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Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by Nobody: 8:03pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
Only my sister can answer that question, not me. darealez: |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by UnfairLife7(m): 8:04pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
Amumaigwe:if you like beat your wife, you go sleep for cell for days. If she was too naive to stand for herself your neighbours will do that for her. 1 Like |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by BRATISLAVA: 8:04pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
Procashtips:Same questions the Association of Chronic Partner Batterers keep asking all over the place. What a coincidence. |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by BennyDGreat: 8:04pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: Read up on counselling. A professional counsellor can tailor counselling to the patient's faith if necessary to achieve required objective. |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by Dennisochampa: 8:06pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
Procashtips:...... So she die first before she cry out so that everyone will write rip for her on nairaland and attribute her death to domestic violence? Bros I am judging based on the information I have at hand and also because of experiences where I've seen men vent frustration on their wives simply because they think the women are trying to be the head of the home because they don't have a job..... It's not uncommon these days to see men who act like this because they do not have a job 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by darealez(m): 8:06pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
Samantha124:Definitely, and that's where the wisdom is. She most definitely has a large heart... Extend my greetings to her, and I hope she's with one who won't take a brilliance for granted. |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by BennyDGreat: 8:07pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
Samantha124: Yes but you see, the way Nigerian police system is...when you happen to sleep in a cell for two days, it could aggravate your anger towards the one who got you arrested especially when it's a family member. Honestly, it was a wrong call by the woman. The Nigerian system doesn't support this kind of style 2 Likes |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by omoasero(m): 8:07pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
Locking him up is a NO NO, u should have gone to the friends that u later went to in the first place. That been that, If u still want him then find a way to make him come around 1 Like |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by Kobojunkie: 8:07pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
royalfly:Osinachi is the ultimate example to all women out there in Nigeria land who thinks to rationalize violence and foolishness in marriage. That woman must have ● prayed and fasted her brains out ● asked every third-party her husband respected, including pastors, to intervene ● persevered for so long under very violent conditions yet all the while submitting ● sung her brains out to God to get Him to come down and fix the relationship ● taken on the role of breadwinner so she could be superwoman in her marriage ● made certain her family was aware of the problem in the marriage ● had in-laws who were aware of the conditions in the marriage, even though they did not care to do anything about it where is she today? Wormfood and she was made that by that same man she did all that to keep. ![]() |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by royalfly(m): 8:08pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
BRATISLAVA: Lol.. no p... reas my post, but if a woman do anyhow let her see anyhow. Words maybe more painful for a a man but a slap on the wrist is the worst thing that can ever happen to a woman. My guy rest, osinachi this and that, we all know. Who u wan impress. Alot of men re ffff victims, u don't know |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by BennyDGreat: 8:08pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
TheMostComplex1: Unfortunately, she didn't 'count the cost' The man may eventually leave the home for her due to his battered ego |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by Nobody: 8:09pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
How would you feel if your wife broke your plates and started beating you up for not cooking after she spent the entire day getting drunk while you were at work working so that you can put food on the table? KingLennon: |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by blackgold2018(m): 8:09pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
cutesharon:No dear I’m not supporting violence.. I have never rised my hand on my wife nor verbally abused her My main point is that. The probability of op cheating is high. |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by Kobojunkie: 8:09pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
DavidTech23:Wow... you claim he was provoked yet the police after hearing their case felt to throw him in jail for two days. How come? Don't bother responding abeg! ![]() |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by Hamzashaf99(f): 8:10pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
Two years is a long time for a man to be without a job. That means his wife takes care of feeding, school fees, health issues and all. Men also hate being taken care of which makes them say hurtful words to women when they take up that mantle. |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by Nobody: 8:10pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
colbycell:One of my life rule is: You don't get to determine how a person react to your provocations. While you throw the first punch I hope you save the best for the last. This is what is happening with Op. Husband acted, she reacted, husband is currently acting she's concerned. Things don't work that way. It baffles me that the ladies supporting the law on this thread are not giving the headway on the real issue which is how does Op get her husband's forgiveness since she still wants the marriage. ![]() 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by Dammyseyon(m): 8:10pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
