pocohantas: It is not as bad as people make it seem. It is just nyash na. Not hard drugs.
It's fake. More like an illusion meant to deceive innocent young men.
And I believe that it's worse than drugs, cos the psychological effect on the guy after discovering that the figure 8 girl he fell for is actually a letter I, would have a long lasting effect in his life than drugs. It's would take him decades to heal. 😩
The emboldened is why many people say that you women are homosexual by nature (or strongly seem to be so). It now takes great will and self-control, coupled with unwaivering morals for a woman not to lust and fantasize about another woman's body. ...and subsequently, get lured into lesbianism, or becoming bi (they make themselves feel less offensive by saying this , whereas doesn't change the fact they still sleep with the same sex ) You could have just used a less obscene word to say they were all endowed or had big butts. But the homo traits in you couldn't resist to say bootylicious, to give it a more personal (yours) sexual connotation. No, it has nothing to do with saying ' Beyonce coined the word, so I am using....'. Nah-ah. That came straight out of your heart. If a man said something similar to his fellow man, people will have labelled him with all sorts of slurs by now. Equality for all. Just like y'all preach it.
It's fake. More like an illusion meant to deceive innocent young men.
And I believe that it's worse than drugs, cos the psychological effect on the guy after discovering that the figure 8 girl he fell for is actually a letter I, would have a long lasting effect in his life than drugs. It's would take him decades to heal. 😩
Therefore it Should be banned. 😟
Heya. Seems you are a nyash man. You really dissect this matter o.
Samantha124: I'm gonna speak from an African woman's perspective, especially a South African woman.
There's this stereotype that an African woman is expected to have a curvy figure like a figure 8... For example, as a South African woman, I didn't know that South Africa is considered to have a high number of curvy women until I joined nairaland because it had never came to my attention one bit.
At first I didn't take the comments seriously here on nairaland, until I came across two videos of Nigerian women based here in SA talking of how SA women are gifted with curves and big behinds... I never paid attention to any of those things, maybe because I'm also an SA woman.
So I decided that I was gonna do my own findings, this other time I was at a mall and I decided that I was gonna check my SA ladies out and I was shocked by what I saw, it was like 85% of them were bootylicious... ... But I was like noo, I can't make any conclusions yet because I'm in Durban and maybe it's possible that it's only the Zulu girls who have the booty, so I waited until I go home to Polokwane to check my Sepedi girls out...
Of course I finally did traveled back home and this one time I was at a shopping center with my nephew, we had ordered for some pies and while we were still waiting for our orders, I decided that I'm gonna check out my Sepedi ladies out to confirm what some male nairalanders have been saying... .. I was shocked the second time.. .. I saw Nicki Minaj figures walking around and I couldn't help but wonder to myself how come I didn't notice all these things all my life... Not all of them were curvy, but most of them did have the curves and the booty.
So as an African lady, if you lack self confidence, you might end up having a low self-esteem and using butt pads to look like other African ladies outside.... Even now I'm still shocked by what I saw...
pocohantas: I don't see anything wrong in it anymore. Nyash gives fitting in clothes. And some of them are not really about the ass, but the hips. Especially for ladies with hip dips. Better than surgeries.
Many of these fashions and make ups done by women are to rate higher up above our peers (not solely to attract men). Women are always afraid of rejection and oppression in a circle, hence the need to find a way to boost the self esteem.
In fact, women fashions are done because of women (and not because of men) cos woman normally would like to look and dress better than her mates and command envy from other girls and the attention from men
Samantha124: I'm gonna speak from an African woman's perspective, especially a South African woman.
There's this stereotype that an African woman is expected to have a curvy figure like a figure 8... For example, as a South African woman, I didn't know that South Africa is considered to have a high number of curvy women until I joined nairaland because it had never came to my attention one bit.
At first I didn't take the comments seriously here on nairaland, until I came across two videos of Nigerian women based here in SA talking of how SA women are gifted with curves and big behinds... I never paid attention to any of those things, maybe because I'm also an SA woman.
So I decided that I was gonna do my own findings, this other time I was at a mall and I decided that I was gonna check my SA ladies out and I was shocked by what I saw, it was like 85% of them were bootylicious... ... But I was like noo, I can't make any conclusions yet because I'm in Durban and maybe it's possible that it's only the Zulu girls who have the booty, so I waited until I go home to Polokwane to check my Sepedi girls out...
Of course I finally did traveled back home and this one time I was at a shopping center with my nephew, we had ordered for some pies and while we were still waiting for our orders, I decided that I'm gonna check out my Sepedi ladies out to confirm what some male nairalanders have been saying... .. I was shocked the second time.. .. I saw Nicki Minaj figures walking around and I couldn't help but wonder to myself how come I didn't notice all these things all my life... Not all of them were curvy, but most of them did have the curves and the booty.
