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Re: Relationships Are Now More Difficult Than Ever. by DND069: 1:34pm On Sep 03, 2023
omooba969:


Lol 🤣 🤣 Everyone will be alright. grin

Yeah bro. It is telling on everyone. Even celebrities and the rich ain't left out. Even the ones in relationships will tell you he or she is single because there is no trust -- which gives way to open relationships.

Mind you, what we have in this modern day is open relationships. When the guy or the girl knows the partner is cheating, he or she plays along then find alternate route to satisfy oneself. Meanwhile they still dating, lol

Our mindset is bleeped up.

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Re: Relationships Are Now More Difficult Than Ever. by tundebasic(m): 1:35pm On Sep 03, 2023
Jeon:



If wishes were horses again.

make I follow you laff small.




Men do pay for sex in many ways.
1, Money .
2, Career.
3, Life.
4, Destiny.




No one don dig me, so stop using the wom3n you met to satisfy yourself in my discussion.


And do you want to know why relationships is hard again?

It's because most people can't respect their private parts. After hoeing around they wanna settle down with someone that secured the temple of GOD and denied himself /herself the explore.

Meaning say " Nah you want better thing because the other person not get sense ".
Your last statement is sooo true.

Can you explain what you mean by men pay for sex through career, life and destiny?

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Re: Relationships Are Now More Difficult Than Ever. by 2Radii: 1:36pm On Sep 03, 2023
Jeon:



If wishes were horses again.

make I follow you laff small.




Men do pay for sex in many ways.
1, Money .
2, Career.
3, Life.
4, Destiny.




No one don dig me, so stop using the wom3n you met to satisfy yourself in my discussion.


And do you want to know why relationships is hard again?

It's because most people can't respect their private parts. After hoeing around they wanna settle down with someone that secured the temple of GOD and denied himself /herself the explore.

Meaning say " Nah you want better thing because the other person not get sense ".
I would rather belive petrol price will crash to 100naira per liter than to believe no one has ever digged you....we know the game na, it might not be ur wishes, it might be under illusion or exuberance, it might be under teenage innocence but dig na dig... grin


And secondly, na una eey pay for sex with destiny, no be me...if to say na so dem dey pay with destiny people like Ronaldo, ramos, Bob Nesta marley, king Solomon, king David, and a host of others no suppose attain the greater heights they attained na...oya defend that grin

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Re: Relationships Are Now More Difficult Than Ever. by tundebasic(m): 1:40pm On Sep 03, 2023
Evestar200:


Two to four is a lot.

I stopped anything relationship since 2021.

The society is too full of heartless and selfish people.

Everyone is just after profits without considering the feelings and mental health of others.












What can one term as selfishness in both sexes. Like, what could make a man selfish?
Re: Relationships Are Now More Difficult Than Ever. by yusuf61(m): 1:43pm On Sep 03, 2023
omooba969:


@bolded,

Everybody needs somebody. The new generation of Black people need to realise that we're not built/wired to be separate entities and economic independence shouldn't distract us from our primary roles in the natural order of creation.

It would be patronising & insensitive of me to say I understand or feel the plight of women but I think a woman's economic independence should help build, maintain, preserve...and not destroy.

She's right and you are right.
If what you mentioned above were put into consideration before now, we wouldn't be in this mess.

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Re: Relationships Are Now More Difficult Than Ever. by creativehubb: 1:46pm On Sep 03, 2023
Bad parents bringing up kids with no values and morals, will only make humans colder.

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Re: Relationships Are Now More Difficult Than Ever. by Jeon(f): 1:57pm On Sep 03, 2023
You see yourself.
Because you are astray and loss, that's why you are counting everyone the same as you.

Believe /don't believe, it's left for you.


2Radii:
I would rather belive petrol price will crash to 100naira per liter than to believe no one has ever digged you....we know the game na, it might not be ur wishes, it might be under illusion or exuberance, it might be under teenage innocence but dig na dig... grin



And secondly, na una eey pay for sex with destiny, no be me...if to say na so dem dey pay with destiny people like Ronaldo, ramos, Bob Nesta marley, king Solomon, king David, and a host of others no suppose attain the greater heights they attained na...oya defend that grin

Do you know when, how or what they sacrifices do get away from the punishment? . Your wise and famous well known polygamous King Solomon, bend down to the truth at last.

