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Re: Would She Has Said This If She Truely Care And Love Me by Styluss: 10:36am On Aug 27, 2023 |
Yes I will, as long as the man is earning and gives my sister hapiness, I will gladly do it. I am from an average family, my mom was very contended, she grew with him, started as poor teachers, diveled into farming and now living great. I do good for myself too. In a relationship, love is not only the factor, but love and respect has an higher percentage. I chose love above money. UnfairLife7: |
Re: Would She Has Said This If She Truely Care And Love Me by UnfairLife7(m): 11:35am On Aug 27, 2023 |
Styluss:maybe you should link op with your sister then. 5 Likes |
Re: Would She Has Said This If She Truely Care And Love Me by Styluss: 12:16pm On Aug 27, 2023 |
OP is old, Age is a better factor compared to money. Everyone will go through my parents template. Marry young, marry someone whom you believe in, build together. Try your best and let fate decide. UnfairLife7: |
Re: Would She Has Said This If She Truely Care And Love Me by Villa12(m): 12:48pm On Aug 27, 2023 |
Styluss:says who biko? Is like you don't know what you're saying. 2 Likes |
Re: Would She Has Said This If She Truely Care And Love Me by Styluss: 12:54pm On Aug 27, 2023 |
I do, I have first hand experience Villa12: |
Re: Would She Has Said This If She Truely Care And Love Me by Villa12(m): 12:57pm On Aug 27, 2023 |
Styluss:Why saying everybody as if na everybody start from small. Instead of you to say yourself you dey carry everybody join 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Would She Has Said This If She Truely Care And Love Me by Styluss: 1:00pm On Aug 27, 2023 |
I meant my siblings, sorry if you misunderstood. I am the first! Villa12: |
Re: Would She Has Said This If She Truely Care And Love Me by frozen70(f): 2:02pm On Aug 27, 2023 |
Afodot0022: I think you should just let her be, since you have discovered that you are the one keeping the relationship Secondly, she is at the point of in decision So give her that break to decide what she wants But if she says hello to you on chat, do respond to her chats You may not be the only one that needs a relationship or attention from her |
Re: Would She Has Said This If She Truely Care And Love Me by Aaaaarghmed(m): 12:53am On Aug 28, 2023 |
ecolime:better o,me cannot marry broke woman o. 1 Like |
Re: Would She Has Said This If She Truely Care And Love Me by Afodot0022(m): 11:02am On Aug 28, 2023 |
thanks so much for your inputs so far, it has help me to navigate what am passing through at the moments, i will still appreciate more inputs for wider knowledge |
Re: Would She Has Said This If She Truely Care And Love Me by mrjojo: 12:20pm On Aug 28, 2023 |
Afodot0022: Hey, I apologize for being a bit harsh, but I want to be honest with you. It's only been 8 months since your marriage ended, and it seems like you haven't learned from the experience. Here are some key points: Your wife, whom you are not officially divorced from, cheated on you not once, but twice. She didn't have a job for 5 years, and as soon as she got a low-paying job, she didn't hesitate to leave for it, without considering the impact on your family. Based on this, it seems like you got married at a young age, and she may have married you for financial security rather than love or respect. It's likely that you saw signs of her lack of respect towards you. Now, you're facing a similar situation with the current woman you're involved with. Her comments are disrespectful, and it's important to recognize that she is showing her true colors. Even if she apologizes, the damage has already been done. By the way, why are you in such a rush to enter another relationship? It has only been 8 months since your separation, and you're already dealing with the aftermath of your wife's infidelity and taking care of two daughters. That's a lot to handle! If I were in your shoes, I would take some time off to process and reflect on my life. Ask myself some difficult questions instead of seeking love as if you were deprived of it in your childhood. Consider the reasons why your wife left you and why she chose a low-paying job over her family. Remember, you are a man! If you need to relieve sexual tension, take care of yourself privately. Focus on officially divorcing your wife and establishing a plan for custody of your kids. Then, look for a mature woman who has her own business or career, rather than someone under 30 Mistakes are meant to make us wiser and develop better judgment. Lastly, remember that you can give your all to a woman, but she may still cheat with someone who can barely afford his rent. So, prioritize yourself and be with someone who will respect you atleast. 1 Like |
Re: Would She Has Said This If She Truely Care And Love Me by Afodot0022(m): 2:04pm On Aug 28, 2023 |
Thanks so much for this output, you have really made alots of sense and did pick some beneficial advice from you statement. as it is now, have made up my mind to quite the relationship and just stay alone and reflect on life, it seems getting love now is difficult. once again thx mrjojo: 1 Like |
Re: Would She Has Said This If She Truely Care And Love Me by MeezPat(f): 5:53pm On Aug 28, 2023 |
Hello Poco, Please how can one get the laptop power bank and how long does the battery last.... pocohantas: |
Re: Would She Has Said This If She Truely Care And Love Me by pocohantas(f): 4:06pm On Aug 31, 2023 |
MeezPat: Computer village. The highlighted doesn't have one answer. It should depend on your laptop and charging cycles. |
Re: Would She Has Said This If She Truely Care And Love Me by Steady259(m): 9:16am On Sep 01, 2023 |
With this handwriting on the wall, you are still asking if you should go ahead with this relationship Sorry to ask but what was the reason for the first divorce? |
Re: Would She Has Said This If She Truely Care And Love Me by MeezPat(f): 9:52am On Sep 01, 2023 |
Pls could u recommend a vendor or an outlet. I checked online and didn't really see much pocohantas: |
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