Welcome, Guest: Register On Nairaland / LOGIN! / Trending / Recent / NewStats: 3,198,233 members, 7,967,510 topics. Date: Saturday, 05 October 2024 at 08:21 PM |
Nairaland Forum / Nairaland / General / Romance / Relationships Are Now More Difficult Than Ever. (27246 Views)
Is This Why Relationships Are Stressful? / Finding A Partner Is More Difficult Than I Assume / Most Distance Relationships Are Pure Scam. (2) (3) (4)
(1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (Reply) (Go Down)
Re: Relationships Are Now More Difficult Than Ever. by Orderabove(m): 11:11am On Sep 03, 2023 |
all relationships now is based on sex and money 1 Like |
Re: Relationships Are Now More Difficult Than Ever. by brightleave(m): 11:15am On Sep 03, 2023 |
the economy now and before na the same? Men dey para 4 everything |
Re: Relationships Are Now More Difficult Than Ever. by IbileIfe: 11:15am On Sep 03, 2023 |
Jeon: 2 Likes 1 Share
|
Re: Relationships Are Now More Difficult Than Ever. by CoolAmbience(m): 11:16am On Sep 03, 2023 |
DonBenny77: That's a sad reality. The ones that are married are now pulling out.... that's how bad it has become. Yet so many people still think that the priority is in promoting campaigns such as gender equality, 35% affirmative action etc. These days, men can hardly finish uttering a word before their wives make full sentences all over the place. They are reverence their pastors and dishonour their husbands at the slightest misunderstanding. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Relationships Are Now More Difficult Than Ever. by brightleave(m): 11:17am On Sep 03, 2023 |
Hardship don blindfold love 3 Likes |
Re: Relationships Are Now More Difficult Than Ever. by nathyx(m): 11:18am On Sep 03, 2023 |
poweredcom: Oga food master Dangote with all the food got married twice and divorced twice all his food in the store couldn't save his marriage. |
Re: Relationships Are Now More Difficult Than Ever. by Elims91(m): 11:18am On Sep 03, 2023 |
Relationship this days is difficult to be in cos it's hard to find genuine love. 2 Likes |
Re: Relationships Are Now More Difficult Than Ever. by kaludestiny10(m): 11:20am On Sep 03, 2023 |
Your points are spot on. A man that cheats on his wife either in her presence or at her back is inhumane to his wife. A man that can't assist his wife in domestic chores is not a husband. A man that treats his wife as a trash just because he paid a huge bride price on her head is not good. A wife can earn more than her husband. But the only problem most time on this particular issue is that most women that earn more income than their husband now see themselves as equal to the husband or even the head of the family which is bad. athaliya: |
Re: Relationships Are Now More Difficult Than Ever. by TheSuperX(m): 11:20am On Sep 03, 2023 |
Forget it, love dosen't exist anymore. Relationship is transactional these days. 8 Likes |
Re: Relationships Are Now More Difficult Than Ever. by Zealag(m): 11:21am On Sep 03, 2023 |
I easily get tired,I no like stress and drama.I value my peace,juz wanna stack up huge amount on a low 5 Likes |
Re: Relationships Are Now More Difficult Than Ever. by adams123: 11:21am On Sep 03, 2023 |
[quote author=Little21 post=125544579]It's not that relationship is that hard. It's just that no one wants to be the victim. Men think most girls now are prostitute and on the lookout for better one's. And as a ladies you don't want to marry men that as nothing too offer. They smoke, bet, drink, sleep with whatever comes their way and some aren't even financially stable. Ladies ought to get married but men's have the mindset that no matter how old they are it's not too late for them. So how is it supposed to work out?? More so, a rich guy today can be poor tomorrow and vice versa Una no the see women that are wealthy? Why you babes always want to marry a rich guy and not working hard to Marry whom you love inrespective of the person's financial status? As, I'm now.. I work hard to be wealthy so that I can take care of my family and the entire society so I never pray to marry a rich girl. Been rich is not by anyone's power is the test from GOD to whom ever HE wishes. |
Re: Relationships Are Now More Difficult Than Ever. by shoboy9: 11:22am On Sep 03, 2023 |