Guy you're draining me with your unintelligent conv.

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Re: Relationships Are Now More Difficult Than Ever. by Jasonekah98: 1:58pm On Sep 03, 2023
Basicend:


You cant 'respect and honor" your wife and expect her to be submission.

She become the driver of the vehicle . . That is the wiring of a woman.

You are supposed to love her and accord her some respect.

You are the king in your house.

She is the one that should honour you in return.

* Just ensure you show her genuine love consistently and care. . * All factors being constant.

I choose to do what i choose to do

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Re: Relationships Are Now More Difficult Than Ever. by SuccessfulRichi: 2:01pm On Sep 03, 2023
Evestar200:
Lol

Both of you deserve each other.

Playing along with a cheating partner that you are supposed to dispatch.

Anyway you said you are not perfect either.


Not yet brah. Time shall tell.
Re: Relationships Are Now More Difficult Than Ever. by Jeon(f): 2:02pm On Sep 03, 2023
tundebasic:
Your last statement is sooo true.

Can you explain what you mean by men pay for sex through career, life and destiny?

I can't.
Experience is the best teacher. I believe you have someone close to you who passed through one of those phase if you haven't unless you want to act blind or argue.

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Re: Relationships Are Now More Difficult Than Ever. by 2Radii: 2:08pm On Sep 03, 2023
Jeon:
You see yourself.
Because you are astray and loss, that's why you are counting everyone the same as you.

Believe /don't believe, it's left for you.




Do you know when, how or what they sacrifices do aget away from the punishment? . Your wise and famous well known polygamous King Solomon, bend down to the truth at last.

Guy you're draining me with your unintelligent conv.

Life has never bn easy without sacrifice, without sacrifice man is nothing...
Re: Relationships Are Now More Difficult Than Ever. by spiceadole: 2:18pm On Sep 03, 2023
DonBenny77:

It's scary man.
Some of us may not get married

What are you getting married for?
It has been established that men don't have anything to gain in marriage

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Re: Relationships Are Now More Difficult Than Ever. by Tsamyavictor(m): 2:29pm On Sep 03, 2023
Very true and am so scared...thought i was the only one who noticed.. This is like the best writeup i've seen this year.

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Re: Relationships Are Now More Difficult Than Ever. by Sag1ttarius: 2:34pm On Sep 03, 2023
2Radii:


Life has never bn easy without sacrifice, without sacrifice man is nothing...

You have to make it on one of those two altars, which are Good and Bad. Both has it own cautions.

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Re: Relationships Are Now More Difficult Than Ever. by Chetas81(m): 2:37pm On Sep 03, 2023
STOP GETTING MARRIED TO OLOSHO AND WOMANISER
Re: Relationships Are Now More Difficult Than Ever. by Beverlyjean(f): 2:38pm On Sep 03, 2023
Jeon:



Sorry,
1,you are a Man.

2, Speak for yourself.

3, Nobody wants to be traditional in the this new World.


4, Many people ain't mature enough to deal with their own personal issues not to mention someone's issue.

5, Some need a person that can sacrifice, but won't and will never do that.


6, Many can't take their responsibilities and accountability for their mistakes.


7,Some people need their personal space.

8, Marriage is not everybody plan and happiness.

9,Do and engage in whatever gives you happiness.



10, Some are married, but still feel single. So what is the need to be in Marriage?

