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Re: How Do I Avoid Paying My Wife Alimony In The Event Of Divorce? by Ishilove: 8:51pm On Aug 19, 2023
JASONjnr:


Definitely....

She's a qπŸ‘‘een to behold.
Slow down, tiger 🐯 smiley
Re: How Do I Avoid Paying My Wife Alimony In The Event Of Divorce? by JASONjnr(m): 8:51pm On Aug 19, 2023
Ishilove:

Smooth... cheesy

Ajeh..... You just de raise di morale!🀣🀣
Re: How Do I Avoid Paying My Wife Alimony In The Event Of Divorce? by Ishilove: 8:52pm On Aug 19, 2023
JASONjnr:


You know, this will really make sense if we could go offline, right?
Ogbeni you sef send a PM o jare
Re: How Do I Avoid Paying My Wife Alimony In The Event Of Divorce? by Ishilove: 8:53pm On Aug 19, 2023
JASONjnr:


Ajeh..... You just de raise di morale!🀣🀣
I love me a good romance story grin grin grin
Re: How Do I Avoid Paying My Wife Alimony In The Event Of Divorce? by JASONjnr(m): 9:05pm On Aug 19, 2023
Ishilove:

Ogbeni you sef send a PM o jare

I did since....

Waiting for her reply oh.... And I don de enter grey hair for the matter sef....
Re: How Do I Avoid Paying My Wife Alimony In The Event Of Divorce? by JASONjnr(m): 9:06pm On Aug 19, 2023
Ishilove:

I love me a good romance story grin grin grin

Lol..... If we go private it will stay private, you pokey-nosey....

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Re: How Do I Avoid Paying My Wife Alimony In The Event Of Divorce? by Tayorshd87(m): 9:16pm On Aug 19, 2023
MrsTwrite:
Next time no marry student wey eye still dey up, get someone that is matured, that has the fear of God, someone that won't betray your trust.

God bless you at least a woman that is not just matured but also ready for marital challenges and I think school girls are not fit in this category at all unless if you are just lucky because what TikTok Instagram and social media as a whole has turn our girls into ehn 😒

I can't even say it

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Re: How Do I Avoid Paying My Wife Alimony In The Event Of Divorce? by Tayorshd87(m): 9:18pm On Aug 19, 2023
Jazmine10:
Oga "Nigerian Girls" are not your problems in life. All the men that cheat or commit murders does that mean all Nigerian men are useless or there are no good men out there. Make some of una men sef dey get sense. Una go carry eye go market pick augumented breast and yanch, wey get olosho vibes forget say una need check interiors as inner beauty, values etc come dey yarn dust say all Nigerian girls are this and that. Dem no train your sister well?
@ Op, you know what you married and the decision is yours as with your GOD and to your faith or lack of it.

I guess u are having a valid point here too because many Nigerian men married hot chick I mean hot babes 😊 and they are the olosho categories In disguise

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Re: How Do I Avoid Paying My Wife Alimony In The Event Of Divorce? by Tayorshd87(m): 9:19pm On Aug 19, 2023
JASONjnr:
Omo, when news like this keeps me thinking.....


I never marry and old age is getting closer..... I fit just stay single all mi life...

Don't at least try impregnate a lady and give birth even if u don't want to marry plz old age is real
Re: How Do I Avoid Paying My Wife Alimony In The Event Of Divorce? by Tayorshd87(m): 9:26pm On Aug 19, 2023
Jazmine10:
Me i no know about that. I no dey do hookup, there are still decent people around. There are still decent human beings with strong value system, morals and self worth whether dem get money or not. As no be all men be gigolo as there are some men with all the dollars in the world no go knack yansh, no be all Nigerian women dey do runs. Make una no dey generalize. No be everybody be suffer head. Change your circle, change your choice of women.

The problem is majority of women they do am 95% over 100 so if it's majority then that's all women then 😑.
Although some very few are still good women if u are lucky cos I found one already 😊
Re: How Do I Avoid Paying My Wife Alimony In The Event Of Divorce? by Tayorshd87(m): 9:29pm On Aug 19, 2023
Jbleenk:


I hope to when I’m all settled. At the moment we are separated. Once I get my bearings back together maybe I will.

I feel your pain and I can't really blame u too because when a man is in love he can go extra length to quickly marry the girl all in the name of love and will only be better if you can study your woman first and be patient because it's a lifetime game so it reuqires patience πŸ€”.
Sorry bro because life has not manual we all can make mistake.

