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I Don't Have Friends by Ilamina(f): 11:57pm On Aug 27, 2023
At the moment, I depend on my parents
So I have been worried, my parents are not getting any younger

If something bad should happen, how will I survive
I don't want too be homeless in my life
I am so scared
Re: I Don't Have Friends by izonborn098(m): 12:01am On Aug 28, 2023
I always came across ur posts on nairaland. I don't know if you are joking but:
*in whatever you are passing through' you don't have to over sress urself.
*health is wealth' as far you are alive their is hope and you can change the story of ur family.
*i left my parents at 26 while my younger sister left home at 18' u can imagine the pressure.
*to leave one's parent is not by force if they are not forcing you' forget peer group presure.
*you have to believe in urself no matter how they look down on you' just believe the story can change through you.
*you have to start from somewhere' no matter how little it is, have something doing from there other opportunities will come in..
*stop expecting much from people even your own parents' so that you will not be disappointed. Disappointment bring depression and the only way to avoid it is expecting less or none..
WHATEVER YOU ARE PASSING THROUGH' YOU WILL BE FINE...

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Re: I Don't Have Friends by motionarena: 12:04am On Aug 28, 2023
Ilamina:
At the moment, I depend on my parents
So I have been worried, my parents are not getting any younger

If something bad should happen, how will I survive
I don't want too be homeless in my life
I am so scared

Me too
Am so lonely.

Can we be Friends cry
Re: I Don't Have Friends by Jeon(f): 12:19am On Aug 28, 2023
embarassed
Always here for you

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Re: I Don't Have Friends by Rokiat(f): 12:22am On Aug 28, 2023
And you think you can depend on friends? How old are you?

You must be a teen.
Re: I Don't Have Friends by Ilamina(f): 12:25am On Aug 28, 2023
Rokiat:
And you think you can depend on friends? How old are you?

You must be a teen.
I know I am childish

I have struggled with anxiety for years

But sometimes you need friends

They are times, I was homeless, my friends helped me

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Re: I Don't Have Friends by MrsTwrite(f): 1:11am On Aug 28, 2023
You will be fine, go and learn a skill and make cool cash.
Re: I Don't Have Friends by purejustice36: 1:15am On Aug 28, 2023
Ilamina:
I know I am childish

I have struggled with anxiety for years

But sometimes you need friends

They are times, I was homeless, my friends helped me

How old are you ?
What’s your gender?
Where do you live ?
What are your hobbies?
Do you love sports, if yes what team do u support?
What’s your mode of hustling?

Kindly tell me , I have something to say dear
Re: I Don't Have Friends by Ilamina(f): 1:16am On Aug 28, 2023
izonborn098:
I always came across ur posts on nairaland. I don't know if you are joking but:
*in whatever you are passing through' you don't have to over sress urself.
*health is wealth' as far you are alive their is hope and you can change the story of ur family.
*i left my parents at 26 while my younger sister left home at 18' u can imagine the pressure.
*to leave one's parent is not by force if they are not forcing you' forget peer group presure.
*you have to believe in urself no matter how they look down on you' just believe the story can change through you.
*you have to start from somewhere' no matter how little it is, have something doing from there other opportunities will come in..
*stop expecting much from people even your own parents' so that you will not be disappointed. Disappointment bring depression and the only way to avoid it is expecting less or none..
WHATEVER YOU ARE PASSING THROUGH' YOU WILL BE FINE...
thanks pumpkin 🎃
Re: I Don't Have Friends by Ilamina(f): 1:32am On Aug 28, 2023
purejustice36:


How old are you ?
What’s your gender?
Where do you live ?
What are your hobbies?
Do you love sports, if yes what team do u support?
What’s your mode of hustling?

Kindly tell me , I have something to say dear
I am 34

Female

Canada 🇨🇦

Learning about other pples cultures, traveling , watching TV

Not into sports, big fan of some sport stars like lebron james, Steve Gerrard and many more

Mode of hustling, I don't know, I have no degree
I don't even know where to start from, if I want to make money
Re: I Don't Have Friends by adelafe2019: 1:39am On Aug 28, 2023
O.P. be careful and avoid some useless boys that may take advantage of you and manipulate you for their selfish interests due to your inexperience and naivety.

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Re: I Don't Have Friends by illicit(m): 1:55am On Aug 28, 2023
Ilamina:
I know I am childish

I have struggled with anxiety for years

But sometimes you need friends

They are times, I was homeless, my friends helped me

U don't have friends

Ur friends helped u

Re: I Don't Have Friends by Ilamina(f): 1:57am On Aug 28, 2023
illicit:


U don't have friends

Ur friends helped u



when I had some friends
Re: I Don't Have Friends by illicit(m): 1:58am On Aug 28, 2023
Ilamina:
when I had some friends

Does anyone see u as a friend
Re: I Don't Have Friends by Ilamina(f): 2:17am On Aug 28, 2023
illicit:


Does anyone see u as a friend
some do, but I cut them all off

I just want to be left alone
Re: I Don't Have Friends by Rokiat(f): 2:26am On Aug 28, 2023
Ilamina:

I am 34

Female

Canada 🇨🇦

Learning about other pples cultures, traveling , watching TV

Not into sports, big fan of some sport stars like lebron james, Steve Gerrard and many more

Mode of hustling, I don't know, I have no degree
I don't even know where to start from, if I want to make money

You are 34 and living in Canada and still depending on your mother, and feel hopeless without friends?

You need therapy to solve whatever unresolved issues got your stuck like this. This is not normal.