I am married and I don't feel single.... there is no how u will not have a regret of ur choices today ... I have seen women in their 40s and 50s that regret the choices and mindset they have in their 20s ...unfortunately, most of these women are not been given the chance to correct modern women like u... u think its easy to be lonely at 40 ... those friends that u are doing ladies night with today will disperse in the next 15yrs ... you will end up having a cat as a companion.... better go watch justpearlythings, Roma Army, candence Owen..... maybe they are also men... when a women like me tries to correct the mistake women make in the society, women like u attack us .... they don't tell a deaf man that war has started

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Re: Relationships Are Now More Difficult Than Ever. by HayesQadir3: 2:39pm On Sep 03, 2023
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Re: Relationships Are Now More Difficult Than Ever. by Chetas81(m): 2:43pm On Sep 03, 2023
Jeon:
Wahala, Wahala.
kaiii, na Men dy cry for marriage those days, why you go cry for wetin no dy give u benefit? .
WOMANISER AND OLOSHO ARE NOT GOOD FOR MARRIAGE








grin

This is not you Op, please come and bash us!!!..

This happens if you refused to get married in your generation, hoping that the next generation will produces fresh, young, submissive , good and naive girls....


😉
Re: Relationships Are Now More Difficult Than Ever. by Jeon(f): 2:45pm On Sep 03, 2023
Those shows that


Beverlyjean:


I am married and I don't feel single.... there is no how u will not have a regret of ur choices today ... I have seen women in their 40s and 50s that regret the choices and mindset they have in their 20s ...unfortunately, most of these women are not been given the chance to correct modern women like u... u think its easy to be lonely at 40 ... those friends that u are doing ladies night with today will disperse in the next 15yrs ... you will end up having a cat as a companion.... better go watch justpearlythings, Roma Army, candence Owen..... maybe they are also men... when a women like me tries to correct the mistake women make in the society, women like u attack us .... they don't tell a deaf man that war has started
You are Man.


Your profile gave you out. Try to hide properly next time .


End of discussion.

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Re: Relationships Are Now More Difficult Than Ever. by Beverlyjean(f): 2:55pm On Sep 03, 2023
Jeon:
Those shows that



You are Man.


Your profile gave you out. Try to hide properly next time .


End of discussion.

As usual... delusion... when u can't defend urself ...u attack .... don't worry, u will still learn the hard way.

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Re: Relationships Are Now More Difficult Than Ever. by FRANKOSKI(m): 2:57pm On Sep 03, 2023
1,FOR THOSE THAT WENT INTO IT FOR THE MONEY.
2, MISPLACED PRIORITIES.
Re: Relationships Are Now More Difficult Than Ever. by Jeon(f): 2:59pm On Sep 03, 2023
Beverlyjean:


As usual... delusion... when u can't defend urself ...u attack .... don't worry, u will still learn the hard way.
Why do most marriages in your time are still crashing? are most of them not 30s, 40s, 50s, 60s? why getting out of it now when they are in their old age and need company to avoid loneliness ? . Not everyone can bear and tolerant like you are doing .



Sorry, I'm not attacking you OK, traditional royal wife if you happen to be a female.
I'm just stating my opinions same as you did.
And you can't force everyone to buy yours based on what people around them ,life and experiences taught them while some are learning from others by seeing what's going on around.

Remember everyone has it own length, size and shape of nose as goes to opinions.

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Re: Relationships Are Now More Difficult Than Ever. by 2Radii: 3:16pm On Sep 03, 2023
Sag1ttarius:


You have to make it on one of those two altars, which are Good and Bad. Both has it own cautions.
sure, na u con know the one wey pay u pass
Re: Relationships Are Now More Difficult Than Ever. by Tenrack: 3:20pm On Sep 03, 2023
lexy2014:


How did you come to the conclusion that "men don't know what they need in marriage...."?

If you say that "men don't know what they need in marriage...",are you automatically saying that women know what they need in marriage?
dawan no know wetin she dey type. Biased mf.
Re: Relationships Are Now More Difficult Than Ever. by Tenrack: 3:27pm On Sep 03, 2023
Collinsaik:
It took me a long time to find a woman who i liked everything about her. From her behaviour and charactar to her fisical features ( outward beauty) so much. That hapened just last month. But atimes she use to tel me that despite agreeing to my relationship proposal, she is stil sceptical about the whole tin she isnt realy sure my intentions are genuine. But am determined to keep working to earn her complete trust becos she is all i need in a woman. She is the definition of a virtuous lady. She is stil very young (22 ) . We hav a long way to go together. God wiling.
22 grin cheesy mah no talk.
Re: Relationships Are Now More Difficult Than Ever. by Gentlevip: 3:28pm On Sep 03, 2023
Very nice write-up. True to the ebb.

