Asking for a friend

Both of them has been dating for four years, she has met all his family and her siblings knows him but he doesn't seem like moving to the next stage.

So she is thinking on proposing to him this weekend but worried of his reaction.

Guys, what would be your reaction if your girlfriend proposed to you?

She will just chop slap there and then. Which kind nonsense be that?

If she is my real lover'' no wahala'' but if na one olosho girl friend' i will not shame her though but i will let her know that it will not work in a way she will not feel bad about it.

I will say YES, but Still Gimme Time Plz.

A young entrepreneur seeking for aid in other to stay afloat this fuel hike period.

I am begging Nigerians to pls help my computer business from collapsing.

I need a solar equipment

I go collect the ring and smile, then give her back when we reach house.

The act of proposing is just an act of promise, it's symbolic. Where the work is, is when you carry the responsibilities of a proposer. And I'm 100% sure that's not something your friend wants to carry.

So after she proposed to him, will she also pay his groom price, then sponsor their wedding, then pay for honeymoon, have a house for him to move into later on? And he probably will bear her surname?

The act of proposal is basically a man saying, "I owe you marital responsibilities". I will provide for you, care for you, love you, and see you as a part of me. Its a statement that carries weight.

Since men carry the burden of performance, he has the responsibility to propose, it's it him declaring to you that he is willing to be your performer.

Men are like drivers, and women are like passengers. You'll only enter a bus that is going to direction you want. So a man's proposals is like saying, hey, I'm going to Abuja, it's better than Lagos, are you onboarding?

Then as a woman, you decide if Abuja is better than Lagos, or Cotonou, or Paris. You choose from your options and pick the best. This is the natural dynamic.

So if you propose to a man, it's like a passenger forcing the driver to go Enugu when he is not ready, or don't want to go there. Also you don't want to put the wrong driver in the steering.

If you understand my alalogy, then proposing is not your job as a woman. Refrain from it. You may ask him where this relationship is heading, to determine your next step.

labake1:
Asking for a friend

Both of them has been dating for four years, she has met all his family and her siblings knows him but he doesn't seem like moving to the next stage.

So she is thinking on proposing to him this weekend but worried of his reaction.

Guys, what would be your reaction if your girlfriend proposed to you?

If she's a good girl I will accept but if she's not I will reject her immediately

labake1:
Asking for a friend

Both of them has been dating for four years, she has met all his family and her siblings knows him but he doesn't seem like moving to the next stage.

So she is thinking on proposing to him this weekend but worried of his reaction.

Guys, what would be your reaction if your girlfriend proposed to you?

Don't force yourself on any man because it won't end well

I no fit use shame take swallow needle. I go reject if I no like the girl. Besides, dem dey reject guys and nothing dey happen

Once, she is the one I love and we already have an existing understanding. Whole heartedly, I will accept it and forever respect her courage

Why can't she simply discuss marriage with him and see his reaction? If he gives negative vibes or I don't care attitude she should jejely move on.

I'll say yes, then she'll go and see my parents and collect marriage and groom price list.

She'll bear 100% of the marital expenses in both the traditional and with wedding respectively.

After the wedding, I'll remain the head of the home and she'll bear my name.

I go laff the bish die🤣

Take pic of her and use it as même on twitter

I don't have a girlfriend but if Nigerian vagina person proposes marriage to me, I will see it that I'm being targeted for an an evil attack and that is when I will get a visa and leave this country for good. I can not leave my current career and turn myself to wild dog's trainer. Unlike our mothers, the street dogs we have now are better left alone, no need domesticating them. Just fucck your turn and move on.

diogo23:

If she's a good girl I will accept but if she's not I will reject her immediately

Men life sha

Purvan:
I go laff the bish die🤣

Take pic of her and use it as même on twitter

What a boy!

diogo23:

Don't force yourself on any man because it won't end well

I will tell her

Labake1, ask your friend (even though I know it's you), when she proposes to him, will she also pay his groom price?

Bear the cost of the wedding?

Handle all the financial aspects of the wedding?

Or she will just place expenses on someone that wasn't expecting it or is not even ready for it?

Is that the plan?

I will start nagging
I will start from "I Am Not In The Mood"

I will accept her

You men sef...
You people say, you guys will no longer propose to ladies that it is not befitting of an African man...

Now ladies wanna propose and it is still a problem to you people...

What do you people want sef

I'll get the ring from her, go on my knees and put it on her finger. We'll then kiss for a minute or five.

Kid dating kid. Waiting be propose or not propoose. Where's the communication...there are many ways to pop out a proposal question" what could likely hold a guy from getting married after meeting the family. The response will determine your next move, except you are not dating your friend.

I'll take her to see my people to collect groom list.

I go just tell her.. Oga stand up! No be me you go use style force into marriage.. shey I tell you say I don ready


Don't mind me.. just kidding

labake1:
Asking for a friend

Both of them has been dating for four years, she has met all his family and her siblings knows him but he doesn't seem like moving to the next stage.

So she is thinking on proposing to him this weekend but worried of his reaction.

Guys, what would be your reaction if your girlfriend proposed to you?

I'll run away!!!

Let me think about it

I would only wish that my girlfriend proposal will favour me and my family

my reaction? As long as she can afford my groom price and will put me on monthly salary, then we're good to go

I'll say No.
Don't try that, real life ain't what you see in movies and social media.

There are better ways to this.
Have you discussed when you guys want to marry at all because that's what courtship is about and not only meeting each others parents.

Bring up wedding discussions with him.
Be close to his friends to get better hint on possible moves.
Talk, talk and talk.

Most proposals you see online are just to please society and peers because most are done after fixing wedding dates.

A man doesn't have to propose before you get married, just a western culture. (Thou I regret not doing so because I found out my wife wanted it)

I'm tired now , coming back to add more details