Believe me when I say I'm dead I'm dead
I don't know how to control my mind
My mind be thinking so much carnal stuffs sometimes evil stuffs which I try to back off from it

Most times my mind will be capturing a woman I saw 3weeks ago somewhere maybe because of big back or maybe big boobs

I can't stay a day without thinking of shit from my mind especially sex and stupid stuffs, as a result this nonsense thoughts be drawing me back in life.im dwindling

Make una help abeg

Try dey carry olosho

Utanisco:
Believe me when I say I'm dead I'm dead
I don't know how to control my mind
My mind be thinking so much carnal stuffs sometimes evil stuffs which I try to back off from it

Most times my mind will be capturing a woman I saw 3weeks ago somewhere maybe because of big back or maybe big boobs

I can't stay a day without thinking of shit from my mind especially sex and stupid stuffs, as a result this nonsense thoughts be drawing me back in life.im dwindling

Make una help abeg

There's no smoke without fire.
My two cents, remove apps (IG, Twitter, FB) that promote nudity, watch out for the movies you watch,
Watch your circle of association.
Then spend more time reading your Bible.
The holy spirit will surely come around.

Sonnetoshodi:


There's no smoke without fire.
My two cents, remove apps (IG, Twitter, FB) that promote nudity, watch out for the movies you watch,
Watch your circle of association.
Then spend more time reading your Bible.
The holy spirit will surely come around.

Bro this movie is the worst
Some parts that theyll be kissing
I Don die

Utanisco:

Bro this movie is the worst
Some parts that theyll be kissing
I Don die

I just told you some things to do.

Here is something religion will never teach you.

The solution is very simple, I found it by reading the The Power Of Now by Ekart Tolie

The solution is to focus your thoughts on your mind with it starts talking too much, or mounting pressure on you.

Once you do that for 5 seconds the mind will stop..

It's happens cos we have not been taught to take control of our lives, so our minds do it for us.

Just bring your attention to your mind telling you all those carnal stuffs and it will stop talking or persuade you.

It works.

Sonnetoshodi:

I just told you some things to do.

Hmmmmm
Bro thanks


I'll try and delete Facebook and twitter
Worst apps on me phone

My mind has never rested

Hmmmm

Sonnetoshodi:


There's no smoke without fire.
My two cents, remove apps (IG, Twitter, FB) that promote nudity, watch out for the movies you watch,
Watch your circle of association.
Then spend more time reading your Bible.
The holy spirit will surely come around.

Very bad advise..

Those Apps are actually a gate way to properity... Without those Apps he will achieve less in Life and won't know what's up.

Make una try give better advice to people..


Abeg!


Na your type go make your children dey daft and easily influenced when they grow up.

Are u working?

Utanisco:

Hmmmmm
Bro thanks


I'll try and delete Facebook and twitter
Worst apps on me phone

My mind has never rested

Hmmmm

Don't delete those life changing Apps ..

I just gave you the best solution..

Don't listen to one local NL member.

You even need more of a those Apps..

Do you know how much a family member of mine make through Tik Tok?

LikeAking:


Very bad advise..

Those Apps are actually a gate way to properity... Without those Apps he will achieve less in Life and won't know what's up.

Make una try give better advice to people..


Abeg!


Na your type go make your children dey daft and easily influenced when they grow up.

I am sorry, didn't realize how prosperous the app has made you.
You clearly took my comment out of context.

You are not alone.

5 Years ago, I was in church and the man of God was ministering, I turned and saw his wife and start to imagine what her face would look like when moaning

Taylor90:
Try dey carry olosho

Stupid
Idiot

ITbomb:
You are not alone.

5 Years ago, I was in church and the man of God was ministering, I turned and saw his wife and start to imagine what her face would look like when moaning

Hmmmmm
Bro
Hmmmmm
I no Wan talk

talented321:
Are u working?

Even at work bro

LikeAking:
Here is something religion will never teach you.

The solution is very simple, I found it by reading the The Power Of Now by Ekart Tolie

The solution is to focus your thoughts on your mind with it starts talking too much, or mounting pressure on you.
Baba no be religion sth be dis


Once you do that for 5 seconds the mind will stop..

It's happens cos we have not been taught to take control of our lives, so our minds do it for us.

