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Re: Relationships Are Now More Difficult Than Ever. by Badmashii(m): 12:27pm On Sep 03, 2023 |
Beverlyjean: No vex, but most ladies are known to be comfortable with lies and not cold harsh truth of reality. I must say, I'm highly impressed. (But I still dey doubt sey u no b man) Meanwhile, what you wrote up there is nothing but the absolute truth. Wish all ladies would care to listen. 2 Likes |
Re: Relationships Are Now More Difficult Than Ever. by omooba969(m): 12:28pm On Sep 03, 2023 |
Lumig: This is prejudice oga Ade. |
Re: Relationships Are Now More Difficult Than Ever. by kaludestiny10(m): 12:29pm On Sep 03, 2023 |
Hahahaha, you are hilarious I must confess with your assumptions which are spot on as earlier mentioned by me. Life is all about give and take and trying to strike a balance. But when one partner decides to be the only recipient and refuses to reciprocate same to the other partner, then there will be an issue. It's nice having this discussion with you. Do have a great day ahead. ![]() athaliya: 1 Like |
Re: Relationships Are Now More Difficult Than Ever. by Fiscus105(m): 12:30pm On Sep 03, 2023 |
SonofGod231: You want her to accept you with ur inadequacies but you don't want tolerate hers, you want her to be perfect and doing your biddings like zombie. Is that wish of " God to his son" as u claimed. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Relationships Are Now More Difficult Than Ever. by Nobody: 12:31pm On Sep 03, 2023 |
Little21: You Nailed It. |
Re: Relationships Are Now More Difficult Than Ever. by Lumig: 12:33pm On Sep 03, 2023 |
omooba969:It's a prejudice, according to you. Have an open mind Oga Ade2 |
Re: Relationships Are Now More Difficult Than Ever. by Sirtee19: 12:33pm On Sep 03, 2023 |
Relationship is not difficult as projected here. It's the people going into the relationship that are difficult. 1 Like |
Re: Relationships Are Now More Difficult Than Ever. by traware(m): 12:34pm On Sep 03, 2023 |
poweredcom:Baba,as i dey read im post i just fall for ground begin laugh like craze man 1 Like |
Re: Relationships Are Now More Difficult Than Ever. by MrNipplesLover(m): 12:37pm On Sep 03, 2023 |
The benefits that the both gender get in relationship is toto and money... When u're making money, why do u have to go into any relationship when u can actually get toto everywhere? U people just like suffering Unaselves.... 3 Likes |
Re: Relationships Are Now More Difficult Than Ever. by frozen70(f): 12:38pm On Sep 03, 2023 |
Stephen2324: No matter the fear of war, soldiers still go to wars So no matter your fears, you still have to go into relationship and summount the obstacles if any No relationship is made in heaven Relationships are like buying a materials and tell the tailor how to sew the style you want 1 Like |
Re: Relationships Are Now More Difficult Than Ever. by omooba969(m): 12:41pm On Sep 03, 2023 |
cutesharon: This is bcoz good girl are not particularly streetwise so they can't really navigate, while the bad ones (retired runz girls) have experience & use their head when deciding to settle down in marriage. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Relationships Are Now More Difficult Than Ever. by omooba969(m): 12:45pm On Sep 03, 2023 |
Sirtee19: I don't gerrit - Can there be a relationship without the two? |
Re: Relationships Are Now More Difficult Than Ever. by 2Radii: 12:52pm On Sep 03, 2023 |
Jeon: Pay with what?? In wat way?? See you, I laf In yoruba ![]() ![]() Soo all the one wey don dig you paid for it?? |
Re: Relationships Are Now More Difficult Than Ever. by izonborn098(m): 12:54pm On Sep 03, 2023 |
sometimes it look like luck and sometimes u also need to be observant with anybody(man or woman) you are dealing with.. cutesharon: 1 Like |
Re: Relationships Are Now More Difficult Than Ever. by Evestar200(f): 12:57pm On Sep 03, 2023 |
omooba969:Don't mind him. They always think everyone is like the bad people they have come across in their life. I have come across a lot of bad men in the name of relationships but I don't go around tagging every man bad. Since he thinks I am like what he wrote up there ,all I can say is Good for him. |
