Anny69:
😂😂😂😂 Omooooo. Hilarious.

We are waiting for when your moniker will be changed to "Mummythree"

mariahAngel:


So, omo yin le n pe were l'ori 260k? O ma se o!



When you get your own, na phone with cracked screen you go carry dey waka upandan.
Wahala for father of small small children wey go dey fix phone screen o.
You go fix phone screen taya. 😀

If u see my phone screen ehn! U see that bottom of Nigerian map wey be like many river wey dey branch many roads? Ehen spider web? Na so my phone be😂😂😂😂😂. Madam dey carry her own for head. She no wan hear say pikin carry techno phantom nak ground 😂😂😂😂😂

Bashmufol01:

I can't understand why you people don't read to comprehend, or na oversabi dey worry you.
The OP said "one child that you love, but will frustrate you", but you just chose a part and neglect the other, nawa for you ooo. She might love them all, maybe others don't actually give her problems like this particular child.

thanks for explaining it. You are correct.
Just trying to say that no matter what the child does that may be frustrating at times, you still love him or her. It's not about favouritism though

Fairways:
Please if anybody can help me with any little amount to eat I will be very happy. Feeding is a big problem for me and my family please no matter how small. I havent eaten anything since yesterday in the morning pls. My dad is a retired teacher and my mom is late. Am a single mother with my own son mouth to feed, the little money i make have use it to cater for my dad illness and pay house rent but his health is getting worst. Now we can't even eat or buy water to drink. Please if you're reading this message pls come to our aid, no matter how small it will go a long way pls. May God meet you at the point of your need as you have show us mercy
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Beggar Angela, you have staged a comeback to your begging ways. Read from below a previous post of yours.

Rosemorn:
Beloved, please don't just scroll pass, please can any kind hearted person please assist me with little money to get drugs. Am seriously down with malaria and typhoid, and I don't have a dime on me to eat or buy medicine am running temperature please.cant die in silence please help me in any little way. May you never lack anything in this life. Amen.
Please my name is Angella
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Red flag. Disclaimer. Persona non grata.
This person, known as Angela, has all these names for just one account in GTBank:
Ann, Anne, AngelaUbi, Anngela, Angella, Anna, Angela, Angela Ubi, Angelah, etc.
He is a serial criminal scammer and is here to promote his begging advert scam.
Go to your church or mosque to beg and stop using different monikers on NAIRALAND to swindle people.
You have used over 50 monikers to beg. If you are genuine, you should have been known with one moniker. Using many is a clear indication you are a fraud.
The way I see it, you'll soon get deliverance from the Devil. Keep thinking you are deceiving people. There is nothing hidden that will not be revealed; covered that will not be opened.
The great day of your revelation is at hand. Be expectant, because surely it will come.

jaxxy:
How can u love sm1 who frustrates u intentionally or unintentionally?

I mean u can love them at 1st bt once u see they are uo to no good and frustrating ur life u have a right to detach ur self from the nonsense and move on.

of course like the topic indicated unintentionally. And if you read through the post, you will see where I said he is playful and absent minded, but extremely diligent. For teenage boys that playfulness and being absent minded is part of them
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But there is a balance which is that his good sides will make you forget about those bad sides, but it is worth mentioning though

Mummyfour:
no of course not, what I meant is that no matter what the child does, you just love him or her.
I am not trying to promote favouritism, maybe the topic didn't sound well understood

Ok, get it. Cheers….
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The thing my only boy did can't contain a page if I should start telling it.

From dismantling phones, power banks(he has repaired some back), mp3 etc. Have you seen where someone wear a brand new parking shirt to church and tells you chair tore it to rags that cannot be mended. Not onces oo. All trousers get post box at the kneel. He must use like 2/3 slippers when others are still using one. I had to count his dirty cloth when he's washing them or else he'll go and hide part of it when I am no longer in view. If you bring 19 clothes out to wash, I must see 19 clothes on the rope else😁😁

Infact, I got tired one day, I had to call him and I formed him that, had it been that I didn't birth him, he would have been long returned back to his parents😄😄😄.

Bashmufol01:

I can't understand why you people don't read to comprehend, or na oversabi dey worry you.
The OP said "one child that you love, but will frustrate you", but you just chose a part and neglect the other, nawa for you ooo. She might love them all, maybe others don't actually give her problems like this particular child.

The OP has explained to me the context of her post…
But your self-anointed weeping more than the bereaved is largely drivel.

