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Re: My Friend's Mother Suspended Her From Her Company For Fighting Her Staff by overflow1: 1:12pm On Aug 31, 2023
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Re: My Friend's Mother Suspended Her From Her Company For Fighting Her Staff by CondemnBattery(f): 1:12pm On Aug 31, 2023
grin

I know you're the one involved.
And I must tell you your mum is the real O.G.

I love your mum already.
Why will you, who's supposed to be a corp member, not even an intern, be giving instructions to staffs that have been serving your mum faithfully all this while?

Secondly, if you're not cool with whatever a staff has done, why not report to your mum or a superior? You want to claim you're the daughter of the MD right?

What your mum did is to teach you humility, and how to obey hierarchy.
Your mum is only training you, don't feel bad. Learn from it

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Re: My Friend's Mother Suspended Her From Her Company For Fighting Her Staff by AMAAnalytics: 1:12pm On Aug 31, 2023
Of course, she's right. It's not easy to build and run a business. And business is business, nothing personal.

Your friend's mum has been running her business for years, I assume, and even sent your friend to school with money from the business.

So she knows what's best for her business.

Also, good workers is hard to find nowadays, so you don't like an entitled child just come and chase them away.

There's seniority and she just can't walk in, and start giving orders.

Pick any of the reasons above

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Re: My Friend's Mother Suspended Her From Her Company For Fighting Her Staff by dangermouse(m): 1:13pm On Aug 31, 2023
Never mix business and family together. One of of the rules.

For the whole staff to be at loggerheads with her tell much about her.

Some of these staff have spent years in the company, with wealth of experience on for an intern who knows little or nothing to come on board and start bossing them around because she is the daughter to the MD? Now that is gross.
.
Never you mix family and business together unless only when you want to retire and leave the running of the business to them

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Re: My Friend's Mother Suspended Her From Her Company For Fighting Her Staff by Nobody: 1:13pm On Aug 31, 2023
IconicR:
She already has a good job, just waiting for resumption
She's doing intern there but those staff will never take instructions from her which is the major cause of the fights
she should stay home till she resumes her job.

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Re: My Friend's Mother Suspended Her From Her Company For Fighting Her Staff by Frank688915: 1:13pm On Aug 31, 2023
dey put mouth for weting no concern you, na family matter.
Re: My Friend's Mother Suspended Her From Her Company For Fighting Her Staff by WillOfAPrince(m): 1:14pm On Aug 31, 2023
As you have not stated fully the details of the altercation, it cannot be determined whether the mum's judgement was fair or not. The story is one-sided in the first place, and the mum is not such a monster to mistreat her daughter but wouldn't do same to her son. It simply doesn't add up. In the first place, why would an intern give instructions to company staffs? It doesn't make sense. She is the daughter of the owner, not the vice-president of the company. I would easily support the mother given the circumstances presented. And her allowance should be cut off if she decides not to resume. Such a spoilt child.

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Re: My Friend's Mother Suspended Her From Her Company For Fighting Her Staff by Akaegwu(m): 1:14pm On Aug 31, 2023
You and your friend=Toxic characters
IconicR:
Nairalanders please is it fair for a mother to suspend her own daughter for fighting her staff?

My friend's mother owns a large company with lots of staff, so she recently completed her nysc program and waiting to be called up for a job so she had to put up at her mum's company as an intern and she was doing her job well to see things done.

Most of the staff do not like to take instructions from her and this has resulted to altercations with most of them, they keep reporting to her mum till a meeting was finally called.

The staff seems to have connived against her and without even bothering to hear her side of the story her mum said she knows what she can do and she won't allow her to cause problems in her company, so she immediately suspended her and ask her to leave and go home.

The staff were happy with this judgement and some made some snide remarks while she was leaving.

This thing has really troubled her recently and she's thinking maybe her mom doesn't like her as she stated that if it were her brother she won't give such judgement.

Was she wrong in trying to put things in order which resulted to most of those fights with the staff?

Was the mum right to have passed such kind of judgement before her staff ?

My friend's mom told her to go resume next week on the condition that she'll behave well but my friend told her mum she's not stepping foot in her company again.

Nairalanders please without being biased who is at fault here?

