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Re: 'A Man Who Lives In This Kind Of Apartment Shouldn't Be Thinking Of Marriage' by PotatoSalad(m): 3:36pm On Aug 15, 2023 |
shortgun:Pesin wey dey soak garri on a daily |
Re: 'A Man Who Lives In This Kind Of Apartment Shouldn't Be Thinking Of Marriage' by AdaAwka1: 3:38pm On Aug 15, 2023 |
SimplyAJ: no mind dem. women of now adays can pretend. 1 Like |
Re: 'A Man Who Lives In This Kind Of Apartment Shouldn't Be Thinking Of Marriage' by eboniest(f): 3:46pm On Aug 15, 2023 |
You guys here just love insulting ladies.. Anyways,it's not a big deal if a man stays in that kind of apartment..Do not despise the days of humble beginnings. |
Re: 'A Man Who Lives In This Kind Of Apartment Shouldn't Be Thinking Of Marriage' by JetApartment: 3:48pm On Aug 15, 2023 |
teedoxman89: Two massage seats after a stressful day and after nacking....dude is MVP
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Re: 'A Man Who Lives In This Kind Of Apartment Shouldn't Be Thinking Of Marriage' by franchasofficia: 3:49pm On Aug 15, 2023 |
pocohantas:Lolz To be frank with you, I don't see keeping mattress on the floor as an issue because almost all my friends right from higher institution days kept their mattress on the floor. As for ladies keeping their mattress on the floor, the thing is, I don't even expect a single lady to live alone without parents, siblings, aunt, uncle, etc to even expect her to own a mattress to start with. I never had high expectations from a lady I would date. The only things that mattered most to me was how humble, respectful, homely and focused she was. If she had a good job that's a big plus but never a must to me when I was single. I didn't even fancy career ladies when I was single lol, and I hated ladies in certain profession which I eventually ended up with and that was because she had other qualities I cherished. And I can categorically tell you that most Nigerian men don't expect much from ladies. Forget what guys say online, in real life, the number one quality guys look at is physical beauty, youthfulness, humility, respect. Many guys don't care if a lady is working, broke or not if she has other qualities they want 1 Like |
Re: 'A Man Who Lives In This Kind Of Apartment Shouldn't Be Thinking Of Marriage' by pocohantas(f): 4:01pm On Aug 15, 2023 |
franchasofficia: Guys expect MUCH for ladies. The mistake you make is assuming much to be money. A guy that wants youthfulness, humility, respect, submissiveness, ability to asslick his family, tight pumpum, perky breast...etc, is already asking for "MUCH" and that is what men ask for. Women want ability to provide and lead and they would look for signs that show this. Equal grounds. Don't start telling women not to judge or rate you. You rate women every single day by their youthfulness, looks, body count...etc. Both gender have what they want from the other and they must rate you. If you like, wear dusty slippers and be walking about. You would only be as deluded as women that dress indecently and say it is their heart that matters. You must be rated accordingly. And by the way, if you are indeed soft, babes don't need to see car to know. Many times I go to some kind markets and I am always singled out. Nigerians know how to smell comfort and money from your skin and mannerisms. 9 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: 'A Man Who Lives In This Kind Of Apartment Shouldn't Be Thinking Of Marriage' by JASONjnr(m): 4:03pm On Aug 15, 2023 |
IconicR: 🤪🤪🤪 |
Re: 'A Man Who Lives In This Kind Of Apartment Shouldn't Be Thinking Of Marriage' by franchasofficia: 4:06pm On Aug 15, 2023 |
pocohantas:You are damn right |
Re: 'A Man Who Lives In This Kind Of Apartment Shouldn't Be Thinking Of Marriage' by emmaodet: 4:08pm On Aug 15, 2023 |
Leggodeals: Omo....poor men don surfer. Chaii When did poor men become scraps? For God sake |