If you love all your kids, the preface is UNNECESSARY…
Rather, the heading would just be ”the child that will frustrate you.” SMH
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My second son ,2 years old , very handsome and whity like Americans with curly hair , so adorable , when he wakes up he will come straight to the parlour , lie on the couch , ask for food , kneel down greet everyone in the house and starts his trouble one after the other , spoilt my phone , broke the door and my Dstv decoder of almost 6 years , nobody go there to touch it , he decide to pour pure water In to it .

Mummyfour:
There are children that would just do things to provoke you, just like some of us did to provoke our parents, some unintentionally though.

Like I have a son whom I love so much, but he can be playful and absent minded at times.

I teach my children to do chores and they really do that without complaining. My youngest son is like the onion slicer whenever food is being cooked. He is fifteen and when his sisters run away from slicing onions, he will always play the role of the super man, even if it means him screaming and slicing the onions and shedding tears while doing so. Sometimes he even runs to the bathroom, wash his eyes and still goes back to continue 🤣🤣

Last week he sliced scent leaves for me, and carefully arranged it in a plate. I carried the bowl of scent leaves and poured straight into the pot of stew without washing it and by the time I realized it, it was already cooking together with my stew.

I called my son to confirm if he washed it and all he could say was "Eeewooo!". He said he thought he washed it. I said how could he have neatly arranged it in a ready to be cooked way without washing and he couldn't answer me. I was angry. Very angry.

He is a diligent boy, always ready to help fix things in the house, but he is the type that will mistakingly pour sugar into a pot of soup, or if you ask him to cook noodles, would use all the pepper in the house and he will end up helping you to eat it, while telling you "sorry o, it wasn't deliberate" ., And probably offer to help cook another one with less pepper or get you something else.(He tries in cooking for his age though)

If you have a child like that or you did that to your parents, let's share our experiences and laugh it out. Every day mustn't be for politics and tribalistic slurs

Mods please push to front page I beg

Nice topic

Bbqekpa:
Omo! My son is 2 and an only child. I'm just noticing that he doesn't like to share be it toys or food. Infact he once vomited on his meal rather than let his cousins have some.

The boy is really smart for his age but he acts like an old old man. For example, when he was just 6 months old he stopped weeing on the bed, like he'd cry to be put down and his pampers removed before he'd wee

HAVE YOU NOTICED THAT YOUR BOY HAS WICKED TENDENCIES BY VOMOTING INTO HIS FOOD IN ORDER TO PREVENT SOMEONE ELSE.

MY SISTER, IF YOU DON'T DISCIPLINE HIM NOW, YOU WILL BE A VICTIM IN FUTURE.

CHILDREN ALWAYS TUTURE PARENTS WHO NEGLECT TO TRAIN THEM UP ACCORDING TO GOD'S COMMAND.

YOU CANNOT ESCAPE IT. DO THE RIGHT THING. TRIAN THE CHILD, DO NOT PAMPER.

Samantha124:
I'll come back to share my own story once I have a child..

8 children will do

It’s the way Op makes a fifteen years old child seem like 7. 15 years don Dey enter university o.
15 screaming over slicing onions?
Issokay.

DaRuud:



My second son ,2 years old , very handsome and whity like Americans with curly hair , so adorable , when he wakes up he will come straight to the parlour , lie on the couch , ask for food , kneel down greet everyone in the house and starts his trouble one after the other , spoilt my phone , broke the door and my Dstv decoder of almost 6 years , nobody go there to touch it , he decide to pour pure water In to it .

chai!!🤣🤣.
Only 2 years?

ukaface:
It’s the way Op makes a fifteen years old child seem like 7. 15 years don Dey enter university o.
15 screaming over slicing onions?
Issokay.

; 😂 Evena 50 year old is still a child to his mother my dear
Meanwhile you know some kind of onions hurt the eyes when been sliced, and as a boy he is and very playful, he would add a touch of humor to it by screaming 😀, but will still slice it

I'm still a child though

But I pray my Children don't carry my behaviour because I'm a special child but with special super naughty attitude..
My attitude and behaviour as am emerging child omoh its a Novel award winning series..
I swear down

If they do, I'm gonna take them to a military boarding school...

luminouz:

They will take after you...and you will deal with it, vawulently

Hmm ......mine is grown now and just got to the university. All through her childhood I was frustrated initially cos I just cannot understand the clumsiness.

Initially I will beat but when I noticed I was looking the bond I stopped and decided to do the talking and reasoning method.

She will pour water inside sugar, enter the bathroom and run shower without taking her bath and go to school,not do homework till she gets to the gate of the school. But above all kind hearted and very helpful in the house.

