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JAPA Fever Among Nigerian Youths by MimiSheWrote(f): 2:25pm On Sep 09, 2023 |
Hello Everyone, first of all I apologize in advance for the long note and also about my English, not actually my first language. ![]() My name is Mimi, I was born in Nigeria... But cos of the nature of my dad's profession i have spent around 75% of my life in different countries outside Nigeria... Mostly in EU. Well enough said about myself, cos this topic is not about me but about Nigerians... Our general mentality and perception of abroad. Guys listen up... All that glitters is not really gold. Out there is not entirely what people think it is. And you might think just because I have spent so much time outside Nigeria i do not understand the struggle in Nigeria and therefore not qualified to tell you all this "nonsense"..... I completely get it.. trust me. But even a random 3 years old kid knows that the country is messed up and nothing to write home about, we all know about the Suffering, depression and "starvation level of poverty" in Nigeria yeah.... That's why everyone is desperatly looking for a way out, no doubt... but trust me, JAPA is not 'always' your ticket out of poverty... Well 'sometimes' it is... but most times it's just your direct ticket to being subjected to racism,more depression,more struggles,several mental disorder,homelessness, modern day slavery and the list goes on and on. Trust me... when it comes to hustling field, success is much more louder than failure. cos our mind was designed to constantly search for hope. which means you would quickly hear about the lucky 3% that made it big through JAPA, but hardly hear about the remaining unlucky 97% that found themselves in worse possible condition after the same JAPA. There's no money tree out here... there's no diamond river out here... Is there more opportunities? Well yes, But there are millions of people that already done and still doing whatever you intend to come do over here and yet they are still in the worse condition than you are in right now. You would literally cry when you see what most of our African brothers and sisters go through around the world in the name of Japa. And as a Nigerian?? Trust me it gets worse.. and your chances gets even much smaller. Cos no one trust Nigerians anymore any where around the world and I believe we all know why. Sorry but I'm not trying to burst anyone's bubble, kill anyone's vibe or being a negative biitch! Naaaah I'm only trying to be realistic! I'm only trying to tell you something no travel agent would ever tell you and something people abroad hardly tell you, and even when they eventually do tell you...? You don't believe them.. instead you result to asking them questions like "why are they still there if it's that bad"? ..... Well.... You wanna know why most of them are still there? Let me tell you why... there is a psychological reason for that... First They are still in DENIAL. Imagine dreaming your entire life to travel abroad and finally have a good life, you probably invested almost everything or everything you have got to make it happen (your money, your time, your last hope) But then you finally got there and then meet a reality that is entirely different from your life long dreams and perception of these faraway green lands? I don't know if you know... but our brain is defensive in nature, it will automatically switch straight to denial mode... Leaving you with atleast enough 'hope and wait for a magic or should i say a miracle' (afterall this is abroad where magic happens?) This is just one of the reasons why most of these people continue sticking around instead of returning home. Another reason is that they are worried about what people back home would say or think... Because the people back home also got this general fvcked up mentality and very high expectation of people coming back from Japa (y'all need to stop it! Y'all need to get rid of that mentality, seriously ![]() It needs to stop, yall driving the youth nuts with such mentality, it's doing more harm than good. That high expectation/ pressure back home is mostly the reason our people are more likely to result to crime out here (so just stop it! ![]() I have met alot of other African nationalities abroad... and amazingly they don't share the same mentality we have about Abroad. They treat abroad as just another hustling ground and not a direct ticket to success... Therefore they are more relaxed and less pressured than