice guy. You are being manipulated not because you are nice but because you are weak and gullible.

Your girl telling u she has a male bestie is another form of manipulation.
There is nothing like bestie' he is just ur deputy or governor drilling the same hole with u..

Kipaji:


The bolded only applies to conventionally average to attractive women. Conventionally unattractive women are living a much different life.

Dear Ubunja, please could you do a piece on unattractive women?

These women are forgotten by society and invisible to men. They are, in many regards, like men in female bodies. They don't get those 1000+ guys simping over them. They don't get favors just because they are women. They are not being invited on dates. They don't get princess treatment. They are not getting sex despite craving it. They are even more deprived of love. They are not getting male attention and remember dearly every hint of male attention they manage to get. They cannot relate to the average female experience. But they are here among us in society. After listening many of these women, I got a broader perspective of women and humans. Please Ubunja, if you have time/inspiration, your perspective of unconventionally attractive women would be greatly appreciated. Thanks.

Here is an online forum for that kind of women: https://www.reddit.com/r/ForeverAloneWomen/ (If you are not on reddit, open the link on your laptop).

I’m on the Forever alone women on Reddit. I pity these women tbh

luminouz:


I am willing but how do I even start? I don't know jack about online trading

You need to go to YouTube and search for forex beginners videos.

Go to babypipsdotcom and read up.

heartofcity12:
...

I don't like sluts. I don't even look at them or pay them attention.