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Re: My Friend's Mother Suspended Her From Her Company For Fighting Her Staff by frankpro27(m): 1:14pm On Aug 31, 2023
She did the right thing, I would do the same. Cuz u are my son or daughter does not confer any special privilege to u in my place of business. It may even be an old staff that sees to the success of the business she went to fight. As a matter of fact, my child shud not descend to the point of fighting a staff in d first place. I highly suspect she's rude to the staffs. As a wise child, you shud endear urself to the staff and know what they are doing wrong or right. If you see what dey are doing right, commend then, if you see what they are doing wrong report to ur mom cautiously. It's common wisdom

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Re: My Friend's Mother Suspended Her From Her Company For Fighting Her Staff by adonisgold: 1:14pm On Aug 31, 2023
Why should the staff take instructions from her? You that was just employed you are coming to form CEO. I know what some girls can do. For all the staff to resist her she has been throwing her weight around.

What other advice does she need again? Shebi she has made up her mind not to go back there. Let her start looking for job. That's the next thing. Then as a new intake let her start giving instructions in the company that just employed her.

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Re: My Friend's Mother Suspended Her From Her Company For Fighting Her Staff by Goodghoxt: 1:14pm On Aug 31, 2023
When everyone thinks you are not acting good then you need to check yourself, maybe you’re not but sadly most humans don’t do that.

Your friend has some flaws she needs to shed…
Her mum make a reference to that.

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Re: My Friend's Mother Suspended Her From Her Company For Fighting Her Staff by Vokallond1(m): 1:15pm On Aug 31, 2023
ALRIGHT
Re: My Friend's Mother Suspended Her From Her Company For Fighting Her Staff by denko(m): 1:15pm On Aug 31, 2023
YOUR FRIEND DOES NOT HAVE A COMMUNICATION FRIENDSHIP WITH HER MOTHER. IF SHE WAS DOING SOMETHING RIGHT SHE SHOULD HAVE LET THE MOTHER KNOW. or=IconicR post=125484117]Nairalanders please is it fair for a mother to suspend her own daughter for fighting her staff?

My friend's mother owns a large company with lots of staff, so she recently completed her nysc program and waiting to be called up for a job so she had to put up at her mum's company as an intern and she was doing her job well to see things done.

Most of the staff do not like to take instructions from her and this has resulted to altercations with most of them, they keep reporting to her mum till a meeting was finally called.

The staff seems to have connived against her and without even bothering to hear her side of the story her mum said she knows what she can do and she won't allow her to cause problems in her company, so she immediately suspended her and ask her to leave and go home.

The staff were happy with this judgement and some made some snide remarks while she was leaving.

This thing has really troubled her recently and she's thinking maybe her mom doesn't like her as she stated that if it were her brother she won't give such judgement.

Was she wrong in trying to put things in order which resulted to most of those fights with the staff?

Was the mum right to have passed such kind of judgement before her staff ?

My friend's mom told her to go resume next week on the condition that she'll behave well but my friend told her mum she's not stepping foot in her company again.

Nairalanders please without being biased who is at fault here?[/quote]
Re: My Friend's Mother Suspended Her From Her Company For Fighting Her Staff by Nobody: 1:15pm On Aug 31, 2023
Trys:
Yoi self check it how can old staffs be receiving orders from interns.
My friend said they are mismanaging the company and cheating her mom.
So she was monitoring them but they won't agree to take instructions from her which resulted in those fights
Re: My Friend's Mother Suspended Her From Her Company For Fighting Her Staff by paxonel(m): 1:15pm On Aug 31, 2023
IconicR:
Nairalanders please is it fair for a mother to suspend her own daughter for fighting her staff?

My friend's mother owns a large company with lots of staff, so she recently completed her nysc program and waiting to be called up for a job so she had to put up at her mum's company as an intern and she was doing her job well to see things done.

Most of the staff do not like to take instructions from her and this has resulted to altercations with most of them, they keep reporting to her mum till a meeting was finally called.

The staff seems to have connived against her and without even bothering to hear her side of the story her mum said she knows what she can do and she won't allow her to cause problems in her company, so she immediately suspended her and ask her to leave and go home.

The staff were happy with this judgement and some made some snide remarks while she was leaving.

This thing has really troubled her recently and she's thinking maybe her mom doesn't like her as she stated that if it were her brother she won't give such judgement.

Was she wrong in trying to put things in order which resulted to most of those fights with the staff?

Was the mum right to have passed such kind of judgement before her staff ?

My friend's mom told her to go resume next week on the condition that she'll behave well but my friend told her mum she's not stepping foot in her company again.

Nairalanders please without being biased who is at fault here?
she just finished nysc, she cannot come and start putting things in order, what does she know?

She caused the wahalla for herself. Instead of her to humble and learn first, she is forming oga just because na her mama company

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Re: My Friend's Mother Suspended Her From Her Company For Fighting Her Staff by sisisioge: 1:16pm On Aug 31, 2023
Intern giving instruction to staff because her mom owns the company! What a terrible attitude! I hope she changes her ways before entering the corporate world. Silly pikin!