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Re: How Do I Avoid Paying My Wife Alimony In The Event Of Divorce? by Ishilove: 9:36pm On Aug 19, 2023
JASONjnr:


Lol..... If we go private it will stay private, you pokey-nosey....
Ehn, my inner spirit man will pokenose and monitor the romance grin

Jazmine10, aunty answer the uncle na cry

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Re: How Do I Avoid Paying My Wife Alimony In The Event Of Divorce? by JASONjnr(m): 9:57pm On Aug 19, 2023
Ishilove:

Ehn, my inner spirit man will pokenose and monitor the romance grin

Jazmine10, aunty answer the uncle na cry

Ghen ghen.....😎

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Re: How Do I Avoid Paying My Wife Alimony In The Event Of Divorce? by JASONjnr(m): 9:58pm On Aug 19, 2023
Tayorshd87:


Don't at least try impregnate a lady and give birth even if u don't want to marry plz old age is real

Lol..... I'm more honorary to just impregnate a lady....


Don't worry, there's no pressure!😎
Re: How Do I Avoid Paying My Wife Alimony In The Event Of Divorce? by Nobody: 10:10pm On Aug 19, 2023
Ishilove:

It takes grace to meet a good person, whether man or woman. Bad character no dey show for face, my sister, so even if we decide to avoid Nigerian men, there is no guarantee that non-Nigerian men will be better.

As for Jason, nothing tried nothing gained, huh? smiley
Girl! Yes, it does take grace to meet good people and i am all for good people and positive energy! I am suspecting this my Sister eh. Bia, biko Ishilove how much Jason pay you to advocate for am? Biko ye'm cutm osiso shap shap! πŸ˜…πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

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Re: How Do I Avoid Paying My Wife Alimony In The Event Of Divorce? by Nobody: 10:11pm On Aug 19, 2023
JASONjnr:


You know, this will really make sense if we could go offline, right?
Ya think?!
Re: How Do I Avoid Paying My Wife Alimony In The Event Of Divorce? by Nobody: 10:14pm On Aug 19, 2023
JASONjnr:


Lol..... I'm more honorary to just impregnate a lady....


Don't worry, there's no pressure!😎
Lmao
Re: How Do I Avoid Paying My Wife Alimony In The Event Of Divorce? by Nobody: 10:18pm On Aug 19, 2023
Ishilove:

What say you, Jazmine10? Instead of standing by the window and admiring the movie playing inside, why not come in, take a seat and if the movie ain't what you like, you can always walk back out the door. wink grin
One for idioms huh? Aren't you quite the matchmaker IshiloveπŸ˜„
Re: How Do I Avoid Paying My Wife Alimony In The Event Of Divorce? by Nobody: 10:21pm On Aug 19, 2023
Tayorshd87:


The problem is majority of women they do am 95% over 100 so if it's majority then that's all women then 😑.
Although some very few are still good women if u are lucky cos I found one already 😊
Good for you you found yours! Now would it be fair to your woman to assume she does runs because in your mind majority of Nigerian girls do that?
Re: How Do I Avoid Paying My Wife Alimony In The Event Of Divorce? by Nobody: 10:24pm On Aug 19, 2023
Tayorshd87:


I guess u are having a valid point here too because many Nigerian men married hot chick I mean hot babes 😊 and they are the olosho categories In disguise
Shebi dem say to be good girl no dey pay? Say every Saturday na bad gils dem dey marry? A'tor, na the report card be this thread wey @Op open so.
Re: How Do I Avoid Paying My Wife Alimony In The Event Of Divorce? by Nobody: 10:27pm On Aug 19, 2023
Ishilove:

Ehn, my inner spirit man will pokenose and monitor the romance grin

Jazmine10, aunty answer the uncle na cry
Ishilove you don watch Zeeworld too muchπŸ˜… You say? Wetin make i answer the uncle? The uncle ask jamb question?
Re: How Do I Avoid Paying My Wife Alimony In The Event Of Divorce? by Nobody: 10:28pm On Aug 19, 2023
JASONjnr:


Ghen ghen.....😎
Na action film you wan act here. Isilove say na Zeeworld grade of janiman.... na you be actor or boss?
Re: How Do I Avoid Paying My Wife Alimony In The Event Of Divorce? by JASONjnr(m): 11:55pm On Aug 19, 2023
Jazmine10:
Ya think?!

