years back when i was in my adolecent and teen years i had always fought sexual urges -masturbation -nacking olosho -squashing babes -watching porn
uptill now i still struggle with it(buh its now minimal) so guys any concret solution?

Just marry and rest....

TimT:
Just marry and rest....

werey u think marriage nah play

kingot:

werey u think marriage nah play

Lol... You just need to marry na.. coz this Ur problem na wife wey dey Ur side go help you ooo...
Coz marriage equals free and constant fuc.k.. and na wetin u dey find .. lol

TimT:
Just marry and rest....

No be for this same Nairaland me and you dey read where married men dey lament how their wives always give them timetable for sex

Being married does not stop sexual addiction.

About 85.453% of men married to Nigerian ladies are sex starved and always hórny.

TimT:

Lol... You just need to marry na.. coz this Ur problem na wife wey dey Ur side go help you ooo...
Coz marriage equals free and constant fuc.k.. and na wetin u dey find .. lol

i no go lie for u
marriage is nt an option nw

Zonefree:

No be for this same Nairaland me and you dey read where married men dey lament how their wives always give them timetable for sex

bro thank u
dis guy wan put pesin inside wahala

kingot:

bro thank u
dis guy wan put pesin inside wahala

Don't mind him.


The best way to deal with sexual addiction is to have as many kpekus available at your disposal.

Say you have about 13 Nigerian girls readily available to always satisfy your sexual needs...by the time you're done with 3 in two days, no be person go advise you to limit your sexual activities.

TimT:
Just marry and rest....
Zonefree. kingot

Not necessarily. See below. King Solomon ought be a lesson. And even King David with many wives went for someone's wife!
OP if you focus more and more on things of the spirit, you'd start wondering what people see in sex!

Zonefree:

Don't mind him.


The best way to deal with sexual addiction is to have as many kpekus available at your disposal.

Say you have about 13 Nigerian girls readily available to always satisfy your sexual needs...by the time you're done with 3 in two days, no be person go advise you to limit your sexual activities.

guy why you wuked like dis
13 gals?
U wan mai die

Zonefree:

No be for this same Nairaland me and you dey read where married men dey lament how their wives always give them timetable for sex

Being married does not stop sexual addiction.

About 85.453% of men married to Nigerian ladies are sex starved and always hórny.

Nigerian relationship problem is very complicated even PhD person sef no fit understand...
Oya stay single and be fuc.king upandan dem no go gree.... Dem go say dem don reach to marry..
Oya marry and be fuc.king free .. Dem no go gree... Dem go dey look for person own outside...
Oya marry 2 or 3 make you get choice... E no go still do dem...
Oya masturbates and rest, dem go say dem no fit...

DaddyCoool:


Not necessarily. See below. King Solomon ought be a lesson. And even King David with many wives went for someone's wife!
OP if you focus more and more on things of the spirit, you'd start wondering what people see in sex!

Wahala...
Person dey always Hot u say make him focus on the things of the spirit 🤣🤣🤣 wahala o

The best solution is just to take your mind off it and get busy.

TimT:

Wahala...
Person dey always Hot u say make him focus on the things of the spirit 🤣🤣🤣 wahala o

But it works o😅. You'd start deriving a higher form of pleasure. Which is why higher beings don't do sex. It's like eating sand when there is real food. By the way, almost same happens when you focus on intellectual stuff. Problem of course is, it becomes you - how then do you procreate?

FitCorper:
The best solution is just to take your mind off it and get busy.

How then do you get back, get partner, and procreate - when the sex motivation is absent!

Control yourself.

BEING BUSY HELPS ALOT AM TALKING FROM EXPERIENCE............

DaddyCoool:


How then do you get back, get partner, and procreate - when the sex motivation is absent!

Wait until you get married. But marriage is not the answer, first learn to tame and ignore the urge, it’s called self control

FitCorper:


Wait until you get married. But marriage is not the answer, first learn to tame and ignore the urge, it’s called self control

Doesn't work that way. Once you start having sex again your old self will be back. So it's either you stay above sex, or once you start indulging in it, you open yourself up to all the "demons". You hardly have more self-control than Solomon, David, and all these pastors. Higher beings are above sex, not half and half!

DaddyCoool:


Doesn't work that way. Once you start having sex again your old self will be back. So it's either you stay above sex, or once you start indulging in it, you open yourself up to all the "demons". You hardly have more self-control than Solomon, David, and all these pastors. Higher beings are above sex, not half and half!

Well that’s what works for me sir. Good morning.

FitCorper:


Well that’s what works for me sir. Good morning.

What exactly works for you?
Good morning to you

DaddyCoool:


What exactly works for you?
Good morning to you

1)I’m always busy, I don’t give myself idle time, either I’m reading a book or bible.
2)I don’t view sexual contents on YouTube only Apostle Joshua Selma’s
3)I respect my body
Then the Oga patapata of them all is that I fear God.

Do meth

Life is full of choices.... stopping them is based on determination

FitCorper:


1)I’m always busy, I don’t give myself idle time, either I’m reading a book or bible.
2)I don’t view sexual contents on YouTube only Apostle Joshua Selma’s
3)I respect my body
Then the Oga patapata of them all is that I fear God.

Good, and not so hard - as long as you stay that way for life.

Zonefree:

No be for this same Nairaland me and you dey read where married men dey lament how their wives always give them timetable for sex

Being married does not stop sexual addiction.

About 85.453% of men married to Nigerian ladies are sex starved and always hórny.

Why most of our NL dude they always fear marriage thing. To me oo marriage nai easy pass