Puss360:

I've had the unfortunate encounter of my life happen like dis....
Mine sef was birthday...
Met two weeks before my birthday, we began chatting, so I decided to use my birthday to meet..
Lol, we went shopping o, we ate...he really spent sha...
It was December...
January came, new year resolution, I decided to cut off, lol he became angry...oo..
Said many things, I couldn't recall, but he mentioned the birthday outing..
But we weren't dating, I told him...

So Nigerians guys has this "I spend on you, you are mine" mentality

Thanks for sharing...that's why I never believed in spending on random girl. I blame guys that assume alot in their head. I rather ask direct questions and make my intentions know from day one. I want you to be mine. Are you in a relationship? Are you engaged?...

That way we are both sure of what we are getting into

bonnyhope:


When billing has started

So if he gives me 2k.. datin don start?

IconicR:
That is their own cup of tea
How would you just assume you are dating someone just because of one yeye lunch.

How many lunches does it take to officiate dating?

IconicR:
That is their own cup of tea
How would you just assume you are dating someone just because of one yeye lunch.

You call it yeye launch abi

IconicR:
That's his loss because you never agreed to his request, he was the one assuming things

Forget all these una long talk. The only time a man can beat his chest and say this is my girlfriend is when he has sex with her, very good sex o, especially a typical Nigerian girl.

ExudeLoveToAll:



A guy did this to someone he isn't dating, people are really trying. I can't fathom me being in this scenario ever.

This is my recipe for excluding wasters of resources out of my life . At the beginning stage of wooing a lady sex and money is taken out of the equation. I delve to know your inner mindset , if it doesn't align with mine I declare mission impossible ghost protocol.

People are there to milk the other person of his resources and then throw them away like a pack osf cards, getting to know someone is all about stripping people of their finance and livelihood.

I can't believe people will use Monsey to try to coerce people into accepting them. Most times it hits the rock

This is my way of taking out locust out of my precinct

Okay noted

When she cashes out from you

Puss360:
After seeing this topic -https://www.nairaland.com/7803848/leave-good-woman-man-because -
I decided to ask when does "We are dating" officially starts in a relationship..

Assuming a guy exchange number with a girl on Friday, they began chatting, on Friday the following week, they met for lunch...

Fast forward to a month later, the guy discovered that Tuesday before the Friday they met for lunch, the girl had sex with a frnd..

Can the guy claim the girl cheated while they were dating??

I'm confused here ..

If woman never toast you directly or indirectly, you are still poor. I remember when my handsome elder brother and cousin started making money them chok them. One thing I respected them is that they were able to pick a career women after Chopin all the desperate (I think I fine) girls. Just make money and rest. Thank God I followed their full steps, I took me 5 years of hardwork to blow. Them don toast me tire, even though I short n wowo, them no one know. Just make more money. Then use your brain select the best

When you are outed on social and you don't chicken out. Move my wife used on me and as her title states it paid big time .

Puss360:

I've had the unfortunate encounter of my life happen like dis....
Mine sef was birthday...
Met two weeks before my birthday, we began chatting, so I decided to use my birthday to meet..
Lol, we went shopping o, we ate...he really spent sha...
It was December...
January came, new year resolution, I decided to cut off, lol he became angry...oo..
Said many things, I couldn't recall, but he mentioned the birthday outing..
But we weren't dating, I told him...

So Nigerians guys has this "I spend on you, you are mine" mentality

Na hm fall mugu na

Spending without plucking the fruit

When she gave him her phone number.

Puss360:

I've had the unfortunate encounter of my life happen like dis....
Mine sef was birthday...
Met two weeks before my birthday, we began chatting, so I decided to use my birthday to meet..
Lol, we went shopping o, we ate...he really spent sha...
It was December...
January came, new year resolution, I decided to cut off, lol he became angry...oo..
Said many things, I couldn't recall, but he mentioned the birthday outing..
But we weren't dating, I told him...

So Nigerians guys has this "I spend on you, you are mine" mentality

it is everywhere.. same in the western countries, same in Africa.

bonnyhope:


Na hm fall mugu na

Spending without plucking the fruit

If I'm not ready nko?? Will he rape me?

Puss360:

If I'm not ready nko?? Will he rape me?

