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Re: Can You Marry Someone Your Family Members Arranged For You? by Eeghe(f): 1:15pm On Aug 14, 2023 |
Basiljoe: I am a woman and I am not a devil. Thanks! |
Re: Can You Marry Someone Your Family Members Arranged For You? by InvertedHammer: 1:16pm On Aug 14, 2023 |
IamKizzbrown10:/ Everything is possible in any culture. The Indians are raised that way just as the Arabs are raised in a certain way that work for them. It becomes an issue in Nigeria where the people are not sure if they want to be black or white because they were indoctrinated early in childhood to look black but think white. / |
Re: Can You Marry Someone Your Family Members Arranged For You? by Almunjid(m): 1:16pm On Aug 14, 2023 |
Samantha124:Chai, u rejected ur ancestors' chosen groom for u? No wonder one "lord of the ring" forgot his "ring" on ur finger for over 3 years now. Ur ancestors wouldn't allow him to marry u. 1 Like |
Re: Can You Marry Someone Your Family Members Arranged For You? by Basiljoe: 1:16pm On Aug 14, 2023 |
Lmao. |
Re: Can You Marry Someone Your Family Members Arranged For You? by Basiljoe: 1:17pm On Aug 14, 2023 |
Eeghe: I was joking abeg.... |
Re: Can You Marry Someone Your Family Members Arranged For You? by GeneralPula: 1:19pm On Aug 14, 2023 |
ebenezary:Exactly.. They’ll then teach both the husband & wife how to play their roles well. Both will listen hence why many of our old people grew up as husband & wife.. Not today where people now go into marriages with shameful instincts.. 1 Like |
Re: Can You Marry Someone Your Family Members Arranged For You? by Yankee101: 1:20pm On Aug 14, 2023 |
It’s effective because there’s research going on Your family will contact her’s, ask questions outside about her, test her cooking skills, make sure no history of mental illness or barrenness in her family, ask around to make sure she’s not promiscuous. But if you go look for a wife by yourself, you lack the capacity to do the research a community can do 1 Like |
Re: Can You Marry Someone Your Family Members Arranged For You? by Smoothtalkerfnb: 1:21pm On Aug 14, 2023 |
The best thing to happen to any man is to allow his family choose a wife for him. If your sister or mother choose a wife for you my brother you will see the different..once you like the girl and the girl like u and her yansh is ok and she have a small beautiful face my brother enjoy a peaceful marriage.. In our land you can stay in America and marry in Nigeria,family will choose a wife for you .,’ after you come back give her belle still go back and your mum and siblings will be taking care of her chai very sweet. 1 Like |
Re: Can You Marry Someone Your Family Members Arranged For You? by Nobody: 1:22pm On Aug 14, 2023 |
Which trick?😂😂😂 Moh227: |
Re: Can You Marry Someone Your Family Members Arranged For You? by Nobody: 1:24pm On Aug 14, 2023 |
Very funny..🤣🤣🤣 Almunjid: |
Re: Can You Marry Someone Your Family Members Arranged For You? by cassyrooy(m): 1:35pm On Aug 14, 2023 |
Smoothtalkerfnb:Anambra right? |
Re: Can You Marry Someone Your Family Members Arranged For You? by candelahria(f): 1:38pm On Aug 14, 2023 |
The fact that the divorce rate of arranged marriages is low doesn't mean the couple are truly happy. It's more about the stigma of being a divorcee. Everyone should be allowed to make the choice of a life partner themselves. I'm assuming the OP is from India. 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Can You Marry Someone Your Family Members Arranged For You? by Danisaint112(m): 1:38pm On Aug 14, 2023 |
Yes if she is a virgin and we connect well one if she also my type. Why not? |
Re: Can You Marry Someone Your Family Members Arranged For You? by Smoothtalkerfnb: 1:47pm On Aug 14, 2023 |
A cassyrooy:imo |
Re: Can You Marry Someone Your Family Members Arranged For You? by Lucas4903: 2:00pm On Aug 14, 2023 |
I did and we are still balling happily ever after👍👍👍 1 Like |
Re: Can You Marry Someone Your Family Members Arranged For You? by cassyrooy(m): 2:12pm On Aug 14, 2023 |
Smoothtalkerfnb:I'm also from Imo, but based outside the state. That should be the proper way of life. Dating is exploitative and a wanton bubble of disappointment and waste of resources. |
Re: Can You Marry Someone Your Family Members Arranged For You? by correctguy101(m): 2:23pm On Aug 14, 2023 |
