In my third year in the university, my course supervisor invited me into his office. I was dressed in a tight shirt and a pair of jeans that accentuated my curves as usual. It all started as an educative session, and then conversation swerved uncomfortably.

He starts moving closer to me. “What shall I do?” says my mind, panicking. The man’s erection wilts despite his distraught efforts. He moved closer, started rubbing my hair and staring at my breasts.

“This isn’t right sir.”

I finally dared to speak up. He just kept telling me how we humans determine what’s right and wrong and how well things would go for me if I agree to sleep with him. I played him and found my way out of his office.

I don’t know a single person, no matter how cruel the harassment or the assault, who doesn’t feel some of that guilt and shame and wonders:

“Could I have done something differently? Perhaps it was my fault?”

When I saw that, I felt the beginning of what would be months of grief. It was my first realization that the academic system, that I thought was so meritorious, that I wanted to spend my life within was deeply unfair. I wouldn’t receive any justice, and he could go on and harass other women.

Frustrated and upset, I stopped attending his classes. Through hard work, I graduated as a distinctive student from his course.

You can explore any if these methods

1. You can write your complaints and forward to
Nigeria university commission at info@nuc.edu.ng
Somebody is sure to take it up if the claims can be substantiated.

And if u have the balls, you can file a complaint at public complaints commission. Believe me, those guyz will take it up.

Then how about shaming him on social media? That has also proved effective in some cases. Just be armed with sufficient evidence


2. http://www.legalnaija.com/2016/10/sexual-harassment-act-in-nigerian.html This link should help

3. If you are in Lagos...do so at any police station. There are agents for such abuse in Lagos State Police Stations...especially the force divisional headquarters.

http://www.dsvrtlagos.org


4. My cousin get that problem before but nobody believed her. the questions way dem go ask you way be the victim self you go shame why you speak out. use social media to your advantage. if you get the picture of the man send am gimme. I go help you push the story far and tarnish his name. people go day ask you stupid questions like are you sure as if to say they are ignorant to the trends. 90% of our lecturers are users of our kids. I will make sure I publicly tarnish that person name till him own family members go begin call him number.send his foto let us use him as a scape goat.

It's sad that this still happens

Miravik900:
Hmmm been hearing of this Omo so this kind thing day happen ooo?

Goes on a lot in Public UNI's.
You be newcomer?

Good day OP,
This is utterly disturbing to my ears honestly.
Where is your location?
And I hope your girlfriend knows what she's doing in school? In other words ,I mean I hope she's not failing the courses and blaming lecturers if not please:
Get enough evidence at hand, both recordings and chats and reach out to me,I will take it from there.
Simply send me a DM.
God bless Nigeria

Basiljoe:

Goes on a lot in Public UNI's.
You be newcomer?

Yes Omo make lecturer no fvck my girl ooo

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If he's willing to compensate my girlfriend for extra services, then an arrangement exists. A lecturer pays my girlfriend 250k for her companionship.
These Lecturers engage in illicit activities to acquire funds, the only viable recourse is when he faces adversity.

Is this your intended life path? Engaging in a self-centered pursuit of an attractive partner? Life isn't as complex as you believe, and I stress that point.

Man90:
Already the conversations are been recorded likewise the chats

Just corner some soldiers with your gf, explain the situation to them and show evidence to them.. and tip them

Even you go follow am beg

Miravik900:


Yes Omo make lecturer no fvck my girl ooo

If she get Big Nyash, omo your name na sorry o

Basiljoe:

If she get Big Nyash, omo your name na sorry o

If na so I thank God ooo her ass na moderate but she fine die for face

Go to court

bdon12:

Shes already out of schl only coming back now n then to write that man carryover.

Is the man still interested in sleeping with her?

Miravik900:


Yes Omo make lecturer no fvck my girl ooo

no lecturer can do that if your girl can read and pass. Any lecturers who make any attempt will be brought to book

OmoFiditi:


Is the man still interested in sleeping with her?

That i dont know becos her set hav graduated, she only goes back to write carryover on that man course again n again.