Men are smarter now, and very careful with who they choose to marry, that is the problem now. Unlike before whereen accept women for who they are. Even with a bad character, but now if you can't cook as a lady, you get dumped, if you are materialistic you get dumped, if you have nothing to offer aside sex, you will get dumped, if you are from a poor family and want to get married into a rich family, you will get dumped when it's time for the guy to get married.

The lubricant of relationship.... i.e MONEY, don scarce

Kolo

Stephen2324:
Relationships are now more difficult than ever. Everyone is being wary and careful of the other person. Men don't trust ladies and ladies don't trust men. Everyone is on the edge, suspicious of the words and actions of other person. Distrust everywhere.

Voluntary unions are now built on falsehood and distrust. No one wants to be the fool. No one wants to be the "mugu". Everyone wants to be the smart one.

The winner of this unfortunate battlefield is he who has the least emotions and who cares less. It is more sad when one realises that these are two species that are meant to work together in a physical and spiritual upbuilding but this is where we are today.

More sad is that, it will get worse as time passes because even these wrong values are being passed on to the younger generation who cling to it more firmly and build on it. Building on the wrong values with so much energy and talent, directed in the wrong direction. And when one seeks to find the root cause of this pain and scar we all bear, we end up going round in circles and plunging ourselves into the very entities that birthed these false attitudes. A vicious cycle.

We are like a legion of lost souls in a dark enclosed tunnel, getting in eachother's way just to find a way out but without a genuine desire to change from within.

Stephen2324:
Relationships are now more difficult than ever. Everyone is being wary and careful of the other person. Men don't trust ladies and ladies don't trust men. Everyone is on the edge, suspicious of the words and actions of other person. Distrust everywhere.

Voluntary unions are now built on falsehood and distrust. No one wants to be the fool. No one wants to be the "mugu". Everyone wants to be the smart one.

The winner of this unfortunate battlefield is he who has the least emotions and who cares less. It is more sad when one realises that these are two species that are meant to work together in a physical and spiritual upbuilding but this is where we are today.

More sad is that, it will get worse as time passes because even these wrong values are being passed on to the younger generation who cling to it more firmly and build on it. Building on the wrong values with so much energy and talent, directed in the wrong direction. And when one seeks to find the root cause of this pain and scar we all bear, we end up going round in circles and plunging ourselves into the very entities that birthed these false attitudes. A vicious cycle.

We are like a legion of lost souls in a dark enclosed tunnel, getting in eachother's way just to find a way out but without a genuine desire to change from within.

^^^^^story
How can relationship be dificult when I get puccccccci every day sir....between 10k to 17k women!!!((no oofencse))

You said it all

Stephen2324:

We are like a legion of lost souls in a dark enclosed tunnel, getting in eachother's way just to find a way out but without a genuine desire to change from within.

I've come to the conclusion that what many need in this generation and the generations to come might just be healing, so many wounded souls out there, relationship is akin to survival now, no real connections, no real feelings just want exploit others and move on.

Mind you, I'm nowhere better but I'm mindful of the energies and vibes parading as relationship I entertain these days. I'd tell you once if it's help you want or you need love to be on same page and if you decide to hide behind love just to get help, I'll let time do the talking..

I didn't go through.

But accessing the Top Story, it's as a result of "hook up".

Most ladies don't like going into relationship any longer.

I don't know if it's poverty or what?

One lady told me that ladies that do relationship are "dirty".

That I should just cross-check those that do hook up and see how "clean" they are and get them compared with those that do relationship. That after all, "nack na nack".

And this is having an ill effect in our Society this time round. Most Single guys that would want to "settle down" can't find it with ease as every damn thing is commercialised.

Scarier than ever

May God help those of us with Good intentions

Yes

TimT:
Many women out there are good and many of them want marriage.... But men don't know what they need in marriage.... Some men don't know what the concept of marriage entails sef...
Everybody's expectations in marriage are different...
Know what you need..
Be ready to understand....
Be ready to forgive...
Be financially balanced or have a goal...
You'll get married... Even if you divorce, you'll still marry again...

Lecturer Sir/Madam, abeg wat does concept of marriage entail?

True

The way material and world things are more pronounced than ever.

"Relationship" and "worldliness" cannot go pari passu.

I just broke up with my babe yesterday. Searching mode activated

DonBenny77:

It's scary man.
Some of us may not get married

it will be better for the planet to have less population

singles want to get married ,to shake the city as his sister, cousin or friends does while the married ones wishes to becomes singles again.
The end of time is so near that even pur breathing can testify.

izonborn098:
All i know is marriage sweet but with the right person..
Don't play with red flags and don't go after oloshos who are good in packaging..

There's is nothing like right person people change people pretend. Them nor de write olosho for head, one olosho when don cast for one state fit go another state go form saint. See the matter hard..

Stephen2324:
Relationships are now more difficult than ever. Everyone is being wary and careful of the other person. Men don't trust ladies and ladies don't trust men. Everyone is on the edge, suspicious of the words and actions of other person. Distrust everywhere.

Voluntary unions are now built on falsehood and distrust. No one wants to be the fool. No one wants to be the "mugu". Everyone wants to be the smart one.

The winner of this unfortunate battlefield is he who has the least emotions and who cares less. It is more sad when one realises that these are two species that are meant to work together in a physical and spiritual upbuilding but this is where we are today.

More sad is that, it will get worse as time passes because even these wrong values are being passed on to the younger generation who cling to it more firmly and build on it. Building on the wrong values with so much energy and talent, directed in the wrong direction. And when one seeks to find the root cause of this pain and scar we all bear, we end up going round in circles and plunging ourselves into the very entities that birthed these false attitudes. A vicious cycle.

We are like a legion of lost souls in a dark enclosed tunnel, getting in eachother's way just to find a way out but without a genuine desire to change from within.

