pansophist:
An over-30-year-old woman with a child thinks she is a catch. Women logic.

I mean, you can be a catch as a good person, as a good mother, as a good friend, etc, but as far as sexual market value is concerned, humans, including men, aint a catch in attractiveness as they grow older, and it's worse for women.

Like I always said, feel free to live in delusion, reality will deal with you wotowoto offline.

pansophist:
An over-30-year-old woman with a child thinks she is a catch. Women logic.

I mean, you can be a catch as a good person, as a good mother, as a good friend, etc, but as far as sexual market value is concerned, humans, including men, aint a catch in attractiveness as they grow older, and it's worse for women.

Like I always said, feel free to live in delusion, reality will deal with you wotowoto offline.

Irupetepete:

I am in a similar situation, wife left me cos I ws in a financial mess which wasn't so before...
Now am doing fine and working on my life..
She is living her life believing dangote or oteldola will walk into the hotel she work ND wife her.
I always wish her well but nothing can make u come together again.. I pay feeding allowance for my kids every month so don't assume the story is fake

BOSSkesh:
There still hope, just wait for Shiloh 2023

crackhaus:

This can only happen in Nollywood...

seanwilliam:
Fake story

EmmyDJourno:
These women need to know that this is Africa and they need the home to remain relevant over time
Men are not really held by such constraints, the older we get the more our appeal, it’s the opposite for women, hence the saying; It’s a man’s world😎

pansophist:
An over-30-year-old woman with a child thinks she is a catch. Women logic.

I mean, you can be a catch as a good person, as a good mother, as a good friend, etc, but as far as sexual market value is concerned, humans, including men, aint a catch in attractiveness as they grow older, and it's worse for women.

Like I always said, feel free to live in delusion, reality will deal with you wotowoto offline.

fyzaila:
She refused to forgive herself and move on. Kept herself trapped in the past which is hunting her present state.

occfx:


They are been deceived easily. She was actually a catch as a mother and a wife to someone else but immediately she allowed that get into her head and left what made her a catch, that was the end.

If your wife is a public servant, if she is truthful to you, she will tell you how men are stupidly asking her out so, the hoeish ones will allow that get into their head and may descend to divorce thinking they will now be free to mingle with the big boys. Immediately the stupid chikers sees that they are now single, they will abandon them to their fate.

I don't know why some married women think they can compete with fresh single girls in there 20s. They don't know what makes them attractive is the Mrs. attached to there name. The con ones will want to eat there cakes and have it by cheating and still answering Mrs. but the end is always the same.

Vijuchoco:
Chai! It's really painful when you realize you can no longer right your wrong. I feel for her..

I have a similar regret

pansophist:
An over-30-year-old woman with a child thinks she is a catch. Women logic.

I mean, you can be a catch as a good person, as a good mother, as a good friend, etc, but as far as sexual market value is concerned, humans, including men, aint a catch in attractiveness as they grow older, and it's worse for women.

Like I always said, feel free to live in delusion, reality will deal with you wotowoto offline.

https://www.nairaland.com/7802848/regret-not-making-marriage-work/5#125111688

wonlasewonimi:
I have seen this happen on a regular basis.

Gamesmart:


You are obviously a weak man.

And I can guarantee you she has no attraction to you or has lost it.

She most likely settled for you to marry after she has passed her peak (~20 to 27 years old), none of the alpha males that she was giving her puni to smack it took her seriously and she was scared of ending up on the shelf, so she accepted your attention because (a) you are giving her attention, (b) you are a good and trustworthy guy, and (c) you earn enough to provide.

In her mind she has lost in the relationship and settled for someone she does not want nor highly value. You are a mere back-up option that has been exercised. There are better men in her past and that she has come across recently that can flush her reservoir far better than you.

You weakness is a turn off to her everytime and highlights her feeling of failure. She takes this feeling out on you because when women feel bad about their lives, they would rather blame someone else than take accountability of what they did wrong.

When a woman dares to ever threaten you that she will leave you, tell her to get the fuuuck out IMMEDIATELY. Tell her not to over-think it and do it now.

Talk less of when a woman is telling you how she fancies other men more than you and you accept it like mumu.

KarinaSlim:
Men are funny.

A man actually took time to sit down and write this post online to make us think a woman actually wrote it is actually hilarious

just to prove what exactly?

Funny species

maestro299:
I don't know the veracity of this particular story, but believe me, I've seen similar happen to close friends and family. It's almost like a running theme among them that they wish they could go back in time and make different choices...

seanwilliam:
Fake story

GUNITGuy:

You right though
I don't know how a man can put up with that treatment and not tell her a bluff to go ahead and what she wants and never come back again
That's a simp

Vijuchoco:
Chai! It's really painful when you realize you can no longer right your wrong. I feel for her..

I have a similar regret

Uptownerd: