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Re: Abandoned Baby: Women/Girls Why? What I Saw This Morning Going Out by Kobojunkie: 5:44pm On Aug 29, 2023 |
GreatAchiever1:You mean right before God then cursed them, and subsequently all of mankind, in childbearing in Genesis 3 vs 16, right? You mean I twisted that one too? ![]() |
Re: Abandoned Baby: Women/Girls Why? What I Saw This Morning Going Out by randirandor(m): 5:51pm On Aug 29, 2023 |
The headline should have been men/boys why? Cos men are actually the reason behind these. |
Re: Abandoned Baby: Women/Girls Why? What I Saw This Morning Going Out by Filmdirect: 5:58pm On Aug 29, 2023 |
hardasan: Thank you! A bunch of hypocrites! They will condemn her and a few minutes later go and have sex with a woman they don’t intend to marry. Who are they soiling her for? Her future husband? They likely have asked a woman to abort, ghosted a woman they were tired of after using her, looking for the next woman to be a girlfriend etc all while throwing stones at the female gender for not being chaste and lady like. Bunch of hypocrites and dead people walking. If they saw that same woman with child, they would condemn her! White washed tombstones! They are the ones Jesus was talking about. Full of righteousness anger yet filled with lustful desires. This God they call on to judge another is quietly writing their sins in a book. 2 Likes |
Re: Abandoned Baby: Women/Girls Why? What I Saw This Morning Going Out by Anny69(f): 5:59pm On Aug 29, 2023 |
1Sharon:You're right. But what if she's poor and can not afford emergency contraception? What if the police can't do anything? What if the woman can't abort, because of fear of having issues with the womb? 1 Like |
Re: Abandoned Baby: Women/Girls Why? What I Saw This Morning Going Out by Mcairliejam6: 6:00pm On Aug 29, 2023 |
Hmm problem ⚠️ no de Finnish ![]() ![]() |
Re: Abandoned Baby: Women/Girls Why? What I Saw This Morning Going Out by enemyofprogress: 6:00pm On Aug 29, 2023 |
What else do you expect from hook upd ASUU its been a while fa 🤷🤷😋 Even if na 1 Month... |
Re: Abandoned Baby: Women/Girls Why? What I Saw This Morning Going Out by Godmind2022(m): 6:01pm On Aug 29, 2023 |
jackmrandy: It's well. |
Re: Abandoned Baby: Women/Girls Why? What I Saw This Morning Going Out by Mcairliejam6: 6:09pm On Aug 29, 2023 |
Hmm problem ⚠️ no the finish ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: Abandoned Baby: Women/Girls Why? What I Saw This Morning Going Out by phemmyfour: 6:09pm On Aug 29, 2023 |
Yugoslavia247:It has nothing to do with stigma, she doesn't have means of taking care of the baby. We have proud single mothers taking care of their kids in today's world. It’s more about the financial needs |
Re: Abandoned Baby: Women/Girls Why? What I Saw This Morning Going Out by FuckTheMod: 6:10pm On Aug 29, 2023 |
Yugoslavia247:And why are you hiding under a fake gender? If you don't want to get pregnant while you're not ready, WHY DO YOU SPREAD YOUR LEGS FOR MEN? GREED... WHY CAN'T YOU KEEP YOUR LEGS CLOSED. BY THE WAY, A SINGLE GUY THAT MARRIES A SINGLE MOTHER, ESPECIALLY THE ONE THAT HER BABY DADDY IS STILL ALIVE IS THE GREATEST OLORIBURUKU FOÕL. |
Re: Abandoned Baby: Women/Girls Why? What I Saw This Morning Going Out by victory36(m): 6:43pm On Aug 29, 2023 |
WatchYourSix:it's not legal neither is it totally safe/accessible in Nigeria currently |
Re: Abandoned Baby: Women/Girls Why? What I Saw This Morning Going Out by victory36(m): 6:45pm On Aug 29, 2023 |
Fortune118005:abortion should be made legal it's better than birthing unwanted children to suffer plus it help control our population growth. |
Re: Abandoned Baby: Women/Girls Why? What I Saw This Morning Going Out by etrange: 6:58pm On Aug 29, 2023 |
