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Re: My Mum Is Unconsolable One Month After by Sleekjunior(m): 11:30am On Aug 15, 2023 |
u must be very silly and stupid JASONjnr: 1 Like |
Re: My Mum Is Unconsolable One Month After by DenreleDave(m): 11:30am On Aug 15, 2023 |
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Re: My Mum Is Unconsolable One Month After by Darlingme(f): 11:31am On Aug 15, 2023 |
So sorry for your lost. It's hard on her. Let me cry and express her feelings. Time will heal her. You're about to travel, hope she wouldn't be alone in the house. Pls make provision of a relative or anyone who can stay with her for this period. May the Lord comfort her and every member of your family grieving. That's life. 1 Like |
Re: My Mum Is Unconsolable One Month After by Mikael0407(m): 11:32am On Aug 15, 2023 |
Sorry for your loss bro. There's nothing as painful as losing a child. Nothing you say can console her. Just allow her to grieve. Suppressing emotions will not make her feel better. Time only can heal all wounds. When she sees you moving on she'll have to adjust eventually 3 Likes |
Re: My Mum Is Unconsolable One Month After by BigBlackPreek(m): 11:32am On Aug 15, 2023 |
May Allah grant her the fortitude to bear the loss.. It is well with y'all |
Re: My Mum Is Unconsolable One Month After by Buskete(m): 11:33am On Aug 15, 2023 |
My wife lost her closest friend from the same ailment (Aplastic anaemia) some time ago. The loss of a loved one is incosolable and difficult but acknowledegement of the fact that it has happened (though difficult) is a good step in coping with grief. I can only imagine how painful your loss is for you and your family and my thoughts and prayers are for you and your mum to go through this phase and come out strong. God is with you and you'll be fine. |
Re: My Mum Is Unconsolable One Month After by wittywriter: 11:35am On Aug 15, 2023 |
@Jogojogo let her grief in her own way...with time she'll heal. But if you want get to reach out to someone she respects and listen to then let the person reach out to her in good spirit. I jogojogo: Stay strong. Wittyness |
Re: My Mum Is Unconsolable One Month After by DenreleDave(m): 11:36am On Aug 15, 2023 |
Yves4real: U must be very troublesome. U av said all wonderfully... You don't have to talk abt comment attackers. Let them come make mess of themselves.. Look at one st**.d one named jason up there, he is jsut making mess of his famz. Attacking IconicR.. Jason is a kid and u guys shud stop engaging him.. These are just boys still bin fed forming adult online 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Mum Is Unconsolable One Month After by DenreleDave(m): 11:37am On Aug 15, 2023 |
Sleekjunior: He is very very very stpd |
Re: My Mum Is Unconsolable One Month After by Nobody: 11:38am On Aug 15, 2023 |
jogojogo: Now that you're going to travel away from her, the agony for your mom is gonna triple...The way out, is to make arrangements for someone to be with her, so that she'll not develop HBP and die within a year because of loneliness. Anyway, RIP to your kid bro. 1 Like |
Re: My Mum Is Unconsolable One Month After by EmmyDJourno: 11:38am On Aug 15, 2023 |
Mehhhnnn, I don’t even know what to say🫂🫂🫂 Tell her to get busy with Church activities, that’s the best way to manage the pain, let’s her keep busy in God’s house My best friend’s Mum has not gotten over his death 18months after, when I go to their place, they don’t allow me see her so she doesn’t relive the trauma😢 3 Likes |
Re: My Mum Is Unconsolable One Month After by folake4u(f): 11:39am On Aug 15, 2023 |
I am so sorry for your loss. It is quite painful. Just give her time and allow her grieve in peace. Time really doesn't heal such wounds but still, she has a right to grieve. It is painful losing a child. I can totally relate. My sister died and my Mom was shattered cos that was her favourite child. My late sister was in final year with me as at then. Her death was painful. My Mum cried her eyes out for more than a month. The pain comes unexpectedly once in a while but still, we allowed her to grieve in peace. 2 Likes |
Re: My Mum Is Unconsolable One Month After by Emmanuel30a: 11:39am On Aug 15, 2023 |
jogojogo:I thought you people or guys knows how to make love or sexual intercourse...via or through anus and uterus... Is that too late now...?... Mumu mugu imun gun feeje buredi...won feran buredi oni buredi... Awon oni idi eleje reedi/eleje didi ni idi/oni idi jenkuredi...ara/iyekan awon ara LA Ebedi... |
Re: My Mum Is Unconsolable One Month After by adisabarber(m): 11:39am On Aug 15, 2023 |
