Tunde835:
As a man you need to not spend too much time on women and get several hobbies instead. Truth is females are often a thorn in the flesh of men

soundforce:
Happy Sunday fellow NAIRALANDERS.

Now, I look back and see that sponsoring a girl that you're yet to get married to, is not worth the headache. Most times, it never ends well.
Please, let's share our views and experiences with potential victims. You just might be saving a life.
Happy Sunday

Tunde835:
As a man you need to not spend too much time on women and get several hobbies instead. Truth is females are often a thorn in the flesh of men

soundforce:

My brother, if I narrate all the trash the girl's family performed before they finally agreed for the marriage, you go hate.
The girl's 3 elder brothers impregnated girls without official marriage but as e reach my guy turn, they started asking for Genotype and pregnancy test results. They so much carried pregnancy test results for head like Gala. Too much memories

udeh3:
Well, if God has blessed you enough, I believe the blessings aren't just for you and your family alone. It for those around you and others in need

Yes, I can train s lady through school, even send a lady abroad for a better life. But, what I cannot do is, sponsor a girl through school all in the name of marrying her. For me, I won't do that

Sponsoring a lady through school isn't an issue, the problem here is, you sponsoring her because you're romantically tied to each other. For sanity sake, it's better not to. Sponsor a lady because he needs to add value to her family and the society in general.

soundforce:
[quote author=DonroxyII

For Girlfriend is simply Charity & 50-50 ....
Very true but if na wealthy guy sponsor girl for school, she go hardly leave the boy. Especially if the boy na her spec.

OyeofIkoTuN:
I dont know about that oooo..im sure I dated one 18 years old girl one time...she just got admission. Uhmmm she was a virgin oo, took me a year before she gave me that kokoyam but I was doing the normal thing naija guys do...

I send her money normally.....i never paid school fees or houserent. I bought about 4 phones in 4 years , 1 laptop, I love buying clothes so she benefitted from that but I dey dash am funds wella..oh I bought Bluetooth speaker too.. we ain't dating no more, na me pause but I don't feel weird that I did those stuffs..

It was cheap to me that time....Chei I Don turn simp...I don buy pass 9 iPhone for different girls on a kendro level and it was nothing oo...I be Simp..

But it didn't take anything from me ooo...infact na Less..Is that Simp doings?..

Hahahahahahahaha

Aboks:
I rather train goat


Mstheeeeeeeeeeeew

chim14:
Answer is capital NO. Why would you even date a lady that is broke? That's the problem with Nigerian men, u carry unnecessary responsiblility on ur head, born children anyhow, when u end up broke, same naija woman will tell you to curse God and die.

Don't kill urself for any woman, if u die, they'll continue with another man easily.

Nasri100:


Stop giving men all these expensive ideas for free.

There is a reason the poor will continue to be poor for life. Its a method of living. The people at the upper echelon already know this and are pleased.

gforce5:
When I say that Nigerian men are the biggest SIMPS in Africa, people think that I am exaggerating and hating my own gender and countrymen. No matter how matter times we try to lecture guys to sort themselves out first before considering women, it all falls on deaf ears. Nigerian men have a savior like complex. This is what happens when you are brainwashed to believe that the only value you have as a man is your money.

Raalsalghul:
I don't see anything wrong with sponsoring a lady you want to marry to school.

Please sponsor her, her parents and siblings and if you still have more money, sponsor her extended family.

Oponu oshi!

Raalsalghul:
I don't see anything wrong with sponsoring a lady you want to marry to school.

Please sponsor her, her parents and siblings and if you still have more money, sponsor her extended family.

Oponu oshi!

DonroxyII:
Lie, Females are thorn in the flesh of "Boys" .... A Female knows her place when she is with "Men" ... Real Men not Wannabes!

Nasri100:


Stop giving men all these expensive ideas for free.

There is a reason the poor will continue to be poor for life. Its a method of living. The people at the upper echelon already know this and are pleased.

chim14:


You are very correct. I will stop, let dem remain where they are. I noticed this too, the more valuable the idea I share, the less people take seriously or dey just discard the giver like thrash. I will keep my lips sealed going forward.

Thanks