Then he should not be ready to spend his hard earned money

Puss360:

So if he gives me 2k.. datin don start?

Yes o

If guy de collect your number easily, I mean if you de give guy your number anyhow, na general market

Puss360:

Surely as a single girl without commitment, some girls have male FWB...
Then when she has a serious guy in her life, she'll end all commitment and focus....

"Immediately she agrees to his love request".. how?
Some guys that'll see you on the road and begin to shower you with love talk so how will we know the original love?

Abi once a guy collect your number, you are now dating? If I collect another guy number the next day nko?

Puss360:

Surely as a single girl without commitment, some girls have male FWB...
Then when she has a serious guy in her life, she'll end all commitment and focus....

"Immediately she agrees to his love request".. how?
Some guys that'll see you on the road and begin to shower you with love talk so how will we know the original love?

Abi once a guy collect your number, you are now dating? If I collect another guy number the next day nko?

Wait, does this then validate the popular belief that any girl having a close male friend is most likely having sexual intercourse with the male friend?

Oh, FWB = friend with benefits, smh.


Why not marry that yhur "friend with benefits" then?


Ladies should better wise up and stop being stupid. Yhu give yhurself to some guys - to be eating yhu up in the name of friend with benefits? That is so dirty and gross to even imagine.

When you've both made your intention known to each other.

bonnyhope:


Then he should not be ready to spend his hard earned money

Wahala...so now to you, your money goes hand in hand with sex??

Puss360:

So if I go out with a frnd I must date him?

if the feeling is mutual

Rebuke:







Wait, does this then validate the popular belief that any girl having a close male friend is most likely having sexual intercourse with the male friend?

Oh, FWB = friend with benefits, smh.


Why not marry that yhur "friend with benefits" then?


Ladies should better wise up and stop being stupid. Yhu give yhurself to some guys - to be eating yhu up in the name of friend with benefits? That is so dirty and gross to even imagine.

Abeg let us rest with all these marriage talk.. Did you marry all the girls you've had sex with?
Stop being hypocritical here please..

Well, I think it’s when knackology is involved then proper dating has stand. Don’t know about ya sha

Etranshub:
if the feeling is mutual

Ok

GOVERNORR:
If guy de collect your number easily, I mean if you de give guy your number anyhow, na general market

But girl don give you number before? Why didn't u tag her "General market"..
And you wey more than 3 girls get your number , are you "General Supplier"?

bonnyhope:


Yes o

Oya send your azza make I give you your 2k so we go rest.... 2k= dating for your side😂😂😂😂

Bellotelli:

Forget all these una long talk. The only time a man can beat his chest and say this is my girlfriend is when he has sex with her, very good sex o, especially a typical Nigerian girl.

Chai... Sorry to those "No sex before marriage crew"... coz nothing to beat their chest for

1st hacking

No vex but, I read here still that if your woman easily give men her number.. there's tendency you'd consider visiting them

Puss360:

But girl don give you number before? Why didn't u tag her "General market"..
And you wey more than 3 girls get your number , are you "General Supplier"?

Puss360:

Ooho... Some guys don't know that one o...
After one lunch, they believe I have agree to toasting..

of course nau..! Why will you eat lunch.. eating lunch means you have accept.

ExudeLoveToAll:



A guy did this to someone he isn't dating, people are really trying. I can't fathom me being in this scenario ever.

This is my recipe for excluding wasters of resources out of my life . At the beginning stage of wooing a lady, sex and money is taken out of the equation. I delve to know your inner mindset , if it doesn't align with mine I declare mission impossible ghost protocol. If it agrees then I ask , if offer is accepted then we are good to go.

People are there to milk the other person of his resources and then throw them away like a pack of cards, getting to know someone is all about stripping people of their finance and livelihood.

I can't believe people will use Monsey to try to coerce people into accepting them. Most times it hits the rock.

This is my way of taking out locust out of my precinct

Okay noted

Puss360:

Oya send your azza make I give you your 2k so we go rest.... 2k= dating for your side😂😂😂😂

Na small small e de start na

From 2k it will enter " pls assist to renew my rent"

Or "my phone is bad"

Tymk:
USELESS topic.
The op, the mod that push it to front page. Se un, everyone above and below me are all useless

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