Just bring your attention to your mind telling you all those carnal stuffs and it will stop talking or persuade you.

It works.

Forget this religious bigotry stuff
I'm not into that
I just need to rehabilitate my mind

Sonnetoshodi:


I am sorry, didn't realize how prosperous the app has made you.
You clearly took my comment out of context.

Leave mockery out of this and focus on reality..

Social apps have changed lives..

Many lives.

Don't give people advice that will ruin them..


How will he connect with former class mates, etc?

Try and be realistic pls.

Even our leaders are all on social media.


Don't destroy his life, abeg.

Utanisco:



Forget this religious bigotry stuff
I'm not into that
I just need to rehabilitate my mind

This is not religion..

How will you rehabilitate your mind.

See your mind is just a little tool..

Your mind is actually different from you..

Ask you self this question why is your mind pressuring you? What will it gain?

You mind is in charge of your life not you.

Take back your life ASAP.

The detects of the mind are not the final, but it makes it look that way...Its the greatest illusionist.




Ignore the stupid mind and it will fade away, always use ya brain, ask experienced people..

LikeAking:


Leave mockery out of this and focus on reality..

Social apps have changed lives..

Many lives.

Don't give people advice that will ruin them..


How will he connect with former class mates, etc?

Try and be realistic pls.

Even our leaders are all on social media.


Don't destroy his life, abeg.

He clearly has a problem!
He does, he stated this himself.
And you can't dispute that these apps promote nudity.
You can't.
OP is not a child.
This post wasn't about him meeting up with former classmates, nor making money from tiktok.
The post was about him dealing with lustful thoughts every now and then.
And I said something must have triggered them.
Hence I said he deletes the apps I mentioned amidst other things.
If OP wants to make money from tiktok ; then he can find his way around that.
You only antagonized my suggestion, you never submitted a solution.
Stay good.

Sonnetoshodi:

He clearly has a problem!
He does, he stated this himself.
And you can't dispute that these apps promote nudity.
You can't.
OP is not a child.
This post wasn't about him meeting up with former classmates, nor making money from tiktok.
The post was about him dealing with lustful thoughts every now and then.
And I said something must have triggered them.
Hence I said he deletes the apps I mentioned amidst other things.
If OP wants to make money from tiktok ; then he can find his way around that.
You only antagonized my suggestion, you never submitted a solution.
Stay good.

I have submitted 2 solutions already..

He is a human and lust is natural..

He should learn to ignore it and move on.

Trying to subdue isone of the reasons and sex n co is Soo rampant.

When we see these things as normal it will reduce..

The solution is for the Op to focus his attention on his mind when it starts...

Social media are very good tools in this mordern world.. Stop demonizing them, else you will destroy the Op.

Socialization is the key to prosperity..

LikeAking:
Here is something religion will never teach you.

The solution is very simple, I found it by reading the The Power Of Now by Ekart Tolie

The solution is to focus your thoughts on your mind with it starts talking too much, or mounting pressure on you.

Once you do that for 5 seconds the mind will stop..

It's happens cos we have not been taught to take control of our lives, so our minds do it for us.

Just bring your attention to your mind telling you all those carnal stuffs and it will stop talking or persuade you.

It works.

can I get the book

Get a job.
An idle mind is a……

tobby20:
can I get the book

It's online..

Search and you will find it.

Utanisco:
Believe me when I say I'm dead I'm dead
I don't know how to control my mind
My mind be thinking so much carnal stuffs sometimes evil stuffs which I try to back off from it

Most times my mind will be capturing a woman I saw 3weeks ago somewhere maybe because of big back or maybe big boobs

I can't stay a day without thinking of shit from my mind especially sex and stupid stuffs, as a result this nonsense thoughts be drawing me back in life.im dwindling

Make una help abeg

Hmmm
Diagnosis:
It's a sign that your Spirit man is weak(obviously).

This is what happens when the Soul(Default Carnal desire) outweighs the Spirit.

So just grow your Spirit man but first work on the Soul.

Prescription:

I) Soul/Willful Submission: But first your soul must agree for your Spirit man to outgrow it by yielding to God's will.

Spirit Growth
2) Supplication: (You must ask the Holy Spirit to help replace it with his zeal, grace and strength to do his will and his way)
3) Word: You can't get rid of a thought and leave the mind blank it must be replaced by another thing.( Meditate on God's word day and night.)