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Re: I Don't Have Friends by 4KNGOATS(m): 3:40am On Aug 28, 2023
Rokiat:


You are 34 and living in Canada and still depending on your mother, and feel hopeless without friends?

You need therapy to solve whatever unresolved issues got your stuck like this. This is not normal.
What's normal? Are you normal?
Console not condemn
Re: I Don't Have Friends by LarryCork: 3:40am On Aug 28, 2023
Ilamina:
At the moment, I depend on my parents
So I have been worried, my parents are not getting any younger

If something bad should happen, how will I survive
I don't want too be homeless in my life
I am so scared


SIOFRA NO BODY WANT U....even yellow fever??!!!(no ooofencse) angry

Re: I Don't Have Friends by finallybusy: 4:48am On Aug 28, 2023
Hackneyed.
Re: I Don't Have Friends by BeLookingIDIOT(m): 6:41am On Aug 28, 2023
Rokiat:


You are 34 and living in Canada and still depending on your mother, and feel hopeless without friends?

You need therapy to solve whatever unresolved issues got your stuck like this. This is not normal.
Na now u dey find out
Re: I Don't Have Friends by Ilamina(f): 6:54am On Aug 28, 2023
Rokiat:


You are 34 and living in Canada and still depending on your mother, and feel hopeless without friends?

You need therapy to solve whatever unresolved issues got your stuck like this. This is not normal.
my aim was to go to school for sometime and get asylum

But I haven't gotten the asylum yet

I know ethiopian girls who come and work and not depend on their parents even in their thirties
Re: I Don't Have Friends by illicit(m): 7:52am On Aug 28, 2023
Ilamina:
some do, but I cut them all off

I just want to be left alone

DM me
Re: I Don't Have Friends by Jamersirwin1971: 9:35am On Aug 28, 2023
Ilamina:
At the moment, I depend on my parents
So I have been worried, my parents are not getting any younger

If something bad should happen, how will I survive
I don't want too be homeless in my life
I am so scared

Would be willing to be friends with you Maame .
Re: I Don't Have Friends by codedgalaxy: 10:13am On Aug 28, 2023
It is difficult not to have friends at your age op. especially as you are female.
Reasons you may not have friends are as follows:

1. You lack communication skills.
2.you are anti-social or socially awkward
3.you see other people as below your standard
4. You have "agwu" (marine spirit).
5.you haven't seen someone you both share same intrest. ( i can relate with this one because most people this days are full of 'bullshit'. The can hold a fvcking reasonable convo.
6. Your boundries are too rigid for others to crossover.
7.you might be low key overdosed on the redpill knowledge without your knowing. therefore, you see the world in black and white.
8. You may have childhood trauma (trust issues). Making it difficult for you to see other as friend even though they see you as such.

#thepuplepill
#codedgalaxy

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Re: I Don't Have Friends by tobby20: 10:16am On Aug 28, 2023
Rokiat:


You are 34 and living in Canada and still depending on your mother, and feel hopeless without friends?

You need therapy to solve whatever unresolved issues got your stuck like this. This is not normal.
ajeh I think say na only me detect am
Re: I Don't Have Friends by tobby20: 10:18am On Aug 28, 2023
codedgalaxy:
It is difficult not to have friends at your age op. especially as you are female.
Reasons you may not have friends are as follows:

1. You lack communication skills.
2.you are anti-social or socially awkward
3.you see other people as below your standard
4. You have "agwu" (marine spirit).
5.you haven't seen someone you both share same intrest. ( i can relate with this one because most people this days are full of 'bullshit'. The can hold a fvcking reasonable convo.
6. Your boundries are too rigid for others to crossover.
7.you might be low key overdosed on the redpill knowledge without your knowing. therefore, you see the world in black and white.
8. You may have childhood trauma (trust issues). Making it difficult for you to see other as friend even though they see you as such.

#thepuplepill
#codedgalaxy
you are a mad man
Re: I Don't Have Friends by codedgalaxy: 10:20am On Aug 28, 2023
tobby20:
you are a mad man
explain youself gentleman.
Re: I Don't Have Friends by tobby20: 10:24am On Aug 28, 2023
codedgalaxy:
explain youself gentleman.
no b fight Magee. ilytd no hard feelings
Re: I Don't Have Friends by purejustice36: 7:37pm On Aug 29, 2023
Ilamina:

I am 34

Female

Canada 🇨🇦

Learning about other pples cultures, traveling , watching TV

Not into sports, big fan of some sport stars like lebron james, Steve Gerrard and many more

Mode of hustling, I don't know, I have no degree
I don't even know where to start from, if I want to make money

Seen.
If you don’t mind , you can kindly follow me on my IG, we can converse further, but that’s if you don’t mind.
Re: I Don't Have Friends by Rumor2ruth: 7:54pm On Aug 29, 2023
I honestly don't know what to say, you claimed to live in Canada, I hope you ain't suffering from depression?speak up to someone here if possible .life isn't bed of roses dear.you win some,you loose some.pls take care of you.
Re: I Don't Have Friends by Nobody: 5:19pm On Aug 30, 2023
Ilamina:
At the moment, I depend on my parents
So I have been worried, my parents are not getting any younger

If something bad should happen, how will I survive
I don't want too be homeless in my life
I am so scared
Ilamina...
How much have I missed thee and thy silly posts. There is no NL account that I open that I won't always be reminded of your moniker. cheesy
And I always eventually look your username up. They will never understand you , but I do. I know a few other Nairalanders understand you split personas grin maybe we are about just a hundred of us. Or, maybe fifty.

Three-and-half years of noticing you on this space, and you're still serving it bat-shit crazy to us.
Simply put: consistency! * Applauds *

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