ibawon:

Keep it up brother. I don't know you but I am proud of you.

Thanks brother.

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Day 26.. enitere ejitere

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Day 26.. enitere ejitere

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Day 29.. a day to reach a month . Man I have came so far. God is good.

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Day 29.. a day to reach a month . Man I have came so far. God is good.

Lol... Congrats buddy... If u see d way I dey rush come this thread everyday ehn...lol... Congrats sir...indeed God is good.


On a more serious note oga wavvyy... If one has a lethal addiction...not weed per SE... Maybe drugs... And one is trying hard to abstain from it.... At what point does one breathe a sigh of relief dat they've overcome d addiction? Is it after abstaining for weeks ... Or months... Or years?... Is der a mark sorta dat determines dat, yes! Av reached d finished line, am safe now...
I don't even know how to pass d question across, do u get what am trying to ask?

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Lol... Congrats buddy... If u see d way I dey rush come this thread everyday ehn...lol... Congrats sir...indeed God is good.


On a more serious note oga wavvyy... If one has a lethal addiction...not weed per SE... Maybe drugs... And one is trying hard to abstain from it.... At what point does one breathe a sigh of relief dat they've overcome d addiction? Is it after abstaining for weeks ... Or months... Or years?... Is der a mark sorta dat determines dat, yes! Av reached d finished line, am safe now...
I don't even know how to pass d question across, do u get what am trying to ask?

Thank you so much sir 🙏.

Yes I understand you. I think it has to do with one’s mind and the reason for trying to quit, some quit because they don’t ever want to indulge in the habit again, some quit because they want to reduce their intake at a later date. Like stopping for 3 months to reset ur body, then start doing it like once in a week or month. It depends on what the person want .

But for someone that wants to quit finally, I believe everyday is a fight, fighting against the urges and total redemption will be after years. Minimum of 2 years.

In my own case now, I was once addicted to porn and masturbation, so I joined a thread here with others fighting to be clean. And there’s a medal for each cross line 30,90,180, 360 days .. I was clean for 30 days on my first trial, got my medal and sadly, I relapsed on day 31... I started again, and I was clean for over a year! . I got too confident that I’m over the habit only for me to relapse on day 372. I’m now back on day 41 now.

Can you notice the pattern? I was to fixated on the medal only to lose them after getting it. And now that I know better, I will do better.

So it’s a thing of the mind, when you’re totally redeemed, you will know it.

Wavvyyyyy:


Thank you so much sir 🙏.

Yes I understand you. I think it has to do with one’s mind and the reason for trying to quit, some quit because they don’t ever want to indulge in the habit again, some quit because they want to reduce their intake at a later date. Like stopping for 3 months to reset ur body, then start doing it like once in a week or month. It depends on what the person want .

But for someone that wants to quit finally, I believe everyday is a fight, fighting against the urges and total redemption will be after years. Minimum of 2 years.

In my own case now, I was once addicted to porn and masturbation, so I joined a thread here with others fighting to be clean. And there’s a medal for each cross line 30,90,180, 360 days .. I was clean for 30 days on my first trial, got my medal and sadly, I relapsed on day 31... I started again, and I was clean for over a year! . I got too confident that I’m over the habit only for me to relapse on day 372. I’m now back on day 41 now.

Can you notice the pattern? I was to fixated on the medal only to lose them after getting it. And now that I know better, I will do better.

So it’s a thing of the mind, when you’re totally redeemed, you will know it.

Well said.... N lesson well learnt... Everyday is a fight... Truth!...

Thanks a whole lot
unwavering Strength to us all!

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Day 29.. a day to reach a month . Man I have came so far. God is good.

Day 30

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Day 30

So making it to 30 days yesterday. I decided to stay off alcohol also. Thou I’ve reduced it to only weekend before but I’m trying to stay off it totally now and see how far I can go. My body needs some serious cleansing. This is the second day without alcohol.

Day 31: 2

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So making it to 30 days yesterday. I decided to stay off alcohol also. Thou I’ve reduced it to only weekend before but I’m trying to stay off it totally now and see how far I can go. My body needs some serious cleansing. This is the second day without alcohol.

Day 31: 2

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Day 35:6.. yesterday was like the hardest in the last two weeks, and to make it worst I’ve neighbors that we do smoke together before. I almost relapse when I was with them today.. but urges don’t kill. I promise myself not to ever return to this habit, so I will keep pushing .

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SageWithSarcasm:
I was heavily indulged in crystal meth(ice) last year. Made me do alot of bad things worse of all was incurring debts on myself.Was in rehab late last year and got out April this year,ever since i got out i live with my dad which we do not ry gt along really well. He been treating me in not so nice ways and making me question my age at some point. I understand i made a mistake and i got a job now and i'm repaying my debts. Only now he keeps up the insults in front of his second wife and i'm what you can say maltreated. Is it normal i move out of their apartment or what do i do?
I am 27 years old right now would be 28 november. And i'm new here. Would appreciate an opinion

iceboi para

tobby20:
iceboi para

Was tagged ice prince that year. Not cause of my singing tho

SageWithSarcasm:

Was tagged ice prince that year. Not cause of my singing tho

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Make God give me dis kind wavvy determination mbok.... I badly need am

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Day 50.. my alcohol streak ended yesterday

Ekabobo:
Make God give me dis kind wavvy determination mbok.... I badly need am

Can you share your story?

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Day 50.. my alcohol streak ended yesterday

It's okay.... I guess.... Don't know.. and I might be Rong tho, but I think the grasp on drinking is a bit slackening compared to smoking... So wen one relapses on a no- drinking spree...am not too worried like wen one relapses on a no-smoking spree.... Na dat one dey be me like say all all is totally lost... Stay strong Sir..

Wavvyyyyy:


Can you share your story?

I want to ...badly... But u Sabi us women... We too hide hide... Make person no come use am sully person future.... But wen I get ur sorta determination n conquer my addiction.... I go sing am from pillar to post...

Now dat I think about it..... seriously wavvvvy... Is opening up to smone, (confession) one of the ways to conquer an addiction... Cud being secretive Abt an addiction be reason enuf for one to be running around in circle?

Cud dat be where am missing it?

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Day 50.. my alcohol streak ended yesterday

Relapsed on day 51. Since then I’ve been going back and forth, now back on day 1. I just keep wondering is it possible for me to finally get over this habit

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