Welcome, Guest: Register On Nairaland / LOGIN! / Trending / Recent / NewStats: 3,201,610 members, 7,979,056 topics. Date: Friday, 18 October 2024 at 07:26 PM |
Nairaland Forum / Nairaland / General / Romance / Abusive Husbands Didn't Fall From The Sky, Someone Raised A Boy Wrongly. (10941 Views)
Couple Fall From Ninth Floor Window While Having Sex. Wife Died Instantly Photos / Lady Wows Nigerians, Twerks With Phone On Her Waist, The Phone Didn't Fall / My Best Friend Wrongly Accused Me Of Sleeping With His Girlfriend (2) (3) (4)
(1) (2) (3) (4) (Reply) (Go Down)
Re: Abusive Husbands Didn't Fall From The Sky, Someone Raised A Boy Wrongly. by BloomingDale(f): 2:42pm On Sep 16, 2023 |
Fathers should please bring up their sons properly and stop the gaslighting of the mothers. Only a father can train his son properly. Instead of watching football on Saturdays, use that time to bond with your sons if you are not often around during the week. A father should also give partial training to the daughters on how a man is supposed to treat them right. Take your daughters out on dates and show them how a potential partner is supposed to behave if they come calling. 5 Likes |
Re: Abusive Husbands Didn't Fall From The Sky, Someone Raised A Boy Wrongly. by obaidan: 2:43pm On Sep 16, 2023 |
1MILLIONLiGHTS:looool...but u know even with a serpentine tongue.....just divorce the woman if she's so much of an irritant..we just cannot find any justification for a husband beating a wife and/or vice-versa 1 Like |
Re: Abusive Husbands Didn't Fall From The Sky, Someone Raised A Boy Wrongly. by toxtimmy: 2:45pm On Sep 16, 2023 |
Okay... what about abusive wives? Have a wonderful day! essentialone: |
Re: Abusive Husbands Didn't Fall From The Sky, Someone Raised A Boy Wrongly. by Papayaayasager(m): 2:45pm On Sep 16, 2023 |
Same with the vigina gender |
Re: Abusive Husbands Didn't Fall From The Sky, Someone Raised A Boy Wrongly. by obaidan: 2:46pm On Sep 16, 2023 |
BloomingDale:Fathers and mothers please..... stop making everything gender-based. Not raising your hands to beat your partner is common sense, human empathy and treating the next person with dignity....it should be fundamental to human co-existence and interaction....it's not like father training sons on gender-specific issues 1 Like |
Re: Abusive Husbands Didn't Fall From The Sky, Someone Raised A Boy Wrongly. by yewit37486: 2:47pm On Sep 16, 2023 |
NSNO: 1 Like |
Re: Abusive Husbands Didn't Fall From The Sky, Someone Raised A Boy Wrongly. by BloomingDale(f): 2:47pm On Sep 16, 2023 |
obaidan: I brought up the father cos 75% of the training regarding his son should come from him, especially the older he gets. A son will often mimic the father. |
Re: Abusive Husbands Didn't Fall From The Sky, Someone Raised A Boy Wrongly. by sammychimex(m): 2:49pm On Sep 16, 2023 |
essentialone: God bless you for this. Train up a child in the way he should go. So that when he is old he will never depart from it. Someone needs to start saying this truths. A nation is the sum total reflection of it's family values. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Abusive Husbands Didn't Fall From The Sky, Someone Raised A Boy Wrongly. by obaidan: 2:50pm On Sep 16, 2023 |
BloomingDale:yes you may have a point with tthat |
Re: Abusive Husbands Didn't Fall From The Sky, Someone Raised A Boy Wrongly. by Goodman2023: 2:53pm On Sep 16, 2023 |
essentialone: Try create a thread for abusive wives too |
Re: Abusive Husbands Didn't Fall From The Sky, Someone Raised A Boy Wrongly. by Confidenz56(m): 2:54pm On Sep 16, 2023 |
Few minutes before he died. He said they gave me something to drink Mohbad Wicked world https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=48AfZVPWUic?si=K8S_YZddJg1jMtmX |
Re: Abusive Husbands Didn't Fall From The Sky, Someone Raised A Boy Wrongly. by tctrills: 2:55pm On Sep 16, 2023 |