I decided to talk and guide her, I was told such children at that age have high intelligence and very inquisitive and didn't know how to handle it, your job as a parent is to be understanding, patient and continue to guide.
Today she is grown and making me proud. So don't worry yours will also make you proud soon.

My son doesn't like his toys, he likes our phones and is always attracted to electric wires. In fact any gadget or appliance the adults use.

Newness2019:


HAVE YOU NOTICED THAT YOUR BOY HAS WICKED TENDENCIES BY VOMOTING INTO HIS FOOD IN ORDER TO PREVENT SOMEONE ELSE.

MY SISTER, IF YOU DON'T DISCIPLINE HIM NOW, YOU WILL BE A VICTIM IN FUTURE.

CHILDREN ALWAYS TUTURE PARENTS WHO NEGLECT TO TRAIN THEM UP ACCORDING TO GOD'S COMMAND.

YOU CANNOT ESCAPE IT. DO THE RIGHT THING. TRIAN THE CHILD, DO NOT PAMPER.

Keep your advise for yourself & your children. Rubbish

Mummyfour:
There are children that would just do things to provoke you, just like some of us did to provoke our parents, some unintentionally though.

Like I have a son whom I love so much, but he can be playful and absent minded at times.

I teach my children to do chores and they really do that without complaining. My youngest son is like the onion slicer whenever food is being cooked. He is fifteen and when his sisters run away from slicing onions, he will always play the role of the super man, even if it means him screaming and slicing the onions and shedding tears while doing so. Sometimes he even runs to the bathroom, wash his eyes and still goes back to continue 🤣🤣

Last week he sliced scent leaves for me, and carefully arranged it in a plate. I carried the bowl of scent leaves and poured straight into the pot of stew without washing it and by the time I realized it, it was already cooking together with my stew.

I called my son to confirm if he washed it and all he could say was "Eeewooo!". He said he thought he washed it. I said how could he have neatly arranged it in a ready to be cooked way without washing and he couldn't answer me. I was angry. Very angry.

He is a diligent boy, always ready to help fix things in the house, but he is the type that will mistakingly pour sugar into a pot of soup, or if you ask him to cook noodles, would use all the pepper in the house and he will end up helping you to eat it, while telling you "sorry o, it wasn't deliberate" ., And probably offer to help cook another one with less pepper or get you something else.(He tries in cooking for his age though)

If you have a child like that or you did that to your parents, let's share our experiences and laugh it out. Every day mustn't be for politics and tribalistic slurs

Mods please push to front page I beg

I don't have kids yet, but the father I grew up with one's you mess up you collect beating. No time for long talk.

Mummyfour:
There are children that would just do things to provoke you, just like some of us did to provoke our parents, some unintentionally though.

Like I have a son whom I love so much, but he can be playful and absent minded at times.

I teach my children to do chores and they really do that without complaining. My youngest son is like the onion slicer whenever food is being cooked. He is fifteen and when his sisters run away from slicing onions, he will always play the role of the super man, even if it means him screaming and slicing the onions and shedding tears while doing so. Sometimes he even runs to the bathroom, wash his eyes and still goes back to continue 🤣🤣

Last week he sliced scent leaves for me, and carefully arranged it in a plate. I carried the bowl of scent leaves and poured straight into the pot of stew without washing it and by the time I realized it, it was already cooking together with my stew.

I called my son to confirm if he washed it and all he could say was "Eeewooo!". He said he thought he washed it. I said how could he have neatly arranged it in a ready to be cooked way without washing and he couldn't answer me. I was angry. Very angry.

He is a diligent boy, always ready to help fix things in the house, but he is the type that will mistakingly pour sugar into a pot of soup, or if you ask him to cook noodles, would use all the pepper in the house and he will end up helping you to eat it, while telling you "sorry o, it wasn't deliberate" ., And probably offer to help cook another one with less pepper or get you something else.(He tries in cooking for his age though)

If you have a child like that or you did that to your parents, let's share our experiences and laugh it out. Every day mustn't be for politics and tribalistic slurs

Mods please push to front page I beg

He might just have adhd! I have a 15 years son who sounds just like yours... Makes numerously unintentional school boy errors. His intention in never spiteful but he makes mistakes, forgets things etc all the time. He takes the most from.me (energy wise) but I love him regardless. As a parent you just so want to fix them so they can function as adults navigating the world

Mummyfour:
My oldest son emptied that biggest jar of Vaseline and the big container of Johnson's baby powder on an expensive white single couch his father bought for 250k some years back.