if a bad or evil man marries an evil woman, their marriage will be full of evil. If a good but not perfect man marries an imperfect woman, there ought to be problems every hour, everyday until likely both end in crisis and most likely hellfire. If a perfect man marries a perfect woman, there should be perfection in their union and blessings - the "happily ever after" that many want. Because the man and woman are not perfect, it is to be expected that any union between a man and woman will be beset by problems. We call this "facing reality". Unfortunately, two imperfect people managing each other provides the perfect basis for both to end up miserable and in hellfire. But imperfection is not the reality of the gospel of JESUS. He took our sins and gave His perfection. Having been forgiven our sins, we work out our perfection till we are like Him. If you want happily ever after, go for perfection that comes through the blood of our salvation - JESUS. Let the man receive the perfection of Christ. Let him strive for, and remain in His righteousness. Let him strive for perfection not just before God, but also for his wife and family. Let the woman also strive to be perfect before God and her man. Then let them come together in union, both having this commitment to perfection before God and each other. However, most of us refuse this path and prefer to hold onto our "imperfections" even into marriage. yet we wonder at the outcome! May God save us. |
Re: Relationships Are Now More Difficult Than Ever. by Trendylove(f): 11:23am On Sep 03, 2023 |
Honestly to find a good man is very hard now infact I am tired of trying to find one. Anyone ready to give love a try I am ready. 4 Likes |
Re: Relationships Are Now More Difficult Than Ever. by ThatCEO: 11:24am On Sep 03, 2023 |
Jeon: Retirement plan or not, it's a free market. Are you not also choosing your own retirement plan when u choose Dele the banker instead of Sodiq d Keke driver? There is really no end to this double standards See who is talking about manipulation, d average Naija guy needs d magomago brain of a seasoned yahoo boy to cope with your manipulative age group. Was it d boys who are so manipulative that d girls needs to catch up or was vice versa. I just know it's a mess. For an average girl to date her fellow average guy, she will say she is settling . Two average people o. Whoever told you all you deserve d top 1% really sold you'll snake oil 6 Likes |
Re: Relationships Are Now More Difficult Than Ever. by omooba969(m): 11:25am On Sep 03, 2023 |
Stephen2324: Relationship ehn you go explain tire ! ππ 2 Likes |
Re: Relationships Are Now More Difficult Than Ever. by nkemjacob2(m): 11:28am On Sep 03, 2023 |
I thought I was the only one observing this trend. Morals are going down among men and women, we no longer have the right value, we don't know the faith of the next generation if such situations persist. What is happening to the training we're receiving, what is happening to the society we are in? Lingering questions that demand answers. 1 Like |
Re: Relationships Are Now More Difficult Than Ever. by Lastmankc(m): 11:28am On Sep 03, 2023 |
My own problem is that I can't stay with one woman. |
Re: Relationships Are Now More Difficult Than Ever. by omooba969(m): 11:29am On Sep 03, 2023 |
Trendylove: There are many decent men out there, just keep your head up, HE will eventually show up. 1 Like |
Re: Relationships Are Now More Difficult Than Ever. by Totiemide: 11:30am On Sep 03, 2023 |
Relationship are difficult these days because we all go in for the wrong reasons. Some go in.... *To escape loneliness, boredom *Peer pressure from close friends families. *Satisfaction of materialistic needs *Freedom to have sex anyhow i.e if you're from a strict Christian home. *Some to end whatever sufferings they're going through at the home front. * To have a child to keep the lineage Little did some know that after all this reasons are met, you're then left to face the realities of marriage which many aren't prepared for. I want to believe the reason why marriage crashes these days is because.... *Some of us lack basic home training, both men and women. Some men don't know how to respect a woman while some women don't know how to submit to a man. *Improper upbringing *No teachings of endurance, preserverance, tolerance like the old. *Some of us aren't even teachable. Until we go back to pick and adopt the teachings of our parents, we'll keep missing it. 4 Likes |
Re: Relationships Are Now More Difficult Than Ever. by lastkingsman: 11:31am On Sep 03, 2023 |
ednut1: It takes two to tango |
Re: Relationships Are Now More Difficult Than Ever. by Jeon(f): 11:32am On Sep 03, 2023 |