Summary: Renew your mind with the supervision of the Holy Spirit.

A slow but effective process.

Nemesis0147:
Get a job.
An idle mind is a……

Give him a job....

Utanisco:
Believe me when I say I'm dead I'm dead
I don't know how to control my mind
My mind be thinking so much carnal stuffs sometimes evil stuffs which I try to back off from it

Most times my mind will be capturing a woman I saw 3weeks ago somewhere maybe because of big back or maybe big boobs

I can't stay a day without thinking of shit from my mind especially sex and stupid stuffs, as a result this nonsense thoughts be drawing me back in life.im dwindling

Make una help abeg

if you have a job that keeps you busy I doubt if you will time to think about women

okoroemeka:
if you have a job that keeps you busy I doubt if you will time to think about women

not a solution at all


Forget

[quote author=Utanisco post=124852131]Believe me when I say I'm dead I'm dead
I don't know how to control my mind
My mind be thinking so much carnal stuffs sometimes evil stuffs which I try to back off from it

Most times my mind will be capturing a woman I saw 3weeks ago somewhere maybe because of big back or maybe big boobs

I can't stay a day without thinking of shit from my mind especially sex and stupid stuffs, as a result this nonsense thoughts be drawing me back in life.im dwindling
Make una help abeg



It's a psychological phenomenon.
It's no fault of yours.Its yr ancient brain that's at work here.This brain knows nothing but EMOTIONS. It's not the logical brain and since we are emotional creatures not thinking creatures,it assumes a "flight" or "fight" mode when you try to stop thinking carnally like you said.Why is this?
Because to it,the thoughts about "Mammary glands and Women's posterior is life.Anything contrary is death and so it will fight to the end.
Because 95% of the decisions you make comes from this ancient brain that has been in existence 6million years ago.
You have deep-seated beliefs rooted in yr subconscious.Everyone does.Until you uproot that belief about women's posterior or mammary glands,you will keep having these wild thoughts.
Since the human brain,body and mind is connected via electrical charges and electromagnetism ,it takes seconds to uproot such belief from yr subconscious.
And again,95% of the decisions we make comes from stored programs in our subconscious not the conscious.To get to the kernel of the problem,have a self-talk and find out that deep-seated belief you have about the above.You will find it.
Have you ever wondered why people can't keep up with new-year resolutions or stick to a diet plan?
Because the ancient brain which shows up in the case of a flight or fight scenario takes hold of your without you being aware.Logic doesn't hold sway in the subconscious.
The ancient brain sees "CHANGE" as death and it will fight to the death if challenged.
Reason why people can hardly do away with bad habits cos of the ancient brain's influence 95% of the time.
The logical (parietal cortex) brain came about some 60,000 years ago.
It is still developing and will continue to for thousand or millions of years to come.
You can't control or conquer the ancient brain,you have to master it.That's why you're having this difficulty and in doing so,you understand where yr weakness lies deeply seated as beliefs in yr subconscious and you can change them.
We are acting out beliefs held deep in our subconscious 95% of the time which is what you're doing.
We are only conscious 5% of the time.This is a scientific fact.
I hope this helps.

Utanisco:
Believe me when I say I'm dead I'm dead
I don't know how to control my mind
My mind be thinking so much carnal stuffs sometimes evil stuffs which I try to back off from it

Most times my mind will be capturing a woman I saw 3weeks ago somewhere maybe because of big back or maybe big boobs

I can't stay a day without thinking of shit from my mind especially sex and stupid stuffs, as a result this nonsense thoughts be drawing me back in life.im dwindling

Make una help abeg

Pray

Stop watching porn and twerking videos on IG and YouTube

Utanisco:
Believe me when I say I'm dead I'm dead
I don't know how to control my mind
My mind be thinking so much carnal stuffs sometimes evil stuffs which I try to back off from it

Most times my mind will be capturing a woman I saw 3weeks ago somewhere maybe because of big back or maybe big boobs

I can't stay a day without thinking of shit from my mind especially sex and stupid stuffs, as a result this nonsense thoughts be drawing me back in life.im dwindling

Make una help abeg

OP this is a very serious development that calls for prayer and fasting.

You are idle that is why get things to do coding or learn how to trade Forex you will not have the time to think about negative things