So as an African lady, if you lack self confidence, you might end up having a low self-esteem and using butt pads to look like other African ladies outside.... Even now I'm still shocked by what I saw...
that’s why I keep coming back to Jo’burg on vacation every year 🥺
Many of these fashions and make ups done by women are to rate higher up above our peers (not solely to attract men). Women are always afraid of rejection and oppression in a circle, hence the need to find a way to boost the self esteem.
In fact, women fashions are done because of women (and not because of men) cos woman normally would like to look and dress better than her mates and command envy from other girls and the attention from men
Many of these fashions and make ups done by women are to rate higher up above our peers (not solely to attract men). Women are always afraid of rejection and oppression in a circle, hence the need to find a way to boost the self esteem.
In fact, women fashions are done because of women (and not because of men) cos woman normally would like to look and dress better than her mates and command envy from other girls and the attention from men
Samantha124: I'm gonna speak from an African woman's perspective, especially a South African woman.
There's this stereotype that an African woman is expected to have a curvy figure like a figure 8... For example, as a South African woman, I didn't know that South Africa is considered to have a high number of curvy women until I joined nairaland because it had never came to my attention one bit.
At first I didn't take the comments seriously here on nairaland, until I came across two videos of Nigerian women based here in SA talking of how SA women are gifted with curves and big behinds... I never paid attention to any of those things, maybe because I'm also an SA woman.
So I decided that I was gonna do my own findings, this other time I was at a mall and I decided that I was gonna check my SA ladies out and I was shocked by what I saw, it was like 85% of them were bootylicious... ... But I was like noo, I can't make any conclusions yet because I'm in Durban and maybe it's possible that it's only the Zulu girls who have the booty, so I waited until I go home to Polokwane to check my Sepedi girls out...
Of course I finally did traveled back home and this one time I was at a shopping center with my nephew, we had ordered for some pies and while we were still waiting for our orders, I decided that I'm gonna check out my Sepedi ladies out to confirm what some male nairalanders have been saying... .. I was shocked the second time.. .. I saw Nicki Minaj figures walking around and I couldn't help but wonder to myself how come I didn't notice all these things all my life... Not all of them were curvy, but most of them did have the curves and the booty.
So as an African lady, if you lack self confidence, you might end up having a low self-esteem and using butt pads to look like other African ladies outside.... Even now I'm still shocked by what I saw...
I have been telling same, although some of SA women did BBL.
But what is the need of having a big-non-soft-bouncing-ass?
Biko, what is the reason behind the wearing of butt pads (fake nyansh), by a lot of ladies these days...
I once noticed a lady was wearing butt pad. Cos the size of her yansh keep increasing and deflating every day like a motor tyre. To the extent, I became confused
Why go through such stress just to entice men. Are they low on confidence, or just doing it for fashion or to entice lustful men.. Cos I don't understand.
Yansh or no yansh, the beauty of a woman is not tied to her backside. Don't let any man mislead you to hell. Oyibo women no too get yansh, but men dey chase them upandan, for movies
Biko, let's stop being fake. Let any man that wants you, like you just the way you are. Don't deceive any man with artificial looks, yansh or status, only to end up being disgraced later.
Vijuchoco: They tell me I'm curvy here in naija alot until I visited SA, I realized my curve was just moderate and theirs is excess. Still, they were thinking I was one of them
Unfortunately nobody said you're curvy. Nigeria girls and low self esteem. You think your fragile will boost if you don't tell lies? Has anyone given you award for the imaginary curvy Yansh? Dey whine yourself with lies
Madam if e sure for you, bless us with your so called curvy Yansh let's see
Unfortunately nobody said you're curvy. Nigeria girls and low self esteem. You think your fragile will boost if you don't tell lies? Has anyone given you award for the imaginary curvy Yansh? Dey whine yourself with lies
Madam if e sure for you, bless us with your so called curvy Yansh let's see
Lol.. Yes I was given award back in school I have no intent to make any friend through this moniker so what's the point in telling lies. Na you sabi jare.. You can as well believe me ever visiting SA is a lie. I owe you no explanation after all..
It's fake. More like an illusion meant to deceive innocent young men.
And I believe that it's worse than drugs, cos the psychological effect on the guy after discovering that the figure 8 girl he fell for is actually a letter I, would have a long lasting effect in his life than drugs. It's would take him decades to heal. 😩
I have no intent to make any friend through this moniker so what's the point in telling lies.
...and subsequently, get lured into lesbianism, or becoming bi (they make themselves feel less offensive by saying this , whereas doesn't change the fact they still sleep with the same sex ) 
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