My dear it's a societal views and in related to religious views too and we all cannot be the same and we all can't have same path and journey in life....

You have spoken very intelligently and to me nothing is wrong about it as.long as you guys can tolerate each other to live together..


Marriage doesn't determine happy home or for better for worst ..

Marriages too do collapse while those that haven't done it with kids are still surviving it

aisha1314:
I honestly don't understand why in the 21st century, sex before marriage and children out of wedlock is still seen as something bad. It's like we're still in the stone age.

I personally have never seen anything wrong with either, though on some conditions. As long as people are responsible about sex by using condoms to prevent STDs if at risk and contraceptives to prevent pregnancy if not ready for a child I see nothing wrong with it.

And if someone who isn't married wants a child they should go ahead as long as they are ready, financially and otherwise to care for a child without help and becoming a burden on anyone.

I happily have sex with my boyfriend without any guilt or thoughts, though I'm on the pill to prevent myself becoming pregnant, because we can't have a child now.

Personally I don't ever want to get married, for my own personal reasons but I plan on having 1 or 2 children when I have a stable relationship and am financially ready.

I'm actually not religious, I'm not exactly an atheist but just not affiliated with any religion. Maybe I'm a little agonistic in my beliefs but religion doesn't factor into any decision I make.

aisha1314:


I haven't 'lost my sense of dignity' in any way. I just dislike old fashioned religious values that's all. I'm also describe myself as a sex positive person.

All those rubbish wey u do above, e make sense for ur eye??

tonicyril:
■ All those rubbish wey u do above, e make sense for ur eye??

You mean imposing your inane religious/traditional views on those who don't subscribe at all to them make more sense?

Kobojunkie:
You mean imposing your inane religious/traditional views on those who don't subscribe at all to them make more sense?

U mean imposing her wayward life if frolicking and sampling different dicks even when the men have not honoured her, pay on her and pay for her worth is more sane??


Na wetin drive u into depression you dey like for ur fellow women, I like you
U don't want to go down the drain alone, sharp single mother of three

tonicyril:
■ U mean imposing her wayward life if frolicking and sampling different dicks even when the men have not honoured her, pay on her and pay for her worth is more sane??
■ Na wetin drive u into depression you dey like for ur fellow women, I like you
■ U don't want to go down the drain alone, sharp single mother of three ;D

1. You are the one here trying to impose your beliefs on her. Can't you even see it from the statement in bold?

2. What depression again? Do you have a nut loose or something?

3. Which drain? She is telling you to stop shoving your religious/traditional delusions at her and you are busy rambling about a drain. This is the major issue with you religious/traditionalist nut jobs, you don't even understand that you have no power or permission give you to impose your ideas on others. Rather you do so in disrespect.

Most of thise people foaming and attacking the op would have had pre or extra marital sex at one point or the other.

Nigeria, a very hypocritical society. Listen to any of then at your own peril.

If you dont want martiage as a lady and are doing good financially and able to take care of a child without burdeb of a marital commitment, you find a guy who agrees to your arrangement.

Go ahead, nothing do you. You do not need the approval of the hypocritical lots.

Do what makes you happy.

Kobojunkie:
1. You are the one here trying to impose your beliefs on her. Can't you even see it from the statement in bold?

2. What depression again? Do you have a nut loose or something?

3. Which drain? She is telling you to stop shoving your religious/traditional delusions at her and you are busy rambling about a drain. This is the major issue with you religious/traditionalist nut jobs, you don't even understand that you have no power or permission give you to impose your ideas on others. Rather you do so in disrespect.

See, if u don't a a lost nut in ur he.ad..u should know that nobody, I mean nobody asked for her views and ideology
Nobody choke her with any belief
Nobody has her worthless time
Nobody ask her to wrote epistle
Nobody even care if she's alive...
Did she say she was imposed upon by our belief??
Where did u see her say she was bn forced to enjoy her dick all around.
It's a view from her, she aired it she crave for attention and no one gave her.

Don't play a reverse psyco here, in contrast, She's that one trying to impose her worthless ideology on us and she was not welcomed, so when did she become the victim here??

Even the oyinbo u re copying believe so much is conjugation, so which Bush are u from??


I knew u would quote me ,I Knew if I have a mention by that time of the night it would be you..and alas!!! The single mother quoted me.

Skyview01:
Most of thise people foaming and attacking the op would have had pre or extra marital sex at one point or the other.

