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Re: Relationships Are Now More Difficult Than Ever. by Jeon(f): 5:23pm On Sep 03, 2023 |
TheSuperX: I don't understand, are you this jealous? You really have alot of time monitoring my comments and likes. 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Relationships Are Now More Difficult Than Ever. by Beverlyjean(f): 5:24pm On Sep 03, 2023 |
Jeon: You are really naive and lost... usa is not the benchmark.... go and check Asia, Eastern Europe and South America... they still practise the traditional marriage...divorce is very low in those places ... what they are doing in the United States and western Europe is nothing but Evil powered by the devil...only a selfish person will leave a marriage because he or she isn't happy... its best u avoid marriage, its not for u ... u have allowed western social construct to deceive u 6 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Relationships Are Now More Difficult Than Ever. by Jeon(f): 5:27pm On Sep 03, 2023 |
Are you tired of hiding as a female online to advise Women to stay put in a Marriage that's not favorable to them?. That's what you always do, I have been seeing it, remember you gave me mentions on other threads but I just ignored them. But today I want to let you know that you can't push your opinion down into everyone's throat. Beverlyjean:I'm not talking about traditional marriage ,I'm taking about people wanting traditional spouses [especially Men yet most can't meet the standards. And may abuse it ]. Was happiness the only thing I put down in the previous conversation? only a selfish person will leave a marriage because he or she isn't happy... its best u avoid marriage, its not for u ... u have allowed western social construct to deceive uPlease do read @bolded when you are down from ur cocoa powder. abeg, rest. This conv is getting boring. Marriage no be by force,its not for everyone!!!. 10 Likes |
Re: Relationships Are Now More Difficult Than Ever. by Desusi: 5:34pm On Sep 03, 2023 |
DarkLover:There's a purpose for marriage, once you didn't know the purpose, neither the man who instituted this institution, you will certainly miss it.That's the problem,most young men have including you. Until, these are known man will continue to grope in darkness. |
Re: Relationships Are Now More Difficult Than Ever. by Obaaderemi2: 6:05pm On Sep 03, 2023 |
Evestar200:I can't even begin to imagine it! Very heartless people. They cheat on you and boldly come up with excuses to make you feel stupid to the point that if you aren't smart enough you will start blaming yourself for their act. Very wicked and cursed people everywhere. 4 Likes |
Re: Relationships Are Now More Difficult Than Ever. by Obaaderemi2: 6:10pm On Sep 03, 2023 |
MrNipplesLover:With the bolded you just confirmed it that what majority of people want in a marriage is beyond sex and money. Or how else will you explain why a rich Playboy still wants to get married and a woman from a rich home still wants to get married. 6 Likes |
Re: Relationships Are Now More Difficult Than Ever. by Obaaderemi2: 6:14pm On Sep 03, 2023 |
Beverlyjean:Big fat lie. If you understood the importance of mental health you wouldn't say this. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Relationships Are Now More Difficult Than Ever. by Beverlyjean(f): 6:38pm On Sep 03, 2023 |
Obaaderemi2: Mental health Kor ... where ur fore fathers having mental health...only lazy people blame mental health... 3 Likes |
Re: Relationships Are Now More Difficult Than Ever. by Beverlyjean(f): 6:39pm On Sep 03, 2023 |
Jeon: Marriage is not for you..but one thing is for sure ...u will hate decisions u are making now in the future 4 Likes |
Re: Relationships Are Now More Difficult Than Ever. by Obaaderemi2: 6:46pm On Sep 03, 2023 |
Beverlyjean:Women and men reading this specimen's posts here should be careful. She/He is either confused or is saying nonsense all for the sake of argument. So your forefathers didn't suffer from mental health challenges brought about by bad marriages? You must think divorce is a new invention. 😅😅🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Relationships Are Now More Difficult Than Ever. by Beverlyjean(f): 6:52pm On Sep 03, 2023 |
Obaaderemi2: What is mental health?? U keep on downloading trash into ur head... u scream at someone and they will claim mental health... u deny someone what they want , they claim mental health , u loose ur job , u claim mental health.... u must be a very weak man 5 Likes |
Re: Relationships Are Now More Difficult Than Ever. by akinade28(f): 6:52pm On Sep 03, 2023 |
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Re: Relationships Are Now More Difficult Than Ever. by Gee64: 6:55pm On Sep 03, 2023 |
Everything about relationship smell scam to me. 1 Like |
Re: Relationships Are Now More Difficult Than Ever. by Obaaderemi2: 6:58pm On Sep 03, 2023 |
Beverlyjean:And you must be a very stupid man/woman if you didn't know mental health is everything. ![]() ![]() 6 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Relationships Are Now More Difficult Than Ever. by akinade28(f): 6:58pm On Sep 03, 2023 |
Stephen2324: Well said. In addition, " hurting people hurt other people". The partner with the greater emotional investment in a relationship ends up getting hurt. This partner will refuse to be the fool in their next relationship. So, the cycle continues. A very sad reality. 1 Like |
Re: Relationships Are Now More Difficult Than Ever. by Jeon(f): 7:14pm On Sep 03, 2023 |
Obaaderemi2: Maybe he's high in the realm of cocoa caning. or Maybe he's just being sarcastic. 10 Likes |
Re: Relationships Are Now More Difficult Than Ever. by Hassanmaye(m): 7:28pm On Sep 03, 2023 |
Stephen2324:This is true, is scary wlh 1 Like |
Re: Relationships Are Now More Difficult Than Ever. by DarkLover: 7:30pm On Sep 03, 2023 |
Desusi: What’s the purpose please? I’m willing to learn. 1 Like |
