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Re: My Mum Is Unconsolable One Month After by jogojogo: 12:28pm On Aug 15, 2023 |
Error401:Thanks so much |
Re: My Mum Is Unconsolable One Month After by Desusi: 12:29pm On Aug 15, 2023 |
tofolo:Interesting question. I had wanted to ask same question. Hope the dad is still alive, if not,this may be the reason why her pains seemed to be more.it's not an easy thing to bear.May loss of child never happened to us in life in Jesus name.Amen.l would suggest she leave her dwelling place for at lease a week.Get her engaged with something or let her be with the assembly of God's people where prayers and worship are offered in continuous manner. In no distance time, she will revived. Let her read her Bible for comfort too.Never allow her to be alone. |
Re: My Mum Is Unconsolable One Month After by MrAbufayed: 12:30pm On Aug 15, 2023 |
[quote author=IconicR post=125125042][/quote] Dumbie!!! |
Re: My Mum Is Unconsolable One Month After by Octopusssy(f): 12:32pm On Aug 15, 2023 |
GodWrites:True. Those telling her to stop crying don't seem to understand what it means to lose a child |
Re: My Mum Is Unconsolable One Month After by jogojogo: 12:33pm On Aug 15, 2023 |
Blankent:I really wish this can happen to me too. It's so strong on mind that these days I take pills to enable me sleep though my BP is normal. I wish this incident will wade off my mind really |
Re: My Mum Is Unconsolable One Month After by MrHighSea: 12:35pm On Aug 15, 2023 |
just Googled it, it's serious health condition |
Re: My Mum Is Unconsolable One Month After by lekonso: 12:36pm On Aug 15, 2023 |
Please engage the power of prayer. Only God can console effectively. Pray to God to console her, along with your own consolation, then you will see results. Your own consolation alone cannot do the magic 1 Like |
Re: My Mum Is Unconsolable One Month After by jogojogo: 12:37pm On Aug 15, 2023 |
Octopusssy:I won't mind if this can get to a point when it will be so easy for her to stop without resulting into another trouble |
Re: My Mum Is Unconsolable One Month After by benny24: 12:37pm On Aug 15, 2023 |
Encourage her to draw close to GOD, she should also try to keep herself busy with religious activities by engaging in such activities she would spend less time staying alone, this would help fast track the healing process, the more she stays alone and isolated she would be forced to brood over the misfortune |
Re: My Mum Is Unconsolable One Month After by jogojogo: 12:39pm On Aug 15, 2023 |
MrHighSea:Though a serious health health condition with high fatality but treatable |
Re: My Mum Is Unconsolable One Month After by PeachtreeReside(f): 12:39pm On Aug 15, 2023 |
IconicR: 1 month is too short for her or anyone to get over a loss. No one can hurry her up or make her get over it at the snap of a finger. That is why one needs to be good and kind to others so they can take turns in staying with us in our time of needs. The pain can never ever go . The scar never fades. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Mum Is Unconsolable One Month After by jogojogo: 12:42pm On Aug 15, 2023 |
benny24:Good, thanks so much |
Re: My Mum Is Unconsolable One Month After by Baddass: 12:43pm On Aug 15, 2023 |
It is really saddening and I can't even pretend to feel what you're going through. May the almighty God forgive the departed and grant you his family the fortitude to bear the loss. Sorry bro. |
Re: My Mum Is Unconsolable One Month After by jogojogo: 12:44pm On Aug 15, 2023 |
Desusi:Dad was gone 17 years ago |
Re: My Mum Is Unconsolable One Month After by jogojogo: 12:45pm On Aug 15, 2023 |
Baddass:Amen, thanks so much |
Re: My Mum Is Unconsolable One Month After by jogojogo: 12:47pm On Aug 15, 2023 |
Darlingme:Amen and Amen Thank you so much for the suggestion |
Re: My Mum Is Unconsolable One Month After by jogojogo: 12:48pm On Aug 15, 2023 |
BigBlackPreek:Ameen Thanks so much |
Re: My Mum Is Unconsolable One Month After by jogojogo: 12:49pm On Aug 15, 2023 |
wittywriter:Ok Thank you so much |
Re: My Mum Is Unconsolable One Month After by TaiwoKing: 12:50pm On Aug 15, 2023 |
chiommy123:Which better place could he be? |
Re: My Mum Is Unconsolable One Month After by jogojogo: 12:52pm On Aug 15, 2023 |
Emmanuel30a:What's this please 1 Like |