Re: 'A Man Who Lives In This Kind Of Apartment Shouldn't Be Thinking Of Marriage' by Machinegun91(m): 4:19pm On Aug 15, 2023 |
Post your father's parlour let's see |
Re: 'A Man Who Lives In This Kind Of Apartment Shouldn't Be Thinking Of Marriage' by 1Sharon(f): 4:21pm On Aug 15, 2023 |
GorillaApp: Getting a bed should be a priority. |
Re: 'A Man Who Lives In This Kind Of Apartment Shouldn't Be Thinking Of Marriage' by 1Sharon(f): 4:35pm On Aug 15, 2023 |
franchasofficia: You're only saying this because you're likely in the same situation and want to be taken as you are. You're not entitled to anybody love or affection. I'm sure you have what turns you off in a woman and no amount of convincing can do it for you. It's not about the mattress being on the floor. If a guy can afford it, why is the bed still on the floor? That shit is unsightly and highlights that he hasn't got his priorities in order. The things people choose to spend on, says alot about them. 1 Like |
Re: 'A Man Who Lives In This Kind Of Apartment Shouldn't Be Thinking Of Marriage' by pocohantas(f): 4:40pm On Aug 15, 2023 |
1Sharon: That is all. 1 Like |
Re: 'A Man Who Lives In This Kind Of Apartment Shouldn't Be Thinking Of Marriage' by Merry100: 4:40pm On Aug 15, 2023 |
Mutual understanding is what matters. Some couples might be able to manage a small apartment or a one-room apartment but personally, I can't. I believe in hard work and planning before marriage because the well-being and convenience of my future children are important to me. |
Re: 'A Man Who Lives In This Kind Of Apartment Shouldn't Be Thinking Of Marriage' by chipet67(m): 4:43pm On Aug 15, 2023 |
Jewessgratitud3:I catch the gist 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: 'A Man Who Lives In This Kind Of Apartment Shouldn't Be Thinking Of Marriage' by franchasofficia: 4:46pm On Aug 15, 2023 |
1Sharon:lolz maybe keeping mattress on the floor has become an issue for today's Nigerian single ladies, u know I am no longer in touch with what's trending for the chicks Single guys hope una de take note oh, stop keeping your mattress on the floor oh if u want fine fine chicks to de fall for u lol As for me eh, when I was single, I was too broke to even go into serious relationship cos I didn't have the confidence, the conviction and guts to start anything serious with people's daughters when I knew I had literally nothing to offer them back then, so there was no need to bother about keeping my mattress on the floor cos my room floor was my mattress' permanent home |
Re: 'A Man Who Lives In This Kind Of Apartment Shouldn't Be Thinking Of Marriage' by franchasofficia: 4:49pm On Aug 15, 2023 |
pocohantas:Poco its not all oh, I still don't see keeping mattress on the floor as a big deal cos many buoyant guys even see it as fashionable stuff to do, so to them its a choice which the woman can change when she comes in as his wife |
Re: 'A Man Who Lives In This Kind Of Apartment Shouldn't Be Thinking Of Marriage' by 1Sharon(f): 4:55pm On Aug 15, 2023 |
franchasofficia: If he can't afford a bed, that's not a crime. As I said before, if he can afford it but still chooses to keep his bed on the floor, that's an issue. |
Re: 'A Man Who Lives In This Kind Of Apartment Shouldn't Be Thinking Of Marriage' by franchasofficia: 4:57pm On Aug 15, 2023 |
1Sharon:okay oh lol |
Re: 'A Man Who Lives In This Kind Of Apartment Shouldn't Be Thinking Of Marriage' by Brandiebird: 4:59pm On Aug 15, 2023 |
Rikze: You’re the weirdo sleeping on a mattress on the floor. Some weird people on this thread romanticising poverty as if it’s noble. If a grown man and woman sleep on a mattress on the floor then they are poor and hopefully they will make more money. If they can afford a bed but prefer to sleep on a mattress on the floor then they have issues. 3 Likes |
