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Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by Adebowalay(m): 9:22pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
UnfairLife7:u are unreasonable. 2 Likes |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by ghettochild4u(m): 9:23pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
You shouldn't apologize.. He needs that to Sober up. He's bringing shame to u and venting his frustration and joblessness on you. Abeg don't beg him again ooo.. When hungry catch am.. E go eat ur food. Where does he even get money to drink?? Are u indulging him?? |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by albert2512: 9:23pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: You want to help her to brake her home? Not all cases of assault is habitual ma. 1 Like |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by OZIOGU1: 9:24pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
UnfairLife7: 😂 are my neighbours living with me in my personal house? Forget this story Men dey, wey women no fit try some shit with, I bet you , any atempt by my wife to raised her voice on me, I will end the shit call marriage Asap....African/Nigerian women with entitlement mentality 1 Like |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by emmeyen: 9:24pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
LilMissFavvy: It's the "you denied him sex" gang that is really baffling. But it is well sha. 2 Likes |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by maasoap(m): 9:24pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
Persephone1: With time, he will get over it. Even he himself will do introspection and realise that he deserved the treatment. Beating, destroying and talking trash. And if he doesn't get over it, it will still be his loss, majorly. |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by melodyogonna(m): 9:26pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
thesicilian:What is this rubbish? |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by Berankis: 9:26pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
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Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by Berankis: 9:26pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
Dogalmighty17:But then, a man cannot keep wallowing in self-pity and depression in the name of job loss. In what ever you do in life, just have it in mind that you are a nobody and anything can happen to anyone at anytime. Job loss doesn't mean the end of the world, life must continue, you must look for any other thing to do and help your wife keep the family running. That a man works to keep the family running is how he has been raised and made to believe and perharps, how a man is built to function. The family must run whether you have a job or not, your children must feed, they don't take any excuses and bills must be paid. So, a man should not allow depression get hold of you because you lost your job, some men never had a 'job' in their life time and they have kept it going. Locking up your husband for 2days is crazy! Really crazy!! I hope you guys resolve your issues. Women are not just too good at financing the house without adverse reactions. |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by Nobody: 9:27pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
maasoap:I hope he gets over it. If he is the reasonable type that needs "motivation" to act reasonable, I believe he will. As a matter of fact,I pray he gets over it. Get a grip of his life and do things right. Op deserve it. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by Yungmakaveli01(m): 9:27pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
Please don't feel guilty. I've a question for everyone that said the decision you took was uncalled for. If any of your siblings were to be in her shoes would they be able to endure all she have been enduring so far? 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by MeineMutter: 9:28pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
capnies: Leave the wheyrhey alone. Like say no be the abroad we dey. Lots of them live on child support. Men have run away from them. Come and see Nigerian women with no husbands. Dem ya pa. A woman of 58 yes traveled all the way from the UK to com fck a boy of 27 years here in Austria. How is Nigeria’s culture like Western culture? Didirin, comparing apples with walnuts. By the way, you would discover that the woman, deliberately, skipped that part (that) she didn’t leave food for her husband just to spike him. She thinks it’s easy to loose job and be alright. I prayed she doesn’t loose her N250k to N450k job that is ‘shacking’ her. There are one million and one ways of better directions she could, positively, point her man to. Giving him her surest assurances alone and making sure families rally round him would have been a better way to handle this. How could you be feeding a goat and still be beating such goat? Do you think such goat would be interested in food again? Someone she should have helped managed his mental health at that trying period. I am certain she was tormenting the man. This is a man that wasn’t drinking before. It’s good she starts dating the DPO or the police officers whose influences she used in ‘jailing’ a man she said for-better-for-worse with under a vow with her holy book in the presence of everybody. A man says a job was too low for him. You should understand that because you won’t work the job for him. For those two years her man has lost her job, can she swear boldly out here that she hasn’t thought or had feeling or craving for another man or considered another man’s advances or even given in to another man? Has she remained faithful 100%? Most women only know when things are sweet. If you want to test a woman to know if she truly loves you or not , pretend to be broke or that you loose your job or your business is crumbling. Only the uneducated woman can wait beyond a man’s expectations in that regard. But you see all these our women with inactivated igboro and wannabe vibes, max they can stay is 5 years before filling for divorce. They will frustrate the hell out a man. The best among them (especially the educated and working class) can only cope for a maximum of 2 years before starting to cause trouble in the house and showing their true colors. In contrast, this is a cross a man in our clime was born to carry for life. 1 Like |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by RockyEyo(m): 9:28pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
