Re: Big Brother Naija “All Stars“ 2023: Live Updates Thread by Tatiana4u: 3:48pm On Aug 24, 2023 |
safarigirl:
Ilebaye always enters that room to mention Doyin's name for PMP, always. The talk she had with Venita, was to ask her to pardon Doyin and not be so harsh on her.
Maybe what you really want to say is that Ilebaye is not as loud with her friendship as Doyin is, and is more careful with how she expresses herself.
The husband that is gifting his wife cars so that the public will applaud him, is also possibly emotionally abusing the same wife in private, meanwhile the husband that comes off as cold and mean because he no dey dhare gift, is secretly currying favours for the wife outside.
Just because one person is loud about the way they show their own love, does not mean they show love more than the person who is more quiet. A lot of you falsely assume that the loudest person is the most genuine and that is not how it works.
Doyin going to rally PMP for Angel, instead of her so-called bestie that just went through a tumultuous week, is NOT how to be a good friend. Doyin going behind Baye's back to plead PMP for herself, then coming to her face to bullsheet her, is NOT how to be a good friend.
The fact that the whole house now realises it is Doyin that is a bad friend after all, despite first assuming it was Baye, should tell you everything. God bless you!!!! 1 Like |
Re: Big Brother Naija “All Stars“ 2023: Live Updates Thread by scondy(f): 3:48pm On Aug 24, 2023 |
ItisHi: obviously. Almost everyone in the house hides foods so I don't see anything shameful. Man must survive I tire o ...onions fit be ingredient he really likes in his food...before it finishes...he sets apart a few... Whereas someone is breaking into other people's locker to steal coins and they are calling it game... 4 Likes |
Re: Big Brother Naija “All Stars“ 2023: Live Updates Thread by Aguwanyi: 3:49pm On Aug 24, 2023 |
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Re: Big Brother Naija “All Stars“ 2023: Live Updates Thread by Tatiana4u: 3:49pm On Aug 24, 2023 |
Alheeri: Ilebaye dragging general pere,I can never trust that man😁 Baby girl ain’t no fool! She’s woke! |
Re: Big Brother Naija “All Stars“ 2023: Live Updates Thread by Adexchelsea19(m): 3:49pm On Aug 24, 2023 |
safarigirl: If it is to be shouting "Ilebaye, Ilebaye" up and down, some of you will litter this thread with her name, now, your Ilebaye is in the Diary Room, explaining her own side of things with the Doyin drama and NONE OF YOU IS UPDATING US.
This Diary session is important, especially after Doyin went to cry on Tuesday and make Ilebaye look like one selfish witch, but you people that call yourselves her fan have failed to post about it.
It just reiterates my belief that a lot of you do not watch the show and are just desperate glory hunters and bandwagoners here.
You abandon what is important, to fixate on noise making, instead of spreading useful information about your so-called fave. Tufia! This DS just opened my eyes. Ilebaye admitted Doyin has stood for her and fought her battles and she also admitted she hasn’t been there for her in anyway. But she’s angry Doyin is always reminding her of standing for her even though she hasn’t done anything for her. I don’t like Doyin but Ilebaye is just a spoilt entitled girl who doesn’t even understand what friendship is. People just dey support her base on pity even though nah she dey bully and also very wicked to others 6 Likes |
Re: Big Brother Naija “All Stars“ 2023: Live Updates Thread by Tatiana4u: 3:49pm On Aug 24, 2023 |
safarigirl:
I really just think that they both have different expectations of friendship and you cannot make your friend be who you want them to be, you have to just friend them like that.
Ilebaye seems to understand this much with Doyin, but Doyin has failed to understand it of Ilebaye. Ilebaye overlooks a lot of Doyin's actions that may be interpreted negatively, but Doyin does not extend same grace to her. Doyin's constant dangling of her friendship over her head is also very unfriendly behaviour.
Not everyone is expressive of their friendship or friends the same way. Clearly, they are both mismatched and maybe that break is best. Gbam!!! 1 Like |
Re: Big Brother Naija “All Stars“ 2023: Live Updates Thread by ColdHunter(f): 3:49pm On Aug 24, 2023 |
scondy:
I tire o ...onions fit be ingredient he really likes in his food...before it finishes...he sets apart a few...
Whereas someone is breaking into other people's locker to steal coins and they are calling it game... Tetescondy 1!! The way you justify these things eh. 3 Likes |
Re: Big Brother Naija “All Stars“ 2023: Live Updates Thread by Tatiana4u: 3:50pm On Aug 24, 2023 |
kalan:
Biggie for don go sleep .shit...eat..marry and come back..she is still talking... Why you no off your TV? Rubbish! 1 Like |
Re: Big Brother Naija “All Stars“ 2023: Live Updates Thread by ColdHunter(f): 3:50pm On Aug 24, 2023 |
Adexchelsea19: This DS just opened my eyes. Ilebaye admitted Doyin has stood for her and fought her battles and she also admitted she hasn’t been there for her in anyway. But she’s angry Doyin is always reminding her of standing for her even though she hasn’t done anything for her.
