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Re: I Want To Divorce And Live Alone by WetSmoke: 4:58pm On Sep 12, 2023 |
This OP is just an evil man. That good woman doesn’t deserve you. |
Re: I Want To Divorce And Live Alone by Mayflowa(m): 4:58pm On Sep 12, 2023 |
ADURA123: But you are going away with your project and leaving her just 1m in divorce. Except you are sharing the project 50/50 when you divorce, you owe that woman nothing less that 7m or a year worth of your salary. You two should see therapist and a sex therapist if that is your only concerns 1 Like |
Re: I Want To Divorce And Live Alone by seguno2: 4:58pm On Sep 12, 2023 |
ADURA123: Why can’t you use condoms, since she can’t use contraceptives 1 Like |
Re: I Want To Divorce And Live Alone by ADURA123(m): 4:59pm On Sep 12, 2023 |
Tzar: Thank you sir No 4 yes, it started after child birth, No 5 she dosent support the idea of second wife, she sees them as someone coming to eat where they never sew. 2 Likes |
Re: I Want To Divorce And Live Alone by luminouz(m): 4:59pm On Sep 12, 2023 |
Acidosis: Nawa for you oh...yeye advice!!! 2 Likes |
Re: I Want To Divorce And Live Alone by ValarDoharis: 4:59pm On Sep 12, 2023 |
You're asking for too much from one woman. Take this from someone who has been married for almost 12yrs. Should be most 1 round, 3 times per week and mostly night. Women like it at night and 1 round per time. After the first round, they dont feel much unlike men. A second wife or a sidechick would be the solution unless you're able to get the 5% of women with high sexual drive ADURA123: 2 Likes |
Re: I Want To Divorce And Live Alone by MySolace: 4:59pm On Sep 12, 2023 |
FreeIgboho:Lol... U no well. Dis shit still dey exist? D wave died like it never came |
Re: I Want To Divorce And Live Alone by WetSmoke: 4:59pm On Sep 12, 2023 |
virginchaser:This is selfish. |
Re: I Want To Divorce And Live Alone by WetSmoke: 5:00pm On Sep 12, 2023 |
OP divorce her. I personally want you to grow old alone. |
Re: I Want To Divorce And Live Alone by Xkale1996(m): 5:00pm On Sep 12, 2023 |
ADURA123:am not okay with divorce Marry second wife Islam sweet We are allowed to marry second third 4 wife's |
Re: I Want To Divorce And Live Alone by Austineva(m): 5:01pm On Sep 12, 2023 |
ADURA123:Let me advise you man, if you like take it or leave it. Don't divorce her since she is not cheating on you, never make such mistake else you will regret it later on. Na me the tell you. Try reduce ur sex urge since you can't cheat on her. And by the way, how many times does she give you sex weekly? You should also let us know about this. Man! Nothing dey for street, if you flex Wella b4 u got married then you should have known this |
Re: I Want To Divorce And Live Alone by oshaosha2014(m): 5:01pm On Sep 12, 2023 |
Any beautiful home you see out there has something going on inside it that is enough for them to divorce. But that something happening is not enough to make both the wife and husband remain happy in their marriage. Okay, you are not divorcing to remarry, that sex you are looking for you will find oh. And that high wey you dey make every month wey dey give you confidence to destroy a beautiful home, you go spend am oh! But, I just hope you are not going to end up picking one terminal disease that will make your 700k monthly look like chicken change. Don't destroy a beautiful thing going on. Sex should not be enough to destroy that. Just fine tune your urge and don't be selfish. |
Re: I Want To Divorce And Live Alone by Donedeal1(m): 5:01pm On Sep 12, 2023 |
Just like your friends, To start hookups. |
Re: I Want To Divorce And Live Alone by Beremx(f): 5:02pm On Sep 12, 2023 |
ADURA123:stop eating her food. Pretend to keep late nights by sleeping maybe in a hotel. If she asks threaten her that you will impregnate someone else and marry her. Watch her reaction after that. Imagine denying such a nice man like you sex 2 Likes |
Re: I Want To Divorce And Live Alone by TheMostComplex1: 5:02pm On Sep 12, 2023 |
I guess he's over working his wife & that is the more reason she's not usually interested in the other room activities |
Re: I Want To Divorce And Live Alone by fashionale(m): 5:02pm On Sep 12, 2023 |
Oga simply tell her you will seek for divorce or marry another since she can't meet your sexual needs.... Simple... Why will you surprise your wife of ten years with a divorce paper without much ado |
Re: I Want To Divorce And Live Alone by wirinet(m): 5:03pm On Sep 12, 2023 |
Acidosis:I shock o. When a bag of rice is N50k, an average loaf of bread is N1.2k and gas is about N9k for a 12kg cylinder. And we are not even talking about soup ingredients and protein yet. What about other living expenses like house rent, power, drinking water, toiletries, TV subscription, phone subscriptions, Internet subscriptions, etc. You give your wife 100k out of a salary of N700k to run the house and you are complaining she is not always in the mood for sex. I used to give my wife N150k per month only for food and groceries for my household, I still pay for nepa bill, water and house maintenance and it is still not enough. I am not even talking about school fees, books and children's cloths yet. Guy, if you want your wife to alway be in the mood, treat her well and make life comfortable for her and your children. If you satisfy her basic needs and meet your manly obligations, and she still gives you a dead bedroom. Call a family meeting and present your grievances. If she is not ready to perform her wifey duties, you too is not prepared to continue to perform husband duties. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Want To Divorce And Live Alone by Opus001: 5:04pm On Sep 12, 2023 |
JONSYN7154:You did not read the story well.. He said the father advice him to devorce instead of cheating cause in this situation once tried, you would want to continue cause he will be enjoying what his wife is denying him from someone else which is adultery |
