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Would You Train A Girlfriend In School? Share Ur Experience here by soundforce: 12:46pm On Aug 27, 2023 |
Happy Sunday fellow NAIRALANDERS. I see and hear guys repeat history and continue to fall victim by sponsoring their girlfriends education. I want to share personal experience I had with a family I stayed with back in 2005. This girl's father died while she was in Jss3 around year 2001. A young guy whom we later became friends few years later, decided to help her through secondary School. The guy himself didn't finish secondary School but is into furniture and metal fabrication and doing well. The girl's family automatically started calling my guy, " our in-law" My guy was gentle and good to a fault. He was solely responsible for the girl's material needs. He was a big help to the girls Family because I stayed in the girl's house and we all fed from the same pot. After her WAEC, the guy sponsored her to Nursing School and also paid her hostel accommodation. As she rounded up, my was able to secure a job for her in a government establishment and she started earning income. The girl had agreed to marry my guy but in 2007 when my guy decided to settle down, the family started resistance movement, that their daughter cannot marry a common carpenter. That they're world apart and many bla blah blah. When the frustration became too much, I had to advise my guy on certain measures and at that point, the girl threatened suicide if her family continue to stand in her way. To God be all the Glory, they finally got married after much hurddles. **** Secondly and also while I was still in the house, the elder brother ( ALEX, not real name please) to the same girl above sponsord his girlfriend to the University. Alex couldn't go to school as well due to their father's death and had to learn painting and house wiring. The girl that agreed to marriage proposal earlier, jilted him immediately after her graduation in 2009. She told Alex to look for his type and that she also paid him back through sex. Alex was forced to take a Part time program in University the following year. Now, I look back and see that sponsoring a girl that you're yet to get married to, is not worth the headache. Most times, it never ends well. Please, let's share our views and experiences with potential victims. You just might be saving a life. Happy Sunday 2 Likes |
Re: Would You Train A Girlfriend In School? Share Ur Experience here by TimT: 12:50pm On Aug 27, 2023 |
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Re: Would You Train A Girlfriend In School? Share Ur Experience here by Tunde835(m): 12:51pm On Aug 27, 2023 |
As a man you need to not spend too much time on women and get several hobbies instead. Truth is females are often a thorn in the flesh of men 8 Likes |
Re: Would You Train A Girlfriend In School? Share Ur Experience here by Manofsteel2013(m): 12:52pm On Aug 27, 2023 |
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Re: Would You Train A Girlfriend In School? Share Ur Experience here by April4th(m): 12:57pm On Aug 27, 2023 |
It always never ends well. |
Re: Would You Train A Girlfriend In School? Share Ur Experience here by obinna58(m): 12:58pm On Aug 27, 2023 |
Simps sponsoring ho*s, simping disgust women but they won’t tell you, she cannot allow a simp to own her while there’s an option for someone better esp someone who wouldn’t tolerate her nonsense 3 Likes |
Re: Would You Train A Girlfriend In School? Share Ur Experience here by Ashez: 1:01pm On Aug 27, 2023 |
Let's listen |
Re: Would You Train A Girlfriend In School? Share Ur Experience here by atilla(m): 1:04pm On Aug 27, 2023 |
soundforce:Happy Sunday to you too I wanted to find out if Alex later got married to his own girl. |
Re: Would You Train A Girlfriend In School? Share Ur Experience here by Kingosytex(m): 1:05pm On Aug 27, 2023 |
Why must you be the one to train her in school? Did she train you in school? If you're rendering that service because she is from a poor background, there are several guys from poor background who are doing well for themselves. Why can't she do same? 4 Likes |
Re: Would You Train A Girlfriend In School? Share Ur Experience here by Aboks(m): 1:10pm On Aug 27, 2023 |
I rather train goat Mstheeeeeeeeeeeew 16 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Would You Train A Girlfriend In School? Share Ur Experience here by Nobody: 1:15pm On Aug 27, 2023 |
Aboks: 8 Likes
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Re: Would You Train A Girlfriend In School? Share Ur Experience here by soundforce: 1:22pm On Aug 27, 2023 |
atilla:Alex later married an apprentice and didn't bother about his wife being educated or not...... And hence the saying " Once beaten, twice shy" 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Would You Train A Girlfriend In School? Share Ur Experience here by ideamonster: 4:51pm On Aug 27, 2023 |
OP, there's no reason to imagine it. This guy actually trained his girlfriend and just listen to see how it ended in tears https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lWqppErCr60 |
Re: Would You Train A Girlfriend In School? Share Ur Experience here by Lifeomann(m): 5:40pm On Aug 27, 2023 |