essentialone:Your child does not become abusive because you found his 3 year old tantrums funny. Your child will most likely becoming abusive if you are an abusive parent or you are abusive to your partner. Also, if you don't bring him up to respect others especially those who he is more superior to, that's when he becomes abusive. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Abusive Husbands Didn't Fall From The Sky, Someone Raised A Boy Wrongly. by Patented: 2:56pm On Sep 16, 2023 |
essentialone: Oil dey your head!! Word! |
Re: Abusive Husbands Didn't Fall From The Sky, Someone Raised A Boy Wrongly. by Confidenz56(m): 2:56pm On Sep 16, 2023 |
Re: Abusive Husbands Didn't Fall From The Sky, Someone Raised A Boy Wrongly. by vyncentino(m): 2:57pm On Sep 16, 2023 |
All I see I the reverse case,my younger brother,who was an abusive,husband,when I approach him why are you beating your wife,he said,he want to make his wife suffer what my dad suffer in my mother hand,my mother,was a nightmare to my dad,she was an abusive wife,most often and non,she do it in our presence and we all boys,my dad will just walk away,so most time it my be transfer aggression i told him you are not my dad he is late,you most make your home a happy home |
Re: Abusive Husbands Didn't Fall From The Sky, Someone Raised A Boy Wrongly. by Crafteck1: 3:01pm On Sep 16, 2023 |
Or a lady somewhere converted their mentality... What about abusive wives biko... Most times A begets B |
Re: Abusive Husbands Didn't Fall From The Sky, Someone Raised A Boy Wrongly. by 46arcadez(m): 3:02pm On Sep 16, 2023 |
essentialone:His mom didn't do her job well. And i ask, what about bad wives |
Re: Abusive Husbands Didn't Fall From The Sky, Someone Raised A Boy Wrongly. by judedwriter(m): 3:07pm On Sep 16, 2023 |
Excuse me Op, yes are correct but you are missing a vital point.... Some boys are born with hot tempered or choleric temperament. Naturally they are volcanoes. No amount of discipline or training can completely remould a person's temperamental disposition. A hot tempered man will always flare up until he learns self control. 90% (or more?) of choleric men beat up their wives unless they learn restrain. In christendom, choleric men need the fruits of the Holy Spirit to be as meek as a sheep and self control is part of them. 1 Like |
Re: Abusive Husbands Didn't Fall From The Sky, Someone Raised A Boy Wrongly. by NOwazobia: 3:07pm On Sep 16, 2023 |
You always turn a blind, or slap the wrist when your little son always abused his little sister. I have one like that at where I live. Sadly, the father is a known wife beater, and the son is following same path. Same goes to abusive wives. |
Re: Abusive Husbands Didn't Fall From The Sky, Someone Raised A Boy Wrongly. by PrinceofSarcasm: 3:09pm On Sep 16, 2023 |
They are usually men raised by single mothers ...99% of the time |
Re: Abusive Husbands Didn't Fall From The Sky, Someone Raised A Boy Wrongly. by Emu4life(m): 3:13pm On Sep 16, 2023 |
NSNO: 1 Like |
Re: Abusive Husbands Didn't Fall From The Sky, Someone Raised A Boy Wrongly. by NOwazobia: 3:13pm On Sep 16, 2023 |
Samantha124:But his thread is talking about bad and wrong men. π€·πΌββοΈ 1 Like |
Re: Abusive Husbands Didn't Fall From The Sky, Someone Raised A Boy Wrongly. by Autobot05: 3:17pm On Sep 16, 2023 |
Fahvvy: Very logical style of reasoning broπ Watch how theyβll avoid this 1 Like |
Re: Abusive Husbands Didn't Fall From The Sky, Someone Raised A Boy Wrongly. by Saao(m): 3:18pm On Sep 16, 2023 |
And the mannerless ladies we now have everywhere came from where? I have discovered that, men are well brought up that ladies but because the society focuses more on men. Just do a little survey about ladies and you will be shocked. Few days ago, DNA centre came up with the fact that, all the DNA done so far, 25 percentage of the children belong to someone else, who raised so deceptive, wicked and inhumane ladies? Not parents? |
Re: Abusive Husbands Didn't Fall From The Sky, Someone Raised A Boy Wrongly. by NOwazobia: 3:20pm On Sep 16, 2023 |
BloomingDale:But most of the time, the child(ren) is always with the mother, especially for the average Nigeria family where the man always comes home late. In my comment I made on this thread, the Son, who is often fond of abusing his sister is most times with the mother, but the mother hardly reprimand him, sometimes she just keeps doing her thing why the daughter yell and cry. Sadly, the mother is a victim of the dad's abuse for many years. |