Lol... the title is funny. Women, why?! Like we never miss an opportunity to generally call out women especially when it's on a crime that we feel can only be committed by ladies. Imagine if we start asking men why for all the bad things done by some men in our society. Back to the topic. The idea of giving up one's baby is painful both to the baby and the mother. Anyone that understands mother/infant bond would know most ladies that do this do it with tears in thier eyes. Many of them secretly follow up to ensure the baby ends up in a better place. And that makes you wonder why they still go ahead to do it. For many of them, it's primarily because of the single-mother stigma. They'd probably drop out of school, get insulted and might even end up single forever while the man they had sex with goes on to live thier lives. However, I still strongly believe there are better ways of handling the situation. I don't think it's practical for one society to stigmatize single moms and at the same time be against abortion and against such acts as the one reported by the OP. In Nigeria, we don't hold men accountable for thier promiscuity. We even praise young guys when they sleep with multiple women. And when pregnancy occurs, we hold one party accountable. This pressure leads to things like this. With that in mind, I have absolutely nothing against women given up babies they clearly cannot raise. It's in the best interest of the child. What matters is how they do it. I'd recommend they take the kid to an orphanage far away from where they live and sever any connection with it. Doing any other thing that can put the baby in harm's way in inconsiderate. 1 Like |
Re: Abandoned Baby: Women/Girls Why? What I Saw This Morning Going Out by Streetmovement(m): 7:19pm On Aug 29, 2023 |
Beverlyjean: Wotoporiously ![]() You be woman or you be man? Anyone wey you be, you dey cap legit no be small and I'm beginning to like you ![]() |
Re: Abandoned Baby: Women/Girls Why? What I Saw This Morning Going Out by Kobojunkie: 7:24pm On Aug 29, 2023 |
jackmrandy:She didn't have unprotected sex with herself right? So why not equally attack the man who she had sex with with the same vigor? ![]() |
Re: Abandoned Baby: Women/Girls Why? What I Saw This Morning Going Out by Kobojunkie: 7:26pm On Aug 29, 2023 |
Allisgud:Why did the one with the dick allow his dick mistakenly fall into her legs open wide without protection? Why not castigate him with the same vigor as you castigate the woman for opening her legs? ![]() |
Re: Abandoned Baby: Women/Girls Why? What I Saw This Morning Going Out by Kemadealadire(f): 7:33pm On Aug 29, 2023 |
🤦🏽♀️gory, still don't understand why girls of this generation have refused to close their legs, most of the time, you are left to deal with the aftermath while the guy moves on to the next. May you receive sense oh. |
Re: Abandoned Baby: Women/Girls Why? What I Saw This Morning Going Out by WatchYourSix: 7:41pm On Aug 29, 2023 |
victory36: .... theory is one thing, existing reality is another....u are speaking theory... the existing reality is that if u take a survey of all girls btw age 18 and 29.... u'd be aurprised they have all done 2 or more abortions.. That's how accessible abortion is in nigeria |
Re: Abandoned Baby: Women/Girls Why? What I Saw This Morning Going Out by chachanga: 7:50pm On Aug 29, 2023 |
Jeon: Your replying or not replying won't change the fact that your submissions lack both conscience and common sense? What sort of stigmatization will make you take a human life especially one that you're so intimately acquainted with it's making? Only animals think like that. |
Re: Abandoned Baby: Women/Girls Why? What I Saw This Morning Going Out by isabi2lof: 8:21pm On Aug 29, 2023 |
This is wickedness, but at the same time , the men impregnating ladies and dumping them , should also share part of the blame.. A society that talks down on single mothers , and appluading the baboons that made them one , what else should they be expecting from the single mothers that are been shamed , every now and then.. Many guys deceived so many ladies in their teens , with their yeye sweet mouth.. ![]() Even the ones that abandoned their own baby mamas are here insulting single mothers.. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Abandoned Baby: Women/Girls Why? What I Saw This Morning Going Out by MrSmithy: 8:43pm On Aug 29, 2023 |
