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| Have You Ever Been Ghosted By Your Partner? Share Your Experience. by blessingnenye(f): 5:32pm On Jul 29, 2023 |
Have you been ghosted by a partner? Such feelings can inflict an untold pain in any individual. It is so devastating. Your relationship was awesome, you can hardly go a day without checking up on each other. Your communication was so effective in such that the absence might signal anxiety and self imposed fear. All of a sudden, they stopped calling you, they stopped chatting. They became so cold, distant and unavailable. Even when you try to do that, is either you are completely ignored or you get a cold and brief response. You attempt to visit, they keep giving you one and thousands excuses just to scare you away. They just disappeared out of the blues leaving you in the cloud. You keep wondering what you did or what went wrong. No closure, no explanation or at least an opportunity to apologize in case you erred unknowingly or did something to them unintentionally. They just backed out completely leaving you pondering if the relationship is over. A lot of folks had gone trough this phase or currently undergoing it at the moment. No matter how strong, skillful or competent you are, rejection sucks and kills one’s esteem/ ego. Being ghosted by a partner makes you assume you ain’t good enough for the one giving you such rejection. 43 Likes 3 Shares |
| Re: Have You Ever Been Ghosted By Your Partner? Share Your Experience. by Dimaya: 3:43pm On Jul 30, 2023 |
There's a psychology behind ghosting. More often than not, it's young women who frequently ghost men for this reason: If your girlfriend is between the ages of 18-25, she's always being hit upon (toasted) by several men. It so happens while she's dating you, she will meet guys who are better than you. Rather than break things off, she will take a break from the relationship to try the new guy out. She won't return your calls, spend weekends unavailable, appear to be moody. She's testing the waters with new guy while still guaranteed your commitment. At that moment, you're her backup plan. If new guy is better/richer/funkier and if he offers commitment, after a month of ghosting you, she will break things off officially. If the dude doesn't match you, she'll make up some BS reason to return. Ghosting is the warning sign your competition is auditioning for her affection. Don't just take my word for it, there are countless examples where this actually happened. Listen to the guys in this video narrate how their girlfriends ghosted them for over a week and a month. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FrXVbs-1fhA Now ask yourself if that's not what happened. If a woman ghosts you, 100% there's someone else. My advice: Cut your losses and move on. 128 Likes 14 Shares |
| Re: Have You Ever Been Ghosted By Your Partner? Share Your Experience. by Risingblue008(m): 4:47pm On Jul 30, 2023 |
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| Re: Have You Ever Been Ghosted By Your Partner? Share Your Experience. by Emeskhalifa(m): 4:47pm On Jul 30, 2023 |
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| Re: Have You Ever Been Ghosted By Your Partner? Share Your Experience. by NamelessOGBENI(m): 4:48pm On Jul 30, 2023 |
Once I see the signs, I no dey bother resurrect Lazarus again. You ghost me, I pay homage to the dead and move on 151 Likes 10 Shares |
| Re: Have You Ever Been Ghosted By Your Partner? Share Your Experience. by Heroicvic(m): 4:48pm On Jul 30, 2023 |
As a guy, I've once ghosted my girl for a month due to financial issue .. See some of us do this as we don't have better option to think of, not that we're evil or wicked Infact you won't understand 120 Likes 3 Shares |
| Re: Have You Ever Been Ghosted By Your Partner? Share Your Experience. by IPG25(m): 4:48pm On Jul 30, 2023 |
Humans being are very terrible, this opposite gender especially 4 Likes |
| Re: Have You Ever Been Ghosted By Your Partner? Share Your Experience. by kkins25(m): 4:49pm On Jul 30, 2023 |
I've had like 3 partners in this life... so no.. 😂 1 Like |
| Re: Have You Ever Been Ghosted By Your Partner? Share Your Experience. by armyjassy101(m): 4:49pm On Jul 30, 2023 |
We were all ghosted by Buhari the shockerholic 10 Likes |
| Re: Have You Ever Been Ghosted By Your Partner? Share Your Experience. by santakris(m): 4:49pm On Jul 30, 2023 |
 Just the way Tunufbu ghosted Nigerians. 18 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Have You Ever Been Ghosted By Your Partner? Share Your Experience. by taiwotimitt: 4:49pm On Jul 30, 2023 |
Normally, dem no dey ghost idan. Na Idan dey ghost people 16 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Have You Ever Been Ghosted By Your Partner? Share Your Experience. by narite: 4:50pm On Jul 30, 2023 |
Yeah! Ghosting almost 4 to 5 ladies right now. I got sick of them all, too tired and kind to tell them I am done. It my hope they are intelligent enough to get the message. 44 Likes 4 Shares |