Many will vehemently reject this yet will still want to marry the so-called stranger introduced to them by Mark of FB or the crazy love doctor on radio... Humans, una wahala just too much...smh |
Re: Can You Marry Someone Your Family Members Arranged For You? by jeromestarks: 2:36pm On Aug 14, 2023 |
IamKizzbrown10:Your marriage will crash. |
Re: Can You Marry Someone Your Family Members Arranged For You? by 5fvv: 2:54pm On Aug 14, 2023 |
Moh227:mohammed safiu Oyedele is that why you raped your nephew and mother confess now because I have your pictures and videos |
Re: Can You Marry Someone Your Family Members Arranged For You? by 5fvv: 2:54pm On Aug 14, 2023 |
Moh227:mohammed safiu Oyedele is that why you raped your nephew and mother confess now because I have your pictures and videos |
Re: Can You Marry Someone Your Family Members Arranged For You? by Benrosaria(m): 3:04pm On Aug 14, 2023 |
https://www.nairaland.com/7802049/husband-not-same-man-married 👆 This is what happens when you marry the man a family arranges for you |
Re: Can You Marry Someone Your Family Members Arranged For You? by MySolace: 3:05pm On Aug 14, 2023 |
BoboNogoDie:Oga, na to use ur hand create d very girl o. Dis one u're saying ...U MUST...U MUST... Meanwhile, I hope u posses diz qualities and there equivalents...? No b only women should posses qualities |
Re: Can You Marry Someone Your Family Members Arranged For You? by iajour(m): 3:09pm On Aug 14, 2023 |
If she is from a very rich family. M all in |
Re: Can You Marry Someone Your Family Members Arranged For You? by Little21: 3:13pm On Aug 14, 2023 |
I think I can, if it was arranged by my parents cuz they know me the best. And it's not like we won't get to spend time with each other until the wedding day.. we will get to know each other, likes and dislikes, hobbies, interest, and so on. In other too know if it's gonna work out. 1 Like |
Re: Can You Marry Someone Your Family Members Arranged For You? by Justiceleague1: 3:15pm On Aug 14, 2023 |
Moh227: |
Re: Can You Marry Someone Your Family Members Arranged For You? by Elsueno: 3:16pm On Aug 14, 2023 |
Don't particularly care, as long as she isn't super religious, can cook really well, not too fat or skinny, average looking & above( beauty is in d eyes of d beholder), A VIRGIN( THIS IS ABSOLUTELY NECESSARY) then I can do arrange marriage thingy, cause to be honest, parents arranged marriage usually works out |
Re: Can You Marry Someone Your Family Members Arranged For You? by Kipaji: 3:33pm On Aug 14, 2023 |
Eeghe: Why the sisters and not, for examples, the mothers? |
Re: Can You Marry Someone Your Family Members Arranged For You? by qtx(m): 3:38pm On Aug 14, 2023 |
IamKizzbrown10: It is not a straight jacket answer. It depends. The truth really is that when it comes to perfect union, it does not matter how you got connected to your partner, be it through your parents or other family memembers, friend, school, church, shrine, mosque, bus, market, what really matters is if you are both compatible and truly love each other. Therefore, if you insist that family members must not offer you a partner, what if that partner happens to be someone with the qualities you wish to have in a wife? Am not insisting it must be your family that should provide you a partner, but will you say although she meets your specification therefore you wont accept her unless you meet the person yourself? I think one should have open mind towards considering how to get a partner. 1 Like |
Re: Can You Marry Someone Your Family Members Arranged For You? by kokoA(m): 3:40pm On Aug 14, 2023 |
Does she have yansh? |
Re: Can You Marry Someone Your Family Members Arranged For You? by Interactive34: 3:42pm On Aug 14, 2023 |
Kipaji: Men in arranged marriages often struggle to get sex and intimacy , cos the attraction is low... She may be a good woman in other areas though. |
Re: Can You Marry Someone Your Family Members Arranged For You? by Eeghe(f): 3:45pm On Aug 14, 2023 |
Kipaji: Sisters are of your generation, they know the signs of the times, they are dating other people at the same time as you- same dating sphere. They know the pranks, screws and nuts…the tricks so to say, as they also employ them too🤷🏾♀️ Mothers’ takes are not the best, even though they are also hundred percent for you… Their combined choice is also perfect… By sisters I also mean cousins (if you guys are close) Aunties are also limited the same way mother’s are Cheers |
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