That girls family are all ingrates, why didn't they stop a carpenter from training their daughter, na they want to marry the now realize they are not compatible. Helping people these days self ![]() |
Re: Would You Train A Girlfriend In School? Share Ur Experience here by tuzle(m): 7:01pm On Aug 27, 2023 |
Me I sha can not do it unless we are married. When I am female cousins in my family that I can sponsor 1 Like |
Re: Would You Train A Girlfriend In School? Share Ur Experience here by soundforce: 8:14pm On Aug 27, 2023 |
Lifeomann:My brother, if I narrate all the trash the girl's family performed before they finally agreed for the marriage, you go hate. The girl's 3 elder brothers impregnated girls without official marriage but as e reach my guy turn, they started asking for Genotype and pregnancy test results. They so much carried pregnancy test results for head like Gala. Too much memories |
Re: Would You Train A Girlfriend In School? Share Ur Experience here by soundforce: 8:19pm On Aug 27, 2023 |
ideamonster:What I shared here are not imaginations as you assumed. I was directly involved in the matter and I happened to be the bestman to my guy during the marriage las las. 1 Like |
Re: Would You Train A Girlfriend In School? Share Ur Experience here by JustPowerApps(m): 8:27pm On Aug 27, 2023 |
Well, attempting to train a girlfriend in school sounds like a real-life horror plot! 2 Likes
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Re: Would You Train A Girlfriend In School? Share Ur Experience here by Davidcorny: 9:00pm On Aug 27, 2023 |
Didn't a pastor just commit suicide over this. |
Re: Would You Train A Girlfriend In School? Share Ur Experience here by udeh3(m): 9:31pm On Aug 27, 2023 |
Well, if God has blessed you enough, I believe the blessings aren't just for you and your family alone. It for those around you and others in need Yes, I can train s lady through school, even send a lady abroad for a better life. But, what I cannot do is, sponsor a girl through school all in the name of marrying her. For me, I won't do that Sponsoring a lady through school isn't an issue, the problem here is, you sponsoring her because you're romantically tied to each other. For sanity sake, it's better not to. Sponsor a lady because he needs to add value to her family and the society in general. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Would You Train A Girlfriend In School? Share Ur Experience here by dkidd: 9:40pm On Aug 27, 2023 |
Train woman bawo... I rather train chickens for the next Olympics. Rubbish ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: Would You Train A Girlfriend In School? Share Ur Experience here by izonborn098(m): 10:18pm On Aug 27, 2023 |
I will rather train my male enemy.. Or dog and fish... |
Re: Would You Train A Girlfriend In School? Share Ur Experience here by siofra(f): 10:36pm On Aug 27, 2023 |
Why don't you sponsor her from the goodness of your heart, instead of looking for something in return ![]() |
Re: Would You Train A Girlfriend In School? Share Ur Experience here by siofra(f): 10:37pm On Aug 27, 2023 |
dkidd: izonborn098: JustPowerApps: Aboks: obinna58: Kingosytex: Tunde835: This question is not for broke boys, please 🙄 4 Likes |
Re: Would You Train A Girlfriend In School? Share Ur Experience here by dkidd: 10:44pm On Aug 27, 2023 |
siofra:Lool look at this idiot that wears one under pant in three days straight. I can conveniently manage u from now till December without any complaints poor bitcch 😁 6 Likes |
Re: Would You Train A Girlfriend In School? Share Ur Experience here by izonborn098(m): 10:45pm On Aug 27, 2023 |
Says an olosho who can't survive any day without yellow garri... siofra:you mama dey complain say u dey always finish d garri for the house... With body like needle.. 1 Like |
Re: Would You Train A Girlfriend In School? Share Ur Experience here by Kingosytex(m): 10:56pm On Aug 27, 2023 |
siofra: The girl in question is the broke one for allowing someone pay her bills, don't you think? 3 Likes |
Re: Would You Train A Girlfriend In School? Share Ur Experience here by jumper524(m): 11:01pm On Aug 27, 2023 |
If I have the money, I would sponsor vulnerable girls to school not with the intention to marry her. I wasn't conditioned while being sponsored, I wouldn't do that to anyone. 3 Likes |
Re: Would You Train A Girlfriend In School? Share Ur Experience here by shantti(m): 11:05pm On Aug 27, 2023 |
Why not use the money to play to sure odd. |
Re: Would You Train A Girlfriend In School? Share Ur Experience here by shantti(m): 11:08pm On Aug 27, 2023 |
On a second thought, since u want to waste money, why not waste it very well by playing correct score whenever man city have a match with a lower rated team like Luton on Burnley. Just play a correct score of Luton to win man city by 15-0. thats a better way to waste money cos such a game will never enter 1 Like |
Re: Would You Train A Girlfriend In School? Share Ur Experience here by Lifeomann(m): 11:27pm On Aug 27, 2023 |
soundforce:😂😂 Yeye family 1 Like |
Re: Would You Train A Girlfriend In School? Share Ur Experience here by JustPowerApps(m): 11:44pm On Aug 27, 2023 |
These Kind Of Men Need To Be Flogged Publicly / Love Inequality / Dedicated To All Females Around Here.
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