I don’t like Doyin but Ilebaye is just a spoilt entitled girl who doesn’t even understand what friendship is. People just dey support her base on pity even though nah she dey bully and also very wicked to others Exactly my words. 3 Likes |
Re: Big Brother Naija “All Stars“ 2023: Live Updates Thread by kalan: 3:50pm On Aug 24, 2023 |
Tatiana4u:
You dey crase! Why do u rain curse a lot? Though I feel na play u dey. But some pple won't see it that way. Let's be civil pls. 2 Likes |
Re: Big Brother Naija “All Stars“ 2023: Live Updates Thread by Titaniumental: 3:51pm On Aug 24, 2023 |
General Pere for the 120......Keep dropping those votes 8 Likes |
Re: Big Brother Naija “All Stars“ 2023: Live Updates Thread by fitzmayowa: 3:51pm On Aug 24, 2023 |
Aguwanyi:
Na dem dey always find my trouble.. Be peace loving, when some quotes me with insult or jabs I just laff since it's all banter and nothing serious, na to just ignore na...... But as they say a person is not complete without vawulence..... 1 Like |
Re: Big Brother Naija “All Stars“ 2023: Live Updates Thread by Aguwanyi: 3:52pm On Aug 24, 2023 |
Tatiana4u:
Baby girl ain’t no fool! She’s woke! Let her keep dragging him by his public blokos… 1 Like |
Re: Big Brother Naija “All Stars“ 2023: Live Updates Thread by Tatiana4u: 3:52pm On Aug 24, 2023 |
Aguwanyi:
Eeghe… I can’t explain d kinda respect I have for u,not like I know u personally and I haven’t even seen ur pics before but I’m trying to know where my respect for u is coming from and that is why I find it hard to drag issues with you..
But I dare any Angel fan to come for me..I will not free that person,I promise you that.
I don show! 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Big Brother Naija “All Stars“ 2023: Live Updates Thread by Chimezie198(m): 3:52pm On Aug 24, 2023 |
Eeghe: I see Baye’s points sha Doyin said she felt guilty about having caused Baye her second strike, and was even willing to take up the strike herself if possible. She could have allowed Baye the PMP shaa.
But having chosen herself (not wrong at all)…rallying for Angel the next week was not cool. This doesn’t not mean she has not been mostly loyal to Baye. She is not totally blameless in this is my point
remember our bet o 20k Doyin goes home on Sunday 1 Like |
Re: Big Brother Naija “All Stars“ 2023: Live Updates Thread by Giel: 3:52pm On Aug 24, 2023 |
I'm actually happy this friendship is taking a break or is dead. Let Ms perfect, Ms Loyal friend doyin carry her amazing, wonderful, loyal, perfect friendship and go and give those who can reciprocate. Let her leave ungrateful imperfect, bad friend you (ilebaye) to rest abeg. Let you breeeetttt!!!!! 5 Likes |
Re: Big Brother Naija “All Stars“ 2023: Live Updates Thread by safarigirl(f): 3:52pm On Aug 24, 2023 |
Dannyxy: I don’t mind illebaye winning oh, but trust me, she is not clever or mature enough to outwit those witty housemates…
They will give subtly giver her last strike
Ask me, mercy will do the giving of the strike.
adekunle would win this season …. I am hardly wrong
Eyah, you want Mercy to help Baye catch her last strike, so, Baye's vengeful fans will rally for Adekunle and push him to win, because you know he no fit win as long as Baye is there and Mercy is innocent of her eventual DQ if it happens Nice one, nice one. 2 Likes |
Re: Big Brother Naija “All Stars“ 2023: Live Updates Thread by Dannyxy(m): 3:53pm On Aug 24, 2023 |
I still don’t have a fave yet…
I don’t know if it’s just me, I know most of this people, So I am finding it hard to reconnect and Stan anyone, see frodd I liked so much, I am very indifferent about him…
Meeting and getting to know new housemates, connecting with them from no where is one one of the sweetest feeling of bbn but this all star doesn’t have it, I feel this season should have been a celebrity big brother not all stars..
