It's really disgusting and shameful how this generation have lost its divinity. Thank God for myself my Chi my parents my family and my village I still have my conscience intact

Please bring in a respected third party in form of an elder ,a pastor, imam as a witness to also admonish him. This would protect you in case of any blackmail from him and nip it in the bud immediately.

You are also expected to put him in his place and note condone any laxity that would warrant such evil actions. I also expect you to subtly over time discourage over exposure to him from your husband especially when he is not arround. Your home will not crumble in jesus name.

I also advice you to ensure you get something profitable that get you busy to fend for yourself and as well as a financial safety net for your own independence and comfort.

Regards

Stawner16:
Take down your profile picture

Its just Another Nairaland e-transgender looking for attention. The lady in the profile is clearly Somali.

Stawner16:
Take down your profile picture

don't mind her na super story this is also one of her super story https://www.nairaland.com/7773338/should-let-live-me-mother

Nataliace:
The younger brother to my husband occasionally comes to visit us. My husband takes good care of him and support his business dealings.

He trusts his brother that he can travel for weeks leaving us together.

Recently my brother in-law's movement towards me changed.

He sometimes rub his hands on my back as if he was just being friendly. He made strange and unusual move towards me several times and I was uncomfortable with that.

I warned him that if he doesn't stop I will report to my husband.

My husband travelled last week and his brother has begun his behaviors of unexpectedly touching my body and showing up in my room or just following me to the kitchen whenever I am preparing meal.

I thought of reporting to his brother but I don't want to be the reason they will be enemies for life.

How do I stop him so this remain between two of us?

This is sincerely becoming unbearable.

I don read your other thread about your mother-in-law. Ma'am, if that woman should hear this thing you've written, she will frustrate your life!!!

Ur simply enjoying what u don't like. If u were celebrate about stopping him, He should have ..

Aurelius1:
Fake story. The OP who claims to be married created a thread last month seeking advice wether to allow her boyfriend or her mum come live with her. This is the link to the thread
https://www.nairaland.com/7773338/should-let-live-me-mother

😂😂😂
Why are you doing op like this, what if her friend is the culprit and she wants advice for her friend?
Everyone on Nairaland fake! Even American Got Talent full of fake! Tinubu ministers and senators all fake! Calm down

Nataliace:
The younger brother to my husband occasionally comes to visit us. My husband takes good care of him and support his business dealings.

He trusts his brother that he can travel for weeks leaving us together.

Recently my brother in-law's movement towards me changed.

He sometimes rub his hands on my back as if he was just being friendly. He made strange and unusual move towards me several times and I was uncomfortable with that.

I warned him that if he doesn't stop I will report to my husband.

My husband travelled last week and his brother has begun his behaviors of unexpectedly touching my body and showing up in my room or just following me to the kitchen whenever I am preparing meal.

I thought of reporting to his brother but I don't want to be the reason they will be enemies for life.

How do I stop him so this remain between two of us?

This is sincerely becoming unbearable.

You says...?...

Stawner16:
Take down your profile picture

😂😂😂 most valuable advice

You lay more emphasis on ur feelings more than other things. Say somebody folo u play don turn another thing abi? Sis, abeg come and see where we dey play with our young step mother, soooooteeeehhhh we dey suck her breast at my age o As u dey so eh, as their senior brother's wife eh, you be their mama o. Accept every kind of rough play. All these things fit no dey the guy mind. WARNING: If you take up this matter eh, you no go believe where e go land you

For him to touch you the two of you have been playing doing some funny things, just sit him down and talk to him not your husband for now.

Nataliace:
The younger brother to my husband occasionally comes to visit us. My husband takes good care of him and support his business dealings.

He trusts his brother that he can travel for weeks leaving us together.

Recently my brother in-law's movement towards me changed.

He sometimes rub his hands on my back as if he was just being friendly. He made strange and unusual move towards me several times and I was uncomfortable with that.

I warned him that if he doesn't stop I will report to my husband.

My husband travelled last week and his brother has begun his behaviors of unexpectedly touching my body and showing up in my room or just following me to the kitchen whenever I am preparing meal.

I thought of reporting to his brother but I don't want to be the reason they will be enemies for life.

How do I stop him so this remain between two of us?

This is sincerely becoming unbearable.

Since you don't want to tell your husband just keep quiet until he rape you and get you pregnant, then ur husband will find out, push you and the brother out of his house, and maybe the brother will tell him you're the one disturbing him for sex. Then ur eyes will open.


You better use ur brain.

Nataliace:
The younger brother to my husband occasionally comes to visit us. My husband takes good care of him and support his business dealings.

He trusts his brother that he can travel for weeks leaving us together.

Recently my brother in-law's movement towards me changed.

He sometimes rub his hands on my back as if he was just being friendly. He made strange and unusual move towards me several times and I was uncomfortable with that.

I warned him that if he doesn't stop I will report to my husband.

My husband travelled last week and his brother has begun his behaviors of unexpectedly touching my body and showing up in my room or just following me to the kitchen whenever I am preparing meal.

I thought of reporting to his brother but I don't want to be the reason they will be enemies for life.

How do I stop him so this remain between two of us?

This is sincerely becoming unbearable.

Reporting him fast fast will safe you and your family before the guy change the story

Stawner16:
Take down your profile picture

Does that picture looks like a Nigerian to you? That's a Rwandan lady. They are usually tall, dark and pretty.

U better tell ur husband to avoid the stories that touches the heart

Tell your husband about it right away .... but i hooe you know how to put words together so there wont be issue or fight
He is your husband and dont need to have fear telling him in a constructive way

IconicR:
What kind of play brought this rubbish, that's why it's good to make your boundaries very visible to any guy be it husband's brother or any other guy.

are you sure that person is really a woman?