Nigerians out here. Moving Abroad is not such a bad idea though, it worked and still works for few lucky ones (including my Family) it would be wrong and biased of me if I fail to mention that.. There are plenty of and more opportunities over out here not doubt... But what I'm just saying is that... it's not always that easily reached.. as most people automatically believe. Look... Somehow all these countries are intelligently designed In such a way that it take back almost entirely everything you make out here from you one way or the other... Through tax, through mind blowing bills or random expenses around every corner. And at the end of the day you realize you are nothing but a modern day slave building someone's country for free... And without freedom. Most people screaming Japa in Nigeria are far in better living condition and more stable mentally ,more happy than majority of people in the so called abroad without even knowing it. Sometimes Instead of gambling and betting your hard earned million of naira on Japa, it's more advisable to chill out... relax and invest that Millions in Nigeria. I'm just saying... You would probably end up living a life most people over there can only envy and dream of. Thanks for reading my long note... I hope this helps someone in making a life decision out there. #ItsYourGurlMimi ![]() 163 Likes 22 Shares
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Re: JAPA Fever Among Nigerian Youths by maestro299: 2:29pm On Sep 09, 2023 |
Insightful piece. But quick question: Are you currently based in Nigeria or outside the country? 169 Likes 10 Shares |
Re: JAPA Fever Among Nigerian Youths by Wodu89: 2:34pm On Sep 09, 2023 |
Nice one dearie 4 Likes |
Re: JAPA Fever Among Nigerian Youths by AllKnowing: 2:55pm On Sep 09, 2023 |
maestro299: Not again, Jester! 43 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: JAPA Fever Among Nigerian Youths by bittertongue: 3:17pm On Sep 09, 2023 |
Quick questions at op,are you currently working or doing business in Nigeria,what type of work and for how long have you been doing it,I need this question to take a life changing decisions thanks in advance 43 Likes 7 Shares |
Re: JAPA Fever Among Nigerian Youths by maestro299: 3:34pm On Sep 09, 2023 |
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Re: JAPA Fever Among Nigerian Youths by Sweetvie: 3:46pm On Sep 09, 2023 |
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Re: JAPA Fever Among Nigerian Youths by olufak2001: 5:55pm On Sep 09, 2023 |
It's a pity that most people don't really know what is going on out there. Abroad is a good place to stay but if there is anyway to send your money home for investments, please do. Most of the money you make there will go back into the system. I have lived in Europe for good two years and I can say one or two things about Europe. Also if you are above 45 years, please do a lot of research before you move. It takes time before you can get your documents. Netherlands is a good place to live but if you have a study permit. 57 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: JAPA Fever Among Nigerian Youths by jesmond3945: 7:25pm On Sep 09, 2023 |
MimiSheWrote:you are not being fair and just if you live in abroad and you are giving such an advise. Are you also aware that most african leaders prefer keeping their people in penury while sending their kids abroad or investing there. Look at ondo governor or even buhari. Do you know if buhari was not treated in uk, he would have been a dead man. So i say you guys giving these advise while outside Nigeria are very mean and wicked. 186 Likes 17 Shares |
Re: JAPA Fever Among Nigerian Youths by MimiSheWrote(f): 8:01pm On Sep 09, 2023 |
maestro299:Not like it matters, but I live outside which doesn't limit my understanding of the situation in my home country(Nigeria) You don't need to experience a bone fracture to know what it feels like. 35 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: JAPA Fever Among Nigerian Youths by bittertongue: 8:18pm On Sep 09, 2023 |
MimiSheWrote:rich kid one of the lucky ones,it’s good to be you your daddy is my mentor 70 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: JAPA Fever Among Nigerian Youths by MimiSheWrote(f): 8:19pm On Sep 09, 2023 |
jesmond3945:Lol as expected... There is always that one guy. #Sighs Sir I'm certain you didn't read my entire note, or you simply don't get my point. I'm not telling anyone not to Japa, it's a free world... I'm only revealing the dark side of the moon, Which everyone deserves to know about too atleast before making a life decision. What's not fair is basing your decision entirely only on the bright side of the moon. I'm not wicked sir... And never will. 85 Likes 12 Shares |