Ike, seyi , Pere for me this week though, I need them to keep conniving and causing mayhem… 2 Likes |
Re: Big Brother Naija “All Stars“ 2023: Live Updates Thread by Aguwanyi: 3:53pm On Aug 24, 2023 |
fitzmayowa:
Be peace loving, when some quotes me with insult or jabs I just laff since it's all banter and nothing serious, na to just ignore na......
But as they say a person is not complete without vawulence..... Yes oooo…I no go gree If I don’t come for their faves,they shouldn’t come for mine.. |
Re: Big Brother Naija “All Stars“ 2023: Live Updates Thread by Tatiana4u: 3:53pm On Aug 24, 2023 |
ColdHunter:
Nah, I think that Ilebaye wants the friendship but just as much as it benefits her. A key element of friendship is reciprocity which Ilebaye evidently lacks.
Ask yourself, what has Ilebaye ever done for Doyin. Nada! Zilch!
This isn't about being expressive, but about being intentional and genuine. Just like saying you love your wife, but you dont gift her, you dont help with chores, you dont affirm her. You basically just want to exist as a husband while having huge expectations of your wife and then claim you're not expressive.
Even if Ilebaye isn't expressive by words, she would at least be expressive by actions. This girl has never stood up for Doyin in her many battles in that house, never. But Doyin does so for her effortlessly.
The night that broke my heart was the night they were in the garden and Ilebaye told Doyin something uncomplimentary that someone said about Doyin. Doyin inquired who it was, but Ilebaye wont budge. Despite all of Doyins entreaties, she refused with the stupid excuse that, it's not for her Consumption.
Even when Venita was all over Doyin, ilebaye disappeared and went to play goody two shoes with her fake apology to Venita. But, those weeks when Ilebaye was under the weather, this Doyin basically cuddled her to sleep each night.
Ilebaye does not like Doyin, she simply wants to enjoy the perks of being friends with her. 1 Like |
Re: Big Brother Naija “All Stars“ 2023: Live Updates Thread by PatientVulture: 3:53pm On Aug 24, 2023 |
safarigirl:
I really just think that they both have different expectations of friendship and you cannot make your friend be who you want them to be, you have to just friend them like that.
Ilebaye seems to understand this much with Doyin, but Doyin has failed to understand it of Ilebaye. Ilebaye overlooks a lot of Doyin's actions that may be interpreted negatively, but Doyin does not extend same grace to her. Doyin's constant dangling of her friendship over her head is also very unfriendly behaviour.
Not everyone is expressive of their friendship or friends the same way. Clearly, they are both mismatched and maybe that break is best. Good point of view |
Re: Big Brother Naija “All Stars“ 2023: Live Updates Thread by Titaniumental: 3:53pm On Aug 24, 2023 |
Ilebaye: I'm disappointed to know that Pere doesn't like me and he wants me out of the house. Someone I always call father.
Me: Of course he wants you out of the house and the rest of the housemates, too. The same way you want them out of the house. 7 Likes |
Re: Big Brother Naija “All Stars“ 2023: Live Updates Thread by scondy(f): 3:54pm On Aug 24, 2023 |
ItisHi: Not you stanning a known theif like Ike and still clowning Ade. You are a joke As in the irony...very moronic human being. .....someone that even breaks into people's lockers to steal. 6 Likes |
Re: Big Brother Naija “All Stars“ 2023: Live Updates Thread by Aguwanyi: 3:54pm On Aug 24, 2023 |
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Re: Big Brother Naija “All Stars“ 2023: Live Updates Thread by fitzmayowa: 3:54pm On Aug 24, 2023 |
safarigirl: If it is to be shouting "Ilebaye, Ilebaye" up and down, some of you will litter this thread with her name, now, your Ilebaye is in the Diary Room, explaining her own side of things with the Doyin drama and NONE OF YOU IS UPDATING US.
This Diary session is important, especially after Doyin went to cry on Tuesday and make Ilebaye look like one selfish witch, but you people that call yourselves her fan have failed to post about it.
It just reiterates my belief that a lot of you do not watch the show and are just desperate glory hunters and bandwagoners here.
You abandon what is important, to fixate on noise making, instead of spreading useful information about your so-called fave. Tufia! cc Giel |
Re: Big Brother Naija “All Stars“ 2023: Live Updates Thread by tng(f): 3:55pm On Aug 24, 2023 |
ColdHunter:
Nah, I think that Ilebaye wants the friendship but just as much as it benefits her. A key element of friendship is reciprocity which Ilebaye evidently lacks.
Ask yourself, what has Ilebaye ever done for Doyin. Nada! Zilch!
This isn't about being expressive, but about being intentional and genuine. Just like saying you love your wife, but you dont gift her, you dont help with chores, you dont affirm her. You basically just want to exist as a husband while having huge expectations of your wife and then claim you're not expressive.