Nataliace:
The younger brother to my husband occasionally comes to visit us. My husband takes good care of him and support his business dealings.

He trusts his brother that he can travel for weeks leaving us together.

Recently my brother in-law's movement towards me changed.

He sometimes rub his hands on my back as if he was just being friendly. He made strange and unusual move towards me several times and I was uncomfortable with that.

I warned him that if he doesn't stop I will report to my husband.

My husband travelled last week and his brother has begun his behaviors of unexpectedly touching my body and showing up in my room or just following me to the kitchen whenever I am preparing meal.

I thought of reporting to his brother but I don't want to be the reason they will be enemies for life.

How do I stop him so this remain between two of us?

This is sincerely becoming unbearable.

you are very stupid and manipulative.

Before a guy even makes a move to an in law means you indirectly allowed it.

Nataliace:
The younger brother to my husband occasionally comes to visit us. My husband takes good care of him and support his business dealings.

He trusts his brother that he can travel for weeks leaving us together.

Recently my brother in-law's movement towards me changed.

He sometimes rub his hands on my back as if he was just being friendly. He made strange and unusual move towards me several times and I was uncomfortable with that.

I warned him that if he doesn't stop I will report to my husband.

My husband travelled last week and his brother has begun his behaviors of unexpectedly touching my body and showing up in my room or just following me to the kitchen whenever I am preparing meal.

I thought of reporting to his brother but I don't want to be the reason they will be enemies for life.

How do I stop him so this remain between two of us?

This is sincerely becoming unbearable.

If after warning him about 3 times maximum. Report him immediately, otherwise, he may rape you, tell lies or do something bad against you. He is evil to even want to sleep with his brothers wife in his brothers lifetime.

Therefore, to report him, remember you must have a credible evidence to proof, bcuz your husband may find it hard to believe. My 50 Cents.

kestolove95:
Dress properly always cover it body while Ur husband is away

How old are you?

There’s a Yoruba proverb that says “a woman will agree to consensual sex if the man persists”. Equally, when a girl tells you “stop”, it can mean “stop” or “keep on trying” it depends on how it’s said (tonation) and body language.

If you truly want your brother in law to stop this nonsense, he’ll get the unambiguous message when it’s indicated in your tone and body language says it.

Simple advice to expose the idiot


Next time he touches you,.’warn him that you will slap him.. be serious about the slap .,’Told him when ever he try such nonsense again you will give him dirty.’’If he dares you give the idiot the hot slap don’t care about his height or muscle.,’ if he is taller than you jump up and give him the hot slap .,slap him with all your strength to the extent the fingers will display in his face then allow him to do his worst .’if he dare touch you his brother and family will ask what is the problem.then you will explain to them wth sincerity and tears in your eyes. If you allow this idiot he will rape u and you will not have the mouth to explain to your husband .’.. Gosh some guys are dump.,’ I can’t even stand talking with my brothers wife talk more of touching her. This is a totally abomination.

Act now. Nobody will believe you when it happens. Act Now!!!

If this story is true, u better seat ur husband down in Yr room and tell him u want him to b mature about that u r no longer comfortable with his brother oo because of ABC... that u ppl shld just keep him at a distance. If not this guy will rape u and u won't be able to tell ur husband, then he will now be using blackmail to sleep with u consistently

May he is just playing with your back

Ask him what he wants from you if all the moves you mentioned are genuine. Whatever his response is , just tell him to stay clear of you that you can never stop him from coming to his brother's house but one more funny move, you will report to your husband or better still get him a girl

[quote author=Nataliace post=125078591]The younger brother to my husband occasionally comes to visit us. My husband takes good care of him and support his business dealings.

He trusts his brother that he can travel for weeks leaving us together.

Recently my brother in-law's movement towards me changed.

He sometimes rub his hands on my back as if he was just being friendly. He made strange and unusual move towards me several times and I was uncomfortable with that.

I warned him that if he doesn't stop I will report to my husband.

My husband travelled last week and his brother has begun his behaviors of unexpectedly touching my body and showing up in my room or just following me to the kitchen whenever I am preparing meal.

I thought of reporting to his brother but I don't want to be the reason they will be enemies for life.

How do I stop him so this remain between two of us?

This is sincerely becoming unbearable.[/quote


Give him a resounding factory reset slap, and thank me later.

IconicR:
What kind of play brought this rubbish, that's why it's good to make your boundaries very visible to any guy be it husband's brother or any other guy.

How then do you make your boundary known, which wouldn't be seen as insulting or demeaning

Nataliace:
The younger brother to my husband occasionally comes to visit us. My husband takes good care of him and support his business dealings.

He trusts his brother that he can travel for weeks leaving us together.

Recently my brother in-law's movement towards me changed.

He sometimes rub his hands on my back as if he was just being friendly. He made strange and unusual move towards me several times and I was uncomfortable with that.

I warned him that if he doesn't stop I will report to my husband.

My husband travelled last week and his brother has begun his behaviors of unexpectedly touching my body and showing up in my room or just following me to the kitchen whenever I am preparing meal.

I thought of reporting to his brother but I don't want to be the reason they will be enemies for life.

How do I stop him so this remain between two of us?

This is sincerely becoming unbearable.

TRY TO HAVE AN EVIDENCE... ONCE HE COMES MAKING ADVANCES ... SET YOUR PHONE ON RECORD, RECORD EVERYTHING, SEND TO YOUR HUSBAND THROUGH WHATSAPP OR TELEGRAM...

kestolove95:
Dress properly always cover it body while Ur husband is away

How is dressing properly a solution to someone that lacks dignity and morals.