| Re: Have You Ever Been Ghosted By Your Partner? Share Your Experience. by Nobody: 4:50pm On Jul 30, 2023 |
The best way to handle such is to fo  forget about the person too1 Like |
| Re: Have You Ever Been Ghosted By Your Partner? Share Your Experience. by blesskewe(f): 4:50pm On Jul 30, 2023 |
This happened to me of recent, he ghosted me for 3months..... Just this week, he just came up Wanting to continue the relationship Without Explanation Ntn 38 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: Have You Ever Been Ghosted By Your Partner? Share Your Experience. by Zigzagman: 4:51pm On Jul 30, 2023 |
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| Re: Have You Ever Been Ghosted By Your Partner? Share Your Experience. by 1metre: 4:52pm On Jul 30, 2023 |
You only can get ghosted if you live life without understanding your heart vibration. Not everyone must be your friend. 15 Likes |
| Re: Have You Ever Been Ghosted By Your Partner? Share Your Experience. by concho(m): 4:53pm On Jul 30, 2023 |
Currently ghosting my partner Had bank issues and doesnt have access to funds this weekend. She was the first I told and didn't even bother to ask her for money since she is always claiming that she doesn't have. Only for me to overheard her female friend on phone telling her “thanks my love, God should keep blessing you so you send me more “ She sent her money yesterday when we had non at home thinking I won't find out. 58 Likes 5 Shares |
| Re: Have You Ever Been Ghosted By Your Partner? Share Your Experience. by lakefist(m): 4:55pm On Jul 30, 2023 |
Yes, painful but man moved on and God lifted man beyond his comprehension. 11 Likes |
| Re: Have You Ever Been Ghosted By Your Partner? Share Your Experience. by SweetDipBenny(m): 4:55pm On Jul 30, 2023 |
kkins25:And d all ghosted u 1 Like |
| Re: Have You Ever Been Ghosted By Your Partner? Share Your Experience. by IyaTola: 4:57pm On Jul 30, 2023 |
It is cruel, I prefer closure. The Ghoster may feel they are doing the best thing by not hurting the Ghostee's feelings. As a Ghostee, it hurts and he/she will wonder what went wrong. This exactly what I did to my current man.. I no even dey pick his call again.... I wan focus on my life abeg....I need my own attention... But to be honest, the reason I didn't say anything to him (about me excommunicating myself from him) is to ensure my coming back to him .I can cook up any story about my absence ( that's if another woman no wa take him oo).... 4 Likes |
| Re: Have You Ever Been Ghosted By Your Partner? Share Your Experience. by WantsandMore: 4:57pm On Jul 30, 2023 |
concho:wow. In God we should truly trust my Bruh... That's crazy. 1 Like |
| Re: Have You Ever Been Ghosted By Your Partner? Share Your Experience. by tunjilee003: 4:59pm On Jul 30, 2023 |
concho:or your babe is lesb 9 Likes |
| Re: Have You Ever Been Ghosted By Your Partner? Share Your Experience. by kezienaira: 5:00pm On Jul 30, 2023 |
concho: Exactly she always claims she doesn't have 🤣 9 Likes |
| Re: Have You Ever Been Ghosted By Your Partner? Share Your Experience. by oluwaseyi0: 5:00pm On Jul 30, 2023 |
ty 1 Like |
| Re: Have You Ever Been Ghosted By Your Partner? Share Your Experience. by tunjilee003: 5:01pm On Jul 30, 2023 |
Currently,I ghosted my gf,travelled 10km to pay her a visit, while using her phine she used another guy as her wallpaper, ever since then i didn't even bother to call her...its been two weeks now.. 38 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: Have You Ever Been Ghosted By Your Partner? Share Your Experience. by concho(m): 5:02pm On Jul 30, 2023 |
tunjilee003:what made you think so ? |
| Re: Have You Ever Been Ghosted By Your Partner? Share Your Experience. by concho(m): 5:03pm On Jul 30, 2023 |
kezienaira:I don't understand |
| Re: Have You Ever Been Ghosted By Your Partner? Share Your Experience. by promisedeco(m): 5:04pm On Jul 30, 2023 |
concho:Are you being serious? 6 Likes
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| Re: Have You Ever Been Ghosted By Your Partner? Share Your Experience. by MadeMan01(m): 5:04pm On Jul 30, 2023 |
Ghosting is a blessing in disguise. I remember a girl I was planning to marry. We had gone deep were even planning number of kids We dated for about 18 months. Just before COVID lockdown, I lost my job. She went for NYSC in Kaduna. When lockdown was declared, I expected her to return to Lagos but she said she would be in Abuja to be near her aunt, and from there she told me she was not in to me". Man I just knew it would likely happen because I was home for over 12 months. Now things are much better for me, she is still being passed from guy to guy. Her kid sister is married. Na she loose 69 Likes 5 Shares |
| Re: Have You Ever Been Ghosted By Your Partner? Share Your Experience. by BreezyRita(f): 5:04pm On Jul 30, 2023 |
Happened to me last month. I'm still reeling from the effect. 8 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: Have You Ever Been Ghosted By Your Partner? Share Your Experience. by Kemadealadire(f): 5:05pm On Jul 30, 2023 |
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