Re: My Mum Is Unconsolable One Month After by SPAMBOX7: 12:53pm On Aug 15, 2023 |
jogojogo:Let her know your bro won't be happy that she's put herself in the place she is. That he wojdywant her to move on and be happy. He won't be happy wherever he is, seeing her like that. So if she wants her son to be happy wherever he is she should move on. Cos for him to be happy where he is she has to be happy as well. I just hope it helps. It is well |
Re: My Mum Is Unconsolable One Month After by Mummyimbecile(m): 12:54pm On Aug 15, 2023 |
OP, first, let me start by asking you to please accept my sympathy on the loss of your brother. Losing a loved one and getting over it is not an easy thing unless by God's grace. I knew this when I lost my lovely Dad, it wasn't easy. I pray that God in his infinite mercies will give you, your mom, your siblings, and any other person that has lost someone dear to them the fortitude to bear the loss and move on... What else can we do? We cant question God. Secondly, I don't know if your mom stays alone, if she stays alone, I'll advise you to suspend your travel plans if it isn't necessary and stay with her till she gets over the death of your bro. Eh get why. I pray God sees you through. And also "ozo emena". For the sake of my brothers and sisters who ain't Igbo, it means "may such a thing not happen again". |
Re: My Mum Is Unconsolable One Month After by jogojogo: 12:55pm On Aug 15, 2023 |
chris4gold:Amen....I pray she get out of this sooner |
Re: My Mum Is Unconsolable One Month After by correctguy101(m): 12:56pm On Aug 15, 2023 |
Jewessgratitud3: Won't be easy for the woman . I still don't know how my elder sister helped my mum through the grieving of my dead old man. I'm inept in such consolations but seeing my mum grieving.... Don't know, I discovered I'm not as detached as I thought I was. The woman needs company now, more than ever. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Mum Is Unconsolable One Month After by Error401: 1:00pm On Aug 15, 2023 |
Welcome bro. About 4 years ago. My moms sisters lost her business and was in huge debt, everything got ruined, she was a millionaire. We lived in different cities and we hardly meet. My mom knew about the situation but she never thought it was so severe till she got a call that her sister was sick. She is my mom's carbon copy. When my mom saw her, she cried! she was so lean, she took her to our house and I was so surprised to see her loose so much weight. She started all over again with us. Started a small business and gradually forgetting her worries and recuperating. Today she is back on her feet, runs multiple business and have her own house and cars. She has always been very hardworking. That scenrio made me realize that Family plays a very important role in our life, I dont know about yours, if you have good people, inform them and she will surely get her life back. My sincere condolences Sir. jogojogo: 2 Likes |
Re: My Mum Is Unconsolable One Month After by Rikaxe9432: 1:01pm On Aug 15, 2023 |
Hmmmm no doubt ur mama na awareness seeker😊 |
Re: My Mum Is Unconsolable One Month After by blackboy2star(m): 1:05pm On Aug 15, 2023 |
Where's your dad in all of this br |
Re: My Mum Is Unconsolable One Month After by dbestuncle: 1:07pm On Aug 15, 2023 |
Does she have friends, church, social groups and associations that you can talk to. Plead with them to visit her regularly. My church used to have women do roaster of those who can go to such person's house and sleep over even we sometimes give a stipend for transportation. It's not easy but with time it will go down and she will be fine again. Then you have to also console yourself properly bcoz u too aren't helping her because she maybe noticing you too. jogojogo: 1 Like |
Re: My Mum Is Unconsolable One Month After by Jewessgratitud3: 1:08pm On Aug 15, 2023 |
correctguy101: True. |
Re: My Mum Is Unconsolable One Month After by Dshocker(m): 1:08pm On Aug 15, 2023 |
jogojogo: I saw a young guy that died, in a hospital beg, in the video a female voice was heard calling his name and crying in the background on Instagram |
Re: My Mum Is Unconsolable One Month After by Emmanuel30a: 1:11pm On Aug 15, 2023 |
jogojogo:Who are you please...?... |
Re: My Mum Is Unconsolable One Month After by Emmanuel30a: 1:11pm On Aug 15, 2023 |
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