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Re: My Friend's Mother Suspended Her From Her Company For Fighting Her Staff by Nobody: 1:17pm On Aug 31, 2023
Helper1000:
she should stay home till she resumes her job.
Will you pass such kind of judgement and put your child down before others? Let's be fair because I'm trying to reason with my friend
Re: My Friend's Mother Suspended Her From Her Company For Fighting Her Staff by awoofawoo: 1:17pm On Aug 31, 2023
Make she go home go rest, Al these children of nowadays with nonsense woke mentality.

She wan ruin her mama business with nonsense altitude and charlatan.
Re: My Friend's Mother Suspended Her From Her Company For Fighting Her Staff by Karleb(m): 1:17pm On Aug 31, 2023
IconicR:
My friend said they are mismanaging the company and cheating her mom.
So she was monitoring them but they won't agree to take instructions from her which resulted in those fights

She should report to her mum and not give instructions.

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Re: My Friend's Mother Suspended Her From Her Company For Fighting Her Staff by greatsam767(m): 1:17pm On Aug 31, 2023
From your write up OP it shows that you're the one, and from your narration all I can deduce is your anger and hatred for your mum's staff, you that doesn't even have wealth of experience just wants to wake up one morning and be assigning task and delegating to ppl that are way bigger than you in the industry, better learn to remain humble and calm so you can learn and stop chasing ppl from your mum's company,
Don't go and use your bad character and ruin your mum's. Company
Proud goeth before destruction.

Shalom.

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Re: My Friend's Mother Suspended Her From Her Company For Fighting Her Staff by Daddyseun1: 1:18pm On Aug 31, 2023
IconicR.

Ur mother knows you too well, you cant come and scatter the company your mother has been building for years,

If I am your mother I won't even allow you to work in my company, go find job elsewhere, and learn some lesson,

Your mum knows you are spoiled brat
Re: My Friend's Mother Suspended Her From Her Company For Fighting Her Staff by Ekpekus(m): 1:18pm On Aug 31, 2023
IconicR:
Answer the questions? Will you pass such judgement on your own child before your staff
Is it about favoritism or doing what is right?
How would you react if you were the staff and a biase Judgement was passed against you because the Judge's child is who you are having a case with?
Re: My Friend's Mother Suspended Her From Her Company For Fighting Her Staff by ajailer(m): 1:18pm On Aug 31, 2023
she should look at the matter from a positive side that if she ain't truly guilty of the accusation, then why will her mum suspend her at the expense of an outsider.

the mum is just trying to instill humility into her mind noni, am suspecting she has a sense of entitlement or why will she want to effect a change forcefully cos na her mama get the place. she is even lucky that the owner of the place is her mum and na just suspension she collect otherwise maybe na sack she go dey cry on top....for her going back to resume at the work on monday or not, that one na her palaver.

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Re: My Friend's Mother Suspended Her From Her Company For Fighting Her Staff by Karleb(m): 1:18pm On Aug 31, 2023
IconicR:
Will you pass such kind of judgement and put your child down before others? Let's be fair because I'm trying to reason with my friend

Yes. It's business, the earlier you learn that, the better for you.
Re: My Friend's Mother Suspended Her From Her Company For Fighting Her Staff by Ofunaofu: 1:19pm On Aug 31, 2023
IconicR:
Nairalanders please is it fair for a mother to suspend her own daughter for fighting her staff?

My friend's mother owns a large company with lots of staff, so she recently completed her nysc program and waiting to be called up for a job so she had to put up at her mum's company as an intern and she was doing her job well to see things done.

Most of the staff do not like to take instructions from her and this has resulted to altercations with most of them, they keep reporting to her mum till a meeting was finally called.

The staff seems to have connived against her and without even bothering to hear her side of the story her mum said she knows what she can do and she won't allow her to cause problems in her company, so she immediately suspended her and ask her to leave and go home.

The staff were happy with this judgement and some made some snide remarks while she was leaving.

This thing has really troubled her recently and she's thinking maybe her mom doesn't like her as she stated that if it were her brother she won't give such judgement.

Was she wrong in trying to put things in order which resulted to most of those fights with the staff?

Was the mum right to have passed such kind of judgement before her staff ?

My friend's mom told her to go resume next week on the condition that she'll behave well but my friend told her mum she's not stepping foot in her company again.

Nairalanders please without being biased who is at fault here?

So you carry this your agbadorian mindset enter your mother business to go cause wahala

Thank God for the type of mother you have

A disciplinarian who ensured that you are put to where you actually belong.....
Re: My Friend's Mother Suspended Her From Her Company For Fighting Her Staff by frozen70(f): 1:19pm On Aug 31, 2023
IconicR:
Nairalanders please is it fair for a mother to suspend her own daughter for fighting her staff?