Even if Ilebaye isn't expressive by words, she would at least be expressive by actions. This girl has never stood up for Doyin in her many battles in that house, never. But Doyin does so for her effortlessly.
The night that broke my heart was the night they were in the garden and Ilebaye told Doyin something uncomplimentary that someone said about Doyin. Doyin inquired who it was, but Ilebaye wont budge. Despite all of Doyins entreaties, she refused with the stupid excuse that, it's not for her Consumption.
Even when Venita was all over Doyin, ilebaye disappeared and went to play goody two shoes with her fake apology to Venita. But, those weeks when Ilebaye was under the weather, this Doyin basically cuddled her to sleep each night.
Ilebaye does not like Doyin, she simply wants to enjoy the perks of being friends with her. She has nominated her for PMP since the season started including the week she won it She has not been carrying her gist everywhere considering that the “cool kids” don’t really like her She has tried to douse the tension between Doyin and other housemates on her behalf Ilebaye is smart enough to not let Doyin use her to play the game The friendship break is best for them. Make all man dey him dey. 4 Likes |
Re: Big Brother Naija “All Stars“ 2023: Live Updates Thread by Tatiana4u: 3:55pm On Aug 24, 2023 |
Dannyxy: I don’t mind illebaye winning oh, but trust me, she is not clever or mature enough to outwit those witty housemates…
They will give subtly giver her last strike
Ask me, mercy will do the giving of the strike.
adekunle would win this season …. I am hardly wrong
She will win! Period! 3 Likes |
Re: Big Brother Naija “All Stars“ 2023: Live Updates Thread by kalan: 3:55pm On Aug 24, 2023 |
Dannyxy: I still don’t have a fave yet…
I don’t know if it’s just me, I know most of this people, So I am finding it hard to reconnect and Stan anyone, see frodd I liked so much, I am very indifferent about him…
Meeting and getting to know new housemates, connecting with them from no where is one one of the sweetest feeling of bbn but this all star doesn’t have it, I feel this season should have been a celebrity big brother not all stars..
Ike, seyi , Pere for me this week though, I need them to keep conniving and causing mayhem… I dey tell you. What makes the show sweet is dead now. Kidd gone. They want us to be watching family affairs. Nonsense |
Re: Big Brother Naija “All Stars“ 2023: Live Updates Thread by Eeghe(f): 3:57pm On Aug 24, 2023 |
ColdHunter:
As at the time she rallied for Angel, their friendship had already turned sour.
I ask again, what has Ilebaye ever done for Doyin? I am trying to not paint Doyin as God…trying for objectivity. She is not totally blameless but won’t even acknowledge this (cos she won’t even see it- opinionated her) But, she has given Baye a lot of her and it is unhealthy to continue esp as friendships is not by force. When one friend is not invested or is selfish, and the other is loyal, energies are not matched. The uninvested or selfish one is often exhausted and the loyal one frustrated. 2 Likes |
Re: Big Brother Naija “All Stars“ 2023: Live Updates Thread by Tatiana4u: 3:57pm On Aug 24, 2023 |
safarigirl: Hearing Ilebaye's side of things, and true true, Doyin no try for this babe
She is right that she felt that Doyin should have helped her rally for Pardon Me, considering how hectic her week was. Doyin should actually have rallied for Ilebaye, instead of rallying for Angel, that has had immunity before. And Doyin constantly throwing her loyalty in her face can get uncomfortable for her.
I have to Stand wirh Ilebaye on this one. 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏 |
Re: Big Brother Naija “All Stars“ 2023: Live Updates Thread by Dannyxy(m): 3:57pm On Aug 24, 2023 |
safarigirl:
Eyah, you want Mercy to help Baye catch her last strike, so, Baye's vengeful fans will rally for Adekunle and push him to win, because you know he no fit win as long as Baye is there and Mercy is innocent of her eventual DQ if it happens
Nice one, nice one. lol you get it I am not supporting anyone but I see this playing out… You should know mercy will pull out this card when she notices illebaye surviving tough evictions, and illebaye does not have that mental stamina, no be her wey I know, if she can withstand though, she will win, nobody go stop am, she has that winning voting base locked down already… |
Re: Big Brother Naija “All Stars“ 2023: Live Updates Thread by Tatiana4u: 3:58pm On Aug 24, 2023 |
OldBeer: Doyin is that rat that would be biting you and blowing you breeze so you won't feel it. She used her "friendship" to isolate baddie from others in the house. See how baddie is happy about finally interacting with others in the house. To think she had to leave the clutches of panla to do this in week 5! God forbid this kin friend. May God bless you for stating the facts! Illebaye’s glowing ever since she left that toxic relationship! |