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Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by Emily22(m): 6:51pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
NairaMaster1: All she said is trash, a man came back home, entered kitchen, started beating you , broke your phone without anything triggering it. I am sure she must have insulted the living daylight out of the man. Now she is playing the pity card. 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by BeigJawnson(m): 6:51pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
Procashtips: Re-read please. |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by Kobojunkie: 6:51pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
Stevedison:Persevere in what sense? Stay in the same home with a man who let his frustrations led him to use her as a punching bad? He still doesn't have a job so he is still frustrated. Are you suggesting the man has no understanding even after 2 whole years that the person who has been housing and feeding him is a human being? 2. Prayer for what exactly? That the man doesn't come back and break her head next time? Do you know how long Osinachi must have prayed only to end up wormfood after it all? Why una dey like prescribe prayer where commonsense supposed be the best option? 5 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by Elims91(m): 6:51pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
Because he lost his job you decided to treat him bad 2 Likes |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by fitinwell: 6:51pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
Dogalmighty17: You said it all .. |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by braine(m): 6:51pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
This marriage is over. Just wait till he is able to find his feet, then you'll know wassup. This is one of the many problems that men without money face. It is well. 4 Likes |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by BeigJawnson(m): 6:51pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
talented321: Rush you say? |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by ORIAYO70(m): 6:52pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
Procashtips: My dear Chief Justice I never judge, what I said in summary is, losing job is not an excuse to be tipsy or become drunk... We can feed woman 200yrs if woman feed u 2days u r in soup. But the beating side is No. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by UnfairLife7(m): 6:52pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
Procashtips:jobless for 2 years? He is obviously reluctant to get something doing or too selective/picky The problem i have with some of you guys is that you know what is wrong and right. If you're in Nigeria, some of you do abnormal but the moment you get to Murtala international airport, you behave decently Anyway only neive women tolorate you guys rubbish 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by royalfly(m): 6:52pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
BRATISLAVA: My dear, you not married neither do you know the full details of that story. If the man is truly wrong, let him be hanged. Don't use one story to generalize even the woman understands but u claiming osinachi this and that. Marraige nor be movie, 1 Like |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by fitinwell: 6:53pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
Verokeena: Madam you have lost your Home forever... Your Actions are delibrate.. so you brought up your family matter here on social media to brag about your actions in the name of feeling guilty.. Your cup is full already oo.. 5 Likes |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by Procashtips(m): 6:53pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
Dennisochampa: Why is she feeling guilty if what she narrated is the absolute truth? How come it was police station straight she went to? They dont have friends? Relatives? Parents? Neighbors? Even church/mosque members (clergymen)? She feels guilty because she's the actual oppressor in the home and used this to her advantage. This I am 80% sure of. It's every tendency that 80% of what she wrote here are lies. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by ExudeLoveToAll: 6:53pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
UnfairLife7: You still don't get it, I didn't comment on the OP marriage issue. Enjoy your evening |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by Nobody: 6:54pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
Thank you.. Emily22: |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by Ikorodurealtor: 6:54pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
Samantha124: You don't take nonsense? Then marriage is not for you.... Because in marriage, you must be ready to take nonsense. 1 Like |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by popcykaylah(m): 6:54pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
Madam I am a man and I respect your efforts ,if he's doing all you claim and he's hitting you then he deserves more than two days .if he doesn't wanna speak to you let him be and stop apologizing . Let him feed on his ego .. face your kids 3 Likes |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by Hedonisco: 6:55pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
I keep saying it that most Nigerians are useless without their jobs. They mostly not only lack marketable and/or bankable skills, but are also grossly bereft of basic hustling/money making knowhow. All the hanging shoulder and forming big for nothing often takes a simple job loss for everything to come crashing down. At that point they wouldn't know what to do to earn ordinary N1k on their own. Sorry, but this observation is my only (unhelpful) contribution. 2 Likes |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by Kobojunkie: 6:55pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
Ororocelemi:
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Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by kchaste(m): 6:55pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
Verokeena: This is only your side of the story. His side of the story might tell the opposite. What's was going through your mind in the two nights he slept in the police cell like a criminal. You both need help. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by Beverlyjean(f): 6:55pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
Samantha124: Women like u give evil advice ... people should avoid women like u 2 Likes |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by stevups(m): 6:55pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
Don't worry, shit happens. He will soon forget and forgive you. Just try to do well well for him 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by Styluss: 6:56pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
Verokeena:Quick question would you have arrested him if he was the breadwinner of your family even though he was drunk and asulted you? 2 Likes |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by luskysylver(m): 6:56pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
MEN ALWAYS USE THEIR FRUSTRATIONS ON THEIR WIVES. I DONT KNOW WHY. WHEN AM NOT HAPPY I JUST FOCUS ON THE THINGS THAT GOT ME SAD AND MOVE ON. I HAVE MADE SO MANY WRONG FINANCIAL DECISIONS THAT AM SERIOUSLY FACING THE CONSEQUENCES AND NON OF THESE DECISIONS WERE CAUSED BY MY WIFE BUT I HAVE TO BEHAVE MYSELF AND WOULD NEVER BLAME HER FOR ANY OF THIS DECISIONS. WHEN U LOST A JOB, REMEMBER UR WIFE WAS NOT UR EMPLOYER, SO ITS BEST U START THINKING ON WHAT TO DO. ARRESTING UR HUSBAND WAS THE BEST DECISION ATLEAST HE WILL KNOW THAT U KNOW UR RIGHTS INASMUCH AS HE WILL NOT BE HAPPY HE SHOULD ALSO KNOW THAT U WERE NOT ALSO HAPPY FOR HIM TO HIT U. 5 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by cococandy(f): 6:56pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
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Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by braine(m): 6:56pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
Alusiizizi: 100% |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by sonofthunder: 6:56pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
Verokeena: This problem did not start with your husband losing his job. It's either you are hiding the main problem from us or you also don't know the problem. In both cases it's almost impossible to get a solution here (or anywhere else) What led to his depression? Or was he simply hiding his bad habits? Why will he doubt if the children are his? From your timeline you most likely had them before he lost the job. 3 Likes |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by Hisincrease: 6:57pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
Persephone1: Very apt reasoning. You can be legally right but culturally wrong. I think I have learnt from this comment. Thank you. 2 Likes |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by Willie2015: 6:57pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
Elims91: Every man should have not less than 3 streams of income.... U will know the true nature of a woman... the day you lose your job and you dont have a back up to provide... A husband in this scenario need to have double portion of Patience... 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by UnfairLife7(m): 6:57pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
occfx:if we don't believe everything she said at least you and i know some men are violence in marriage by hitting their wives. |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by Weathered: 6:58pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
Verokeena:for you to disrespect, lock up your husband in a police cell, another man is fawking you 2 Likes |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by Procashtips(m): 6:58pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
UnfairLife7: You obviously believed her 100% What if what he's bringing home is like 20% of what he was handling before losing his job? Been married before? Ever been told by a woman that 'what are you even bringing home self"? Ever been told -" is this what your mates are dropping for food"? Did she tell you how long the man has been working and fending for the home before losing his job 2 years ago? Did you bother to ask if he does side hustles or drops whatever that comes his way? Did you bother to ask if he smoked and drank prior to losing his job and why the sudden change? Imagine judging someone else with a one sided story without asking relevant questions. 3 Likes |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by kchaste(m): 6:58pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
Verokeena: You call it emotional blackmail? You are obviously happy with your actions. U are wicked. If u like let those who are single mothers or can't find a husband or can't keep one mislead u here. 5 Likes |
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