Re: Relationships Are Now More Difficult Than Ever. by Damead: 12:58pm On Sep 03, 2023 |
omooba969:Exactly, you get the point. You can't even love easily without the fear of being outsmarted by the other person. 1 Like |
Re: Relationships Are Now More Difficult Than Ever. by Damead: 1:02pm On Sep 03, 2023 |
Don't be fast to comment without carefully getting his point. This is the sad reality of today's dating pool. Even though you give and provide to some ladies it still won't stop them from misbehaving. The point relationship is getting harder these days cos most people are acting two smart in it. Nobody wants to fall victim. A real relationship is not always 50/50. Atimes it will 70/30,80/20,90/10,50/50 so it all depends on the tolerance,which is what most youth lack these days. poweredcom: 1 Like |
Re: Relationships Are Now More Difficult Than Ever. by DND069: 1:05pm On Sep 03, 2023 |
omooba969: Bro the thing is there are many decent men but everybody dey guide him heart. Decent men way dem Don hit am with breakfast no go guide him heart? The thing is: we have many many Decent and good men, but they do not wanna show the good side any more since they were taken advantage of in their past experiences. Everything is mixed up! Same with women. We gave some Decent ones but they have also been taken advantage of so they don't show the good side anymore. So what most humans show is that dangerous side. No-one wanna be a prey. It is telling on everyone We are all in a mess! 1 Like |
Re: Relationships Are Now More Difficult Than Ever. by arantess: 1:06pm On Sep 03, 2023 |
DonBenny77:Don't let it deter you You won't say because people die in war, then you won't go when need arises |
Re: Relationships Are Now More Difficult Than Ever. by omooba969(m): 1:08pm On Sep 03, 2023 |
Jeon: @bolded, Everybody needs somebody. The new generation of Black people need to realise that we're not built/wired to be separate entities and economic independence shouldn't distract us from our primary roles in the natural order of creation. It would be patronising & insensitive of me to say I understand or feel the plight of women but I think a woman's economic independence should help build, maintain, preserve...and not destroy. 2 Likes |
Re: Relationships Are Now More Difficult Than Ever. by SuccessfulRichi: 1:09pm On Sep 03, 2023 |
Completely Tru. I am in a relationship where I know that my babe is cheating on me with her exes. They're communicating fine. But when she comes to my house she mute her phone. And I'm playing along though. I'm not perfect either. 1 Like |
Re: Relationships Are Now More Difficult Than Ever. by omooba969(m): 1:11pm On Sep 03, 2023 |
DND069: Lol 🤣 🤣 Everyone will be alright. ![]() |
Re: Relationships Are Now More Difficult Than Ever. by Evestar200(f): 1:12pm On Sep 03, 2023 |
SuccessfulRichi:Lol Both of you deserve each other. Playing along with a cheating partner that you are supposed to dispatch. Anyway you said you are not perfect either. 1 Like |
Re: Relationships Are Now More Difficult Than Ever. by Jeon(f): 1:13pm On Sep 03, 2023 |
omooba969: What are you saying. The old generations were not happy in some of the relationship, but have no choice then to stay . And guess what!!, they're the ones with the most divorce rate in this new generation. You Men, should forcing yourself on us. And this thing is also affecting other races, not only Black people. 9 Likes |
Re: Relationships Are Now More Difficult Than Ever. by omooba969(m): 1:15pm On Sep 03, 2023 |
Evestar200: @bolded, Haaa! Omoge, how many is 'a lot' ? ![]() Na joke o! ![]() |
Re: Relationships Are Now More Difficult Than Ever. by Myer(m): 1:17pm On Sep 03, 2023 |
DarkLover: Kindly elaborate on the bolded. |
Re: Relationships Are Now More Difficult Than Ever. by 4KNGOATS(m): 1:18pm On Sep 03, 2023 |
Relationship is the easiest and most successful for the dumbest.try to be dumb 1 Like |
Re: Relationships Are Now More Difficult Than Ever. by Jeon(f): 1:18pm On Sep 03, 2023 |