Nigeria, a very hypocritical society. Listen to any of then at your own peril.

If you dont want martiage as a lady and are doing good financially and able to take care of a child without burdeb of a marital commitment, you find a guy who agrees to your arrangement.

Go ahead, nothing do you. You do not need the approval of the hypocritical lots.

Do what makes you happy.

Use ur sense baba, no one is saying we re not engaging in extra marital affairs, its a societal decadence bn observe is every living space..

But we engage in the does not mean we don't know the truth
We engage in it does not mean we should throw the truth away.

When ur daughter grow up bro, she will be fuc.ked around from every available dicks instead of her bn honoured to a husband house with ur consent. Sebi that is what u want since u don't want to sound hypocritical.

tonicyril:
■ See, if u don't a a lost nut in ur he.ad..u should know that nobody, I mean nobody asked for her views and ideology Nobody choke her with any belief Nobody has her worthless time Nobody ask her to wrote epistle Nobody even care if she's alive... Did she say she was imposed upon by our belief?? Where did u see her say she was bn forced to enjoy her dick all around.
It's a view from her, she aired it she crave for attention and no one gave her.
■ Don't play a reverse psyco here, in contrast, She's that one trying to impose her worthless ideology on us and she was not welcomed, so when did she become the victim here??
■ Even the oyinbo u re copying believe so much is conjugation, so which Bush are u from??
■ I knew u would quote me ,I Knew if I have a mention by that time of the night it would be you..and alas!!! The single mother quoted me.

Stop spewing your foolishness my way!

Kobojunkie:
Stop spewing your foolishness my way!

I understand ur plight

U better come make I make u feel well..

aisha1314:


Just like your mama😂

Anyway for your information, this boyfriend I mentioned is the only guy I've been with so I technically have a body count of 1. I don't know any 'harlots' who've only slept with a single person. Not that it's really bad to be a harlot, but I'm definitely not one

My dear I completely agree with you. Marriage is just a ceremony. I feel if someone has a serious boyfriend they should go ahead and have sex and then when they are ready they can hv children....I feel it's the heart that matters....we must evolve with the times....

Lol, something that's happening currently and wouldn't stop in ages to come.

Majority of people are having sex before marriage.

Majority of people are having children outside wedlock.

The same people commiting these Sins are the same ones bashing the Op.

All of you don mad.

If a certain person chooses a lifestyle that's not congruent with yours wisdom behooves you to let such person alone and bear the consequences of their actions, abi??

BigBashiru:


My dear I completely agree with you. Marriage is just a ceremony. I feel if someone has a serious boyfriend they should go ahead and have sex and then when they are ready they can hv children....I feel it's the heart that matters....we must evolve with the times....

Yeah, we should definitely evolve with the times, and that's how the LGBTQIA nonsense started. Cause why not? It's your life your living na abi?

aisha1314:
I honestly don't understand why in the 21st century, sex before marriage and children out of wedlock is still seen as something bad. It's like we're still in the stone age.

I personally have never seen anything wrong with either, though on some conditions. As long as people are responsible about sex by using condoms to prevent STDs if at risk and contraceptives to prevent pregnancy if not ready for a child I see nothing wrong with it.

And if someone who isn't married wants a child they should go ahead as long as they are ready, financially and otherwise to care for a child without help and becoming a burden on anyone.

I happily have sex with my boyfriend without any guilt or thoughts, though I'm on the pill to prevent myself becoming pregnant, because we can't have a child now.

Personally I don't ever want to get married, for my own personal reasons but I plan on having 1 or 2 children when I have a stable relationship and am financially ready.

I'm actually not religious, I'm not exactly an atheist but just not affiliated with any religion. Maybe I'm a little agonistic in my beliefs but religion doesn't factor into any decision I make.

Human tradition, belief and religion but i agree with you.

Naijatask:
■ Yeah, we should definitely evolve with the times, and that's how the LGBTQIA nonsense started. Cause why not? It's your life your living na abi?

LGBTQIA is as old as humans. Let's stop telling this lie. They have always been around only religion/traditional movements have continued to keep them down for so long. Allow your fellow man to breathe as you gain nothing at the end from not doing that.

I think all these Offensive coments are uncalled for. She opened a thread for her and stated somethings concerning her, y nt just ignore her topic if u think otherwise. Y make a fool of yourself by insulting her. Foolish people