Yea, I know so....😎
Re: How Do I Avoid Paying My Wife Alimony In The Event Of Divorce? by juman(m): 2:59am On Aug 20, 2023
Calm down man.
It was a distraction of one of her many ex boyfriends.
She is learning to be wife and stick with a man.
Sustain your marriage.
Next lady you would get maybe the same.
Re: How Do I Avoid Paying My Wife Alimony In The Event Of Divorce? by kingreign(m): 6:37am On Aug 20, 2023
Jazmine10:
[s]Hmm...i guess! It's just that i get critical looking at the crop of Nigerian men, their ways, the society in general... how problematic they can be with cheating and how they treat women? It is cringe worthy! Like some of them act towards women like they were not raised right or from decent families! + Unecessary in-law drama/ wahala. Furthermore most of them apart from "money" have absolutely nothing going on for them. Abeg oh jare....Ishilove my Sister the way the world dey ehn, e no pure to carry Nigerian men wahala join walai.
I guess JASONjnr may be an exception and a good man but omo, the thing dey fear pesin[/s].
I

Trashy hasty comment borne out of pure hatred for Nigerian men. Next thing this one will start telling us Westerners or other African men are better or she'd come out as a member of LGBTQ or non binary.

SPITS! angry
Re: How Do I Avoid Paying My Wife Alimony In The Event Of Divorce? by Nobody: 10:15am On Aug 20, 2023
kingreign:


Trashy hasty comment borne out of pure hatred for Nigerian men. Next thing this one will start telling us Westerners or other African men are better or she'd come out as a member of LGBTQ or non binary.

SPITS! angry

I spit back at you. What is trashy or hasty in the observation? Does the observation trigger you? Then you must certainly be numbered among the corrupt morons. As corrupt as you may be maybe for the right amount you fit knack yansh no mean say others are wired that way. Now run along little boy and don't bother mentioning me again because you will be ignored hence.
Re: How Do I Avoid Paying My Wife Alimony In The Event Of Divorce? by kingreign(m): 10:27am On Aug 20, 2023
Jazmine10:
I spit back at you. What is trashy or hasty in the observation? Does the observation trigger you? Then you must certainly be numbered among the corrupt morons. As corrupt as you may be maybe for the right amount you fit knack yansh no mean say others are wired that way. Now run along little boy and don't bother mentioning me again because you will be ignored hence.
Seems I touched your nerves, anyways, my assertions and observations about you and my comments are very incredibly correct, if you don't like it deal with it. Now run along kid!
Re: How Do I Avoid Paying My Wife Alimony In The Event Of Divorce? by Jbleenk: 12:17pm On Aug 20, 2023
juman:
Calm down man.
It was a distraction of one of her many ex boyfriends.
She is learning to be wife and stick with a man.
Sustain your marriage.
Next lady you would get maybe the same.

Trust me aside the cheating there are other things I find very unbearable. I will find time to write about my experience when the time is right.
Re: How Do I Avoid Paying My Wife Alimony In The Event Of Divorce? by juman(m): 1:22pm On Aug 20, 2023
Jbleenk:


Trust me aside the cheating there are other things I find very unbearable. I will find time to write about my experience when the time is right.

Both of you should see marriage counsellor.
Its not uncommon to find "unbearable" things in young marriage.
Two people from different background coming together to become one unit is hard task.

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Re: How Do I Avoid Paying My Wife Alimony In The Event Of Divorce? by modernWays: 1:23pm On Aug 20, 2023
MrsTwrite:
Next time no marry student wey eye still dey up, get someone that is matured, that has the fear of God, someone that won't betray your trust.

Exactly. Of all mature beautiful ladies around, he went for a student who is probably still whoring around with her course mates and sugar daddies.

@op, except you are one broke small boy, you deserve a working class mature lady who know the value of marriage. Please don't make that mistake again. Students are for enjoyment and not to be married when still at schools.

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Re: How Do I Avoid Paying My Wife Alimony In The Event Of Divorce? by MrsTwrite(f): 7:32am On Aug 21, 2023
Tayorshd87:


God bless you at least a woman that is not just matured but also ready for marital challenges and I think school girls are not fit in this category at all unless if you are just lucky because what TikTok Instagram and social media as a whole has turn our girls into ehn 😒

I can't even say it


You're absolutely right sir.
Re: How Do I Avoid Paying My Wife Alimony In The Event Of Divorce? by Ishilove: 8:28am On Aug 21, 2023
Jazmine10:
Ishilove you don watch Zeeworld too muchπŸ˜… You say? Wetin make i answer the uncle? The uncle ask jamb question?
No. He is dancing the mating dance that is as old as time itself wink

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