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Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by RomanGreen: 7:35pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
Dogalmighty17: She don buy better market, God help any time that man finds a job, she's gone. I will keep saying it for everyone to hear, women can not manage success and power, they will most likely abuse it and tell the world how she did this and that but if you find that woman who can cover your shame. My brother hold her tight 2 Likes |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by Nobody: 7:35pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
They never want to take responsibility for their actions, always playing victims. UnfairLife7: 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by Hisincrease: 7:35pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
UnfairLife7:Everyone is not an idiot like you. 1 Like |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by wonderr(m): 7:36pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
Dogalmighty17:it's always very easy to criticize people's actions when you are not in their shoes, whatever she did was out of frustration, although she should have subjugated the issue she let her emotions took the best of her and now she is facing the consequences, the deed has be done na solution remain find elderly people to help you beg him, join hands with him to get a new job, so issues like this won't repeat itself be supportive, this too shall pass 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by KingLennon(m): 7:36pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
Samantha124:We haven't heard from both sides. What if he didn't literally do all what he has been accused of? 1 Like |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by colbycell: 7:36pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
Persephone1: You have spoken well, and like an elder. You see, in the last 2 years, August precisely my life, business and all is been upsidedown. I live in Abuja, my home was demolished, and also this June my work station was demolished. So you can understand that the frustrations in my life are astronomical. No marriage is perfect, especially when the primary source of financial flow drops or stops permanently. I have a wife, and I have 2 kids with my wife and 2 other beautiful daughters outside my marriage. Yes! I am putting this out so that the OP knows that she's overdone this. Any day I go to my new office space I spend roughly N3,500 and I may end up not getting any return for that day. Before now, every other month I make roughly 350k or more. Because of this drop in funds, I get some silly behaviors from the wife, it is only normal for women to want to overdo things especially when they have friends, and maybe their husbands are doing fairly well. There are issues here and there, but I try to never let it result into deep quarrels or me hitting my wife. May God never allow me do this. You husband is totally wrong for hitting you, and there are no justification for even damaging your things. But let me tell you ooh! Some of these people that are advising you don't mean well. Anybody wen arrest me na there our friendship end, this is why I have never thought about arresting anybody. If it turns out that my wife would be the one to arrest me ![]() Forgive and avoid, simple. Where una elders or neighbors dey wen you go bring police? Na power play be that na! Like you planned it out. But then you know your husband, try to get family and friends to beg him, and I pray he forgives. Money and Job will come...na small time remain. 5 Likes |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by UnfairLife7(m): 7:36pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
Styluss:domestic violence is a No. It's a criminal offence |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by ruffhandu: 7:36pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
thesicilian: That's life. Same way the day a man clean and keeps the house, cooks and feedback qnd bath the children, all hell must break loose. 3 Likes |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by BRATISLAVA: 7:36pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
royalfly: Let life not happen to you, since you have convinced yourself that you're posting for unmarried toddlers. Let life not happen to you. If the man is wrong, you say, yet many people knew he was a wife beater and her own children testified that he was a wife batterer to the extreme. If the man is wrong you say. Is there a God anywhere that will consider beating ones wife as something debatable and be unsure if it is right or wrong? If the man is wrong, you say. Even the law knows it is a crime punishable with jailing. And that's why he's there. Thank God it is your opinion despite the plain evidence before you, and not the truth. Have you beaten your woman today? Because that's what this liberality in the face of evil has gotten to. People like you helped Osinachi to where she is. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by A40(m): 7:36pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
victorazy:You're a fool. You can try it now and see how they will turn you to a mummy inside cell. What a m0ron. 3 Likes |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by coolbode1: 7:36pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
KEEP QUIET MADAM... WARNING BY 🔒 NG HIM UP? Verokeena: |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by blackgold2018(m): 7:36pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
Verokeena:examining your comments and topic. I can bet you have cheated on your husband or have been cheating on him 1 Like |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by Joshmanfashion(m): 7:37pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
Ma'am is your husband on nairaland if not i reserve my comments. Thanks. |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by Emotionss: 7:37pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
[color=#006600][/color] Verokeena: In the eyes of the law and feminism you are right to have looked your jobless,broke and depressed husband but in the eyes of culture and religion you are extremely wrong.... Your husband is depressed, ashamed and angry with himself and life for his inability to get a job and provide for his family. And instead of encouragement, understanding and patience, you decided to lock him up for two days as a result of his depressed outrage. Did you report him to the family elders ? Did you report to your pastor or any family members or family friends ? You could have used the police to threatened him but instead you went for outright arrest. There are more effective ways to handle such situations but I believe you wanted to prove your superiority over your husband as the Bread winner of the house. I am 100% sure your female friends suggested and encouraged you to go to such extreme.... One thing I can assure is that by locking him up in the worst stage of his life, you have succeeded in destroying your home and marriage. That man will never forgive such inhumane and disgraced treatment from his wife.... 1 Like |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by CHoccolaTE: 7:37pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