The reason: he just gave the couch a bath and was rubbing it cream and powder.
My husband's boys from his janitorial services company was called in to clean the couch, but even with the whole expertise and chemicals used, the Vaseline patches refused to fade off.

Another one was my daughter that had to start school at age 1 year and 3 months, just 2 weeks to the close of school term. The school proprietress told my husband to leave it till the next term, but oga refused and promised to Even pay extra fees

The reason: my first daughter went to kiss the eyes of my premature baby with ketchup in her mouth.
.we initially thought it was blood coming out of the little premature baby's eyes. I was already crying because I had suffered so much on my premature twins, I didn't need more pressure.

As I was crying not knowing what else to do, my older daughter looked at me and said " mummy I kish baby eye" it was at that point I realized it was ketchup and not blood. Infact she started school that day by 12pm without uniform or any thing for school.

My husband just dumped her in school, said she even waved at him, and didn't send him or cry.
By 1:30pm school closed and she came back home ;🤣🤣🤣

😂😂😂😂


Na that 'kish' for me.

Children can be very funny and annoying at the same time, especially when they are learning how to talk.

Haydens:

😂😂😂😂


Na that 'kish' for me.

Children can be very funny and annoying at the same time, especially when they are learning how to talk.

🤣🤣, and also very honest at that age.
It's just that their truthfulness and honesty can be painful at times

tsmith:


He might just have adhd! I have a 15 years son who sounds just like yours... Makes numerously unintentional school boy errors. His intention in never spiteful but he makes mistakes, forgets things etc all the time. He takes the most from.me (energy wise) but I love him regardless. As a parent you just so want to fix them so they can function as adults navigating the world

Now you truly understand the point I am trying to make.
. they can be so playful, mischievous, but really good hearted and always willing to help everyone else in time of trouble., 😉

👍 Thank you

achimendy:






I don't have kids yet, but the father I grew up with one's you mess up you collect beating. No time for long talk.

mothers are different and we overlook some certain things

Mummyfour:
🤣🤣, and also very honest at that age.
It's just that their truthfulness and honesty can be painful at times

Just pray they don't have your secret or maybe caught you doing shady things, no amount of bribe can cover you.😂😂

Haydens:


Just pray they don't have your secret or maybe caught you doing shady things, no amount of bribe can cover you.😂😂

Exactly! That's why I said that their honesty even though is good, but the honesty can be a problem if they tell on you o

Me too o.. I was surprised. The favouritism shown by parents is what makes that 'special' child spoilt or frustrating.
Say what you want, but it is evil to let other kids know you have a favourite child.

9jaRealist:


Sorry, but I couldn’t get past the “one child that you love”…
Does this mean some of you do NOT love all of your children?!
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Mummyfour:
mothers are different and we overlook some certain things

That overlook has made some children useless and irresponsible, even my mum is one of them, but my dad dont allow that shit. I saw a mother with children and a grown daughter of 16 who cant do house chores, hardly listen and have no fear for their parents. They listen and fear my friend than their parents. The day my friend was talking to the woman about her children she started crying and saying she do talk to them but they don't listen, if she's sick the children cant help do house stuff. The truth is that she doesn't handle them the right way, thesame overlooking you're doing now is thesame thing she did and she's reaping the painful benefits.

We fear our dad more than our mum, because we know our mum can easily overlook, but my dad, just try nonsense. That fear for my father made us behave responsibly. Although you can't be harsh all the time to your children, sometimes you have to just talk them, sometimes you use flogging too.


Those children will be father's and mother's tomorrow, so stop overlooking and give them the right training, but if you fail to do that just know the negative outcome awaits you.

Mummyfour:
mothers are different and we overlook some certain things

That overlook has made some children useless and irresponsible, even my mum is one of them, but my dad dont allow that shit. I saw a mother with children and a grown daughter of 16 who cant do house chores, hardly listen and have no fear for their parents. They listen and fear my friend who's their teacher than their parents. The day my friend was talking to the woman about her children she started crying and saying she do talk to them but they don't listen, if she's sick the children cant help do house stuff. The truth is that she doesn't handle them the right way, thesame overlooking you're doing now is thesame thing she did and she's reaping the painful benefits.

We fear our dad more than our mum, because we know our mum can easily overlook, but my dad, just try nonsense. That fear for my father made us behave responsibly. Although you can't be harsh all the time to your children, sometimes you have to just talk them, sometimes you use flogging too.


Those children will be father's and mother's tomorrow, so stop overlooking and give them the right training, but if you fail to do that just know the negative outcome awaits you.