bluefilm:


Tell that to eyeneck.

Quintessence44:


People in UK wey dey jubilate when dem find security work, na him you sell your house carry 5 kids go UK.

Naija people no just get sense, especially when it concern oyinbo.

Dem go just turn mumu dey do nonsense like say oyinbo jazz them.

Even if you offer English man 5 million pound a year job for Nigeria, he can NEVER sell his house in England even he takes the job.

But a Nigerian will sell his house, leave his well paid job and gather his family to travel, in the HOPE that success will come there.

No be oyinbo juju be that?

Right005:


And so? The UK government will give them 30 million pounds upon landing in UK. Free housing, free cars, free healthcare etc. most people that japa to America earn over $1M per month from menial jobs. Nigeria is a bad country I swear. I have an uncle who japa with his family to UK. After a month over there, he bought a duplex worth over 300 million naira in Nigeria and that’s just below his monthly earning over there. Naira don cast, make people japa abeg

Slynation:
An Igbo man will never try this nonsense. I'm very certain about that!!

OneCandleAway:


I guess you don't have anyone that's into farming to tell you their experience with herdsmen. And this is in south west.

bisimilahi772:
HELLO NAIRALAND, I wish everyone one happy new week and happy new month in advance 💖💖

I need an advice. I got a Canada visit visa, I check the the travel expenses it very high at least 3M UP, I keep asking which work will I do there once I get there!!! I have not hear any advice on that regard. Can someone advice me will I get a good work with a travel visa or I should stay in Nigeria and work more. Or which hand work can I learn over here that will make good use for me in Canada. I currently own a bet9ja shop bariga Lagos.

Please I need advice no money to waste o

pansophist:


It's really sad to think.

If I were in their shoes, I'll try to kill two bird with one stone. Even if I'll japa, I won't destroy my financial base back home.

That's my lifeline, and as life uncertainties occurs, I can always fall back to something. It's the same dynamic with the concept of rhe prodigal son.

After he messed up, his father was his fall back option to get back on track. Or a student who's parents are there to catch him financially if he falls.

Or a monkey that will make sure he holds another branches before jumping. As a man, you can't afford to fail, especially when such failure is a result of avoidable mistakes.

The regrets that will emanate from such failures can land one to depression, because you know you forked up. A man can't afford the flexibility of failure simply because people's survival are on him.

Men's responsibilities are non-negotiable by nature. Your children and your wife may change to worse by your bad mistakes. And some mistakes are like a knockout, you will never recover from it. It's downard ever.

They won't understand why they have to suffer, or even a reduction in lifestyle, and even if they adapt tonew realities, you'll loose a part of you. Your pride, honour and respect.

I only pray and hope they do not regret it. It will shatter them to pieces.

bdon12:

As someone that has been to over 15 countries n still living in naija. i tell u this,its not d poor who cannot afford to eat that are japaring...its those who are comfortable in naija n can afford d big expense involved.i tell u this,security of life n property is real reason. also securing anothet passport for their kids is d main motive n not necessarily for greener pastures.life expectancy is very low un naija.people hardly live beyond 50.something stupid n silly must jst kii u.its either police bullet,or accident, or kidnappers ...jst stupid tins that dont happen abroad.

emmaodet:


Hmmmmmmmmm

This really touched me - The regrets that will emanate from such failures can land one to depression, because you know you forked up. A man can't afford the flexibility of failure simply because people's survival are on him.

pansophist:


It's really sad to think.

If I were in their shoes, I'll try to kill two bird with one stone. Even if I'll japa, I won't destroy my financial base back home.

That's my lifeline, and as life uncertainties occurs, I can always fall back to something. It's the same dynamic with the concept of the prodigal son.

After he messed up, his father was his fall back option to get back on track. Or a student who's parents are there to catch him financially if he falls.

Or a monkey that will make sure he holds another branches before jumping. As a man, you can't afford to fail, especially when such failure is a result of avoidable mistakes.

The regrets that will emanate from such failures can land one to depression, because you know you forked up. A man can't afford the flexibility of failure simply because people's survival are on him.

Men's responsibilities are non-negotiable by nature. Your children and your wife may change to worse by your bad mistakes. And some mistakes are like a knockout, you will never recover from it. It's downward ever.

They won't understand why they have to suffer, or even a reduction in lifestyle, and even if they adapt to new realities, you'll loose a part of you. Your pride, honour and respect.

I only pray and hope they do not regret it. It will shatter them to pieces.

Extremekofoshi:


After estate agent, fear travel agent.

fakawer:
Blame the woman, yes the woman, she go don disturb the man tire, fight am compare am to others, she will still blame the man for not doing more research

BigIyanga:

All this epistle na to market motivovaprenuers who boast of fancy words and tiktok experience… but no real world ‘ I have done it’ experience??

Ikaeniyan0:
How did the UK school accept someone of her calibre? If you have a well paying job in Nigeria, you do not need to japa.

Curse777:



Am sure a travel agent with sugar tongue decieved them

Travel agent won't make heaven

But on a serious note, many Nigerians in diaspora make videos to warn people of the harsh reality abroad but we call them enemies of progress

If you have a good job or business in Nigeria, travel abroad on a return ticket which is two ways ticket and don't resign, or announce to anyone you are traveling abroad, don't go with your family at first

Can you wash and work as dish washer long hours with machine

Can you be a caregiver nanny to a dementia old shitting grandpa

Can you work as farm hand or picker

Can you drive long ours or construction site

Are you rugged


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XAUBulls:

SMH.

Deepspirituals:
. The Day you Free yourself and mind from Woman Words ,Talks , Pressures , disturbances , pussy Pleasure and Control ,that day you Experience Peace .


Many Men are in their Untimely Grave right now because they fail to Realise This .

PotatoSalad:
I remember when you needed just 8m to move to UK. Now you need 25m or you're just playing.

karkinase:
As Una dey scam Oyinbo dem too dey scam Una with Visa charges too ..😂

maasoap:


When you are done lying to yourself, let me know. How come most of the people I know who travelled to UK are struggling youngsters? I guess you believed anybody who is able to afford travelling expenses is rich, you don't know the length at which these people go to raise money

Dotherightthing:


Is the price abroad of all these things you listed exactly the price here in Nigeria based on the exchange rate

Yoighaman:


Most of the people relocating to the UK have never travelled abroad before. The few who have, just believe things will fall in good places for them las las. It's not a bad idea relocating abroad, but it must be done legally and well thought out.

pendragonbladgo:
Instead of you to sell your house and start farming, relocate to a village and buy farming equipment and fertilizers, you would have build more houses and be a millionaire by now.

Give me 5million, I rather relocate to a village and plant maize, or yam or rice instead of traveling abroad!

Vad123:
I went with two kids and we are having the best time of our lives. You go work sha

fakawer:
Blame the woman, yes the woman, she go don disturb the man tire, fight am compare am to others, she will still blame the man for not doing more research

sukkot:
25 milla

PotatoSalad:

The money sef no be guarantee anymore. You fit hustle finish, Embassy go serve you hot breakfast for mail.