People just dey talk like retard. How can you say she locked him up because she's doing better? He can never get away with such act in a developed country. He got exactly what he deserved and if true love is involved, he should beg his wife and knack sense back into her. Your husband crossed the line and he should be punished. You did the right thing 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by Dareal90s(m): 8:11pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
UnfairLife7:Think with your brain nigga, if the woman was in his shoes do u think he will lock her up? She overstepped by involving the cops, what happened to relatives/elders resolving the issues, a very senseless move, why is she here with the topic then since she did the right thing by locking up her husband? |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by Kobojunkie: 8:11pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
BennyDGreat:Stop fooling yourself! The moment you tailor the counseling to suit your religious/traditional idea, it ceases to be professional and becomes religious hogwash! ![]() 1 Like 2 Shares |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by sparko1(m): 8:12pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
cutesharon: Fear women! 2 Likes |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by UnfairLife7(m): 8:12pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
Dareal90s:domestic violence is a No. I do not care what led to that. I don't condole or tolorate violence |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by Nobody: 8:12pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
So according to your, people who beat up other people for telling them the truth have got large hearts? darealez: |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by SonofGod231: 8:12pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
LadyRosa:Try find love first then we can take you seriously. They married and she still loves her jobless husband. Hear? 1 Like |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by royalfly(m): 8:13pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: Untimate you say? Let me rest self, maybe u av something personal about her case. Am sorry if I hurt you. She is a good woman and deserves to live. The killed in a hotel deserves to die. The one one the wife connived with a a pastor deserve to die. Hakim deserves to be sapped. Mandy carrer deserves to go down, greenwood carrer deserves to go down. Osinachi soul is in heaven u try make ur own. No one is perfect, men suffer more take it or leave it |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by Dareal90s(m): 8:13pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
UnfairLife7:Then tell her not to disturb us with it since it has been well handled by the law. 2 Likes |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by moshino(m): 8:13pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
Verokeena: If he abused you in anyway, shape or form, then you need not feel guilty, nor apologize to him. Two days he spent there is not even enough. He has a wife and children, so he should mann up and find other means of keeping busy to provide for his family, and be responsible. The answer to his frustration does not reside inside alcohol bottle nor cigarette stick. |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by LadyRosa(f): 8:14pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
SonofGod231: Idiot! I don't find love. I married a man who loves me and not who I love. A wife's role is to be submissive and not to love. I'm not unfortunate like your sisters. |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by Nemesis0147(m): 8:14pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
Samantha124:let me tell you. Sentiment aside…. There is nothing this woman will do that will him lock her up in a police cell….do you know what this means? You think say na yankee u dy? What about working out of the marriage or giving him space for the main time? Have you been locked up in a cell before? Do you know the dent it brings to your name? Talk more of when it is coming from your wife. You see ba…she has finished that man for life….even in front of his friends. 1 Like |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by ozo13(m): 8:15pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
UnfairLife7:Haba ,same country u call shithole Majority of it's culture encourages the man to spend on the family(wife and kids) and almost left with noting while the wife in most case work and save her own money to herself where as in most European countries as we learnt bills are splitted and taken care of by both couples.U should just have make ur point than calling your country a shithole.Anyhow Sha. Its obvious from the wife narrative, the man is going through some level of depression(drinking alcohol excessively, sleeping home and doing noting moat of the time to help himself or the family) and something needs to be done ASAP. May God help the family.Issues of lack of Job and finance isn't easy at all for any family man. |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by UnfairLife7(m): 8:15pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
Dammyseyon:an average Nigerian men still reason backwards. Funny enough these same men drop their wack backwards mentality the moment they get to Murtala international airport. They feel like demi God on their neive women |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by Crafteck1: 8:15pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
Verokeena: |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by cutesharon(f): 8:15pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
Same way the probability of the jobless man also cheating is high. Maybe even spending the wife's hard earned income on another woman who thinks he has money. At the end, his reaction brought about a corresponding reaction which embarassed him completely. Next time he will not do so or next time, make the woman kuku hold her money and carry her kids away to enjoy her life instead of covering his shame as a good wife. Lobatan. No one likes couples ending in stations or court but we should not then support any party's right to be stupid like him whether man or woman. blackgold2018: |
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