Re: Relationships Are Now More Difficult Than Ever. by BALLOSKI: 7:31pm On Sep 03, 2023 |
izonborn098: Your deputy got me laughing. 😂 Lol 2 Likes |
Re: Relationships Are Now More Difficult Than Ever. by BALLOSKI: 7:32pm On Sep 03, 2023 |
IamAtAnger:Cars and planes kill people, we've not stopped using them. |
Re: Relationships Are Now More Difficult Than Ever. by DarkLover: 7:34pm On Sep 03, 2023 |
Myer: I mean I easily gets tired of them. I’m kind of a perfectionist who lives in his own world in his mind. The girls would say I will never see any girl that will satisfy my desires. I feel like I make them look inferior or not competent enough, I wish they could think and have understanding like me. These thongs aren’t there so I’ve been scattering all my relationships by myself. It’s daunting. |
Re: Relationships Are Now More Difficult Than Ever. by Ojagun(m): 8:06pm On Sep 03, 2023 |
Beverlyjean:Hmm...Someone else has finally said it. Mental health has turned into the available excuse for people's numerous inadequacies in today's world 3 Likes |
Re: Relationships Are Now More Difficult Than Ever. by theasand(f): 8:37pm On Sep 03, 2023 |
No one wants to waste their time on dates, spend money, etc. I judge by my surroundings and everyone wants to communicate online (s*xting, intimacy via video call, remote toys for intimacy) ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Relationships Are Now More Difficult Than Ever. by Desusi: 8:39pm On Sep 03, 2023 |
DarkLover:Great thanks dark lover, the Great God who created heaven and earth instituted marriage.Having created man in His own image and place him in Eden, He said it's not good that the man should be alone.He needs counselor, helpmeet, friendship, warmness, and to avoid loneliness, God created woman from the rib He extracted from man.Has God committed offence? Unfortunately, however, this same woman led to the fall of man.This led to the poor relationship between man and God,man no longer enjoyed the favour of God. This was what motivated God to make way for reconciliation with man through Christ.Except. The moment this offer of Christ is accepted by any man, this will pave way for peace in any home where no peace reside.He, Jesus make provisions for wine of love when it is finished in the family. You said you do not know what you really want in a woman. That's normal for a carnal man. Jesus makes the different, accept Him today,your life will never remained the same.God bless you. |
Re: Relationships Are Now More Difficult Than Ever. by IbeOkehie: 8:40pm On Sep 03, 2023 |
Everyone knows the basic and most important impediment to marriage or even healthy romantic relationships today, but it can't be mentioned in polite company. I'm not anonymous so I won't do the honors. Besides I'm a married man, enemies might might read it and tell on me ![]() I will go no further. My wife knows my views sha so whatever. Everyone knows what to do but the vast majority CHOOSE to instead gamble on the possibility of eating cake and still have it. Like I've said before, everyone will LIKELY pay for their choices...some will be lucky and get away unscathed. Good Luck to everyone. |
Re: Relationships Are Now More Difficult Than Ever. by Myer(m): 9:17pm On Sep 03, 2023 |
DarkLover: Just wanted to be sure you weren't giving up on heterosexuality.lol It's good you have standards. This generation is awash with men and women with little or no standards. It is also important not to have a standard that's unrealistic. That said, every thing makes sense when you follow God's way/standard. 1 Like |
Re: Relationships Are Now More Difficult Than Ever. by pizzzy(m): 10:16pm On Sep 03, 2023 |
Relationship no dey difficult na we dey put body for where dem no want us. Have you seen a Saturday wey wedding no sup? Who dey always marry na ghost dem be? Dats the narrative that the society is trying to make us believe. If you believe that relationship is hard when the opposite sex give you small attention you sharply dey think of you and him/her forever |
Re: Relationships Are Now More Difficult Than Ever. by efficiencie(m): 10:18pm On Sep 03, 2023 |
Stephen2324: Sad but true. Until we as a people humble ourselves, acknowledge we are the problem, turn from our wicked ways and dedicate ourselves to doing right we will keep suffering the consequences of our wickedness. We often insult corrupt politicians but we forget that these same evil politicians are Nigerians. If the population is overwhelmingly corrupt then the sample must be overwhelmingly corrupt. This is a truism. No one can argue against it. We just have to repent of our evil ways and commit ourselves to righteousness. This is the only solution to all our woes as a people. In my own case I was so graced by GOD that after several failed relationships I landed a very sweet marriage. I pray that others find mercy too. 1 Like |
Re: Relationships Are Now More Difficult Than Ever. by Tboymessiah(m): 11:21pm On Sep 03, 2023 |
Eriokanmi: And I will Go back to God tonight |
Re: Relationships Are Now More Difficult Than Ever. by jimcaddy(m): 11:28pm On Sep 03, 2023 |
My thoughts exactly. Nigerians now see it as a game of chess. No wonder the massive rate of heartbreaks and divorce in the society. 2 Likes |
Re: Relationships Are Now More Difficult Than Ever. by IbeOkehie: 11:35pm On Sep 03, 2023 |
jimcaddy: Poverty....material insecurity...risk and fear of tomorrow. That's what's driving the total breakdown of society in Nigeria, not just marriage. Everything is dissolving. Good Luck to Nigerians. 2 Likes |
Re: Relationships Are Now More Difficult Than Ever. by Gerrard59(m): 11:51pm On Sep 03, 2023 |
Jeon: You're right anyway. The same happens in developed countries where there are almost equal economic opportunities for women. Most women aren't interested in marriage for financial reasons, unlike in poorer countries, since they can earn their own money. 4 Likes 1 Share |
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