Re: Abusive Husbands Didn't Fall From The Sky, Someone Raised A Boy Wrongly. by NOwazobia: 3:22pm On Sep 16, 2023 |
vyncentino:The should be an additional case to what the OP talked about. |
Re: Abusive Husbands Didn't Fall From The Sky, Someone Raised A Boy Wrongly. by abbey621(m): 3:23pm On Sep 16, 2023 |
Should parents be blamed for children who turn into adults and face these things? Gay children children who cheat in order to gain promotion at work children who end up getting scammed children that end up depressed to the point of using drugs children who ends up taking their own life children who end up poor It's already hard enough being a parent, I find it incredibly stupid and myopic that one unknown element online would actually believe parents are the magical solution to all problems their kids face as an adult! We've had men that grew up in a good Christian home with the father and mother heads of the church, one would imagine such men would never end up falling for the temptations of the devil but alas, they did! We've had men that grew up from a dysfunctional home, we would expect such men to not be able to keep a happy marriage but alas, they did! We live in a society where the good that men do are rarely celebrated but the ONE bad thing that he does gets hammered, over and over again! A man caters to his family for decades but slips and fell to the devil once, nobody would talk about the years of faithfulness. Most will concentrate on that one misstep and call him a failed man! A man marries a wife who is constantly mentally and physically abusive, he treats her lovely for over a decade never once raising his hands or voice at her but one day he actually says enough is enough and smacks her, such a guy would never be commended for the years of suffering but be criticized by the one act of reprimand! We live in a world of selective amnesia, a world where the bad acts of few gets to generalize the majority! Whether you're a man or woman, each person should be judged individually not as a subset of the general bias. Parents are not magicians, that's why there's a saying, you retrain yourself as you get older, a grown man or woman should not use parents as excuse for bad behavior......That's childish behavior! 3 Likes |
Re: Abusive Husbands Didn't Fall From The Sky, Someone Raised A Boy Wrongly. by kasim155: 3:24pm On Sep 16, 2023 |
Few years down the line the teenage boy bullies his sisters, commands them around, shares slaps as souvenirs to anyone that dares to challenge him. Lol. the boy dey share slaps as souvenirs. LOL 1 Like |
Re: Abusive Husbands Didn't Fall From The Sky, Someone Raised A Boy Wrongly. by Successfulben: 3:28pm On Sep 16, 2023 |
You nailed it bro Fahvvy: 1 Like |
Re: Abusive Husbands Didn't Fall From The Sky, Someone Raised A Boy Wrongly. by Successfulben: 3:31pm On Sep 16, 2023 |
You can't try this in the US except in this Zoo republic. But I put this to you in all humility that you're a MAD MAN. tivhador: |
Re: Abusive Husbands Didn't Fall From The Sky, Someone Raised A Boy Wrongly. by babakb: 3:35pm On Sep 16, 2023 |
Are you guys not tired of blaming women for everything Men are the leaders of the society, we should take responsibility and stop being too petty. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Abusive Husbands Didn't Fall From The Sky, Someone Raised A Boy Wrongly. by wink2015(m): 3:38pm On Sep 16, 2023 |
EGBE WEDGER ! |
Flirting,men And Women / This Guy Went On A Blind Date, See What He Got (picture) / A Man Without Beard Is Still A Woman (pics)
(Go Up)
Sections: politics (1) business autos (1) jobs (1) career education (1) romance computers phones travel sports fashion health religion celebs tv-movies music-radio literature webmasters programming techmarket Links: (1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10) Nairaland - Copyright © 2005 - 2024 Oluwaseun Osewa. All rights reserved. See How To Advertise. 87 |