Verokeena: Goes to show who u have been feeding in him, definitely not the king . The monster u saw is what you feed / created , u women once the man is not having money to spend he becomes a useless man dunno how u will do it but hey u have to love, respect, n honor ur husband. I’m sure there’s been quite a lot of advices already so I’ll just..... |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by ghettochild4u(m): 9:29pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
Those saying she did wrong.. You will be the ones to Condemn the man if in the process of beating her..,he killed her. And news says Frustrated Man kills wife. Na una go say why e no get patient or why didn't the wife leave?? With this arrest, he will learn not to beat his wife. If Lagos got put hand for him matter, he go rot for jail ooo. After all he's currently useless as a breadwinner. Instead make he dey pray for him wire n praise her everyday... The idiots beats her up 1 Like |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by OZIOGU1: 9:29pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
Too many baby mamas on this faceless forum, they support Thier own, in my next comment I will mention Thier name.....Wife material don finish for Nigeria. 1 Like |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by shantti(m): 9:30pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
There was a thread where a woman assaulted her boyfriend cos he cheated on her and girls here were cheering her up. Does that not constitute as domestic violence. So he can have her arrested be that 2 Likes |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by UnfairLife7(m): 9:31pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
OZIOGU1:i guess you live inside underground? Go and ask some Men that their neighbours got them arrested over domestic violence. They will tell you how their neighbours got to know Africa/Nigerian women yet you run after them like your life depends on it. Dey play. |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by OZIOGU1: 9:32pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
UnfairLife7: I run after them coz, the only thing they can offer is S*x and nothing more, more also they need my cool cash na 😜 |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by UnfairLife7(m): 9:32pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
OZIOGU1:I guess responsible Men are extremely much? Keep deceiving yourself |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by fxexperts: 9:33pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
Verokeena:Abeg na where all this useless men dey see this kind good woman dey marry abeg, 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by UnfairLife7(m): 9:34pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
OZIOGU1:exactly You can't live without them. Konji go kill you throwaway ![]() |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by Abufo: 9:35pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
Samantha124: marriage don end be dat now! they should go on about their separate business........no basis for the union! 2 Likes |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by shantti(m): 9:35pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
BRATISLAVA: If a man arrests his wife cos she assaulted him, will u support that? 1 Like |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by fxexperts: 9:35pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
talented321:Abeg shut up your dirty mouth abeg, and all the emotional torture and oppression he has been oppressing his wife all these years so the wife will forget it abi. Una head dey truly dey shake for this forum. 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by UnfairLife7(m): 9:36pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
fxexperts:I swear Op married an irresponsible man. A man who hit his wife doesn't deserve to live |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by fxexperts: 9:36pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
Verokeena:Their is no other solution, better divorce is sorry ass. good women don't last, na where una for dey say all this kind fish brain men dey marry self. I am sure you saw his character earlier and decided to marry the idiot you call a husband. See i am a man and i can tell you categorically that man you call your husband is seeing you as the witch that made him to loose his job and a man like that can never, i repeat never ever make it in live again. what kind of a man that can never pick himself up, he is a lazy dull brain idiot. And for your information life is too short for you to come and use it to experiment one one idiot who doesn't appreciate your effort in trying to support him one bit. superemmy:Let the idiot not forget it, you all supporting the lazy simp should all have your heads examine, i pray your sisters and daughter get married to a man who will treat them the way OP husband is treating her and let us see if you all will still support idiot,,, Ndiala lots. 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by sgtponzihater1(m): 9:37pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
May the Lord comfort you and your family. Only him gives wisdom in such turbulent situation, so my advice will be to ask Him what He thinks |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by UnfairLife7(m): 9:38pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
shantti:women do not assault their husband like men do 1 Like |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by OZIOGU1: 9:38pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
[quote author=UnfairLife7 post=125293816]exactly You can't live without them. Konji go kill you throwaway ![]() 😆...D**k is the only machine that service the engine na...it is well...male no body die untop marriage....Take care of your wife and have a side chick to run her industry and life go sweet die |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by OZIOGU1: 9:40pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
UnfairLife7: Na una make some men to become irresponsible shey u know? |
Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by UnfairLife7(m): 9:40pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
[quote author=OZIOGU1 post=125293907][/quote]U spend for your side chic while she collect from her side cock 1 Like |
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