Re: JAPA Fever Among Nigerian Youths by jesmond3945: 8:39pm On Sep 09, 2023 |
MimiSheWrote:the dark side of the moon in abroad is far better than the bright side of the moon in naija 183 Likes 16 Shares |
Re: JAPA Fever Among Nigerian Youths by jesmond3945: 8:40pm On Sep 09, 2023 |
MimiSheWrote:you live outside and you think you know nigeria more than the inhabitants. 120 Likes 11 Shares |
Re: JAPA Fever Among Nigerian Youths by Ishilove: 9:09pm On Sep 09, 2023 |
MimiSheWrote:Not in this case, Mimi. I urge you to come and live in Nigeria for a year and then afterwards, you are free to rewrite this article 179 Likes 16 Shares |
Re: JAPA Fever Among Nigerian Youths by maestro299: 10:06pm On Sep 09, 2023 |
MimiSheWrote:Hmmmm.... Ok. At the bolded; if you've never experienced a bone fracture, I doubt you can ever know what it feels like. You can imagine how it might feel to the best of your ability but you can't truly comprehend it. I get the point of your writeup though... 103 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: JAPA Fever Among Nigerian Youths by ednut1(m): 11:56pm On Sep 09, 2023 |
But why have you not returned to Nigeria ![]() 151 Likes 10 Shares |
Re: JAPA Fever Among Nigerian Youths by Mindlog: 12:16am On Sep 10, 2023 |
Another dissertation on Japa....if you are skilled and your skill sets are in high demand in a foreign country that better appreciates it, do well and relocate. Whenever I read about racism in such dissertation, I instantly assume the writer means tribal bigotry that catwalks boldly in Nigeria and in many African countries is a non issue. A stable life with a sense of order,is what many desire, it is not just about the money. I will prefer to save £300 monthly after all deductions and expenditures than saving N500K monthly in Nigeria (which less than 0.5% of Nigerians can in Nigeria) 74 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: JAPA Fever Among Nigerian Youths by MimiSheWrote(f): 12:24am On Sep 10, 2023 |
maestro299:lol ok I admit it. The fractured bone example was obviously a miss... ![]() ![]() 14 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: JAPA Fever Among Nigerian Youths by Gerrard59(m): 3:09am On Sep 10, 2023 |
The line between anti-japa person and residing in the abroad has never been curved. It has always been straight. Almost all, if not all, Nigerian elites have their families based abroad, and they have second citizenship such that living in Nigeria is a second option, not an only option. I have outlined here: https://www.nairaland.com/7650379/points-consider-before-after-japa that intending japa folks should lower their expectations and plan accordingly. All countries are not equal. Some are better off than others. As black people, the US remains the best place to japa, whether as a hustler or skilled person. While informing people about the ills and disadvantages is good, it is also essential to understand why they want to relocate. This japa thing sef, we don't relocate as much as the Indians, Chinese (yes, rich and middle class Chinese are relocating) and Filipinos. It is because we are exposed to Nigerian media and content which makes us think na only us dey emigrate, but those nationals emigrate way more than we do. They face greater challenges but are still migrating. With the news about India's growing economic clout, it is standard tradition for graduates of Indian elite IITs to emigrate to the US. To you, it is bad. But to them, it is the best thing to do. As for the "racism" aspect, that is a humdrum statement and very hypocritical coming from a Nigerian. As I say, it is better to live with racists in a prosperous land than reside with tribalists in the world's poverty capital. Economics over emotions. 151 Likes 12 Shares |
Re: JAPA Fever Among Nigerian Youths by Makamatic: 8:27am On Sep 10, 2023 |
See this small pikin wey never suffer for life want they do advisor , o girl no go be like erico , 9jatriot or suenmsg where they abroad but them they discourage japa oo. I go call you witch oo 31 Likes 1 Share |
Re: JAPA Fever Among Nigerian Youths by JOACHINpedro: 10:16am On Sep 10, 2023 |
Racism vs tribalism garnished with terrorism. I'll go for the former 39 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: JAPA Fever Among Nigerian Youths by Heffalump(m): 8:02pm On Sep 10, 2023 |