Re: I Want To Divorce And Live Alone by Omoapena(m): 5:04pm On Sep 12, 2023 |
Aren’t you allowed to Marry 2 wives? |
Re: I Want To Divorce And Live Alone by obinna58(m): 5:04pm On Sep 12, 2023 |
ADURA123:If you know you have ego and pride stop bringing your problems for public to help you solve Your attitude is probably what’s killing her sexual libido and she dare not tell you because of your pride and ego That woman deserves better, treat her nice 3 Likes |
Re: I Want To Divorce And Live Alone by etzvictor: 5:07pm On Sep 12, 2023 |
I know from personal experience how painful it is as man to be denied sex by your wife. Their excuses are untenable and it doesn't even seems to bother them that they may end up driving their husbands outside. But, I don't think it will be a wise decision to divorce her. Just consider your children. Imagine the psychology impact it could have on them. You are hurt, I know, it has been going on for years, I know, but then, think twice before you act. |
Re: I Want To Divorce And Live Alone by abbeynism(m): 5:07pm On Sep 12, 2023 |
Bro, please do not divorce her. Sex is vital but it should not break such a home. 1. Like many have suggested, reduce her workload. I guess the libido wasn't that poor but the responsibility of taking care of home and your children with also her work is not helping. If you can afford a helping hand for her. There is higher chance things will be better. 2. I think even if the workload is reduced she can never meet up your sex urge but she can be better. One of you now need to shift base. It is either you reduce your sex drive or you help her with herbal or medical approach to increase her libido. 3. If those failed. If she is the type, sit her down and tell her your available options if she failed to adjust. 4. If no changes marry a second wife that is in the same level or even far above your sex drive. E maa pada ro ra yin pa ni. You gerrit? All the best |
Re: I Want To Divorce And Live Alone by appliedscience(m): 5:09pm On Sep 12, 2023 |
ADURA123:I DNT get .. u want to divorce her cos she isn't giving sex.. yet u claim u would love to be alone after divorce... dat means the problem that les to the divorce hasn't been addressed!!! |
Re: I Want To Divorce And Live Alone by Coolgent(m): 5:09pm On Sep 12, 2023 |
ADURA123:Then there's no need to divorce your wife since you can leave without sex. As a married man for years i suggest your shouldn't go into divorce for the dake of future of your Kids! Even your own mother can't take good care of your kids like your wife let alone maid or relative. Communication is the key.... Have schedule for your bedroom activity majorly on pre-intimacy then sex perhaps weekly. CONSIDER YOUR KIDS FUTURE! |
Re: I Want To Divorce And Live Alone by Rumundele(m): 5:11pm On Sep 12, 2023 |
Ok, go ahead |
Re: I Want To Divorce And Live Alone by TheGift: 5:11pm On Sep 12, 2023 |
ADURA123: Why ask Her to live? Just get a second Wife that loves sex and will commit to giving it to you whenever you want. You allowed it to fester for too long, and you guys got into a rhythm. If someone doesn't enjoy sex it may most likely be the way they where introduced or the way they are having sex. You guys need to switch things up one way or another, but first you need to talk, it's Her duty to satisfy your urges and you hers, but it's never going to be by gra gra. Meanhwile, you need to increase that monthly allowance to like 300-350k esp in this economy. Abi no be you and your children go still chop the food? 1 Like |
Re: I Want To Divorce And Live Alone by mmoluwole: 5:13pm On Sep 12, 2023 |
Aside all that have been said so far, its ok to also see a counsellor. By and large pls do not divorce that woman because of her sex drive, its not a crime to have low libido. |
Re: I Want To Divorce And Live Alone by MySolace: 5:15pm On Sep 12, 2023 |
Acidosis:Oga b calming down! Are u married? How much is ur pay and how much are u giving ur wife? Some married men's monthly pay isn't upto 100k, yet their family lives within it...while everyone does his or her responsibilities in their best capacity. So, because he said he's making 700k, u now see 100k as meagre amount? Are u joking? Didn't u hear where he said d wife also does little work...? Is d revenue she's generating from there meant for d dustbin? He's not even expending d balance on frivolities o, d money goes into a project to b enjoyed by d entire family which dey're well aware of. (Even if dey're not aware). Ibi like say some of una dey reason wit una anus o... ...plz commend d man. He slaves for his family! 3 Likes |
Re: I Want To Divorce And Live Alone by ezemacleo: 5:16pm On Sep 12, 2023 |
Man and woman don't leave together for 365 days in a year. Take out 3 to 4 days and rest your head in a hotel even less than 10 km away from your home monthly. Whenever you are back, you will appear new her. I am 25 years now in Mariage, I stay away sometimes a week claiming business tours and she will yearn for your return. 4 Likes |
Re: I Want To Divorce And Live Alone by Opus001: 5:16pm On Sep 12, 2023 |
Personally, i don't like devorce but i do welcome seperation... My oga, i like your ideal of moving out but don't devorce her because of sex which you can get from random girls which am not advicing you to... What will you tell your children is the reason for devorcing their mother or what will tell your lawyer is the reason for wantin to devorce your wife? My man, just leave the house for them and if she is truely not cheating she will definately crave for it... |
Re: I Want To Divorce And Live Alone by mercy87(f): 5:20pm On Sep 12, 2023 |
heykims: Have you seen where he said he is a Muslim? |
Re: I Want To Divorce And Live Alone by vickydevoka(m): 5:21pm On Sep 12, 2023 |
Acidosis:I would have agreed to what you said only to see mama nkechi frying akara is having 6 kids and still counting. She still the kpansh wella. |
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