2Radii: If wishes were horses again. make I follow you laff small. Men do pay for sex in many ways. 1, Money . 2, Career. 3, Life. 4, Destiny. No one don dig me, so stop using the wom3n you met to satisfy yourself in my discussion. And do you want to know why relationships is hard again? It's because most people can't respect their private parts. After hoeing around they wanna settle down with someone that secured the temple of GOD and denied himself /herself the explore. Meaning say " Nah you want better thing because the other person not get sense ". 10 Likes |
Re: Relationships Are Now More Difficult Than Ever. by Little21: 1:23pm On Sep 03, 2023 |
[quote author=adams123 post=125545311][/quote] A lady must marry the person who loves her not the person she loves. That's the only way she will be treated better. And besides as a lady how will you marry a person that has no source of income or some that doesn't even want to do anything than looking for women that are already wealthy?. As a lady you must be financially okay on your own before marrying, unless the man that's okay when you married him will go on saying you married him because of his money. If you are doing financially okay yourself you can't marry a man that's lower than you financially. That's it And that's why must wealthy ladies can't seems to find the right husband cuz most of the "so called husband" are just out to scam them. Most black men aren't happy when there women are doing okay than them. They say she ought to be "arrogant". That's why they want a woman that's lower than them so she can be obedient and do whatever she is told to do. In the fear of he won't be giving the little money he ought to give for feeding. That's just men's mentality. And until you see a man that truly loves you, it's better to just stay single. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Relationships Are Now More Difficult Than Ever. by Evestar200(f): 1:25pm On Sep 03, 2023 |
omooba969: Two to four is a lot. I stopped anything relationship since 2021. The society is too full of heartless and selfish people. Everyone is just after profits without considering the feelings and mental health of others. 2 Likes |
Re: Relationships Are Now More Difficult Than Ever. by Justbeingreal(m): 1:30pm On Sep 03, 2023 |
omooba969:Exactly. |
Re: Relationships Are Now More Difficult Than Ever. by Myer(m): 1:33pm On Sep 03, 2023 |
Stephen2324: It's a vicious cycle. Love this writ so much, felt like I was reading what I wrote. Well done sir. My 2 cents on this- every thing is the way it is simply because everyone is doing what seems right in their eyes. We are not following God's way, but following others- celebs, our own intelligence, our cultures/trafitions, etc. First off, you will find peace by taking the pressure of marriage off you. 1. Marriage is not competition with your peers or neighbours or family members. Everyone came inro this world alone and alone we will leave it behind. 2. Marriage is not for everybody. You can choose not to get married. Society and people's opinion is irrelevant when you know God's will for you. 3. There is no rushing into marriage, especially for a man. For ladies the pressure can also be avoided knowing there is no menopause in the bible. But complacency is certainly a time waster. Be intentional about working towards what you desire. 4. A good marriage is worth waiting patiently and preparing well for. Build yourself into the husband/wife material you would love your sister/brother to marry 5. Be responbile. Good marriage is for responsible role models. Because the goal is to raise children who will being joy and not reproach to you and the society. 6. Marriage is one of God's blessings. So be sure you're walking and working to know and please God by doing His will. He compensates His own the way He deems fit- if marriage is your desire, he is preparing both of you for each other and it will be worth it. 7. Listen to the testimoniesof others, you will be amazed. God's ways and thoughts are way beyond our faculties. He is the perfect planner and it is His will that will stand. I hope this helps. |
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