It is majorly because of the financial situation of the world.

God only can still give one a genuine and lasting relationship.

Relationships are amazing, great and super exciting on social media.Then comes the real life aspect where reality dawn's heavily.A lot of things are left unsaid bc experience is the best teacher

Jeon:
Wahala, Wahala.
kaiii, na Men dy cry for marriage those days, why you go cry for wetin no dy give u benefit? .



This is not you Op, please come and bash us!!!..

This happens if you refused to get married in your generation, hoping that the next generation will produces fresh, young, submissive , good and naive girls....


😉

Looks more like someone angry that men are now skipping are age group for someone younger.

It's a free world, men can choose younger girls the same way you are free to choose odogwu spender. Good Behaviour has no age limitation.

Stephen2324:
Relationships are now more difficult than ever. Everyone is being wary and careful of the other person. Men don't trust ladies and ladies don't trust men. Everyone is on the edge, suspicious of the words and actions of other person. Distrust everywhere.

Voluntary unions are now built on falsehood and distrust. No one wants to be the fool. No one wants to be the "mugu". Everyone wants to be the smart one.

The winner of this unfortunate battlefield is he who has the least emotions and who cares less. It is more sad when one realises that these are two species that are meant to work together in a physical and spiritual upbuilding but this is where we are today.

More sad is that, it will get worse as time passes because even these wrong values are being passed on to the younger generation who cling to it more firmly and build on it. Building on the wrong values with so much energy and talent, directed in the wrong direction. And when one seeks to find the root cause of this pain and scar we all bear, we end up going round in circles and plunging ourselves into the very entities that birthed these false attitudes. A vicious cycle.

We are like a legion of lost souls in a dark enclosed tunnel, getting in eachother's way just to find a way out but without a genuine desire to change from within.

you don't need to look far to find the root cause,it is the internet,social media has broken down the barriers to communication and has given human beings the ability to interact more freely with other cultures,women now has more freedom than ever in the history of mankind,a girl in owerri can send a live video of her pvssy to an India man 7000km away in Bangalore,I have seen a 17yr old ss3 girl that went from anambra state to visit her married lover she met on facebook In mali,a 50yr old army officer that kept her in a hotel for 2 weeks with steady banging,I was shocked to my bone marrows when this girl was telling me the story,with expensive phone,pictures to back her up,at that age to have guts to lie to her parents and stay 2 weeks with a total stranger in another country because of ease of communication,you can reach your own conclusion on what she will grow up to be

DonBenny77:

It's scary man.
Some of us may not get married

This has always happened in every generation. Na just be say we no dey see. Days of fast information dissemination made it look like its much now.

Back in the day. E yapa oo.. Many unmarried men n women dey..

Some men wey do marry self they se sege ..

Me don tire ...

DonBenny77:

It's scary man.
Some of us may not get married

2Radii:
But na single mum like u we dey fvck around

If wishes were horses, beggars would ride.

SonofGod231:
The main trouble is that a man's desire to be loved and to love never really changes from the onset but the focus of women tends to move from one material thing to children to being solely Independent. Eventually we see what OP has just mentioned playing out. Most marriages are suffering,no Iota of LOVE but most peeps just have to live with it.
What makes a Loveless relationship sweet?!

Hope u also known that substantial percentage of men are the architect of their marriages downfall, wen they are at peak, they do anyhow claiming African man rhetoric, treating their own wife like slaves instead of queens, before you know, the woman won't be able to accommodate the nonsense anymore.


Edochie and Niniowo are few examples of my submission above,. million of such that are not celebrities abound everywhere.

It's not that relationship is that hard. It's just that no one wants to be the victim. Men think most girls now are prostitute and on the lookout for better one's. And as a ladies you don't want to marry men that as nothing too offer. They smoke, bet, drink, sleep with whatever comes their way and some aren't even financially stable. Ladies ought to get married but men's have the mindset that no matter how old they are it's not too late for them. So how is it supposed to work out??
Everyone is just on their own.

Relationship/Marriage na scam. Make everybody go rest. I will only marry the girl I trust 100%

Red flags don't lie..

Justbeingreal:
Them de write olosho for head. One olosho when don cast for one state fit go another state go form saint. See the matter hard..

ThatCEO:


Looks more like someone angry that men are now skipping are age group for someone younger.

It's a free world, men can choose younger girls the same way you are free to choose odogwu spender. Good Behaviour has no age limitation.

Men are looking for retirement plan, that's why they're going after them. And can't manipulate the Women within their age group. Lolz and those days girls my age don't settle down for less.
Thanks Generation Z .

Jeon:
Wahala, Wahala.
kaiii, na Men dy cry for marriage those days, why you go cry for wetin no dy give u benefit? .











This is not you Op, please come and bash us!!!..

This happens if you refused to get married in your generation, hoping that the next generation will produces fresh, young, submissive , good and naive girls....


😉

What you fail to understand is that its women this will affect the most... a man can decide to get married at 50 and you will see a flock of women in their 20s willing to take the ring as long as he can take care of them...women don't have that luxury due to the biological factor .... this is one reason why I condem modern ways of women ... they think its a competition but they are only ruining their future and chance ... whether we like it or not, men hold the ace ... no matter how society tries to throw deception

Little21:
It's not that relationship is that hard. It's just that no one wants to be the victim. Men think most girls now are prostitute and on the lookout for better one's. And as a ladies you don't want to marry men that as nothing too offer. They smoke, bet, drink, sleep with whatever comes their way and some aren't even financially stable. Ladies ought to get married but men's have the mindset that no matter how old they are it's not too late for them. So how is it supposed to work out??
Everyone is just on their own.

if you marry me now ,you will be enjoying my free Netflix left and right ✅️