Tomorrow they will start jumping from one prayer house to another crying God for a child and suffering their innocent hubby forgetting there's consequences and reward attached to every wrong and good act in life |
Re: Abandoned Baby: Women/Girls Why? What I Saw This Morning Going Out by AdaAwka1: 8:47pm On Aug 29, 2023 |
Yugoslavia247: Why didn't she abort the pregnancy, which is even cheaper, why carry the baby to term only to throw it away. |
Re: Abandoned Baby: Women/Girls Why? What I Saw This Morning Going Out by Kobojunkie: 9:07pm On Aug 29, 2023 |
AdaAwka1:How do you know for certain the woman threw the baby away? For all we know she may have dropped it off at the man's door only for him to decide to throw it away. We shouldn't be taking sides in this especially when innocent lives are involved. The man and woman should be equally condemned for this act. ![]() |
Re: Abandoned Baby: Women/Girls Why? What I Saw This Morning Going Out by jayAjoku(m): 9:27pm On Aug 29, 2023 |
BrutusOj:if the man who got her pregnant was responsible she wouldn’t have tried killing the baby its that simple if you like cry your fake tears by tomorrow morning you will forget this news you are being emotional about 1 Like |
Re: Abandoned Baby: Women/Girls Why? What I Saw This Morning Going Out by Westerhoffe(m): 9:33pm On Aug 29, 2023 |
Anny69: She could have wrapped the baby properly and kept him/her where good Samaritans can easily find him/her alive instead of the born to be executed method. But the best still remains, abstain, if you can't take care of the child. |
Re: Abandoned Baby: Women/Girls Why? What I Saw This Morning Going Out by Westerhoffe(m): 9:35pm On Aug 29, 2023 |
Anny69: I no gree o! You must explain how you can luff me as a Nairalander. |
Re: Abandoned Baby: Women/Girls Why? What I Saw This Morning Going Out by nelsonose: 9:49pm On Aug 29, 2023 |
Anny69: Really? |
Re: Abandoned Baby: Women/Girls Why? What I Saw This Morning Going Out by Kobojunkie: 9:58pm On Aug 29, 2023 |
Westerhoffe:HOw do you know it was a she that did this? What if the mother instead left the baby for the man only for him to choose to abandon it where it was found? Stop being biased in these things. ![]() |
Re: Abandoned Baby: Women/Girls Why? What I Saw This Morning Going Out by Westerhoffe(m): 10:03pm On Aug 29, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: So, she had the newer born with umbilical cord not trimmed, blood and all newly birthed stains, she then carried it like that over to the father, who then took it to the trash bin, left to die. Your sanity at times needs query. ![]() |
Re: Abandoned Baby: Women/Girls Why? What I Saw This Morning Going Out by Kobojunkie: 10:16pm On Aug 29, 2023 |
Westerhoffe:OP's initial description does not include info on the umbilical cord being untrimmed nor of the baby being covered in blood ooo! ![]() Do you think my sanity is to be questioned in this case? It is possible the father had a hand in depositing the child were it was found so stop being biased in your conclusion. ![]() |
Re: Abandoned Baby: Women/Girls Why? What I Saw This Morning Going Out by Westerhoffe(m): 10:21pm On Aug 29, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: I got out from the bus and went and view for myself, behold a dead baby (about 8 or 9 months) placed in the sack and no clothes, not cleaned, unblical cord dangling out. This is culled from the main post. It should help you. Description from the OP clearly shows this was a crime of from birth to the dirts. And yes… your psyche needs being questioned because you're always controversial when everyone are being reasonable. |
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