I'll prefer to work in a country where I return my substantial earnings to keep a viable system working and at the same time, gives me comfort, security, and social wellbeing. How many years do I have to live on earth that you want me to perish in a directionless shithole of a country. 90 Likes 7 Shares |
Re: JAPA Fever Among Nigerian Youths by gforce5: 10:28am On Sep 12, 2023 |
Mimi, I understand that you are giving your opinion based on your personal experience abroad. I spent a quarter of my life abroad before moving back to Nigeria so i know the downsides of living in a white man's country. However, you do not understand why Nigerians are desperate to leave the country by any means necessary as you don't live in Nigeria and you aren't experiencing the HELL so many people are going through in this country. So many people are disillusioned with the state of the country. We are talking about a country that is only designed for only the rich to thrive. The poor do not have any chance. That is why prostitution, yahoo, drugs, rituals and fraud have become the norm. A lot of young people are disenfranchised with the system. The middle class has been wiped out. You are either rich or poor. Education has now become the right for only the rich. Many individuals have seen their standard of living drop in by 80% in the past 10 years. The list of problems is endless. I also assume that you probably have a second passport so you don't understand what the average Nigerian goes through when they travel abroad for different reasons. Just come and experience living in Nigeria for 3 months. Then you will understand why people want to Japa by force. 90 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: JAPA Fever Among Nigerian Youths by Wodu89: 11:32am On Sep 12, 2023 |
Mods frontpage We have to balance the threads that encourage traveling out with the counterpart that suggests not necessarily travelling out 5 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: JAPA Fever Among Nigerian Youths by henrimoto(m): 11:42am On Sep 12, 2023 |
Wodu89:It will definitely reach the Front Page. 2 Likes |
Re: JAPA Fever Among Nigerian Youths by Emu4life(m): 11:45am On Sep 12, 2023 |
People are at Liberty to Migrate however they so wish. The problem I have is with the Dumb Nigerians who after migrating starts insulting and cursing their Countries of Origin. Motherfvcker!! Even if you stay in the UK or Canada for 3000 years, they will never consider you one of them. You will always be "the black monkey from a Shitty African Countries" according to them. So why not migrate, learn the developmental strides/processes there and comeback to impact on your 'real home' instead of insulting your ancestors just for the pale skinned man's acceptance that will never happen. 21 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: JAPA Fever Among Nigerian Youths by OBIDIENTNAIJA: 11:45am On Sep 12, 2023 |
Was it not how the cocaine president of agbado republic ran away during Abacha regime. The idiot said he doesn't believe in one Nigeria. But he came back with cocaine mo ey with his criminal mindset and forgery of all sort and became a governor and stole Lagos dry. That wasn't enough for the most corrupt criminal ever in the history of Nigeria. He forced himself on us. Used the monies he stole for decades to buy himself the position of the president. Threatened to deal with anyone that stops him through the tribunal. Today his demented supporters and cocaine drug pushers are supporting him. Well the Judiciary is dead and buried under APC. Infact, everything is dead under the mandates of the evil party. Just like the antelope, it will take you 20yrs for someone to convince those useless judges on silk that Tinubu is a CRIMINAL 32 Likes 5 Shares
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Re: JAPA Fever Among Nigerian Youths by Lannister360: 11:45am On Sep 12, 2023 |
MimiSheWrote: Guy see, life in Nigeria is hell, nothing works here including business, abroad isn't an automatic ticket to success but it's far better than Nigeria. If Abroad is hot water, Nigeria is the Fire It's still better to feel the heat of a hot water than to feel the heat of fire. If you invest your japa millions in Nigeria there is a very high possibility that it'll crumble. At least in Europe you have a chance. JAPA IF YOU CAN GUYS, EUROPE IS STILL BETTER THAN NIGERIA 30 Likes 2 Shares |
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