Re: 'A Man Who Lives In This Kind Of Apartment Shouldn't Be Thinking Of Marriage' by Goodman247: 5:15pm On Aug 15, 2023 |
Jewessgratitud3:just a Nigerian thing, independent women rent houses, even build Thier own houses |
Re: 'A Man Who Lives In This Kind Of Apartment Shouldn't Be Thinking Of Marriage' by Jewessgratitud3: 5:20pm On Aug 15, 2023 |
Goodman247: I've been living independently since 2007 . Though started out with my twin but she later got married. Been on my own since then and I know a couple of ladies living independently and paying their own rent. 1 Like |
Re: 'A Man Who Lives In This Kind Of Apartment Shouldn't Be Thinking Of Marriage' by Codes151(m): 5:21pm On Aug 15, 2023 |
What do you have? You that is staying with your parents |
Re: 'A Man Who Lives In This Kind Of Apartment Shouldn't Be Thinking Of Marriage' by Oceanjagaban: 5:21pm On Aug 15, 2023 |
Who go snap my room?ona dey find trouble o |
Re: 'A Man Who Lives In This Kind Of Apartment Shouldn't Be Thinking Of Marriage' by pocohantas(f): 5:34pm On Aug 15, 2023 |
franchasofficia: No they don't. There is absolutely nothing fashionable about a mattress on the floor. It degrades the overall look of a room. If there is no money or for health/safety reasons, understandable. Mattress on the floor is tacky AF. 2 Likes |
Re: 'A Man Who Lives In This Kind Of Apartment Shouldn't Be Thinking Of Marriage' by OvertheTop(m): 5:48pm On Aug 15, 2023 |
Leggodeals: Calm Down! I understand Your Pain. Its Really Not Easy....But u'll All be Ok las las |
Re: 'A Man Who Lives In This Kind Of Apartment Shouldn't Be Thinking Of Marriage' by 1Sharon(f): 6:09pm On Aug 15, 2023 |
Brandiebird: Thank you!! If I said it, they'll jump on me and call me a materialistic snob. Imagine having a bed frame and choosing to sleep on the floor? Weird. Some people don't know better so can't do better. |
Re: 'A Man Who Lives In This Kind Of Apartment Shouldn't Be Thinking Of Marriage' by sunsweet33: 6:16pm On Aug 15, 2023 |
looks lovely but would be impossible to clean thoroughly. If you stay in one room, respect yourself and refrain from using carpet/rug. |
Re: 'A Man Who Lives In This Kind Of Apartment Shouldn't Be Thinking Of Marriage' by sunsweet33: 6:21pm On Aug 15, 2023 |
Deebami: They started with this type of beginning and then when dude started making money, began to cheat on her with more upper class babes. Hmmm 😑 building a man is overrated! 1 Like |
Re: 'A Man Who Lives In This Kind Of Apartment Shouldn't Be Thinking Of Marriage' by sageb: 6:24pm On Aug 15, 2023 |
carl90: So true |
Re: 'A Man Who Lives In This Kind Of Apartment Shouldn't Be Thinking Of Marriage' by sunsweet33: 6:27pm On Aug 15, 2023 |
Leggodeals: Well it’s a nice speech. But actually majority of people aren’t ugly. They may have issues that need to be addressed like dentition, skin, weight, jaw alignment and so on but it’s quite difficult to find a truly unattractive woman. Most are average or slightly above average. Female genetics are partially predicated on beauty. We are designed to be attractive. I’m sure you’re not as ugly as you claim. |
Re: 'A Man Who Lives In This Kind Of Apartment Shouldn't Be Thinking Of Marriage' by tosinhtml: 6:32pm On Aug 15, 2023 |
pocohantas: This part is not accurate, babes need complete evidence of prosperity before they qualify you as adequate. Only women are judged just by looking soft without any actual verifiable evidence. There are a lot of Lekki babes that I know looking soft & they don't have any verifiable thing they do for a living. You can still be a fresh guy as a man, but if you don't have money in your pocket. No be freshness dem go chop. You should ask Ike of big brother, he looks fresh, American accent & finesse but babes no send am, because they now know he doesn't have shishi. |
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