Nigerian men are only vocal when it comes to oppressing their women. They will not try this nonsense with white men or women. Put them face to face in the same room for intellectual sparring with white people that's when you'll realize how dark and empty their arrogant heads are. Op your husband was wrong to assault you. Don't let anyone emotionally blackmail you into thinking it's his right to misbehave because he is male. He would have been arrested for months or years at least if you were in any of the saner countries where women are treated like human beings and not emotional punching bags for men. Apologize if you feel like it, if not divorce him. He can Bleep right off with his childish/worthless self. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by ORIAYO70(m): 7:38pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
thesicilian: Because Adam was not created for Eve. But Eve was created cos of Adam... Adam go hear pepper 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by fof1: 7:38pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
Verokeena: But Talk True O...Where you Snobbing Him bcoz he has been idle and with out Work? Have you been cheating on him and not giving him attention since? Then You Caused it. you push him into Depression and Alcoholism...Change Ur Ways,Pls. RECOVER UR HUSBAND PLS. 1 Like |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by Hanndye: 7:38pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
Verokeena:Are you to blame for his job loss? If not I don't advise that you take sh'ts. You are even trying to be supportive but to no avail. Now he's making things worse by being a drunk and violent. You better give himm a space for the time being to sort himself out. But be careful, you never can tell the stuff people are made of. People can show different colors under different situations. Be strong. Even, men love strong women. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by Nobody: 7:38pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
My question requires a yes or a no. I'm asking about you, would you tolerate such behavior if your wife was doing the same thing to you? KingLennon: 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by BRATISLAVA: 7:38pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: With the sort of comments here, it's not hard to see why she would stay. The good thing for her is that she knows he's committing a crime. Maybe she will get the wisdom to leave. 2 Likes |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by A40(m): 7:39pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
BRATISLAVA:He's a stupid man. If you have the liver to beat up your wife why are you now scared of cell? Everybody should be able to keep their hands to themselves. Even me I no dey tolerate abusive woman whether verbally or physically so I don't expect a woman to do so either 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by darealez(m): 7:39pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
UnfairLife7:I once slapped my sister many years ago in an attempt to correct her. Along that week, I agreed I could've corrected her without the slap. I decided never to since then. My first question will be, do you still want to keep your home? If she says no, we can let hell lose. If she says yes, we have a struggle to win. With consideration for separation on desk. |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by KingLennon(m): 7:39pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
braine:Seconded... Am sorry if they tag me old fashioned but I wished I got married in the late 80's or early 90's. The women we have now lack wisdom.... 1 Like |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by LilMissFavvy(f): 7:39pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
You think it's different in Nigeria? If Nigeria do keep statistics of women who are abu$ed and killed* by their husbands, I am very sure that the number would be above a thousand. capnies: 1 Like |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by utenwuson: 7:40pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
I am 101% sure you re not saying all what happened... No sane man will just walked in, go into the kitchen ND come back to start hitting you, smashing your phone.... This should serve as a lesson to all men, try as much as possible to get a job when you lost one to avoid see finish.... Or leave the house often till you get a job... I'm married and I don't pray to be in his shoe, but if my wife arrest me, I will never return to the house again 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by victorazy(m): 7:40pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
A40: From your connotations ![]() |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by UnfairLife7(m): 7:40pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
Hisincrease:domestic violence is a No. I do not care what led to that. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by occfx: 7:41pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
cutesharon: You sound like you are in the same shoe, respect is reciprocal. If you see nothing wrong in your partner ignoring you at that critical time then you are damaged beyond repair. If you are not married yet, make sure you don't swear any oath during your marriage at least your hubby will know exactly what he is going in for. Until I hear from the man, I don't believe this woman story however, i don't support any form of domestic violence. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by BRATISLAVA: 7:41pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
UnfairLife7: They will never admit it. They always play innocent victims when their deeds are their banner. A look at the news tells us that the man is very capable of what he's accused of. Today they are acting like men don't beat their wives, like the man in question is a saint. They need to hear from him, because when they hear from him it will un-beat up his wife, justify everything and make it right. But just switch genders in the story and you'll see how they will react. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by Matix222: 7:42pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
Nemesis0147: Money na man oo bro |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by Bribri: 7:42pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
Am sure osinachi will have a rethink and rather stay alive. She did nothing wrong she is even nice. Persephone1: 1 Like |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by A40(m): 7:42pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
victorazy:You dey fear cell or cemetery? Beat your wife nau. Ahn ahn e hard? |
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