jogojogo: Let her mourn her son till she feels better. Only God can console someone who lost a child. In her own time, she will begin to learn to live with the pain. Right now she has not even realized the pain will never go away. When she's crying, walk into her room, greet her, hug her but don't tell her to stop crying. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Mum Is Unconsolable One Month After by MrUchenna1(m): 11:40am On Aug 15, 2023 |
Lord, lift their eyes so that they may catch a glimpse of eternity, and be comforted by the promise of heaven. it is well with her |
Re: My Mum Is Unconsolable One Month After by BoldBrainz(m): 11:41am On Aug 15, 2023 |
Okay. What are we to do then? |
Re: My Mum Is Unconsolable One Month After by chris4gold(m): 11:44am On Aug 15, 2023 |
I was once in your shoes, and my mother never get out of this until she passed away 2 years ago. I pray God heal your home and send comfort to your family. RIP to the loved ones we have lost. |
Re: My Mum Is Unconsolable One Month After by Addme: 11:45am On Aug 15, 2023 |
Emmanuel30a:You need help, as in serious help. May God heal you. 1 Like |
Re: My Mum Is Unconsolable One Month After by Fugazy2023: 11:45am On Aug 15, 2023 |
I don't know what to say but I'm so sorry for your loss bro. May God console your family 🙏 |
Re: My Mum Is Unconsolable One Month After by Emmanuel30a: 11:45am On Aug 15, 2023 |
Addme:Mufu...dey dia... |
Re: My Mum Is Unconsolable One Month After by HappyPagan: 11:45am On Aug 15, 2023 |
She won't ever recover. My parents 'died' after my siblings died in a plane crash. It's almost twenty years later, and they still aren't themselves. 1 Like |
Re: My Mum Is Unconsolable One Month After by Aristotle2020: 11:45am On Aug 15, 2023 |
I can understand your pain personally..also lost my younger brother to Laekumia last year...and i understand how heartbroken my Fam were and still is..you just need find someone who's so dear to your mum to speak hope into her.. |
Re: My Mum Is Unconsolable One Month After by EthanSly: 11:47am On Aug 15, 2023 |
I'm deeply sorry for your loss.. Truth is there is nothing anybody can say right now that can console your mum. Nothing hurts a mother as loosing a child..it will take a very long time for her to heal.. Just be praying for her while she goes through the period of pain.. She will definitely come out of it but it's when I don't know.. 1 Like |
Re: My Mum Is Unconsolable One Month After by beardedboy(m): 11:48am On Aug 15, 2023 |
JASONjnr:What's the rubbish in it? |
Re: My Mum Is Unconsolable One Month After by VanDerWaalforces: 11:50am On Aug 15, 2023 |
It's a pity bro! So sorry dear. Accept my condolences I pray God grant your family especially your mother the fortitude to bear the loss; and may God grant your brother eternal rest. Amen! |
Re: My Mum Is Unconsolable One Month After by tommyray4ever(m): 11:51am On Aug 15, 2023 |
My condolences. With time she'll be fine. 🙏 |
Re: My Mum Is Unconsolable One Month After by Emmanuel30a: 11:53am On Aug 15, 2023 |
Addme:You should/would have done better by singing... Healing rain is falling down2×... I'm not afraid... |
Re: My Mum Is Unconsolable One Month After by jogojogo: 11:53am On Aug 15, 2023 |
jogojogo: I have been reading through our responses and I sincerely appreciate every response of encouragement and suggestion. You don't know how soothing your words have been. I am grateful to the admin for bringing up this post so many can contribute. Thank you so much and may God richly bless you all for your responses 3 Likes |
Re: My Mum Is Unconsolable One Month After by chi4ik4(m): 11:56am On Aug 15, 2023 |
So sorry for your loss bro. However: she's not going to be consoled, I lost my mum since 2007 and I still cry till date. It hurts me more now that I have some cash to spend on her but she's no more. The loss of a loved one is perpetual, it hurts and your emotions must react spontaneously. My sincere condolences. 1 Like |
Re: My Mum Is Unconsolable One Month After by mikeapollo: 11:56am On Aug 15, 2023 |
jogojogo: Sorry for the loss of your brother. One month is too short for a mother to stop weeping and mourning a son who died in his 20s. Keep consoling her and don't be tired of giving her hope that things will be fine. Let your father (if alive) get involved in the consolation. Also find time to take her out to comedy events and cinemas where she can watch good films to relax and laugh off some of the sorrows in her heavy heart. It takes time, but she will be fine. |
Re: My Mum Is Unconsolable One Month After by myrates: 11:57am On Aug 15, 2023 |
jogojogo:Sorry for your loss |
Re: My Mum Is Unconsolable One Month After by Emmanuel30a: 11:57am On Aug 15, 2023 |
jogojogo:Huh...? Hmmm um...?... |
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