Though haven't finished reading it
Re: Relationships Are Now More Difficult Than Ever. by Blessedarethepe(m): 3:39pm On Sep 03, 2023
nathyx:
21st century indomie generation heavily exposed to social media, how do you expect them to know that marriage requires a great deal of tolerance?? Thank God for the girl he blessed me with My wedding is next month, I don't have employment, zero source of income, zero kobo in my acct yet my woman loves me and eager to live the rest of her life with me cos she of knows am not a lazy man and I will never let my family sleep hungry. If you're still out there waiting for the perfect partner (100%) keep wasting your time marriage is not for feeble minds. Congratulations to me and wife in advance! October 21st 2023 save the date guys!
Don't come and deceive us here. You have something doing, how can you say she knows you will never let your family sleep hungry
Re: Relationships Are Now More Difficult Than Ever. by JOACHINpedro: 4:11pm On Sep 03, 2023
Jeon:

Why do most marriages in your time are still crashing? are most of them not 30s, 40s, 50s, 60s? why getting out of it now when they are in their old age and need company to avoid loneliness ? . Not everyone can bear and tolerant like you are doing .



Sorry, I'm not attacking you OK, traditional royal wife if you happen to be a female.
I'm just stating my opinions same as you did.
And you can't force everyone to buy yours based on what people around them ,life and experiences taught them while some are learning from others by seeing what's going on around.

Remember everyone has it own length, size and shape of nose as goes to opinions.
Tbh, you need a touch of reality. grin
You've never courted but you're dishing marriage tips grin
Well, I don't blame you, the life this generation lead begins online and ends in reality.
I wish you well

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Re: Relationships Are Now More Difficult Than Ever. by Beverlyjean(f): 4:32pm On Sep 03, 2023
Jeon:

Why do most marriages in your time are still crashing? are most of them not 30s, 40s, 50s, 60s? why getting out of it now when they are in their old age and need company to avoid loneliness ? . Not everyone can bear and tolerant like you are doing .



Sorry, I'm not attacking you OK, traditional royal wife if you happen to be a female.
I'm just stating my opinions same as you did.
And you can't force everyone to buy yours based on what people around them ,life and experiences taught them while some are learning from others by seeing what's going on around.

Remember everyone has it own length, size and shape of nose as goes to opinions.

Most marriages are not crashing ...that's not true ... go read ur bible on divorce...

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Re: Relationships Are Now More Difficult Than Ever. by Jeon(f): 4:35pm On Sep 03, 2023
Beverlyjean:


Most marriages are not crashing ...that's not true ... go read ur bible on divorce...

You make me laff. So a person shouldn't divorce if abuse, violence, not getting what you want, lack of peace,happiness,trust e. t. c are going on in the marriage apart from sexually immorals. No wonder religion do kill gullible peeps.


New update
A new divorce just came in, Joe Jonas and Sophie Turner are divorcing.
Those shouting Money this, Money that ,it gives and save relationship. "when money dy love sweet ". 😂


Are those two not rich?..Why can't the money save the ship?.


You are a Man again, that is what they do if things aren't working out the way they wanted. They will pick up a quote in Bible to rub the fools.

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Re: Relationships Are Now More Difficult Than Ever. by MrRemedyAlagbo(m): 5:07pm On Sep 03, 2023
Facts
Re: Relationships Are Now More Difficult Than Ever. by TheSuperX(m): 5:19pm On Sep 03, 2023
Jeon:


It's not easy to be an evening newspaper dear, Some of the morning newspaper couldn't see the breathe immediately they came out from their mother's womb.


So I respect old age!!!
Na only u dey post and like ur posts with your alternate accounts, omoh low self-esteem no go kill una for here. 😂😂

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