ThatCEO: I said what I said. Women don't need Men apart from their Money right from day one ,but have no choice because they're not wise and are dependent. Some are sold out by their family for the goodies, some are forced into early marriage cutting short her dreams. Women do face alot in Marriage, bearing cheating, abuse, over worked, sacrificing time, freedom,life, social life, career and putting up with someone's issues just to be a good woman .And at the pay day they will be left with no pennies,love or appreciation. Do you think our foremothers, will even take Marriage if there were freedom? making their own Money? being independent? the way it is today?. 16 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Relationships Are Now More Difficult Than Ever. by KingLion007(m): 11:33am On Sep 03, 2023 |
DonBenny77:And am worried about that too dude. Not getting married |
Re: Relationships Are Now More Difficult Than Ever. by tunize(m): 11:33am On Sep 03, 2023 |
talented321:A good woman can be found in a club or anyway, same goes for a good man it only depends on individual priority and motive. |
Re: Relationships Are Now More Difficult Than Ever. by Jeon(f): 11:34am On Sep 03, 2023 |
2Radii:Ewweeeee. They always pay for it. 12 Likes |
Re: Relationships Are Now More Difficult Than Ever. by omooba969(m): 11:35am On Sep 03, 2023 |
shoboy9: Do you mean people from other faiths/ belief don't make a decent marriage? Why do we have brains? |
Re: Relationships Are Now More Difficult Than Ever. by Jeon(f): 11:37am On Sep 03, 2023 |
abba190: It's not easy to be an evening newspaper dear, Some of the morning newspaper couldn't see the breathe immediately they came out from their mother's womb. So I respect old age!!! 11 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Relationships Are Now More Difficult Than Ever. by Badmashii(m): 11:37am On Sep 03, 2023 |
Beverlyjean: I find it difficult to believe a lady said this... Abeg guy no dey pretend,you be manchi ba? 3 Likes |
Re: Relationships Are Now More Difficult Than Ever. by omooba969(m): 11:37am On Sep 03, 2023 |
Orderabove: Sex for men, money π° for women. π€π€ 2 Likes |
Re: Relationships Are Now More Difficult Than Ever. by Lumig: 11:39am On Sep 03, 2023 |
izonborn098:You are wise |
Re: Relationships Are Now More Difficult Than Ever. by omooba969(m): 11:40am On Sep 03, 2023 |
Justbeingreal: We see the red flags but we ignore them probably bcoz the man is pussy-whipped or the woman is dickmatised. 1 Like |
Re: Relationships Are Now More Difficult Than Ever. by Quebec91(m): 11:41am On Sep 03, 2023 |
I tell you man DonBenny77: |
Re: Relationships Are Now More Difficult Than Ever. by athaliya(f): 11:41am On Sep 03, 2023 |
kaludestiny10: There's an infinite supply of stupidity in the universe and the stupidity is adequately represented in both genders. A woman who acts funny when she begins to earn more than her husband is either stupid or repaying her husband in his own coin. No right thinking woman who cares about her man will love him less because of money. The problem is that many men are not matured and they get insecure when they see that she earns more, beer parlour gossip doesn't help matters and they lead to the man acting funny and questioning things, picking offences unnecessarily. Example: Husband comes back from work by 6pm, wife has been home all day cleaning and working and she's tired and even having a backache and headache. Husband: Ever since you began to earn more, you now squeeze your face at me when I come back, I know my salary is small but don't forget that it's what has sustained this family for the past 5yrs. Wife: ? Another day: Husband: So you're here and I've been calling you and you didn't answer Wife: Babe sorry, I was playing this game and you know that at this point, if I shake I'll lose, sorry why were you calling? Husband: Its not your fault, you don become my madam, why won't you value game over me Wife: Babe!, today isn't the first time I'm playing this game and you know it Husband: No worry, I understand Wife: ? If he keeps this up, one day she'll snap na See ehn experiences plenty 2 Likes 1 Share |
(1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (Reply)
Valentine: What To Buy For A Partner In A Long Distance? / Guys Please Stayβ Away From Single Ladies In Their Thirties!!! / Her Lover Of Over Four Years Just Broke Up With Her; Please Advise Her
Viewing this topic: 1 guest(s)
(Go Up)
Sections: politics (1) business autos (1) jobs (1) career education (1) romance computers phones travel sports fashion health religion celebs tv-movies music-radio literature webmasters programming techmarket Links: (1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10) Nairaland - Copyright © 2005 - 2024 Oluwaseun Osewa. All rights reserved. See How To Advertise. 109 |