My friend's mother owns a large company with lots of staff, so she recently completed her nysc program and waiting to be called up for a job so she had to put up at her mum's company as an intern and she was doing her job well to see things done.

Most of the staff do not like to take instructions from her and this has resulted to altercations with most of them, they keep reporting to her mum till a meeting was finally called.

The staff seems to have connived against her and without even bothering to hear her side of the story her mum said she knows what she can do and she won't allow her to cause problems in her company, so she immediately suspended her and ask her to leave and go home.

The staff were happy with this judgement and some made some snide remarks while she was leaving.

This thing has really troubled her recently and she's thinking maybe her mom doesn't like her as she stated that if it were her brother she won't give such judgement.

Was she wrong in trying to put things in order which resulted to most of those fights with the staff?

Was the mum right to have passed such kind of judgement before her staff ?

My friend's mom told her to go resume next week on the condition that she'll behave well but my friend told her mum she's not stepping foot in her company again.

Nairalanders please without being biased who is at fault here?

Lol
Her mum has already been satisfied with her staff performance

Your friend must have been too authoritative and they wouldn't want such
For the fact that the company belongs to her mum, she wants to rule them

That act may affect productivity on them

So her mum did what she did to pass a message to her staff that she can as well do the same thing she did to her daughter to anyone of them that messes up

So, she can resume get reconciled with them the staff and work along with them

Though that will not be easy at all to reconcile with them

Alternatively, she can work from home and they don't have to see themselves but deal on line with same job performance

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Re: My Friend's Mother Suspended Her From Her Company For Fighting Her Staff by NovusHomo(m): 1:19pm On Aug 31, 2023
silvoclaira:
Lies. Its you!
Its your mum and you. Your mum is a smarter one. She just saved her company from your poison.
(we go chase you OP from Nairaland)

HURRAY! Let join the company staffs to celebrate the rubbing of sh!t on the OP(iyaegbe) faace. Thats why you are always here in Nairaland, jobless typing BS
grin grin grin

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Re: My Friend's Mother Suspended Her From Her Company For Fighting Her Staff by Nobody: 1:19pm On Aug 31, 2023
IconicR:
Will you pass such kind of judgement and put your child down before others? Let's be fair because I'm trying to reason with my friend
okay.. I should pursue my staffs? You can never know Better than the mum.
Re: My Friend's Mother Suspended Her From Her Company For Fighting Her Staff by EDOSBROWN: 1:20pm On Aug 31, 2023
IconicR:
Answer the questions? Will you pass such judgement on your own child before your staff
Show me something
Re: My Friend's Mother Suspended Her From Her Company For Fighting Her Staff by correctguy101(m): 1:20pm On Aug 31, 2023
IconicR:
Nairalanders please is it fair for a mother to suspend her own daughter for fighting her staff?

My friend's mother owns a large company with lots of staff, so she recently completed her nysc program and waiting to be called up for a job so she had to put up at her mum's company as an intern and she was doing her job well to see things done.

Most of the staff do not like to take instructions from her and this has resulted to altercations with most of them, they keep reporting to her mum till a meeting was finally called.

The staff seems to have connived against her and without even bothering to hear her side of the story her mum said she knows what she can do and she won't allow her to cause problems in her company, so she immediately suspended her and ask her to leave and go home.

The staff were happy with this judgement and some made some snide remarks while she was leaving.

This thing has really troubled her recently and she's thinking maybe her mom doesn't like her as she stated that if it were her brother she won't give such judgement.

Was she wrong in trying to put things in order which resulted to most of those fights with the staff?

Was the mum right to have passed such kind of judgement before her staff ?

My friend's mom told her to go resume next week on the condition that she'll behave well but my friend told her mum she's not stepping foot in her company again.

Nairalanders please without being biased who is at fault here?


Lols...

And as an intern what position was she asked to manage and what's that she knows is going wrong in the company that the mother didn't know of, to the extent of sending her home after hearing of the issue?

IMO, I feel she should've spoken with her mum first instead of going h2h with her mums employee.

Sending her home isn't bad though....grin
Re: My Friend's Mother Suspended Her From Her Company For Fighting Her Staff by NovusHomo(m): 1:21pm On Aug 31, 2023
Beremx:
grin I can bet with my left breast that you're the one involved and not your friend. You don carry your wahala for nairaland go display for your mama company. Stick to nairaland and leave mama company alone
Good for you grin grin


Let's see what you are betting with grin

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